₦airaland Forum

Lugianostar:
How many books of marriages did you read before settling down please?

Which ones would you recommend? I'm interested and looking for something to read.

Derajoyce:
Yes, I was. Although the early exposure to Christianity came through my family, my perceived representation about God from the church we attended spurred cynicism rather than intimacy.

People can cause that.

Modernist:
The old timer doesn't know of our affair I'm not sure, she might as well know and be pretending, come to think about it!!! she recommended the hospital to me when I was Sick, And has been on my matter lately, giving me all sorts of unsolicited marital lectures, It's Glaring now that she's behind my predicament.

Marital lectures meaning you are married?

I dont usually respond to idiocy of this nature, I'm just looking for something to do.

Grandlord:
The thing is, most Nigerian women do not know what it means to work for your own money. The reason they can't appreciate the little cash you spend on them.

So, how many Nigerian women do you know who are not working? You rarely meet any who are?

He was earning six figure salary while at his former place of work and he has a side business which he still manages till now but the profit is close to nothing and it is not even constant.

Six figure salary in Nigeria is monthly, I assume that's what you mean?


https://i.imgur.com/QXVGxT4.png

Mind you, I have been the one practically footing the bill after two months that my husband lost his job because we made a huge investment in acquiring some property shortly before he lost his job. So, I pay house rent, school fees, feed the whole family

Could you explain further (if you dont mind, you seem to have created only one post and then vanished) the relationship between the huge property investment and the other parts of your statement. The investment took up all your savings?

Modernist:
My mother doesn't have a female child so she sees her as one, and she's nice to my mom she comes to treat my her at home she can possibly do no wrong in her eyes.

So marry her since she has you in a tight place.

ZooOga:
>>When I reached home I knocked and she came to receive me,” he told Citizen TV.


FP entertainment sha.... what man knocks on his own door for entry?

gullible readers take it away.

Perhaps the op means the door was locked and there was no key.

So, the wife quietly opened the door and waited for the illicit lover to say hello to the husband, not knowing it would turn to fight.

A thread is always suspicious when it has too much detail and the op has only been on the forum for 21 minutes.

Going by the profile picture showing a lady(?) with big butt(?) wearing a clingy dress, the poster is most likely male.

MisterKings:
Nollywood don't do justice to characters

Really?


I haven't watched nollywood movies with the theme anyway, I only saw remarks on nl.

MisterKings:
I am male and we are working on a movie project that is the reason I am asking to know how best my actress is supposed to act when her MIL hates her.

I think there are nollywood movies and characters which deal with this scenario, perhaps you can check those.

Nackzy:
Humble women, submissive woman, peace of mind

I was going to comment on this, until I saw one of your past topics which was blood curdling.

Reported not because I have anything personally against your post but because I simply don't want to see it when I'm on the thread.

No hard feelings.

ambient:
Hahaha but if the woman start acting on it they will say you want to chase their friends na?

They can always make new friends I suppose.

For new couples (ie those in relationships):

If one or both of you is a high earner or with the potential to be a high earner, sit yourselves down, create a workable plan for your finances in the event more money comes in than you thought possible. Do this before you marry (while dating) or as soon as possible after you're married, don't just focus on romance alone, get to the nitty gritty and non romantic aspects of your relationship.

Not saying everybody would be terribly wealthy, but if you're aware you're on a path to that, and considering what you know now at this moment, be wise.

How are you going to do this? I have no idea, I'm only suggesting.

itstpia is not me.

Go through my post history from one to one million, I don't use phrases like scum of the earth. When I describe or insult people, it wouldn't be with those specific words. I like that expression though, very apt


https://www.nairaland.com/1789604/user-id-called-itstpia-not

Youngzedd:
As at 11:00AM world number 1 social media platform Facebook was down as at the time of write this report.

If FB can go down any site can go down

Nairaland did in 2014 or so.


https://www.nairaland.com/1789850/nairalanders-shutdown-affected-most

Youngzedd:
Thanks for your contribution.

When a man keeps complaining to his wife or girlfriend about a friend or friends who is always leeching on him what do he really want the lady to do with the info?
A) just listen and do nothing?
B) try and get the so called friend off her husband or boy friend back?
C) none of the above?

They want the leech to vamoose.

LilMissFavvy:
Would you believe a prophetic message especially if it were to come repeatedly from different sources? Do you believe in revelations? If yes, then you will understand my message, if no, then you will not.

ok, good for you.

God speaks in mysterious ways.

bereanway:
you sure?

If you had any problem to talk about you wouldnt have opened this thread.

So, you have no problems worth mentioning if trousers are the only thing that come to your mind.

Playstation1:
Who Does That!!!

i ain't married, but both my girlfriend and side bae knows i don't like/ALLOW someone(lady) going through my phone.... and i don't go through their phone either...
i fucking value my privacy.

Thread title says spouse.

If what you have is a girlfriend and you are a boyfriend the thread is not for you. Why do nlers always rush to comment?

lordlugards:
What is Hate Speech

Hate speech, speech or expression that denigrates a person or persons on the basis of (alleged) membership in a social group identified by attributes such as race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, religion, age, physical or mental disability, and others.



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Yes, it includes denigrating people on the basis of their gender, very common on nairaland with all the anti-women rhetoric. It doesnt matter if your culture promotes it or has no law against it. Sticking to your cultural forums and venting there is an option you have instead of bringing your hate to nairaland.

Obviously, your survival could depend on you fighting the object of your hate with all your might (in this case, women), but the women you hate, also have rights.

Hate speech based on disability also carries penalties. You might not like or agree with the rules but they're still there.

orisa37:
Say you love them with a twisted mouth. It becomes Hate Speech.

Twisted mouth like how?

Most Nigerians' problem is they have no problem.

LilMissFavvy:
God.

You know that how?

MrBrownJay1:
... and your point is?!

If I need to spell it out for you then perhaps you should consider taking a break from nairaland. You're here too often.

And stop using exclamation points all the time. You're too excitable.

If they are having sex in their privacy and you are not watching them as a paid security employee or you are paid to watch whatever others do in the privacy of their homes but you use this information for voyeurism and stalking, then it's a sin.

You did not specify porn so the above applies. I assume you mean watching people have sex without the consent of the persons involved.

Dreiwizzy:
Fake .. he is a troll... Don't believe anything you see here

True.

Check the graphics on the thread.

lovingyouhun:
Are you jealous because you are not a last born?

And what did you find offensive about my statement that made you post this cringeworthy comment?

I dont envy people, it's one of my negatives.


My lacking the jealous gene is not because I feel I'm better than you but because I just cant be bothered to feel emotionally clingy and bitter over what I dont have. Like I said, it's a gene, some people have it, some dont.

What offends you about the fact every child has their own challenge regardless of birth order? I really dislike when nlers jump on my post with half assed replies. It's so aggravating.

damtan:
So many last borns on NL. No wonder many dey misbehave

Your analysis is incorrect.

Nlers misbehave but not for the reason you mention.

They're just mannerless.

Youngzedd:
STFU

Too bad.