₦airaland Forum

If the governors don't pocket them.

When are they going to auction them?

And yet Nigerian Universities keep chunking out dumb and illiterate graduates annually.

Lordabas:
Why is it that non-virgin women feel that they have the right to wear white when they finally decide to get married after years & years & years & years of having premarital sex and shaking up with their boyfriends?

[color=indigo] Is it that they want to pretend they're pure and clean after romping around in the mud? [/color]

I recently went to a wedding where the bride had been living with her bf for 8yrs & already had 2 kids for him... Yet she still wore a pure white wedding gown.
The white gown is supposed to symbolize a brides purity & virginal essence. I feel it destroys the traditional purpose of wearing white when the bride is FAR from being a virgin.


Shouldn't the non-virginal bride wear a black wedding dress or something?

Are you on medication or hard drug? So you think white symbolizes virginity?

Most brides choose a dress of white to symbolize purity of the soul and has nothing to do with virginity.
By the way, white wedding is a culture of the West, which Nigerians blindly copied. Traditional marriage is our own culture.

We end up having two wedding ceremonies while the West we copied have only one. Is that st*upid?!

SonOfDavid91:
Hear yourself NobleG1.... Sex is an important part of marriage! Of course! it should be but when sex is introduced before marriage to your partner, you are only laying a faulty foundation contrary to the principles of our Lord Jesus Christ!
Psalms 11:3, Exodus 20:1-17, Matthew 5:17-end.
Sex before marriage only gives ERECTIONS which brings about a Direction that leads to Destruction!


Shout out to all single guys in the house:- Beware of Delilah's that will make you miss your destiny!!!
God is not wicked!!!

Again, cut the religious crap! Your fictitious bible most certainly is not a source of morality.
There's nothing wrong in having sex with someone you plan marrying!

Does it matter?

Mbkite:
One of my brothers who does not like going to church on sundays, but would always prefer to take bottles of beer on every sunday morning agreed to go to church with me because I promised to buy him some bottles of beer.

My question is- "was my tactics of inviting him to church proper? Believing that hearing the word of God would change him.

He followed you to the church because the beer is more important to him than church.
Religion is a hoax so I understand why he doesn't give a crap about going to church (extortion business).

So what you did to lure him to church is far less than atrocities pastors indulge in to attract id*oits to their churches.

Return General Azubuike Ihejirika back from retirement now!
He knows how to kill these ruthless BH members and prevent attacks! He was a great commander.
Bring him back!

How did this crap make front page? Is the moderator high on something?

This is complete nonsense! Cut the religious crap!

It's a dumb thing to not have sex with someone you planned spending the rest of your life with, before marrying them.

Sex is an important part of marriage. If you marry someone you're not sexually compatible with, your marriage is doomed!

No tents, no blankets, no foams to sleep on, no armed guards protecting them, nothing! Where did all the billions of naira allocated to ab*okis go?

They're celebrating a well managed country while they destroy theirs with endemic corruption!
Ab*okis are scums on earth!

Where's Nigerian Jerry Rawlings now we need him? I wish an angry patriotic Igbo General would stage a bloody coup and execute all political thieves, including former presidents; Yakubu Gowon, Shehu Shagari, Ibrahim Babangida, Olusegun Obasanjo and Goodluck Jonathan.

Sparing Abdulsalami Abubakar's life for fulfilling his promise to transfer power but jail him for a year for his huge support for Sani Abacha, and spare Ernest Shonekan and Mohammadu Buhari.

Nigeria needs purging of all these scumbags!

This is complete nonsense, a propaganda stunt to attract more id*iots to his extortion church to get suckered into parting away with their money! This whole thing is staged. What of the billions he collected from poor id*iots? Has he returned them yet?

God Loves You...And He Needs Money!

Tithing is a scam. The modern Christian churches use brainwashing, mind control, indoctrination, oppression, coercion, intimidation, legalism, false teaching, guilt, shame, peer pressure, and other bondage techniques to control members, increase church attendance, and obtain more money. The goal is said to be "winning souls to Christ," but the underlying agenda is the desire for more power, control, and money.

The church parades a person or family that had little or nothing, was in debt or financial crisis, yet stepped out in faith to give 10% they actually couldn't afford. Of course, the story ends with a blessing of some kind. "I got a bonus at work." "I got an inheritance." "I got better from sickness". Something like that. And those who give "offerings" beyond the baseline tithe are candidates for an even greater windfall.

Of course, the calling card here is "obedience." God owns the cattle on a thousand hills (aka: everything) per Psalm 50:10, so tithers aren't actually giving anything to God. They're returning to the storehouse what God already owns. They're stewards of whatever income or possessions they enjoy, and the tithing of 10% is a demonstration of obedience and faith, and an opportunity for God to reward that obedience with some kind of supernatural favor.

Of course, God’s blessings are meted out in hugely disproportionate ways. While one person might report an amazing and miraculous appearance of funds in the bank, dozens of others will receive either silence or the usual pile of unresolved problems.

Some churches preach a prosperity doctrine, promising earthly wealth for those who obediently fill the offering plate. Other churches speak of financial sacrifice in this world so that wealth can be enjoyed in the next, all blessings sitting at the end of the road and waiting at the door of a heavenly mansion.

If all of this sounds like a scam, it only means that you’re paying attention. As one man deftly observed about God, "He loves you and he needs money!"

Beware any organization that tells you to dig a hole and then stand in it. Beware any promise of favor by someone selling a map to the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. And beware an institution (the church) that acts like a business and treats its congregation members like customers ripe for a sale.

If God really exists, he won’t need you to play the slots to become a winner.

Ifebazz:
Dude, in life, nothing is as it seems. Open a can of worms and you may live to regret it. There are more democratic ways of handling issues than ratting out your brother (or even not your brother). You may be thinking you're all holy and all that, but believe me, you won't be all smiles when your subordinates rat out on you for 'your own good'.
I may not understand English, but from the much I do, it's mere premises and suspicion I deciphered from the text. Maybe that is indeed a crime in your vocabulary, yes?

If you engage in cheating, you should also accept its consequences. Cheating in a relationship is a terrible thing. Cheaters neither deserve to be in a relationship nor be loved.

I would rather end the relationship than cheat on my woman! That's what real men do!

Ifebazz:
Either you didn't read the text or you're a relative of West Germany. I believe he said a call my brother made... So if you are that righteous to end your marriage based on 'oyibo man's' assertion of cheating, go ahead and be my guest. Probably, after your 11th marriage you may get it right.

You indeed don't understand English. The OP wrote;

After about two to three months, I have been going to work with him I noticed something..

There is this number he usually call wen we are going back home in the car.. The way he talks to the person on phone I doubt if its a guy he's talking to.. Because the number is saved with a guys name "henry" but I do hear a ladies voice at the back of the phone.. So I'm wondering..

After my final findings I do discover thats a lady..

What do you not understand there? Why would his brother hide the woman's number on his phone with a male name? Is that not enough red flag that something is going on? Isn't it strange that whenever his brother calls a number saved as "Henry" , OP always hears a female voice?

Do you need to attend a relationship school to know that cheating is going on? How would you feel if you found out your woman hid a man's number with a female name?

Ifebazz:
None hypocritical Mentalist that knows cheating from just phone calls.
Don't form holier than thou here dude, better marriages have survived worse infidelity crisis than mere phone call. So before you yap up about your morality, why not advise him to ask the brother who he has been talking to instead of doing aproko to the wife?

Either you didn't understand what OP posted or you deliberately chose to ignore reality. The guy made it clear, he CAN'T discuss this with his cheating brother because of how their relationship is.

Your statement, "better marriages have survived worse infidelity crisis than mere phone call" is really an ignorant one. Nobody has to cheat and be forgiven in their marriage to 'make it better'! And no marriage needs to survive infidelity to be 'better'! Why cheat in the first place if you want a better marriage?

Cheating in a relationship can occur in various forms: Infidelity, Emotional affair and Adultery.

Infidelity is a violation of a couple’s assumed or stated contract regarding emotional and/or sexual exclusivity.

Emotional affair is an affair between two people that mimics the closeness and emotional intimacy of an affair while never being physically consummated.

Adultery is extramarital sex that is considered objectionable on social, religious, moral or legal grounds.

So when you have an emotional affair with someone outside you relationship, on phone or internet or via letters, even without physical contact, you're cheating!

Nigerian cheating definition is only when sex occurs, which is incorrect and unintelligent.

kwiin:
Does he know the brother's wife before they got married? 100% of men who hear this story will still tell him to mind his business. But let's say he act born again Christian, obviously his faith must be firm in Christ all the way because the scene will be messy.
Christ have to be involved in his life all through to succeed because op is far being independent. secondly, a seed of discord would have planted between him and his brother which might defile solution for ever. And the woman may never find happiness thereafter to even think about him or his welfare unless for sure, she catches that op has a special feeling for her. l think the best he can do is to talk to their parents about the situation, they will know the best way to talk their first son out of the filthy life and save his marriage. Then, everybody is happy.

Parents can't stop their son or daughter from cheating in their relationship. Only the cheater or the cheated can effect changes.

Nigerians are st*upid to believe everything. The id*iots who rushed him to the mortuary without taking him to a doctor, had no clue what coma is. A person in a coma remains unconscious for a period of time during which they cannot be woken up, and do not respond to anything around them. When you're clinically dead, you DON'T "come back to life".

What causes a coma?

- Trauma: Head injuries.
- Swelling: Swelling of brain tissue can occur even without distress.
- Bleeding: Bleeding in the layers of the brain may cause coma due to the compression on the injured side of the brain.
- Stroke: When there is no blood flow to a major part of the brain stem or loss of blood accompanied with swelling, coma can occur.
- Blood sugar: In people with diabetes, coma can occur when blood sugar levels stay very high.
- Oxygen deprivation: Oxygen is essential for brain function. Cardiac arrest causes a sudden cut-off of blood flow and oxygen to the brain.
- Infection: Infections of the central nervous system, such as meningitis or encephalitis, can also cause coma.
- Toxins: Substances that are normally found in the body can accumulate to toxic levels if the body fails to dispose of them correctly.
- Seizures: A single seizure rarely produces coma. But continuous seizures, called status epilepticus, can.


What are the different types of coma?

1. Toxic- metabolic encephalopathy. This is an acute condition of brain dysfunction with symptoms of confusion and/or delirium. The condition is usually reversible. The causes of toxic- metabolic encephalopathy are varied. They include systemic illness, infection, organ failure, and other conditions.

2. Anoxic brain injury- This is a brain condition caused by total lack of oxygen to the brain. Lack of oxygen for a few minutes causes cell death to brain tissues. Anoxic brain injury may result from heart attack (cardiac arrest), head injury or trauma, drowning, drug overdose, or poisoning.

3. Persistent vegetative state- This is a state of severe unconsciousness. The person is unaware of his or her surroundings and incapable of voluntary movement. With a persistent vegetative state, someone may progress to wakefulness but with no higher brain function. With persistent vegetative state, there is breathing, circulation and sleep-wake cycles.

4. Locked-in syndrome- This is a rare neurological condition. The person is totally paralysed except for the eye muscles, but remains awake and alert and with a normal mind.

5. Brain death- This is an irreversible cessation of all brain function. Brain death may result from any lasting or widespread injury to the brain.

The man didn't die, that's why he woke up. His family should rush him to the hospital as soon as possible for thorough diagnosis! If he has a life threatening damage in his body and doesn't get treatment soon, he will really die this time.

The lady should pursue the case in court with full force to bring her boyfriend's killers to justice and get monetary compensation. The guy was killed by police and Austria is a racist country. She can send the case to the European Court of Human Rights.

My advice to all undocumented Nigerians in foreign countries, especially, in Europe, even though you're undocumented, your Human Right is fully protected under the European Convention on Human Rights. Remember, being undocumented is NOT a criminal offence.

Bonapart:
Let me see anyone who will come here and tell me am serving the same God that Muslim people serve

This world will be Heaven on earth without Islam

Deal with it

There's was also a time in history Christians were as brutal and murderous as today's muslims. Religion is the greatest hoax of all time. It has caused so much problems on earth.

Ojukwu foresaw everything happening today in Nigeria.

PappyMason:
Yoruba foolishness got us here and by God Yoruba foolishness will get us out of this mess - Gen. Pappy Mason

Any yoruba person who complains about the problems we're facing in Nigeria today, should take a moment and look in the mirror.
I don't know when yorubas will stop licking ab*oki as*s. They're being controlled like robots by ab*okis!

Dollyak:
Any southerners living in the north need to leave because this kind of killings are not going away any time soon. The north has a big social, religious and cultural issues they need to address. The northerners are not only wreaking the economy and stability of this country but also hurting our reputation on the international stage. Who would have thought Nigeria would be competing with pakistan, iran etc in murder rate.

Any non-northerner living in the north deserve the treatment they get. I can't phantom any reason why any sane non-northerner would base in the north!

Ab*okis are serious threat to this failed project called Nigeria. They've never contributed to the unity and progress to this country. They only wreak havoc to the country.

These id*iots destroyed this country with their st*upid "born to rule" archaic mentality and yet they're very incompetent to lead, except in looting national treasury and killing fellow Nigerians. They're parasites! You don't need to conduct a research to know that Politics, Government, Police and the Military are heavily populated by ab*okis in their quest to takeover everything and turn Nigeria into a st*upid muslim republic, governed by their archaic and barbaric sharia law.

Ab*oki problems we've will never end until Nigeria splits. Let them have their own country and kill each other off! Disintegration is the only viable solution for all Nigerians. Lets split Nigeria into three countries- Biafra, Oduduwa and Ariwa Islamic Republic, while other small ethnic groups choose which country to join.

Those telling you to do nothing are nothing but hypocrites!

None of them here would want you to keep quiet if they were in the same shoes with your brother's wife! Cheating is a serious danger to any marriage/relationship, which could either destroy the marriage or cause serious damage to the kids or even cause death (the side chic could kill your bro's wife to takeover).

Your brother is a cheater, he's doing something terrible and if you keep quiet about it, then you're no different from him. Sit your bro's wife down privately and tell her what you observed and she'll be glad that you did. Tell her to investigate and confirm before confronting her husband. Don't fail to let her know the name (Henry) to investigate on her husband's phone.

And advise her to not involve you. She will do everything in her power to protect you while she goes into action mode with her quest. Don't worry about causing any problem, you're doing the right thing. It will change your brother for good and strengthen their marriage when the side-chick is no more in the picture. But if it causes their divorce, don't blame yourself, your brother has himself to blame for being unfaithful, cheating and disrespecting his wife, his kids and his marriage.

Even if you don't tell her, she'll definitely find out soon because cheating can't be hidden for long. And if she also finds out you knew and kept quiet, you'll NEVER be in her good-book.

Since Gen. Azubuike Ihejirika, former Chief of Army Staff, was removed and replaced with an ab*oki, Boko Haram has been on free killing spree. Ihejirika killed BH members more than anyone general ever! And BH feared him.

But since his removal which was orchestrated by Northern BH sponsors, BH has been having a field day. As if his removal wasn't enough, they still tried to destroy Ihejirika's image by accusing him of sponsoring BH!

Gen. Ihejirika is an Igbo, who's also a christian. So to accuse him of sponsoring BH, a staunch Islamic radicals, that want to wipe out Christians and other "infidels", doesn't any sense! A person who sponsors BH won't also be responsible for killing most of BH members!

Muhammadu Buhari and the International Criminal Court should prosecute and jail the northern leaders who are sponsors of Boko Haram. Genocide is a national and international crime. Gen. Ihejirika did a good job for the Nigerian Army, and should be celebrated and left alone.

The call for the prosecution / investigation / persecution or witch-hunt of Gen. Azubuike is motivated by tribal hatred, and must be abandoned. Ethnic and religious cleansing is a national and international crime. The double stands needs to stop. They seem to be more concerned about the rights of BH criminals than the rights of those that were murdered by BH and the lives of those that have been ruined by BH and its sponsors.

Any attempt whatsoever to champion the rights of BH criminals, is an insult to the thousands of victims. It's unjust and a very serious crime against the victims of BH for anyone to ignore the issue of the criminals and the sponsors before the rights of the victims of BH. Investigate and prosecute BH and its sponsors. That's the only way forward. Nigerians are not fools.

The youth wing of the apex Igbo socio-cultural organisation, Ohanaeze Ndigbo, has warned that another ‘Ojukwu’ will go to war if former Chief of Army Staff, Gen. Azubuike Ihejirika, whom it described as an illustrious Igbo son, is prosecuted as being clamoured by the Amnesty International.

Amnesty International had called on President Muhammadu Buhari and the International Criminal Court in the Hague, Netherlands to investigate some former and serving Nigerian service chiefs for war crimes. Northern elements are trying to use the international body to revenge on Southern military top brass, who staked their lives in defense of the territorial integrity of Nigeria.

The last insult Ndigbo can take from those who think they are the owners of Nigeria is to allow them touch Gen. Ihejirika, who served his father land meritoriously. What Gen. Ihejirika and other military personnel who staked their lives fighting BH deserve is commendation and not politically-motivated prosecution.

Where was Amnesty international when BH fighters were annihilating Christians in Northern Nigeria? Where was Amnesty International when BH was throwing bombs inside churches, mosques, markets, motor parks, etc and killing innocent Nigerians?

What efforts have Amnesty international made to bring sponsors of Boko Haram to book? Or will they claim they did not hear when some people threatened to make Nigeria ungovernable should former President Goodluck Jonathan win the 2011 presidential election. Ohanaeze accused Amnesty International of bias, hypocrisy and playing double standards, and warned President Buhari to disregard its report, if he wants to lead a united Nigeria.

Ohanaeze further said: “They killed Igbo first General, Aguiyi Ironsi and nothing happened but this time around any attempt to touch another Igbo General will be vigorously resisted with our last drop of blood. Why did Amnesty International close its eyes and seal its lips when youth corps members from the South were being killed in the North after the 2011 presidential election result was announced? Why did amnesty international not call for the prosecution of those who supervised the genocide against Ndigbo before, during and after the civil war?”

Ohanaeze said, "apart from over 1 million Igbo killed during the war, BH and religious clashes had claimed over 200,000 Igbos resident in the North with property worth over N2 trillion destroyed. Why is Amnesty International turning a blind eye to the systematic genocide against Igbos in the North and the gradual annihilation of Middle Belt communities by Fulani cattle rearers?"

"That power has returned to the North does not mean that other ethnic nationalities in Nigeria will become slaves. Nobody should use Amnesty international to intimidate anybody unless they have agreed that we are tired of this forced union called Nigeria,” Ohanaeze said.

STEVENcrack:
Its your funeral dear.
Pray 4 ur soul.

That's the type of id*iotic response I expect from an slowpoke like you. Keep it up!

STEVENcrack:
Product of wasted spermatozoa.
Product of Wrong fertilisation.

i blame ur dad dat didn't waste you in a condom like he did to ur unknown sibblings.

Why didn't ur mum flush u out with alabukun and seven up.

U are an evidence of misplaced mutation.
IF you dad had undergone a transgenic cisera u wouldn't be here spewing trash.

MANY ARE MAD BUT FEW ARE ROAMING(wole soyinka) u needs chains bro..because na so craze dey start.
This is personally from me to you.everyone thinks you are a disappointment deal with it.

You're blabbing with terrible English shows how illiterate and imbecilic you're. You can't even write a simple and coherent English sentence. What a shameful waste of animal spermatozoon!

RobinHez:
so which are the stupid ones? humans/animals

Of course, humans.

williams368:
Some Nigerian men tell me they can NEVER do this even at gunpoint. The Nigerian man reading this post, can you?

Only a barbaric as*shole who's still stuck in 1815 mentality would say that. If you really love your woman and she washes your pant, why won't you do the same for her?

Women find men who do stuff like this very sexy. In fact, it turns women on real hard. That guy in the picture must have received many rounds of hot sex and his favorite food from his woman after washing those pants.

A happy woman has a happy man.

What distinguishes humans from other animals?
ST*UPIDITY.

STEVENcrack:
We are all disappointed in you.

Your dumb ignorance should disappoint you.