₦airaland Forum

Is the Amnesty Allowances payment forever?
What did the militants use the money for? Let them show what the used the money.

Otunba6:
We met few months ago, initially i did not want to date her because she's too flashy/fake for my liking. Gradually, she started proving me wrong by being a good and serious one. infact she stopped some of her fake attitude when i started complaining about it. To be sincere i really love her to the extent that i introduced her to my brother(something i dont normally do if i wanna do chop and clean mouth). Just few days ago she lost her phone and wanted me to help her buy a new one.

I bought the one she wants and gave it to her. she called me later in the evening that the one i bought comes with 16g and not 32gig as expected. I collected it back with the hope of returning it today. On checking the phone, i discovered she had forgot to sign out her facebook messager, badoo etc.

I was extremely shocked when i view some of her chats (both old and new ones) with random men. To cut the story short, she is a free giver and a LovePeddler in my own view.

Now i've exchanged the phone and she is coming to collect it tomorrow. i dont feel like giving her again, infact i hate her from that moment.

Guys, i need an unsuspicious method to make her leave me.

You behave like a maga. I guess you're a kid in love game.
Why give her the phone after finding out those pesky stuff? You should have collected your money when you returned the phone to the shop, or sold it to recover your money.

That girl is not a marriageable type. She's a runz girl. Dump her as*s as soon as possible!
Tell her you'll be going on an extended trip to Abuja or somewhere else, block her number and delete it from your phone. Problem solved.
Or you go commando by dumping her via SMS or Whatsapp, block her number and delete it from your phone. Problem solved.

Where's the repaired road? None of the pics showed any.

After Buhari finishes his 2 terms 2015 - 2022, there will be an Igbo President in year 2023

He was busy 'Pastoring' the little girl's kitten.
Throw him in jail!

I blame the id*iots who believe these pastors.

Dangote is a known crook who enslave people in his factories to make billions of dollars.
In a developed society his would be heavily fined or his businesses shut for enslaving people.

Dangote is a known crook who enslave people in his factories to make billions of dollars.

baslone:
And what does 2pac, jarule, dmx do?

Comparing that Nigerian village "rapper" to 2pac, Ja Rule and DMX is disrespectful and offensive!
Who the f*uck is olamide?

Because most of them are illiterate graduates!

BKings:
My cousin's husband has been diagnosed with hiv. When I heard the news I put a call to her, asking her if she has it too but she said no. The man was first diagnosed +ve last november, after he became too weak and according to her, they took it as false because she was tested negative. March again this year, the man also tested positive but she negative. I then advised her to go for another test which she did few days ago and said it is negative. My question, is it possible for the man to have it and not pass it to her, or is she just lying in fear of stigmatization? She said she has stopped unprotected sex with him since last two months though, but how about other previous months they've been doing it raw. Doctors, experienced ones, please kindly say something. I'm really feeling bad

Yes, it's possible, especially, when the HIV patient is on medication that rendered the HIV undetectable but it's rare. She must start using condom now!
That she doesn't have it now doesn't mean she won't have it in future if she continues having sex with her husband without protection.

It is wrong to conclude that the civil war broke out following the failure of the Aburi Accord but was the direct result of a unilateral decision of independence for Eastern Nigeria.

Liar! He failed to state that his breach of the Aburi Accord resulted into war!
If you had stopped the wanton massacre of the Igbos in the north, Igbos wouldn't have thought of seceding in the first place! It's on record!

He acknowledged that many people died of hunger and diseases during the period but maintained that the Federal Government ensured that starvation was not used as a weapon of war.

Liar! You and your government with the help of Awolowo (who had evil hatred for Igbos) orchestrated the use of hunger as a weapon without caring about women and children! It's also on record!

Gen. Yakubu Gowon (rtd), said on Wednesday that an Igbo president would help heal the civil war wounds

He said that because he was in Igboland. What stopped him from saying it since, if he believed in it?

Gowon, shove your “No Victor, No Vanquished" up your old stinky ab*oki as*s, and may you die a painful death!

Zahara78:
If God is love and love is godly then why homosexual love is viewed as a sin

Because religion is a hoax.

He took his st*upid and ancient Nigerian mentality to a foreign country.

MOORCHMOORE:
I am a low income earner, with a wife, son (3 months +), nephew then 1 inlaw today another tomorrow.
My wife suddenly came home day before yesterday with the news she went Job interview.
The next day, she was ask to start work on next Monday.

Dilemma!
With what am passing through, I desire my wife to work so that we can meetup with some bills.

Our problem is we have a Son that is heading 4th month, her employers can't accept her with our baby.
She went to day cares around and was told they only admit a year plus. I tried to discourage her, knowing what our son is going to pass through. But she accused me of not being supportive.

Please I need professionals here.
This is one place I always get answers and support

Yes, let her work! That you have a baby doesn't mean your wife should give up working. You should be grateful you've a wife who's willing to assist in the family financially.

She has being with the baby 24-7 for 3 months +. Let her mother or yours take over when you guys are at work. You guys still have a lot of time to be with the baby when you're home.

Money is important for the baby's welfare.

And Saraki is the Speaker of the senate? We're doomed.
Lets see what Buhari will do about this.
Saraki and Bello Adoke should be jailed!

kay29000:
I was just watching Reminisce's 'Local Rappers' video yesterday, and was thinking of how far Nigerian rappers have come in the last couple of years. Things are now looking good for Naija rappers, and they don't have to sound foreign to be accepted.












I decided to put a list together, naming who I consider the TOP 5 HOTTEST rappers in Nigeria right now. Yup! Here goes.




5. Ice Prince

4. M.I

3. Phyno

2. Reminisce

1. Olamide







What do you think? You disagree with any placement? As I always say when I put lists like this up; this is the HOTTEST rappers in the game list, and not the most lyrical rappers in the game list. I believe these 5 guys I have mentioned are the hottest in the game right now, in 2015. Ice Prince has had a long stretch for the past 4 years, but I think they slowed things down at Choc City for him, so that his label mate, M.I can get some shine too with his latest album. Olamide and Phyno have been killing shit consistently for years now, but in the last couple of months, Reminisce has been bringing that fire. I would put him at number one, but Olamide's work ethic is just insane.


http://www.kaysrapzone.com/2015/07/top-5-hottest-nigerian-rappers-right.html

Olamide number one? Really?
You mean Olamide who screams like someone who has something shoved in his as*s?

suggyspic:
She wants court marriage while he wants traditional marriage. This resulted to argument between Prince and Amaka who have been dating for 5yrs. Prince have propose to Amaka and the traditional knocking of door have been done. In the process of planning for the marriage, prince have insisted that he would only do the traditional marriage and later the church marriage, but Amaka insisted that she prefers a court marriage and later the traditional marriage. Amaka went further by telling prince its either the court marriage or no marriage at all, stating that court marriage would proof to her that Prince truely loves her and wants to protect her further with him. Prince on the other hand insisted that he would do the court marriage when he deems it fit. Amaka have threaten to break up the relationship. Prince is the only son in a family of four and is doing very well. Marriage preparation is 80% ready.

Should Prince concede to her or maintain his stand?
Is Amaka's stance right (using love as a yardstick to buttress her point)
do you smell any hidden agenda on the part of prince or Amaka.
In your candid opinion, do you think this marriage would work.

1. The lady wants a legal marriage certified by court, in case of a divorce in future. Court will protect her interest in regards to divorce settlement. Traditional (cultural) and Church (religious) marriages are not legally certified by court but accepted in the sociaty. That's why Embassies required a marriage document issued by the court.
It's an intelligent move on her part. She wants a protection under the law and probably doesn't trust the guy 100%.

2. I guess she didn't inform the guy earlier about this court stuff. She may be a manipulative type. She waited until it would be hard (Marriage preparation is 80% ready) for the guy to back down.

Or at the last minute, someone advised her to do it. Having an outsider dictate what happens to your marriage is bad.

3. Now she wants the poor guy to 'prove' his love for her by doing what she wants. Does she mean the guy has not proved his love for her during their 5-year courtship? If she's in doubt about it, why is she willing to marry him now? She'll always play this game on the guy whenever she wants him to do anything. Not good.

4. Having this type of major issue before marriage is not good, it should make anyone rethink.

5. If she was richer than the guy, she won't remember court marriage. She may be a little more interested in the guy's wealth.

I have no problem with court marriage, in fact, it's the best protection a married person has in Nigeria and abroad. For the fact that Nigerians are not used to court marriage (I did it after 7 years marriage, only to get my wive's visa), the lady should have discussed this earlier with her man, not now the marriage preparation is 80% finished. It has now become suspicious. The guy's parents may not want him to oblige.

In summary, the poor guy is about to marry trouble.

sleekman:
This is to bring to your attention the latest extortion and defrauding techniques employed by ladies of low virtue and the police. I recently fell to one of such ladies. She attacked me and went to report at the police station. They cooked up lies and fabricated all manner of charges. The lady claimed I beat her up and stole her gold chain.

Now its especially worse when you have witnesses and no one wants to turn up to bear witness as to what happened. I had to pay her N150,000 on the advice of my lawyer. He advised that going to court will be expensive. N150,000 will be his professional fee to represent me in court. Bail is N120k and I'll need a surety with tax clearance. If I can't produce one then I'll need to hire a professional surety at a cost of N30-50k and then the time wasted.

So I want to advice and inform everyone that the police have a pact with prostitutes to bring them business. If a lady attacks you in broad day light then immediately report to the nearest police station and claim that you had property worth millions or thousands. In so doing you have destroyed her game plan and that of the police. Please share any experience similar to this you might have so that we can all learn from it.

What were you doing around prostitutes?
If you had stayed away from prostitutes, the incident wouldn't had happened.

Make the 7 million permanent! And also cut the salaries of NASS members half!

That's what happens to id*iots who blindly follow fraudulent "men of god".
Religion is a hoax!

What right does the IG have to do this? Did IG get the order from the court to seal off those LG Secretariats?
Even though I don't like Wike, I'm curious to why the IG did it.

astrodome:
How much should I send?

It actually depends on many stuff. I don't know your extended family structure and where they live (rented home or not).
By the way, is the 6-figure pay monthly or annually?

Enjoying stolen money!

What of IBB and Obasanjo?

That hand collected a lot of bribes.

astrodome:
Help!! Friends, family, former school mates and others are killing me with financial demands. Everyday I receive facebook (fb) messages, phone calls, email messages and messages from other communication avenues from family members, friends close and distant, school mates I have not seen in 20 years but with whom I reconnected on fb, and even random fb friends (meaning I do not know them personally but somehow we managed to be friends on fb). They all have the same story: please send me money, anything.

Each month I send nearly 3k to Nigeria and they keep asking for more.

Do they think I pluck money from trees in America?
Do they think every Nigerian in America is doing drugs or credit card fraud to make money?
Are they thinking that since Akin or Emeka made it in America (in many cases by selling drugs and doing credit card fraud), I should also make it and therefore be able to satisfy their unending demands?

How do I explain to them that I have bills (auto, mortgage, water-sewer, electricity, gas, phone, credit card) to pay. And then I have to run my family (of 4) and fuel 2 cars, and on top of that, I have to save also for the rainy day - for when kids get to college.

I am able to resist the random fb friends because I do not have any personal connection with them, but how do I scare the ones I know off without sounding rude and unhelping? I know that when you stop giving, you become an enemy.
Help! Before a fellow nairalander runs amock on the streets of America because of pressure from Nigeria

Just for disclosure: I am well-heeled in the US mid-upper middle class, earning a 6-figure pay, holds a PhD, and involved in R4D activities. But I live in a US city (name withheld) where mortgage payment alone takes 25% of my monthly income. So you can imagine that after paying all bills, I do not have tons of money left over to give out on frequent basis.

Please advise on how to handle this, Naija style . Thanks

You earn 6-figure pay and you send only $3k monthly to your family?
Anyway, learn to say 'NO' and lie.

So many truck accidents!
Make drive test mandatory before issuance licence!

The guy is probably dead or stuck in abroad.

See his st*upid bribe mouth!

SonOfDavid91:
From all indication, it seems you are from the other side? Nevertheless, as a grown up incubated with the fear of God, you should be able to discern your left from your right!
Okay?

I was born and bred in a strict religious family but when I started thinking for myself, I learnt to differentiate between fiction and reality. Icbelieve in logical reasoning and in science, rather than a fictitious book written by people who believed earth was flat, a bible that contains many atrocities approved by your god!

Try to think rationally!

Don't allow Nuclear plant in your Community, City and State!!! Nigeria is too incompetent and corrupt to handle anything Nuclear!

Lack of maintenance of a Nuclear plant can kill millions!!

Nuclear plant is not a child's play!!