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They've changed the colour from black to Golden colour.....I hope say dem go change from darkness to light too

the sons of God saw the daughters of men that they were fair; and they took them wives of all which they chose.

the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men of renown.

And God saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually.

For to which of the angels did God ever say, “You are my Son, today I have begotten you”? Or again, “I will be to him a father, and he shall be to me a son”?

The Lord saw how great the wickedness of the human race had become on the earth, and that every inclination of the thoughts of the human heart was only evil all the time

. . .the sons of God saw the daughters of men that they were fair; and they took them wives of all which they chose.

And the Lord said, My spirit shall not always strive with man, for that he also is flesh: yet his days shall be an hundred and twenty years.

MrBrownJay1:
stick to the issue at hand



i am always amazed at the hypocrisy of NLers like yourself... but then again, i know your type. everytime that i stand for Nigerian women, you and others will be quick to claim that its "all in a bid to get likes/favors from women on here" and when i write something against Nigerian women, then you and the same hypocrites will now turn around and claim its all misogyny.

when there was a thread about WHY AFRICANS DONT SETTLE FOR SINGLE MOTHERS (www.nairaland.com/5522883/why-africans-not-like-settle) and i was debating with EVERYONE telling them that there was nothing wrong with single mothers. where was your hypocrite self then?!

when there was a thread about a dude CONFUSED ABOUT DATING A SINGLE MOTHER (www.nairaland.com/5564707/im-state-dilemma-what#84626287) and i was telling him to just go with the flow and get to know the babe etc, where was your hypocrite self then?!

when there was a thread about TEACHING SINGLE ONES ABOUT MARRIAGE (www.nairaland.com/5557813/married-romancelanders-pls-teach-us#84504665) and i was writing about women in/and marriage, where was your hypocrite self then?!

or better yet, when in that same thread, some deluded man wrote rubbish about women in marriage, and i fully stood against what he posted (www.nairaland.com/5557813/married-romancelanders-pls-teach-us/1#84564691), where was your hypocrite self then?!

since you seem to be following me around and always trying to write about BS nonsense about me, let me help you:
- i stand for men and i stand against men... it all depends on the subject at hand.
- i stand for women and i stand against women... it all depends on the subject at hand.
- i stand for marriage and i stand against marriage... it all depends on the subject at hand.
- i will ALWAYS stand against: rapist, pedos, religion, cheating, polithieves, yahoo-yahoo. criminals, juju

good morning to you too...

vizkiz:
No be this kin woman person dey vex when she cheat abeg.

Looks more like them liability kindda house wives.

MrBrownJay1:
yes, in my world, it is viewed as dysfunctional to have an able bodied adult stay home and do nothing while daddy slaves away and kids are at school all day. a world where getting a job is seen as completely normal for a wife and where mothers only get 1 year off as maternity leave and need to get back to making money anyway.......but hey, in order for me not to repeat myself, i will post the below again:





begrudged mindset... really?! lol ok then.



if society and/or women dont see anything wrong with such, then dont you believe that there is something REALLY wrong with that same society/women or anyone who think its ok for children to have no emotional bond with their parents?!



bwaaaah! so because i dont live in Nigeria thats your reasoning for dismissing what i wrote?!?!?!?!?!
stop assuming rubbish... it makes an ASS out of U and ME.



if you believe that A) i dont know Nigerian women or B) what i wrote was that Nigerian women are good for nothing (aka insulting most of the women in my entire family), then you might never get my point. everywhere i go around the world (Nigeria included), i meet/deal with Nigerian women....are you also claiming that because i only go to Nigeria for shorter periods (ever since my earliest childhood memories), i know nothing about Nigerian women? where are all the Nigerian women that i meet from?! another planet?!

but let us not derail this thread.... YES i believe Nigerian families are dysfunctional, and no matter how much people are gonna say that it may be right to many, i dont see it that way... and thats my opinion on the subject.

Olu317:
Árá :
Meaning: the meaning varies such as, kindred, kinsmen, inhabitants of a place. Meanwhile, village indigenes don't use this word amongst themselves when they are in their respective but used this word on people who dwell in their town or their village. So, also for their own people who dwell in another town which he or she is not indigenous to.

Ãrá:
Meaning: thunder

rẹ́:
Meaning: be friendly together

ọ̀rẹ̀:
Meaning: friends

Olu317:
the justification by nlPoster defensive mechanism.

Half of that Number are Nigerians coming for holiday who couldn't get the passport's renewed in their countries of Residence.

Kendumazy:
The guy is 38 hence the 38 shoes .

Olu317:
Stop thinking for what some one claims as assumable view. I am not interested in engaging you any more on this issue because you aren't ready to read between the lines.....

olabrinks:
This is not about who is right or wrong, I’m simply correcting your statement that the responsibility of falling pregnant falls solely on the woman. Of course we know that the man can simply walk away if he wants, because biology doesn’t allow a man to carry the pregnancy. How can a woman leave her pregnancy, when she’s carrying it everywhere she goes? Biologically she’s unable to do that na, c’mon we are not kids here. This doesn’t negate the fact that both adults were equally responsible for producing that child during conception. And there’s nothing rare about getting pregnant with condoms, birth control pills, postinor or using all methods of contraception.My husband and I still got pregnant using two methods of contraception. Are we now going to say it’s solely my fault for getting pregnant, when both of us decided to lay down which we knew had consequences? and It happens on a daily basis. Like I said, man made products can not defeat nature. If you have sex, you can get pregnant no matter what. And that’s what I’m simply correcting you on. The only way a woman can prevent herself from getting pregnant wholeheartedly is by abstinence, and In that sense your argument would be more valid. You would be surprised how many women have gone through abortions, after failed methods of contraceptions. It’s more common that you think.

Olu317:
There is no iota of doubt about being accused of being from another ethnic group but my point is that the OP's intention is to debate on behavioural pattern of Yoruba people.

After all, he didn't mention, his tribe at first on his Post

Secondly, he did claim,one of the two guys, spoke in his own language about a Yoruba boy who has just smoked weed which was the reason for sneezing in their front while on queue! Interestingly, the OP intention fit well for the purpose of this post, for accusation of Yoruba people and counter accusation of not being. The reason being that he did no correction of his tribe's men about his o wn tribe's identity when he was insulted of being a weed smoker from assumably from a Yoruba ethnic group because of his facial look or *uncivilized conduct*. Although, I have seen many people calling others as people of another ethnic group when these people are not but such wrong ethnic identity are often corrected ,if one is different from such ethnic or tribe's ,which is expected to had been done instantaneously by OP at the scene but mischievously, he was silent about this part.

macof:
Smh. That's my own problem

sweetonugbu:
As I have observed some people need to be only guest viewers, and should never be allowed to comment, soon I will start naming name.

ghettodreamz:
Adùfẹ…… owunmi lobìrin, oréké lé wà ọmọgé…mo nífé rè tori torùn, tèsè táyá, tojú, tẹ́nu
Odùn lobìrin lá tokè dé ìsàlè. Tim bá tin ri ẹ áyá mi á ma ṣẹ gbìgbìgbì
Ọlọmọgé Ẹlẹjè tutu
Larìn awọ̀n ọmọ obìrin tí o wa layẹ yìí, iwo ni ọkàn mi yàn
To bá kọ̀ látì fẹ́ mi, mo má pá rá mi si ẹ lórùn
Wá ṣe temi..emi náà fẹ́ ṣe tí ẹ
Awọ̀n sisi pọ ni gbóró tí mo fí yan ẹ
odùn jú gbógbó cranberry juice layẹ yìí ati ọrún….

Adùfẹ baby mi… jọ́wọ̀ dákun ṣe temi…..babi yii jóò
mo fí ásíkọ yìí ṣélérí fún ẹ wípé nígbò jò, nígborùn, bí ìlẹ́ bán jó, bólẹ̀ bán já, tí ẹ ní mó má ṣé lojokojo

Ti ẹ ni tóòtọ
Ọkọ Adùfẹ

English Version
Adufe…a woman of my choice, beautiful young damsel. I love you from head to toe
Sweet lady from top to bottom. Whenever I set my eyes on you….my heart beats fast
Cool calm and collected beautiful damsel
Of all the women in the world, you are my hearts choice
If you fail to be with me, I can kill myself
Be mine, I want to be yours
There are many women in the world but i picked you
You are the sweetest juice ever
Baby please, be mine, please now,
I want to use this time to let you know that in all weather conditions and disasters, I’ll be yours at all time

Truly Yours
Adufe’s Boo


http://www.mediafritiq.com/2012/02/14/west-african-love-poems-and-letters/