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Ujujoan:
So something must be 'wrong' with a girl for sleeping with a guy on their first date

Unfortunately YES . . .

1. In terms of the BIBLE Yes something is wrong.

2. I am a guy hence I am constantly on the look out for body signals and behaviour traits that would help me judge the character of the person in question.

3. As a matter of principle from the perspective of a guy, it does not give a good report of the lady to me, if i find out i am actually able to sleep with her on the first date.

4. Men (including me) love to thrill of chasing after a women . . . hence it does not bode well for her if she opens her legs on the first date.

MOST MEN WOULD NOT TELL YOU THIS CUS THEY ARE AFTER WHATS BETWEEN YOUR LEGS . , HOWEVER THIS IS THE REALITY FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF MEN.

EDIT:

1. Can someone please confirm how old she is please . . . .

2. Is it me or is she already starting to put on weight  . . . . judging from the close up picture of her hands and face and the long distance image of her arms.

3. girls within the age bracket of 16 - 19 do not know what they want in most cases . . . hence to be frank I am not really comfortable with all these nigerian footballers getting down with them. I am sure most of our papa eagles are olderr than i am, hence something which makes it more uncomfortable.

@poster

This is exactly the problem I have with issues related to pre-marital sex . . . if you sleep around then its hypocritical to expect that the woman is a virgin.

1. That you were able to sleep with her on the first date is enough evidence for you to realise that something was not right.

2. There is no way you are going to break up with a girl that is not going to hurt.

3. Do you know your HIV status before sleeping with.

4. Do you know whether you have infected her with one disease or another as a result of sleeping with her.

5. Has she tested herself to know her status in terms of HIV.

6. I have nothing against people breaking up with each other once they discover there is no love in the relationship, however the problem is that it pays to leave her the way you met her . . . i.e. if you are not going to stick around, then make sure you do not stick your thing in her.

7. When you are in a relationship with a woman, its not compulsory that you should sleep with her.

Sex is like a covenant

Gaddafi the bloody Arab . . .i hope some Black Africans are not deceived by his antics . . .

@poster

1. Why are you scared.
2. Why are you worried.

Sometimes i don't understand the mentality of we men.


3. If she starts an affair, then that means its good for you. This is because it means the show has helped you weed her out and saved you from marrying someone whose integrity is still questionable after 5years of relationship

4. Therefore, instead of seeing it as a problem see the fact that she might be having a relationship on the show as a blessing.

5. Being on a show is not enough reason to have a questionable relatioship with those on the show . . . whats worse is that even if she is faking it, it does not say something positive about her character cus what that implies is that she is willing to openly and publicly throw decorum to the winds just for the sake of doing her job.


PLEASE WAKE UP SMELL THE COFFEE AND REALISE THAT HER QUESTIONABLE RELATIONSHIP ON THE SHOW IS LESS THAN DESIRABLE THEREFORE A BLESSING IN DISGUISE FOR YOU.

mreds:
I think dis guy Obama is living up 2 d biblical definition of an "Anti-Christ".  generally accepted by everybody, but,

1. I would not really go that far.

2. Yes Obama is a merely a pawn in the power game being played in the USA.

3. Obama is not the first president to be used as a mere pawn and he would not be the last. . . hence it does not necessarily mean that he is going to be the one that would do it.

FL Gators:
You're telling me HOW it can be shut down, but you're not listening to me.

1. Ok it can be shut down, but he CAN'T shut it down. What power does he have? You think American citizens would release their rights to utter their opinions?
You want USA to turn to Nigeria where Journalists and News Editors fear speaking against the Govt?

@Gators gators gators why are you talking like this . . . . you are no longer a teenager now  . . .

The Patriot Act, The Bailout and Health Care bills and plans is enough evidence for you to realise that what normal people in USA think does not really matter . . . its what the People ruling the united states actually want to do and are willing to compromise on that matters.

You ought to know that by now . . .

Even I wey no dey USA can see it clearly  . . .

DO YOU REALLY KNOW HOW MANY BILLS ARE BEING PASSED THAT LITTLE OR NO ONE ON THE STREETS KNOWS ANYTHING ABOUT . . . HENCE PASSING A BILL THAT WOULD GIVE AN AMERICAN PRESIDENT SUCH POWERS IS EXACTLY THE KIND OF THING IN THE VIDEO LINK THAT I ASKED YOU TO WATCH . . .

Abeg Nigerian politicians are not different from politicians in the USA . . .they are all the same . , the only difference is that those of USA try to do their stealing and rubbish with CLASS

@Gators

Fortunately, computer internetworks is one hubby of mine . . . and I have a little bit of work experience within that area hence i would try to explain to you how it is possible. Okay let me do a little break of information for you . . .

This is how it works:

1. Think of the internet as a series of interconnected pipes . . . there are different sizes of pipes based on the amount of traffic being carried.

2. The Internet Backbone basically refers to places having the largest amounts of pipe size or diameter.

3. Hence to shutdown most of the internet . . .all you have to do is shut down the main pipes . . .

4. Yes there would still be some smaller interconnected pipes, nevertheless that is in consequential since for now, most of the traffic is centered around USA.

5. People of European descent are very legalistic meaning that they still try to respect things like patent and so on . . . hence in terms of legalistic processes, the US has a lot of say on the internet since they started it in the first place.

6. Yes countries like China and Japan and Russia might not want to play along . . . nevertheless those are just part of the internet . . . from my understanding, most of the internet traffic is centered around the USA . . . hence if the USA decides to censor their end . . . global internet traffic[b] would drastically[/b] drop.

7. So from the technical point of view, its very very possible and easy for the USA to more or less censor and strangle the internet.

THE NEXT QUESTION THEN BECOMES . . . IS IT THEIR POLITICAL WILL TO DO IT.

The political angle is where the issue of the Rockerfeller Family then comes in . . .

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To answer you question of how European Elites factor into the equation . . .

1. By European Elite in this context . . . I mean American Elite that are technically of European descent . . .

2. The Rockefeller Family (are actually Germans  yes i mean Germans) is one of the Illuminati Bloodline families ruling the World through their proxies . . . guess what: THEY ARE AS AMERICAN AS YOU ARE i.e. they are technically of European descent just as you are of African descent and still an American at the same time.

The fact that one of their family members is involved in this case is what made me change my mind and realise that there might actually be an element of truth to the so called conspiracy.

Yes i saw Texazzpete post (and he might be right - i have not yet checked to confirm), nevertheless what makes me reconsider and realise that there might be a concept of truth in the fabric of the story itself is given in the video below involving Jay Rockefeller.

see the video below and go back and check the points i have listed and raised.

[flash=400,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch/v/F2YrZ2LxHbs&feature=player_embedded[/flash]

Trust me, whenever the Rockefeller family is involved in something, it means you need to sleep with your eyes wide open cus that family is notorious to say the least . . .

@Gators

Why are you talking as if you do not know the realities of life.

1. European Elites do not give a shit about your fundamental human rights. . . e.g. Health Care system in the US, Tuskegee experiment on black people, Alfred Plan to kill most if not all blacks in the USA etc

2. The US created the internet so technically they have a right over the damn bloody thing.

3. Its what the European Elites think that matters not what the common man thinks . . .

4. People trying to free themselves from this illusion . . . why you hear very educated people saying that "they are going off the grid" . . .

5. Yes i saw Texazzpete post (and he might be right - i have not yet checked to confirm), nevertheless what makes me reconsider and realise that there might be a concept of truth in the fabric of the story itself is given in the video below involving Jay Rockefeller.

see the video below and go back and check the points i have listed and raised.

[flash=400,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch/v/F2YrZ2LxHbs&feature=player_embedded[/flash]

SO EVEN THOUGH OBAMA HIMSELF MIGHT NOT DO THE DIRTY WORK, HOWEVER THE FACT REMAINS THAT GAINING CONTROL OF THE INTERNET IS ON THE OFFICIAL AGENDA

EDIT:

IT SEEMS THE STORY IS NOT TRUE ACCORDING TO COMMENTS ON THIS THREAD, NEVERTHELESS THE FACT IS THAT SOONER OF LATER ITS BOUND TO HAPPEN FOR THE FOLLOWING REASONS.



1. the internet is the only source that you are guaranteed being able to get access to uncensored information.
2. a lot cults and secret societies involved in control the world and the united states have been exposed through the internet.
3. i believe something thats bad for the normal person in the world is about to happen that they are trying to prevent flow of information to the general populace.
4. I hope all the Obama fanatics now see that a non-smiling person is better than one that looks innocent.
5. Control of the people is not possible when there is free flow of information.
6. The internet creates a big problem for governments and groups of people that are trying to control the world.

What i would advise people is that make sure you download and burn to cd or dvd all the information that you think is valuable, cus what you are seeing is basically the beginning of the control of information by the New World Order using Obama as a proxy.

Obama and the people behind him do not really have to control the actually information accessed by each user, all they have to do is make sure they bully the networks that are hosting the traffic for those information. Before you know whats happening, poof . . . all the uncensored information sources start going offline one by one . . .without people even knowing it.


EDIT:

The involvment of this man named: Jay Rockefeller makes me reconsider that although this topic itself might not be true . . . nevertheless its highly possible there is an element of truth to the concept of the story.

The Rockefeller family is notorious for there involvment in the New World Order hence I would not be suprised that this story might have an element of truth to it but may not in the form in which it has been published. . . .

@Abuzola

I am worried about you in particular:

- Promise me that you are never going to kill nor murder anyone whether Christian or Muslim or Jew or otherwise.

texazzpete:
Err, why exactly should we expect anyone else to fund our own development when you've been crying that we're 'rich in natural resources'?

Please learn to read between the lines of my statements, i am not asking for nor am I saying that Europeans should fund african economic development.

1. My statement was not a question . . .so you do not need to answer it.
2. I would be glad if Europeans completely take their hands off Africa . . . however you and I know thats not going to happen unless we force them.
3. Africa does not need European funds to develop. . . and i am not asking for one.
4. My statement is meant to show European hypocrisy and hidden agenda and intent, it was not supposed to indicate wat i want them to do.
5. I want Europeans to do nothing.
6. Africa is in this mess cus they have been either colonising or using puppet head of states or creating and funding wars . . .in Africa so as to create an avenue for them to be able to get at the resources.
7. Lumumba was killed cus he was Pan - African and hence anti-european.
8. Nkruma was likewise Pan - African and thus a treat to europeans.
9. Awolowo was denied opportunity to lead the country cus the West realised he was Pan - African, instead they opted for the easily controlled Azikwe and Balewa (read up nigerian history).

I DO NOT WANT EUROPEANS TO DO ANYTHING FOR AFRICA AND DO NOT EXPECT THEM TO. . . WHEN THEY DO NOT DO ANYTHING AND AFRICA IS REALLY INDEPENDENT, ITS EASIER FOR AFRICA TO MOVE FORWARD. . . .

Europeans have always been doing everything possible to stiffle and hamper African/Black economic progress . . . hence the various accounts in history.

IF YOU DO NOT KNOW YOUR HISTORY YOU ARE BOUND TO REPEAT IT.

Abuzola please answer osisi and provide and submit your examination papers as soon as possible . . .

olabowale:
I will now hope that you will leave Christianity for good.No?

But fasting has finished now  . . . how can you be making such a statement    . . . knowing how funny and ridiculous it sounds.

The situation is bad enough. . . however no matter wat, the life of a child and any human being for the matter is precious. Hence

1. Do blood test to confirm the paternity and maternity of the child.
2. Do DNA test to confirm that the paternity and maternity results from blood test is true.
3. If the results confirm that you are a father of the child. . . then you need to start thinking about how to raise the child.
4. Speak to your parents and let them give you advice on how to raise a child, cus at least they have experience in that area.

Until then please, understand that this is not a matter to be taken lightly otherwise you would bring curses on yourself if you try to abandon the mother and the child wen it turns out the child is actually yours in the first place.

You did not know she was ugly wen you were having premarital sex i guess . . .

Abuzola:
@ohsisi - the bible has been changed time to time and thank God you agree to it, how can an adulterated book be equal to its original.


I laff in swahili: the reason why every xtrian has to accept the change is because you have no option, thats why you have to run your mouth anyhow to support the change. Who dares the unique Quran. Smile

Unique Quran . . . . oho o oo o oo o o o o ahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaeeheheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeebbuahhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

- after Osisi talked about 7 arabic versions . . .
- after the caliph had to gather and destroy the other versions in other to save islam the embarrasment of having versions that say obviously embarrasing things.
- after a goat was said to have eaten part of the quran written on leaves.
- after there was no quran until after the death of mohammed.
- after the quran says sperm comes from between the ribs and the backbone.



. . . oho o oo o oo o o o o ahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaeeheheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeebbuahhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Marlbron:
L&G

Arguing along faith lines is getting boring. It looks like the guys that come here with agendas are taking over nairaland. No amount of criticism against a faith will change the believers to see reason. Suggest we focus on applying our beliefs and dealing with issues. Live and let live. We all agree that God's religion if any is to love one another and to love him alone. If we agree on that then lets move on and refocus.

The Creator as testified to in the Bible talks about LOVE.

However Allah does not talk about love . . . instead Alllah says KILL KILL KILL . . . KILL JEWS AND CHRISITANS . . . ETC . . . i hope you get the point.

Since the creator of the bible does not permit Bible Believers to fight back ,  the only weapon we have is the TRUTH . . . tell them the truth so that at least we can change the mind of any potential terrorist that intends on killing jews and christians who do not believe in Allah and are not willing to change to islam by force.

Allah is not the Creator testified to in the Bible hence as far as political correctness is concerned pleas count me out . . .

Off course now what else do you want them to do . . . its better to talk say na someone else mess rather than own up say na you spoil the weather. . . .

@sauron

Why are you giving arsenal advice . . . is that supposed to be a trojan horse advice or just that you are happy to see us

So annoying . . . to see people that cry at the drop of a hat . . . mostly especially if its fake.

Maybe she (or he) has not met someone like me before.

. . . when i make a decision its final. . . fake cry or no fake cry. Thats why to some people I am like a cold hearted person while to others I am probably the most approachable and caring they've ever met . . .

I actively oppose deception in any form or manner . . . I do not spare myself, when hard decisions need to be made so why the heck should i subscribe and bend over for a woman that is trying to be manipulative using fake tears.

Africans never learn . . .

1. Europeans want African resources.
2. Europeans know that they are genetically inferior hence the reason for all their medical problems compared to other people.
3. Europeans Elite want to kill as many non-white people as possible.
4. European fertility rates are dropping.
5. Europeans are actively targeting peopel of other races with medical experiements and slow acting bio - weapons.
6. Europeans use abortion, fertility drugs and contraceptives and planned parenthood clinics for their Eugenics program (which is basically a program aimed at killing and eradicating most people that are not white or those that are white but are not considered good enough) . . . hence why Europeans would gladly fund condoms and abortion but would not really fund african economic development.

Hence killing Africans and other non-white people using vaccines as carriers for bio-weapons that take decades to act . . . is mere token in their mindset.

hmm apart from Song . . which other african First Team player is in the team again . . .

Edit:

Okay Eboue - easily covered by merida and ramsey and a player in the youth for the right middle field . . .
for the right back also i.e. wen ebuoe is used there . . . others can cover for him . . . is not really our problem . . .

0hsisi:
a little bit of  odeku 

@osisi

Someone suppose report you to your husand . . .

Ebonyeyes:
But you know I have piped down and am biting my tongue these days

thats a sign that you are starting to become more a wife [/b]material  . . . and outgrowing the [b]chic material .

A wife material knows wen to talk and wen not to . . .

A chic material on the other hand tends to be opinionated opinionated . . .

@topic

I am also very very selective  . . . so in a sense I am likewise guilty of the same.

The trick however is to be able to let go of the person without causing too much damage to her self esteem.

Hence guys have to be reasonable wen they are being selective . . .