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Why are you so desperate to tell anyone? And why are you so depressed to tell anyone?

What you believe in is no nobody's f*ucking business. If christians and muslims are free and proud to say what they believe in, you also have the same right to be proud of your belief, unless you're in doubt.

I'm an atheist too and I don't give a f*uck about what any christian or muslim says about it. If you ask them to show you evidence of their god, they start to trail off.

I'm a proud atheist and I believe in Science.

Sure, we know our problems and yet we support and praise corrupt politicians. Isn't that st*upid?

Sickness: We don't have healthcare system and yet our corrupt "leaders" jet out to the most expensive hospitals in foreign countries for mere headache, while thousands of Nigerians die from curable diseases.

Poverty: Nigerian politicians don't care about poverty. They're too incompetent to lead while they're main focus is solely in looting public money. The elephant salaries they voted for themselves is a good evidence of their endemic corruption.

Motor Accidents: More than 85% of Nigerian roads are death traps. Money had been "allocated" to most of them severally and yet the money ended up in their pockets.

Nigeria is indeed a failed State

skak:
wetin concern you?

with or without cabinets PMB IS THE MAN

It concerns every Nigerian because he's the president of Nigeria, if you're too dumb to know that.

Blind support for politicians by some st*upid Nigerians like you, helped make this country the mess it's today.

I supported Buhari too during the election but it didn't blur my sense of reasoning.

Buhari has been behaving like someone who was never prepared to be president. He has not be leading like a president should since his inauguration.

Immediately after his inauguration, he jetted out to Chad and Niger to discuss about BH when he had no plan at all at home on how to fight BH. BH is home grown, home based and produces it weapons in Nigeria. He should have a plan as the president.

His only strategy to fight BH was by ordering the relocation of Central Military Command. Where on earth has something like this done? What a terrible idea!

He promised transperancy and yet nobody really knows what's happening in his presidency. There's confusion everywhere.

During the election, he promised to declare his assets publicly but he did it secretly and said anyone who's interested to see it should invoke Freedom of Information act. What a nonsense! After massive criticism, his reps later lied that they were waiting for the Conduct Bureau to finish verifying his assets before making it public. Why would they wait for the "verification" if they were sure the assets he declared to the CB were correct? It makes no sense!

Since he became president two weeks ago, he hasn't formed his government yet! The only appointments he announced was for his two spokespersons. What the hell is he doing with two? Someone who promised a lean government!

I could go on and on.

Even though I don't do any of those sh*its, I accept the fact that some men are guilty of your list, which also applies to some women.

1. Lustful glances
Some women do this too, especially runz girls. Unfortunately, most Nigerian girls do runz.

2. Body and Mouth Odour
Both sexes are guilty. I've met few girls who had bad mouth odors and I didn't kiss them. Another thing is that most Nigerian girls have dirty and nasty stinky p*ussies, caused by either STDs or yeast infections. 90% of Nigerian girls have no clue what Yeast infection means, and it's the most common problem most of them have.

I'm the type of guy who lets a woman, who has odor problem, know something is wrong. One ended the relationship because of it while others were glad I told them, and they subsequently rectified the problem. If I had a nasty odor problem on my body, I would have also liked to be told.

3. Bad Vocabulary
Illiterates and most "graduates" are guilty. I dated smart and educated women but few of my friends have had "graduate" girlfriends who murdered English. Another thing I hate is that most Nigerians, both men and women who called themselves "graduates" can't express themselves in simple English.

For instance, what you'll mostly see on Nigerian forums (especially on Nairaland) or messages on Nigerian students' mobile phones are: I wnt 2 si u 2moro or i wil rite u leta 2de or cn wi mek it nxt tym. That's terrible!

4. Tattered and Disgusting Outfit
Some men are guilty, including few women.

5. Using Animal Sound To Call A Lady's Attention
Some men are guilty.

6. Sending Friends to do your bidding proposal
Both sexes do it but men do it more. I have hooked up with Chics who sent their friends to get my number or tell me how much they like me.

7. Consumption of alcohol to boost ego/self confidence
Some men are guilty.

8. Claiming False Riches
Id*iots who called themselves men do this.

skak:
Buhari you are once a dictator but now you are the most reliable and trusted politician you are an exemplary. carry go Baba.


One love Mr. President

He hasn't created his government yet. Not a good sign.

These id*iots are celebrating a religious fraudster.

I would rather want to be accused of not going to the church than the other way round.

Nigerians would rather run to the church to get "answers" about natural events than going to the science lab. That's why this country is so backward in science and technology, which is evident in their barbaric mentality!

They believe in a fictitious book (bible) written 3500 years ago by people who believed the earth was flat, than to believe in science books.

Sunnybobo3:
Proof from our criminal code Act that stealing is different from corruption.

Stealing;

Ignorance of some Nigerians makes me sick!
Lets check the dictionary;
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(Google Dictionary - Corruption)
[size=13pt]Corruption[/size] /kəˈrʌpʃ(ə)n/

noun
1. dishonest or fraudulent conduct by those in power, typically involving bribery.
E.g. "the journalist who wants to expose corruption in high places"

2. the process by which a word or expression is changed from its original state to one regarded as erroneous or debased.
E.g. "a record of a word's corruption"


(Google Dictionary - Thief)
[size=13pt]Thief[/size] /θiːf/

noun
a person who steals another person's property, especially by stealth and without using force or threat of violence.
E.g. "thieves broke into a house on York Close"
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When you steal, you're behaving in an untrustworthy, deceitful, dishonest, or insincere way, which qualifies you as corrupt!
- A thief is corrupt.
- A bribe giver or taker is corrupt.
- A pastor who extorts money from his dumb congregation is corrupt.
- A pastor who baths married women is corrupt.
- A policeman who lets a criminal relative off the hook is corrupt.
- A teacher who gives high grades in exchange for p*ussy is corrupt.
- A person who cheats on his or her partner is corrupt.
- A student who cheats in the classroom is corrupt.
- A person who got a job with fabricated documents is corrupt.
- A killer is corrupt.
- A liar is corrupt.
- A person who sleeps with a married woman or man is corrupt.
- A person in position of power who indulges in nepotism is corrupt.
- A president who tries to change the constitution for his own interest is corrupt.
- A kidnapper is corrupt.
- A drug dealer is corrupt.
- A bully is corrupt.

I could go on and on. Corruption is like an umbrella of crimes and other bad behaviors. So saying stealing is not corruption is totally wrong! I would rather call a thief a thief than just saying the person is corrupt because a corrupt person could be anyone one of those I mentioned above!

If you sue someone to court for corruption, judge will ask you what exactly did the person do that made you accuse him or her of corruption! Go to your village and accuse of corruption. You will realize no one will take you seriously because corruption could be anything. But try to accuse someone of stealing or kidnapping or killing and see what happens next.

A childish ploy to plug your blog here.

Number 152 is what thecst*upid, incompetent and very corrupt Ab*okis and Ofe mmanu "leaders" gave Nigeria- many years of abysmal failure!
What pisses off is that, they're still always desperate to even murder opponents just to rig themselves into "leadership" positions to continue their destruction and massive looting! They've no vision, nothing!!

In a reasonable country, they would be banned from anything that relates to leadership! Nigeria is a total failure, lawless and riddled with endemic corruption today because of them! They should be very ashamed of themselves!

If Nigerian Jerry Rawlings emerges today, he'll mostly execute Hausa and Yoruba "leaders" for the massive destruction they perpetrated on Nigeria! Some id*iots may call it ethnic cleansing, while forgetting that these two ethnic groups have be ruling Nigeria since the 60's!

I am now stranded with no money to go back; at times I sleep in motor parks or squat with good Samaritans,

Why not trek back to where you came from, idiots!

ionsman:
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I don't where you got you information. Nigerian legislators, among the world’s top paid, receive ANNUAL salaries of between $150,000 to $190,000 per annum depending on exchange rates. At current exchange rates Nigerian lawmakers, would earn around $160,000 more than British MPs who make around $105,000 according to data from The Economist. In fact, until plunging oil prices started putting pressure on the Nigerian naira earlier this year, the Nigerian lawmakers were the second highest paid lawmakers in the world.

The average legislators’ pay is more than 50 times Nigeria‘s GDP per capita. In a country where millions live on less than two dollars daily and minimum wage is set at $90 a month, the legislator’s bumper pay has been described as outrageous. The campaign for a cut in the National Assembly’s funds as a new government comes in is fitting as President Buhari, who will earn less than the lawmakers, has a reputation for being modest and austere.

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As president Buhari’s new administration and Nigeria’s 8th national assembly settles into office, a new campaign for transparency, accountability, and possibly a cut, in funds allocated to the National Assembly is picking up steam.

The social media campaign tagged #OpenNASS is led by BudgIT– a local start-up focused on making budgetary information accessible to Nigerians.

BudgIT was founded in 2011 at the influential Nigerian technology hub, Co-Creation Hub located in Lagos’ Yaba neigbhourhood. The start-up has grown rapidly and last year bagged $400,000 in funding from Omidyar Network, the impact investment firm started by eBay founder Pierre Omidyar. BudgIT generates revenue from consulting and data analysis for private and public organizations.

The main thrust of the #OpenNASS campaign is for the National Assembly to open its books to allow for an assessment of its finances and possibly advocate for cuts particularly in a period of financial uncertainties which has seen the country struggle to pay salaries.

MojiDelano:
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Joseph Edgar or whatever is your name, you preached about how bad you felt of his terrible condition and yet you bought him a glass of Ogogoro! What the f*uck is wrong with you? You're a part of his problem!

Even though I believe Majek is fully responsible for his plight, unworthy people like you helped keep him in this condition. You should have bought him food instead of giving him the money, that's what a reasonable person should have done. If you want to help a drug addict, you DON'T give the person money because it will obviously end up being used to purchase either alcohol or drugs!

Majek Fashek's terrible condition is an example of what happens when one chooses the wrong path in life! This man was once number one artist in West Africa. He was placed in the same level with his South African counterpart, Lucky Dube and he was loved everywhere- Africa, U.S. Europe, South America and even in Jamaica!

Majek achieved a fit no other African has achieved since. He played on David Letterman's Late Night Show in 1992 (below video)! One of the most popular American Shows till this day!

It's sad that Majek Fashek is racing to his grave. The only way he can be saved is by forcing him into a good Rehab Center in the U.S. or Europe, but the so-called Nigerian musicians will not be willing to pay the Rehab fees. I just wish him well.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9WU94jnHfTM

It's a part of Nigerian culture to not pay employees.

Some Nigerians are st*upid, they do anything without thinking about its legal repercussion.

What of Igbos? He can't say he didn't see qualified Igbos in his State.

germainediva:
Pls want to know your take on this: Hubby insisted dat we should password our fones and not tell eachother d password so we can have some privacy so for like 2yrs or so its been like dat but a Pastor friend of mine insisted dat its a sin...... ......tho me am indifferent.

Why run to your pastor for advice? Is he a professional family consultant? Are you one of those women who give pastors control over their marriage? If the privacy thing was of a concern to you, why didn't you discuss it with your husband before running to a pastor?

If you trust your husband, then you don't need to worry about anything. He might have found out you're always snooping around his stuffs and not every man likes that.

How would you feel if your spouse were to check your email to see who you've been contacting, and what you've been saying? Or, to check your internet history to determine the internet sites you've been visiting? Or, to look over your texting history and cell phone records?

If you'd be okay with that, let's step it up a notch. How would you feel if your spouse were to install, without your knowledge, a GPS unit on your car to see where you've been? Or, a phone recorder on your cell phone or landline to hear what you're saying? Or, a keylogger program on your computer to know exactly what you're doing on your computer? Or, hire a private investigator to secretly follow you around and make video recordings of your activities?

If you're like most spouses, you would view my first set of investigative methods to be essentially benign, and revealing a possible paranoid streak in your sweetie. But you'd probably consider the second set to be a flagrant violation of your privacy. Does that pretty much sum up how you'd feel?

And yet, I recommend all of the above. So, how can I justify this advice when it goes against the grain of most spouses?

I begin with the proposition that a great marriage is a transparent marriage. The more you know about each other, the easier it is to meet each other's emotional needs, avoid Love Busters, and make decisions with each other's interests in mind.

A related proposition is that none of us is perfect. We all have predispositions that if left unchecked can cause us to hurt others, especially our spouse. But if our behavior is known to our spouse and others, we are much less likely to yield to those destructive predispositions. The public holds us accountable for our behavior, making us much more caring.

In marriage, this destructive predisposition is manifest in a variety of habits that I call Love Busters. But among those destructive habits, there are few as damaging as our tendency to be unfaithful. Yet, I estimate that over 60% of all marriages experience infidelity, one of the most painful experiences a betrayed spouse can have in life.

So snooping is reasonable, especially when there has been evidence of a budding romantic relationship outside of marriage. If my wife were to check up on me without my knowing about it, it would probably be based on certain facts that would have aroused her curiosity. But knowing now what I know about the devastating effects of unfaithfulness, I'd encourage, not discourage, her -- unless I was really up to something I didn't want her to know about.

What are some of the red flags that would lead a spouse to snoop? The biggest and brightest of them all is for you to claim a right to privacy. If you were to refuse to give your spouse your passwords to your computer, social networks, or cell phone records, or to what you do with your time away from each other, that would trigger almost anyone's curiosity. What's my spouse trying to hide?

There are other red flags. One of them is having a close friend of the opposite sex because that's how most affairs develop. An opposite-sex friend at work, someone you are with recreationally, or someone you simply enjoy talking to about almost anything is the person to whom you are most likely to become emotionally attached. Do you have any close friends of the opposite sex outside of your marriage?

Another red flag is being separated overnight -- or for days, weeks, or months. The longer you are separated from each other, the more likely one of you will have an affair. Jobs that require spouses to be separated are much more highly associated with infidelity than jobs that allow spouses to sleep together overnight.

Other red flags include unexplained absences, where it's difficult to know where a spouse was for a period of time, excessive consumption of alcohol, and a marriage that has lost its spark. These are but a few of the conditions that inspire snooping.

So if your spouse has been snooping on you, and you haven't been having an affair, don't discourage the snooping. Instead, address the red flags. What have you been doing that makes your spouse worry about an affair?

Give your spouse all of your passwords, provide your spouse with your schedule, be available by cell phone throughout the day, and be willing to give a full account of everything you do and everywhere you go. Don't tolerate secrecy in your marriage.

Don't have close friends of the opposite sex. Your spouse should be your best and closest friend. And be sure that your spouse enthusiastically approves of the friends you do have.

Don't be separated overnight. But if it's impossible to avoid, create precautions that would make having an affair while you're apart essentially impossible.

Avoid drinking to excess and going to parties by yourself. And when you go to a party together, stick together throughout the evening.

But if your marriage has lost its spark, if you are no longer meeting each other's most important emotional needs of affection, intimate conversation, sexual fulfillment, and recreational companion -- if you're no longer in love -- start doing something about it today. The greatest risk for an affair is when a marriage is no longer romantic. That's when someone else can step in to fill that void. When that happens, that person can seem to be impossible to resist, regardless of how much damage an affair is to the betrayed spouse, children, and even to the unfaithful spouse. If you and your spouse are not in love with each other, restore that love so that neither of you must choose between a loveless marriage and infidelity.

Snooping usually reflects a spouse's loss of trust. And that loss of trust is usually caused by red flags that should be addressed in a marriage. Even if no affair is actually taking place, the snooping itself should not only be encouraged to help provide evidence that mistrust is unwarranted, but it should also trigger a serious effort by the suspected spouse to remove the red flag.

Consider signing the following agreement: "(husband) and (wife) agree that there is no right to privacy in our marriage and hereby preemptively waive any claim to the same by either one of us until death do us part." Each of you should sign two copies of the agreement, one for each spouse, and keep them in a safe place. If you agree today that there should be no privacy in your marriage -- that each of you has the right to snoop on each other -- you'll spare yourselves considerable grief and sorrow tomorrow.

Don't criticize the snooper. Instead, eliminate the conditions that made the snooping seem reasonable to your spouse.

[You may want to forward or copy my post to your husband]

Buhari was never ready to lead as a president. It's heart breaking that he hasn't formed his government till this day. It's unfortunate!

I was a fan but no more.

She deserved it!

When you invite someone (whether a man or woman) to dinner, you (the inviter) are expected to pay the bill! You don't tell the invitee to pay!

If the invitee offers and insist to pay then you let him or her. You don't force someone you invited to pay! He doesn't owe you and he wasn't the one who invited you to dinner! She doesn't know if the guy has money or not!

Next time when you're hungry don't try to trick anyone into paying for your food! Beg the person upfront that you're hungry and needs food. Then it is left for the person to either help you or not.

She's nothing but a st*upid long throat gold digger! I wish the guy sues her for damaging his image on facebook.

Bunch of thieves!

abdulkayus:
Responsible ppl do give a damn abt virgins.

So to you its sleeping that guarantee a good relationship and good marraige?
Stop being a hypocrite.

If being a virgin is the only good quality of a responsible person, then you're a kid that has no clue about relationship!

Nobody gives a f*uck whether you're a virgin or not because it neither guarantees a good relationship nor good marraige.

Let the looting start!

I hope this serves as a warning to potential st*upid and jobless long-throat trekkers.

Even though Buhari's comment is ok, I still understand why those countries are demanding alternating the leadership of the joint force, because they know Nigerian military is very incompetent and corrupt!

If Nigerian military was competent and effective, this joint force discussion won't exist because Nigerian Military would have eliminated BH long time ago!

Those other countries are more effective as they had already eliminated BH in their own countries!

In fact, Nigerian military will learn from those countries' leadership if joint force leadership will be alternated.

Criminal!

Mbkite:
A friend that works with one of these new generation banks told me about a job that was advertized internally in the bank, with Third Class as the only requirement. I have been wondering why they should make the job opening for only Third class graduates. I decided to bring it to Nairaland for proper deliberation.
What do you think?

Becàuse they want to pay less salary.

Another bad policy by Buhari's government. Maiduguri is a Boko Haram nest.

Why not make it safe first before opening the Intl. Ariport? Buhari is giving BH another place to target and kill many.

Ask him, the same time next year, about the money. He may squander it without doing something reasonable with it.

I hope he either uses it to start business or keeps it in a savings account in a reputable bank that won't go under in future, First Bank.

Good luck to him.

Obasanjo supposed to be in jail. No president commited more crimes and corruption than this ugly gorilla.

All the elections his corrupt administration conducted were rigged by him, including his corrupt party's internal elections!

Under this same gorilla's administration, high profile people were were executed. He taunted and hunted down his opponents with EFCC and ICPC!

The same ugly gorilla, tried to rewrite the Constitution to rule forever and hunted the opponents of this evil scheme.

Under this same id*iot's administration, he didn't obey the Rule of Law. He broke every rule to forcefully expand his dictatoral grip on all Nigerians. And more importantly, he looted the treasury with impunity, as he was also the oil minister.

I could go on and on. Obasanjo shouldn't be respected, he's a criminal and supposed to be in Kirikiri for the rest of his life!

If we have our own Jerry Rawlence today, he will execute Obasanjo publicly!

seankafor:
i guess u know little or nothing about meekmill

He's a poor guy. That he was nicki's ex doesn't mean he's not poor.
I guess you don't know him.

Religious fools believe everything their fraudulence pastors say.