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We can help these children live. If you notice any child that is being maltreated, call the emergency number. I tried it with one of our neighbour who is always maltreating this little girl. The little girl told me her story and i wept so much. I threatened the woman one day and she thought i was joking. I simply called 767 and they contacted the nearest police station. The woman was arrested while the girl was sent back to her parents in Abia State.

-This woman lied to the girls parents that she is in school while this brilliant girl has never been registered in any school since she started staying with her.

-All her body from hair to toes is covered with scars becos of constant beating with objects u can't even imagine.
-She was made to drink her own urine because she did not remember to take out her "Potti"(not sure about d spelling) in the morning
-The worst of it, her madam and friend forced a hot stew down her throat because she added too much water in it while warming it in the morning. she could not talk or eat for some days as her throat, tongue and lips were burnt with the hot stew.

And many more.

She told me all this herself. There was enough evidence on her body.

There are many NGO's that can take this up. Let's help in the little way we can.

Hi beautiful women, mummies of special kids lets keep waiting on God, we will never let him go unless He bless us.

@Tundeseun, dnt give up on God trust him totally, he'll perfect His promises. It is well swithrt!
@Udobaby hw far hope u r strong
@Omonika, hw's ur health now?
@Pinky22 can't believe you r still sick. God will heal u* But wait oo, is there something u r not telling us? Am suspecting you oo*lol. I'm expecting this ur sickness to be gud news. Pele, beautiful woman.

@ All the precious mums, God is our rock.

@Omonika, Omobaby Pele. on sick bed yet being ur sister's keeper. God bless u with Ejima. Thank you so much for the wise and wonderful advice. I'll do what you said.

@Wannabeamum, nwanne muoo. Chukwu ga-agozi anyi; we married for love.
@Pinky,favouredgal, Dreamsinbc thanks.
@All the precious mummies, u guys are wonderful. it's better to come here when you hv a problem than running away from the forum. My spirit is lifted and I'm happy now. Se na eye-service, dey go see am although is going to be difficult for me but i'll learn to give them wot they want.

@Udoka-How bori? jisi ike oo

@Mummyf, U got me laffing, so the so-called-100% eye service Madam is a super gossip? God help us!

May God not allow people to mock us. Our time is now. Love u all!!!

@Safe thank u for checking on everyone. for sometime now i hv not been active on dis Forum, I am so sad and unhappy. I am ttc and someone else is there complicating issues for me. is it a crime to marry someone not from ur tribe? I am ibo and dh is yoruba. He loves me yes! but dis their eye-service and trying to please people at ur detriment is killing me. They r not considerate at all. I leave house before 5:30am and come back 9,10 sometimes 11pm. Yet every thing dey r doing if u don't come n sleep in the family house a day before d occasion na war. Dh likes his family n tribe die, he'll not consider me at all; d only thing i hear is "i dnt want u to hv problem with my family, everybody is talking, u dnt want to learn, sometimes i wonder if u r ready for marriage, blah blah blah. Abeg! my sisters i don tire. Sometimes i wish dh is not yoruba, seriously.

My apologies to yoruba ladies in d house, am not trying to be tribalistic (after all, i am one of u already)but dis is wot am facing, they read meaning and capitalise on almost everything to castigate omo ibo. My MIL is very good but the other DIL won't let me be. Dh is d last son out of 5 men and two women, and am d only odd-man-out,so u can understand wot am facing.

I know dis phase will soon past and i'll be happy again. Miss u guyz!!

muami: Says who? You?

protocol, standards, etiquette. Is ur Chisos krist on earth the president? Even Kate Middleton dare not do that with Prince Williams. Which planet r u from.

adonismuller: To know a real intelligent person.....before he says a word he takes time to think before spitting!

From the above pixels......it might be possible that

1.Dame patience Jonathan didn't alight from the plane with her husband,Looking at the distance between them.

2. What's a big deal about who comes out first..will following protocols change the country?

I think 90% of ppl that comment and insult the president and Nigerian leaders will be worse if given the opportunity to lead.....in this country every one wana be at the top and if U̶̲̥̅̊ aint U̶̲̥̅̊ become a hater! Is it supposed to be S̴̩☺?.....we all should change!

I wish there's an e-bomb, i would hv blasted ur head. Can u just hear urself. OMG! wot set of people do we hv in nairaland these days? Gosh! If u don't know wot to say better shut-up.

2fine2fast: And the winner is.......................

MISS OTUOKE

you no well

micki83: Chief,u're right! I want to move and park inside banana iceland.am tayad of dis face-me-I-face-u;dey always steal my pant and hanky wen I wash every saturday...even on sunday!(And I can't even hang it inside my room becos of nepa). Pls,do u know any of dose good boys dat use to do estate agent in banana iceland?I need a very good and grate manshun like ur own.I hav mony but I don't want anybody to cheat me becos I work very well for my mony,dammit!!!!

Abeg na question I wan ask oo. Do men still wear pant? I think say na boxers tinz now.

justsayemma: Dats true,if mrs Pig EJ,is his Jesus,dat goes a long way 2 show us,y he cant speak simple n correct English.

Very correct!!!

Like master,like disciple.

y would he insult d president, my mother, my chizos krist on earth.

Kevsman: tink before you comment ok?, if say d police women no show profesionalsm by beating the women, una for still complain, tufiakwa

showing Professionalism does not mean that two trained police officers should be disgraced by a single female civilian. There are so many subtle ways to stop a stubborn criminal/innocent without being brutal. Nigerian police so far as am concerned in this country lacks "PROFESSIONALISM". So, you saying that they r showing professionalism doesn't make any sense; NPF abi another civil defence?

Two trained Female Police officers were beaten by a lady. ok nau. If na to collect moni from bus drivers and okada, they will be barking like a barren dog.

Tupac n Ben 10, lwkm! Jonathan look like mutula
Abeg, i dey office oo, make i no pee for dross.

@op, u've made our break time.

the current commissioner for works n infrastructure, eh! kwa

@Venus, if give out a questionnaire to women that their husband married other wives, u'll be surprise at the answers u'll get. No woman wants to share her man with any other woman. Let's leave our case for God to handle. Sarah advised Abraham to marry another wife; in fact she gave out her maid to her husband..........we all know the story. Even if dh wants to get another wife; he should go ahead not u advising or suggesting it. In case of any mishap tomorrow, he'll shift the blame on u. Let's be wise in dis situation and always pray for our dhs. It's not easy @ all.

@MamaT *singing* It's not by might nor by power, by my spirit says the Lord; this mountain must be removed in Jesus name........this mountain must be removed in Jesus name, this mountain must be removed by my spirit says the Lord *praying*
Ah! ancient of days, I am that I am, the God of creation, our maker, Almighty Jehovah, it is time u prove urself God in our life, do not allow the heathen to rage, do not allow the enemies to mock, do not allow situation to weigh us down, you r our hope when all hope is gone, arise in ur power n prove the world wrong, eh!Jeeeeeeeesus, arise oh! our God.mmmmmmmmmhhhhh!

You will not bring us this far and leave us, oh! Holy spirit direct ur daughter, comfort and console her with children. it is time, her blessings is long-overdue. We bind every Prince or Persia that is withholding the answer to the manifestation of her blessings. God we await on the .Amen.


@MamaT, am short of words, my heart is broken. Pls, calm urself and comfort urself in d Lord. U r a woman of God and virtue. He'll direct u on the path to go. We r solidly behind u and also in prayers for u. We can't stop praying u. Am sending ur prayer request to my mum's prayer group in Assemblies of God Divinity School. You'll be marvelled at wot God will do.

Come these women!, u guys r not serious @ all, am scared to death n u guys r laffing ur heads off without giving me any solution,at least re-assurance.

@Mamatriplet, lwkm, hahahaha, ur dh take off after "taste n see that d babe is good"

@Tbaby4real, am calling my lawyer now. We will sue ur dh for marrying an under age girl*wink* oya go to kids section they hv started cartoon Network (joking)
@Adedoyinsola, I hope u r as pretty as I am cos all July children r very pretty n handsome-mine is 31st

@pinky pinky love, no laff too much oo, i no see dettol buy to flush my mouth.

to all my queens, God is with us; "happen dey nothing" It's our time. Love u all!!!!

My sisters hapi new month o. I have been worried and doesn't know how to say this out but u guys are the only confidantes i have. Dh likes suc-king my....before bd whenever he's in d mood, so last Friday he wanted to and i refused becos i was scared dat since i was diagnosed with PID, he'll contact it or hv mouth infection. Dh no gree, in fact he was very angry, all explanation proved abortive. Anyway, i allowed him hv his way but since then, na so i dey close mouth if he wan kiss me oo. fear they catch me die. although we hv started d tests on saturday but yet to collect d results. Pls, advice can he contact PID through oral s3x?

MamaTriplets: I hear so loud and clear..... GOODNEWS!!! Doctors will give U Goodnews this month, You will give ur DH Goodnews this month, this forum shall abound with Goodnews this month!!! So shall it be in Jesus Name!!! Welcome to July... Your Month of Perfection!!! PEACE...

Amennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!

This is my birth month and I pray God will give me a birthday present and a surprise package to all d beauriful mamas.

@all mummies, you guys are very funny *laughing* dis umpteen is just so annoying.
Thanks for all the advice and contributions, i'll keep u posted.

iykmau: All the fruitful mamas. This year of multiple blessings, your blessing of carrying your Isaac and Samuel will never elude you INJ. Amen. @nmagirl I had a similar issue. Go for VDRL, ECS and URINE M/C/S to know the type of infection and the drugs that are resistance or sensitive to it. You're DH should also go for VDRL(Blood), SEMINAL FLUID ANALYSIS and URINE M/C/S . All the best

will do that. thanks

*singing* h-i-p for the hip hip, p-o,p-o for the hip-po, tamus for the hippopotamus.

umpteen: I think you I post something on your case.

@ umpteen, Go to advert section. U'v started again. Are u making mockery of our situation here or what? I go swear for you oo.

ekenedegreat: Dey say, "truth is bitter" and dat is true... So, becos some of us here dat re reasonable refused to believe d trash u pple normally bring to dis forum dat is why u choose to insult ur self abi? Let me tell u and ur cohorts one thing.. Some of us here do travel from state to state due to d nature of our jobs so we knw wat a good governance and empowerments is. U and ur cohorts shld stop seeing nairalanders as lay or dumb pple 4 christ sake.. How can sombody empower few pple outof thousands of poor pple dat needs help frm govmnt thru one way or d other and u want us to bow down 4 her rubb1sh.

Nobody is supporting what our govt./politicians in Nigeria is doing. All I'm saying is: will u slap her is she decides not to do it? Given same opportunity; u'll do worst. So sit down and rant on NL, dats the only thing u r good at.

whenever I am sad or stressed out from work, i match straight down to NL to make myself happy and relax a bit; but this days d set of people here are bunch of frustrated people that reason with their anus, and not head, people who can never and will never see anything positive in this country. Abuse, insults, critiques, condemnation, bitterness, immaturity, anger etc is now what is being exhibited in dis forum.

has things gotten this bad? hmm! wahala dey oo. Seun!!!!, dis is not the NL we know oo.

kingoflag: Oh my God, even the females are denser than the men! I used to think because of people like Ogugua88 and co that Nigerian females were smarter than their male conterparts, this mumu above just erased all that.

Madam, we're not saying it wasnt nice that the poor got something, we're saying they deserve way more. They dont need handouts, what they need are jobs, electricity, water, affordable and enviromentally conducive housing etc

You need to learn your rights and stop justifying the fact that you oga's wife "spends more than 15k 4 shoppin" with the people's money while you guys wallow in poverty.

Keep waiting, dnt make use of opportunities around you. A man who have not seen food for long was given something to feed on and u guys are their ranting nonsense

There's nothing one will do in this country that people will appreciate. some of you in NL are so terrible, if individuals try to be independent from govt. and create their own stuff; you guys will condemn him/her and if the embezzlers try to use the small conscience in them; you guys will still condemn them. If this woman decide to divert that money to personal use, will you go and slap her? After all, the beneficiaries are so happy and not complaining, the burden of paying for apprenticeship and buying those items has been taken off their parents/wards.

@MamaT..and all my sabi sabi sisters I am waiting. Imagine my husband's former landlady -Alhaja saw me and was asking me why i have not gotten preggo, what d problem is, my mother also. she came visiting last weekend and was asking me if I see af at all. dis ttc is allowing intruders who are not suppose to know ur secret to start asking u questions.

My sister how una dey? God will not allow the enemy to triumph in our lives and situation. For days now i have been emotionally down. I went for a general body check. The one they do with computer. It shows that I have low Vit. E and Zinc and d worst I have PID-Pelvic Inflammatory Disease, i hv done my research and it's not funny. I was so surprised because d pain during BD that Dr. scanned and say it's ovarian cyst is actually one of the symptoms of PID- no cyst, no fibroid. I dnt know wot to do. Am even scared to go and check if it has affected my tubes already because of late dictation. This ttc is...............God pls help me. If i dey patch, the thing go dey leak from another place. who did i offend? Before i got married to dh i got preggo twice for him although fibroid pushed it out. Now after getting married and removing the fibroid, no preggo, not even missing af for 1min.

Does anybody have any idea how to treat PID,naturally(herbs) or medically. Am so tired of taking drugs. God why me. All my 3 sisters are happily married with kids it's only me, fibroid me, cyst me and now PID still me, ttc me. *sobbing*

emmysenior: Ok! Maintenance culture nko? Maybe they should rid the roads of potholes first and also construct access roads in all the neighbourhoods, and major roads too, perhaps they might have to shelf the idea of procuring these so-called software vehicles in the mean time.

your comment is d only reasonable and sensible one here. I dnt know why all these sycophants keep ranting up fashola, good move, eko oni baje etc. Hi-tech vehicles? on which road? That is not the solution to Lagos traffic.
Fashola is a very smart and intelligent man and he knows what the solution is. you guys should leave sentiments aside, abeg!

Attackers!!! over to you *going to get my bulletproof*

@Venus, God Almighty is ur strength. Your own is not the worst, Ok? be strong, one day all these turbulence will be over.
@Marriedbtlonely, i think u should change that name. Names and what we call ourselves play a negative/positive part in our lives. You are not alone, God is with u and ur son. The day ur dh will do mistake and touch u na ibeji.

I have a friend that was so hated by her dh, d man is a first class womanizer, sleeping with anything with "hole below". It was so bad that he brings them home and sleeps with them in their matrimonial bed while d wife will be outside waiting for them to finish. The man hardly touch her but she is a mother of 2boys n one girl now. She told me how she got pregnant for their first child, he came home and met her shaving in d bathroom, he made love to her as if say na rape,baby enter. second one he came home drunk. after four yrs again, the wife's mother came around and he said he want them (him n his wife) to sleep on the same bed so that the mother won't suspect wot is happening, baby 3 entered. Now d man behaves as if he cannot breath or live without his family. If u see them now, they r one happy family. He apologized, even begged me to thank his wife for not abandoning him. It was so bad then that families, pastors, women leaders were all involved in their case. Now all those things are stories, God doesn't abandon his own.

we should be patient and always remember the good side of our dh. they all married us because of love. we will conquer.

My dh doesn't even do as if we r ttc. he's still d loving and caring husband, we make love almost everywhere in d house. sometimes if am in d bathroom with soap on my face dh will grab my breast n be sucking with soap. he's like a consolation to d babies we r believing God for. Anytime i mention ttc, he'll tell me dat God has never disappointed him before. Thank God for him.

But my beloved sisters out there, learn to love urself, be courageous God will give us back our darling dhs and things will go back to how it used to be. baby dust to all my beautiful ladies. love u all!!!!

Tbaby4real: [color=#006600 :-]Hello all, I really want to commit suicide as I type, I see no reason why I should be alive as life is not fair at all. I av prayed, fasted, and given out of the little God has given to me to charity. Why did He created me to face all this......why did He ask me to make my request when He knew He will not grant them. Why did He not let me know exact thing I need to do for Him to answer my prayers. I have not seen Him before but I beliv in Him and worship Him the way He ask me to in the holy book. I know I might not be perfect but I always ask for forgiveness. Life is not worth living if its all about worries and troubles...... I just want to go Now!
@ safe thanks for checking on me. I've bin down for almost 2months now. [/color]

hey!hey!!,hey!!!, bia Madam dnt tell me u are giving up on hope already. Devil is sitting somewhere and laughing at u for saying that. What will be ur fate if u live n die without happiness (double agony and misery). be strong and courageous, the fire purifies u and the waters will not overflow u; encourage urself in d Lord. We all understand how u feel, Okay? We are together in dis, dnt just give up.The God of eleventh hour is already here. Check ur clock it's 10:59, 1 more minute to go. it's ur testimony time. keep urself busy with ur career,home and family. Make urself happy, love dh like never before and leave d rest to God. may God bless ur soul.

favored gal: @nmagirl
carry go babes, nothing do you. I pray this month will be IT for you.

Amen oo
@Rashybabe12, I sure say u no woundjour urself.