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Dorwadora:
I don't understand the reason behind it and I'm curious. Google is not giving me a coherent answer.


My late grandfather's friend passed away today, being a Muslim, it's a must that he must be buried today. My grandma called me to come to our hometown ( My present location to my hometown is just 1 hour) to say goodbye to Baba (May God rest his soul).

I got there, I wanted to enter but they said I should knock before entering incase Baba is dressing up or eating . I knocked once but they said I must knock thrice . I know all those eating and dressing up story is sakamanje.

I would have asked someone there but the atmosphere was melanchoIic and I was in a rush to see my grandma and now I'm on my way back to Ado.


What's the real reason for knocking?

A dead body can't feel or see. It dead ... The body is useless or else it want to be used as compost.

MrBachelor:
It was unnecessary to kill it since it neither posed a threat to you nor were you going to eat it.

Largehead1930:
I’ve been battling with this for years. It seems my head is a big bigger than that of others. I always wear faze caps but people still see my big head.
Please I need motivation o. I don’t know if it’s reason why some babes will give me their phone number and refuse picking my calls afterwards
I can’t even wear Those Hausa caps cos my size no dey there .

It’s really affecting my self esteem

RedMac:
I salute this man courage... But he should know that if he dies now, nothing will change...

Kobojunkie:
Your advise has absolutely nothing to do with Jesus Christ who told you instead that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36. God Himself, who gave you marriage in Genesis 2 vs 24, is the same one that cursed it in Genesis 3 vs 16, along with child bearing, rendering the union unholy, so don't pretend that holding on to a worthless marriage certificate endears you to the one who cursed it because it doesn't.

This woman here is considering whether it is right to abandon marriage in order to give her children an out from what seems emotional abuse caused by their own father. Try to consider it with your heart as a human and not as a robot fixated or false ideals where marriage is concerned.

Kobojunkie:
1. If that is the case, then the OP knows marriage more than you do this since she is willing to sacrifice her marriage certificate all so she and her children can live without what seems emotional/verbal abuse from her husband.

2. Her family here includes her 4 children who are clearly not happy with the abuse from their father at all. Or are you instead insinuating she place her husband's desires above those of her own children in this?

3. I don't even understand what you mean by this here. Their are 6 individuals in the family, 5 of them tired of what seems like emotional abuse from the 6th member and you are suggesting that having the wife focus on the husband and the husband focus on the wife will do what to make the reality of the abuse disappear ?

Kobojunkie:
Satan ke? Another deluded individual who believes Satan is out to take his marriage.

Contrary to what you may believe, marriage isn't meant for everyone and not all single people flirt or bounce from one relationship to another. There are single folks out there who are single and free and happy at that.

janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.

Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.

He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.

I feel like pouring out my heart.

greymiles:
Forget say diz girls be small girl oo... if dem handle u on bed Ehn
Dem dey fvck pass fowl as dem small reach

Michelle70:
I dont even understand sef, I have tried to avoid this chrisland sex video fiasco but I still ended up watching it on WhatsApp status.

This is after the person has condemned it, she still ended up sharing the video on status.

I remembered when one celebrity (name withheld) had a sex video and shared it online. They condemned her on NL and twittet like she was the devil but those people condemning her are same people asking where they could watch the sex video

helinues:
Because Sowore won't be different from the past and present presidents.

Infact, he could go on revenge mission on his perceived enemies.

Lalami3232:
I pity you as a man wey leave your spouse for 9ja and travel go abroad, you just be like person wey plant corn by the roadside . On no condition should you ever leave your spouse in 9ja, no ever try am atall because you don give free food to friends/community and street urchins. Even the woman wey you dey live with for house still dey carry another man pikin to give to you, talkless of say you leave her at the mercies of people. Women dey always claim say dem no like sex and fit control body, my dear na lie ooooo. Deep down, dem want their engines to be serviced regularly and greesed thoroughly .
Never make the mistake of leaving ur spouse for 9ja while you travel for long, I don warn you finish. Pu*sy no be like WhatsApp wey get "LAST SEEN", so u no fit know if dem dey cheat but 99.9999% of the time, one guy dey drill her oil on a regular basis.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again " The day I go mistakenly born girl pikin eeh, I go *********** "

LoverJoe89:
Dear NLs,

I need help with my predicament. I just discovered a lounge where I normally hang out to watch sports and chill. Apparently the lounge also has a Spa that is managed by this beautiful married lady who is a mother of 3 children that are in University and one in final year of secondary school. I started crushing on this woman for some time now and I cant seem to take my mind of her. She is a tall, dark stallion with nice hips, ass and a very sweet voice.

We got talking the moment I went to her Spa to make some inquiries about her spa services and whether she runs home service as well. Along the line, she gave me her contact details and we have been chatting frequently. The thing is that I am madly in love with her but I don't know how to express my feelings and desires towards her.

I don't intend snatching her from her husband but I just want to have a romantic relationship with her but don't know how I will go about it.

I am a graduate in my mid 20s from Leed City University Ibadan with a degree in Engineering. I don't usually have issues in getting women but this has posed much of a challenge to me because I am deeply in love with a married woman.

Thoughts of her sometimes drives me to masturbation and it's driving me nuts. Please I need help on this matter.

Bola146:
Sometimes I ask this question is there God at all? Does he read answers prayers because I wonder he would have prayed for his wife not to die or he wouldn't have prayed I don't understand. Maybe that is why He is call Unquestionable