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I don't blame some Nigerian women who dodge having sex with their boyfriends, because most Nigerian men are terrible in bed.
They usually quickly insert their dirty d*icks in the v*agina and c*um real fast (a minute or two), without fore*play or care if the woman c*um it or not!

adonbilivit:
OK this happened to my friend. so he proposed to his girlfriend after dating for over a year. she neither said yes nor no but just laughed out loud. this has been bothering my friend. He feels she might be thinking he is not man enough probably because he is only 24.

N.B: he is a graduate and financially stable. the sex is good too.

It may mean she floored him without any hesitation. The proposal may have been ridiculous to her, as a rubbish.

She's either out of the guy's league or not ready to settle down now or not interested to marry the guy (he's probably her maga).
Whatever is her reason, she should have, at least, told the guy something than keeping him in a state of uncertainty.

The guy should demand for an explanation from her and if she gives a flimsy excuse, he should tank the girl immediately and move on.

By the way, how did you know his sex was good?

missKiffy:
I met my boyfriend's dad for the first time last week and he introduced me as a 'friend' to his dad. I later asked him why he introduced me as a friend just to clarify things and know if am just a 'friend' to him and he told me his dad understands what he meant even tho he referred to me as a friend, and I think he was right cos his dad was dotting on me after meeting me, he even told my boyfriend he likes me.

Should I still be worried or am just bothering myself for no reason.

Let the matter slide. Focus in making sure he puts ring on your finger soon. And don't waste your time with someone who's not gonna marry you.

Send his as*s to the U.S. he's a criminal!

Remove religion from politics! I hope no ramada government funding? Religion has brought nothing but pain, suffering and evil.

opcking:
the igbos largest ethnic group in Nigeria? you must be dreaming/wishing... yeah the igbos are the most progressive in arm robbery, drug trafficking, selling fake/sub standard product and in fraud
stupid Igbos. senseless pple.. n u r a great fool 4 insulting the yoruba pple

Yes, Igbo is the largest. If you believe the "cencus" hausa and your yoruba "leaders" conducted and rigged then you're nothing but a mentally challenged id*iot.

Name one of the crimes you mentioned that yorubas are not massively involved in? The Yourubas are well known for their st*upid igbo hating, you jealous as*sholes! Keep on hating, you dirty animals, while Igbos continue to progress!

Without election rigging and public funds looting (which comprised of 85% of yoruba's wealth while 100% for hausa your masters) hausa and yoruba touts/thieves, drug barons and fraudsters will hardly survive.

98.9% of Igbo's wealth is by pure hard work!

You can't deny that hausa and yoruba destroyed this country. It shows the level of incompetence and abysmal failure these two ethnic groups are! You thieves have be in power for decades with absolutely nothing to show for it, except murders, public fund looting, endemic corruption everywhere, massive election rigging, lack of rule of law and abysmal security situation!

In a cilivilized society, these two terrible ethnic groups would be banned from any position of leadership because you people s*uck big time!

OPC or whatever you call yourself, we're in 2015 not 1815! OPC to still believe in their st*upid "gods" in 21 century, shows they've sick barbaric mentality.

They claimed Igbokwe insulted their useless oba and they didn't mention that their st*upid oba or owa (whatever they call him) threatened and insulted Ndigbo, a whole ethnic yroup, the largest and most progressive in Nigeria for that matter!

Does that mean all Igbo deities, including Amadioha the god of thunder and lightening, should strike their st*upid oba and all who disrespected Ndigbo? I guess that's the type of OPC barbaric mentality, right?

Did their st*upid oba apologize? NO.

Igbokwe was right to declare OPC, a gang of thugs and hoodlums. You know truth hurts sometimes. OPC knows Igbokwe was being truthful, but because of their hate for anything IGBO, they didn't let it slide.

Atiku is a very corrupt man. How is Buhari going to fight the corruption he drummed about during election when he mingles with known thieves?

Nigerian jungle justice pisses me off!
It shows how mentally backward and uncivilized Nigerians are!

What stops them from handing the thief over to the police? If ordinary Nigerians don't follow the rule of law, how do they expect the "leaders" to do so?

Whizzcute:
When the wife is the breadwinner of the family, the husband will be in this situation.


What do you think?

Is there anything wrong with that? It's better either the wife or the husband take care of the baby at home than hand the baby over to a babysitter (a stranger) or house girl!

Taking care of a baby is a hard job.

If age is your problem then you shouldn't have ventured into presidency.

You were never ready to be president and it has been showing since you became president.

While NASS is busy sharing more than 9 billion naira as wardrobe allowance!!

Enough of the praises of Buhari! Focus more on substance!

Nigerians always get what they deserve. They vote for id*iots and thieves in exchange for a bag of rice and tomatoes. Shame on Nigerians!!

9 billion naira (45,237,510 US Dollars!) for wardrobe while millions of Nigerians live under 1 dollar per day and some are even starving!!

I thought APC would be better than corrupt PDP. Nothing has changed, only name of the party in charge changed.

If something is a problem for one of you, then it's a problem for both of you. Clearly, this is one of those times. Kissing is probably an act you enjoy not just because it's a sensuous promise of more to come, but because it symbolizes your intimate connection. Without it, you're worried that something bigger has flown out of your life.

You're right to worry. Even though your husband still wants sex, your instincts about his loss of passion are probably on target. Passion does wane over time for men and women, especially with the stresses of parenthood. Yet many men will continue to have sex without it.

Stop nagging your husband about the kissing and have a serious heart-to-heart with him about your underlying worries. Try normalizing the situation for him first. Tell your husband that you understand men sometimes feel less desire after they see their wives become mothers. Then put the problem in a positive light by asking what both of you can do to revitalize your sexual relationship. You might suggest regular date nights, for instance, as a way to stop feeling and acting like parents 24-7. Or your husband may reveal that he's resentful or angry about something, like the fact that he's working while you stay home with the kids or something.

Addressing the larger issues together may well get him to be more affectionate because he won't be bottling up his feelings. You may really need to press him on this issue, but don't give up.

Your husband may avoid conversations about passion because he's afraid to admit he doesn't feel any. But it is an important part of most couples' relationship, and you'll both benefit from getting it back.

Kissing your ex. may indicate you're the problem.

classicB:
My friends and myself were discussing about relationship stuffs recently.
We talked about one of our coursemate that is lucky enough to have a guy that cares so much about her, takes care of her, up to the point of giving her salary yet this girl doesn't love or appreciate the guy at all, she still go about sleeping with men cos of chicken change.

And we also have one that is currently in love with a broke guy. They have been together for close to 3years now and sometimes this girl feels like the guy doesn't love her enough simply because she sees what her friends are getting from their guy and she's not privileged to get it from her own boyfriend. Its not as if she doesn't love the guy or anything but she sometimes get jealous and imagine herself in the shoes of girls I mentioned above.
Her boyfriend loves her and he isn't cheating on her.

So my question is, how do u think a broke guy can show love, and care to his girlfriend in the absence of cash?

You're surprised the girl has a good relationship without designers shoes and clothes because you're used to being materialistic and thought that's the only way a man and woman could be in a good relationship.

Well, let me tell you something. That you're in a relationship with a man doesn't mean it's his job to take care of you financially! If he wishes to do so on his own free will, see it as a gift not as an obligation!

Most Nigerian women are materialistic (including you OP) that's why men most times use and dump them. A good relationship is NOT about how much the man can give or spent on you.

If you're a woman who wants to be respected by men, move your lazy as*s and go get a job like others! When you're in relationship, don't be too demanding. If you want to be materialistic, be it in your own pocket not in someone's pocket.
Understand that the man is not your father, and he has his own life too.

You and your other fellow materialistic friend may destroy that girl's relationship if she's not careful. You're a bad influence and she should distance herself from you immediately if her relationship is important to her!

Nigerians are always quick to blame the wife when something goes wrong in the marraige.

Is it the fault of the woman that the man couldn't control his d*ick and be faithful? Women are always blamed for everything even when they're innocent!

Would you blame the man if the wife f*ucks houseboy? I guess your answer would be, NO!

Hausa/falani continues to f*uck yoruba in the as*s! And what's so funny is that yoruba doesn't notice!

Yoruba is mugu to Hausa/fulani.

laurel500:
I think Nigerians have gotten used to a particular way of governance... Buhari has shown a high level of difference from the normal. I believe if we (Nigerians) focus on Buhari as a person and on his characteristics, we will notice that he has shown us articulateness and intelligence by not hurriedly appointing ministers to each ministry.

Nigeria has a leader who can withstand pressure from anxious citizens in the person of Buhari. Our ministers are coming.
God bless Nigeria.

My first nairaland comment though.

Did he become president in a hurry? He should have been prepared.

In an interview with ARISE TV, the President blamed the delay in appointing ministers on the lateness in getting handover notes from former President Jonathan’s transition committee.

That's a complete nonsensical excuse!! You were never ready mentally and otherwise to be president. Winning a presidential election is one thing, being a president is another.

I supported you during the election but I've come to realize you're incompetent.

You've not created your government after more than two weeks since your inauguration and you still have no clue why people are worried?

I'm so disappointed!

Bunch of incompetent id*iots! They probably planned it.

MuguliciousMUGU:
I am still thinking, what did this woman tell Iara Oshiomhole that made her to laugh like that?

Stop posting pictures of people's wives, you pervert!

What did you expect? Don't you know that church is a business venture?

LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps

Its been a big taboo to see women smoke in Nigeria, I remember growing up being told that ladies who do this are bad, runz girls, dont have good up bringing etc.

Is this a big turn off ?

Can nigerian men date women or marry one that has that habit, if not why? If yes why? What are your views and experiences .

Smoking is a bad and dirty hygiene that has detrimental effect to health.

Any woman who smokes, doesn't care about her health. So why should one marry such a person? The same applies to men.

Stop posting pictures of people's wives here, you perverts!

You're the type of people that would mast*urbate while drooling over pictures of people's wives..

ire700:
Sudan, Algerian, Turkey, Israel, Russia, China,Zimbabwe,the US,India, Vietnam and many other countries are not signatories to the ICC

This Kangooroo court only target the negroes. That's why it is so critical for African Heads of State to withdraw from the Rome Statute in a matter of emergency

Yes. Western officials may dismiss claims that the ICC targets Africans unfairly, but ICC detractors can point to some clear evidence: The court currently has eight active investigations, which have so far brought a total of 18 prosecutions, on its docket. All of the investigations are in African countries.

skak:
You are turning from bad to worse. Must you know all the plans GMB/PMB has in respect to BH? Didn't you hear that he had a secret meeting with chief of staff?

Good government always have a secret plan against pessimists people like you. Stop opening your dirty mouth because no one will tell you strategies and plans on ground. Telling to public is like telling to Shekau you fool.

I'm losing some brain cells arguing with you, because your sense of reasoning is too poor for me. You're not smart at all.

He held the so-called secret meeting with military chiefs in regards to relocating the Military Command Centre to Maiduguri! That's his "strategy" which he acted upon immediately! Nothing more.

If he had any real strategy, it would have manifested in the battle field. No war strategy goes into effect unnoticed. When Obama became U.S. president, he acted on his strategy immediately, because they were at war extremist and still are. Buhari was also elected at a time Nigeria is at war with extremists, but was has he done? He hasn't even created his government for more than two weeks now!

You're either high on something or just plain st*upid! Remove your head from Buharis' hairy as*s. You're embarrassing yourself.

pkjag:
The U.S isn't a signatory to the ICC, so the ICC can't prosecute US leaders.

Well, you're right. The reason why U.S. is not a participant is because of the atrocities its leaders committed.
Though, the Obama Administration has re-established a working relationship with the court.

The ICC indicted Al-Bashir for war crimes in 2009 for his role in the 2003 conflict which resulted in the death of more than 300‚000 people and displaced 2.5-million people‚ according to United Nations.

I support ICC indictment of world leaders who commited heinous crimes against humanity.
But ICC has not been totally fair. It mostly targets Africa.

Why haven't it called for the arrest of former U.S. president George W. Bush, and his VP, Dick Cheney, for war crimes? These two and their minions caused between 800,000 and 1.3 million deaths! Why are they not indicted?!

skak:
You are more st*pid than you look. Do yoi think he went there just to cheer up with his co-presidents? he went to get their cooperation in tackling BH by given their supports via controlling their borders and stopping any possible means of supplying funds, food and weapons to BH.

All you know is to criticize GMB/PMB which will always put you in shame.

Have a strategy to tackle a problem in your country first before asking other countrues to come in and help! Unless you're incompetent!

Wake up fool!

The only way to keep BH from spreading to other areas, is to split the country into three - Arewa, Biafra and Oduduwa.

Hausa/fulanis are the main problem we've have in Nigeria. They're parasites and religious nuts who want to control everything and force Nigeria into becoming a radical muslim nation. They have never contributed positively to this failed project called Nigeria.

Let them have their own country and rule themselves or kill each other off. Dirty thieving murderers!

skak:
you are too dumb to understand how important his travelling was. wasn't he there (Chad and Niger) for the purpose of ending BH? wasn't he there at Germany for the interest of the nation.

Come back to your sense and embrace reality. PMB/GMB is the man!

First, I didn't mention or criticize his trip to Germany. This shows how st*upid you're.

Secondly, having no plans at all to combat BH before jetting to Niger and Chad is an evidence of incompetence. Chad and Niger have no BH today on their soil because their strategy in fighting BH on their soil, worked!

BH wasn't created in on their soil. BH is home grown and it's stationed here, and yet Buhari didn't have any strategy to fight them before and after he became president!

That you like a politician doesn't mean you have to accept whatever he or she does. That's what st*upid Nigerians have been doing and it has messed up this country badly. Politicians are never held accountable in this country simply because some id*iots like them. Wake up from your dumb sleep!