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BarrSly:
She fit like u today.. Tomorrow she go change ooooo nothing like true love or long lasting love... So do your thing and stick around or rather try and stick around then look for a fault in her which she'll agree with u is indeed a fault with her then tell her u can't stay with such fault... So even if the relationship goes sour she'll always blame herself.

This is the best advice so far this thing just happenned to me. I am even regretting not doing so when i had the chance i thought we were in love until a sudden change in behaviour by her after underground job i discovered that she has found another guy whom she is now dating behind my back. i regret the days the opportunities came i failed to make use of it. Women can be manipulative without even considering the feelings of their partners. Dont fail to take this opportunity. i am talking from personal expereince.

obasseb:
Bros u jst got me on dis .my own doesn't sound far frm urs only dat d second is more outgoin with males cuz she is in skul nd u knw wat dat means. But her loyalty is hundred percent.they both got to knw demselves somehow .bt I don't care anyway.d second is whom I think i shud marry .follow. Ur hrt bro. Not all ladies can keep a home as well as peace of mind. For me a woman Wu has dis two attributes will always b my choice

Dont be to sure about her loyalty until she.proves you wrong or have gone through her whatsapp and facebook chats with those friends both male and female. I was claiming this 100% loyalty until i saw her chats on facebook and whatsapp then i knew she was just a manipulator. This made me to never trust a nigerian girl.

lahizak:
Ur choice of word give u away. U keep saying servant rather dan employee or staff. I believe you have already made ur decision towards completin ur study. And im assuming ur aunty av enough to hire a staff for her shop so if u not interested, inform her. I dont think she will made a big deal out of it. However most of us graduates will tell u to resume the shop duty and build urself towards becoming independent

don’t be in a haste to make your generalization on what you know little about. Her line of business requires someone that is willing to be there for long period of time not some sales girl or boy that will only be there for six months after learning the prices he or she will look for another place to work.

I kept saying servant relationship not employee/staff relationship because it is more of a normal igbo man business of oga /boy boy relationship.

I have lived with my aunty since january 2012 uptil this present moment. She was the person that was sponsored my education throughout my years in school both ND and HND she paid every dime needed to be paid until i graduated last december.

My problem now is that while i was in school i was also running another course(chinese language) which i am yet to graduate from i still have six months left to graduate from. Right now my aunty wants me to serve her for two to three years as a master/servant relationship for her to settle me and i start up my own business.

I am in.a state of indecision that if i complete my chinese course which i have six months left i am certain get a job of not less than 70,000 as a start up bechmark salary but having been with her for the past 8 years i have known all the information needed to go into her line of business and be successful having seen the profit margin they make in one of their business trips to china after selling the imported goods. some of my chinese class mates have already started working with good salary scale.

I will be 26 years by december and am yet to go for the compulsory NYSC. But currently her business currently needs a servant to control one of her shops.

Should i continue my studies which will end in june and most likely get a job in not more than two months or quit the studies to serve my aunty.

Please help a brother.

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adewumiopeyemi:
Too much fixed match in Nigeria league
Now that nigeria league is in bet9ja
Fixed match occur
Steadily
Check wah happen. Last week
About akwa united winning away

wee you kwayet

if there is no away win you complain away win you complain. what do you know about the league always criticising.

mahrez all the way how can you win the epl and afcon and not win the african footballer of the year.

if mane was that good why did epl not give him the pfl player of the season and uefa player of the year yet they found their fellow european who won the champions league and second place finish in uefa nations league to give their award to. It is high time we start valueing our african competitions to give it its worth and pedigree.

Even in europe if you want to win the uefa player of the year you are expected to win the champions league or euro before being considered for that if not for that what would have made van dirk win the award ahead of messi and ronaldo despite messi winning the world best and ballon d’or.

Austineva:
lolz. Brotherly, its best explained in Igbo o. Ima ukwa is d best definition of anything 'worst'. That guy na d worst coach I ever see in d round leather game call ' football' that guy enh o ji ma shovel o, ma barrow o, ma tipper even ma trailer wee n'ama ukwa. Onye a bu ezigbo onye ukwa

guy inwero joy

better leave that place you are living and come to tipper road where am living we pay 45,000 and there are other lodges around there that pay 40，000 and 35,000 so stop living above your means.

after all na all of us go still meet inside school for maduako discuss, chat.and everybody goes back to their humble abode.

cut your coat according to your size.

WowSweetGuy:
NO. I studied in china and now work with chinese here in nigeria.

Please sir what type of job？ is it as a translator

Mcslize:
It's your fault. Most of you ladies like forming champion even when you love a guy, always waiting for the guy to be the one to reach out to you. Common checking on a guy you're in a relationship with, you girls can't reach out to the person you claimed you love. How many times do you reach out to him? How many times do you check on him if he is still alive? Do you know what he has been passing through? Are you aware of his worries? Do you call him to find out how life is treating him?

Relationship is two ways directions. It is reciprocal. Don't always sit on the fence waiting for your man to reach out to you before you reach out to him. Don't always wait for your man to reach out to you before finding out how life is treating him. Majority of you girls don't know how to care for a man. We men want to be shown love too.

The only thing that will make a man to stop talking to you is if you are just there contributing nothing to his life. But you want him to keep chasing you, professing unrealistic love to you while sitting right there folding your hands. No text, no call and you expect the man to waste his time with you. No way.

The only thing that will make someone you've spent 5 years with to stop talking to you is because you as a lady is not playing your role. You are not reaching out to him to check on him as often as you should for someone who truly wants to build a future with a man. He sees that you are just there always wanting him to be the one to do all the communications and building of the relationship. Don't blame the gentle man.

He must have found someone else who is doing all that you are not doing for him. What does it take to communicate with your man and always get involved in his life? It takes nothing - absolutely nothing. But you girls will be feeling like Queens of the coast putting all the work of maintaining a relationship on a man without doing nothing.

Do you truly expect such a man to choose you as a partner? What makes men choose women for wives is how supportive they are to men. Men choose women for life partner based on how supportive they can be to them.

In those days we see supportive fiancées and that makes men take such ladies for wives cuz they are supportive and not parasitics. They give good advice to their men and encourage them to attain higher feats in life. If a man do not see you as the supportive type, he will surely not take you seriously.

Brace yourself up and move on my sister. When you see the next man, learn how to fully get involved in his life. It will make make a man see you as the serious type.

What you said was really 100% correct most of them dont care to know how the person they call their boyfriend is doing all they want is the attention you give and the chase. My own girlfriend can stay for long without giving you even a missed call when you call her she will complain you dont care about her. But i have gone for nearly two months without calling her and.she has never cared to call me to check on me. Deep down me i have ended the relationship and move on so she can continue with her life.

TruthinAction:
Must he say it. Let people praise you and not yourself.

Besides, one gold medal is bigger than a million silver medal. George Weah won the world best and that beats his record.

going by this your analysis fabio cannavaro is a better defender than sergio ramos and john terry because he won fifa best player.

i am also in the same situation but mine is not even aware that i know what she is doing but i just kept mute. Last night after speaking with her she said she was sick that i should send her get well message. But that was a lie. Her new boyfriend is the person sick andshe wanted to send the message to her, she immediately forwarded to him.

personally i do not beleive in cheating or double dating, i have access to her facebook account which she is unaware that is where i am seeing her numerous illicit affairs with different guys.

Women are deadly. i don't even know If to play along with her Or just quit her. ldon't think i can love again wholeheartedly Or just play the playboy lifestyle.

okikiosibodu:
Whatsapp web did the trick for me. Was just monitoring it live and direct on the chrome on my phone. I requested desktop site

How did you do it. Help a brother. Please give me your number or chat me up on o7o_3898_2513.

PotatoSalad:
Go to the person's file manager, then go to WhatsApp, go to databases and find the chat backup of the day you want to explore. It's in .crypt12 format
Copy and send the database to your phone via Bluetooth. Don't forget to clear Bluetooth activity after sending. Then download WhatsApp Business, paste the database file in the WhatsApp folder/databases and do as if you're creating a new account, enter your second number and restore backup.
All her chats will now be displayed on your WhatsApp business app. Then read and drink sniper

OK what of Facebook?

paroh137:
I see a lot of people dont know how to hack Facebook and Whatsapp. Chat me up on Whatsapp I go give you her password live. For a fee sha

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Your WhatsApp number or chat me on o7o38=9825=13

sircrabo:
Thts why i like the idea of checking phones and social media accounts of your bf/gf. It helps reveal a lot. mine was having her puna greased by one yahoo boy in our street. On one occasion, we were supposed to go out together. I waited at the bus-stop for her but she never turned up. One day she gave me her facebook password to upload pic for her. My heart was heavy after logging into that account. I saw her chat with the guy about how he didn't last as long as he used to, but she still enjoyed him though. I found out that the day they had the sex was the day i was waiting for her at the bus-stop. She said she was searching for a job and i volunteered to assist her, just to contribute positively to her life. we used to move round ikeja looking for opportunities together. That's the day i knew some people don't deserve to be treated like humans but as animals. Some ladies will always prefer people that have nothing to offer them (bad guys). I later confronted her abt her affair and she said "Did i ever tell you that i loved you"...... She later came apologizing, even said she cant marry the guy because he is Muslim. still apologizing yrs later but i have locked up completely. No atom of feeling for her now..... I once traveled to Abia state from Lag to see this SHE GOAT. Three years old relationship went down the drain. CHECK UR PARTNERS PHONE PLS

What you said is absolutely true because mine is already into different guys even calling them sweet names, sending her account number to them and going out to meet them without even knowing that I am aware of this her behaviour. I am planning of a way to pay her back in her own coin. I am having a feeling just to play along with her then disappoint her when she will need me most.

The feeling discovering that your partner is cheating is very painful that you will loose appetite to do anything to even eat will be hard for you. My fear is that the next set of girls that I am going to date I am afraid that they will be see the other side of me which will make them hate relationship and they will hate love.
Cheating can be painful especially when you have done your best to remain faithful to your partner despite all the opportunities to cheat yet you remain faithful.

decoolseun:
Hello Kingsley,
i don't work in the Chinese factory anymore, but if I hear any news regarding that from my guys still working there, i will let you know asap.

You said you just completed level three,I envy u o. I just relocated to lagos though, I will enroll at UNILAG when I get my ground.

Thanks in anticipation for your notification any time soon.

lawnreigh:
this post is a long time ago though, I have been to china back and working as a translator for a while now

Please notify me if there is any opportunity available. I am currently in my level four of learning Chinese.

decoolseun:
@bloglover @engrshakespeare
I just started learning Mandarin Chinese on my own, I work in a Chinese factory pls I will really appreciate if you guys can send me Chinese tutorials, articles, videos, ebooks, hsk1 & 2 my mail is in my signature.
Pls I am begging Ni o...

Xeixei

Please is there any job opening in your factory so that I can come and test my abilities and proficiency because I started learning it about a year ago. I just completed my level three this month. Looking forward to start level four next month. Please if you can help a brother out.

Mmadubukojohnkingsleyk@yahoo.com or 07038982513

It seems the boutique owner is too quiet to allow such thing.

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Go and read this thread over five times y will come back and thank me.

https://www.nairaland.com/3693940/interesting-here-finest-type-revenge

Go and read this thread over five times y will come back and thank me.

All this things are easily said than done. Currently in my school you will see a student having parallel Was because he can sort himself out whereas other students who read are giving random scores from B or BC

chenzen:
this thread is shallow and baseless

what the OP does not know will soon grow big enough to swallow him up in one gulp

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ibkayee:
No justification for physical violence unless it's in self defence, not everyone can be helped or wants help and he's not likely to stop so leave him asap

But is there any justification for verbal assault?

RighteousI:
this is how a woman should be treated. a man that truly cherishes a woman will go beyond his means to satisfy her. ladies! don't settle for less.

Then what will a lady who truly cherishes her man to for him to satisfy him or do you think that is only women needs satisfaction

I support giwa 100% but in as much as nff have made a reasonable amount of progress under pinnick but the Constitution of Nigeria must be obeyed and respected.

Nigeria laws are supreme in Nigeria and above all other Constitution not even FIFA laws. Nigeria as a country funds football activities in Nigeria and not FIFA.

You should listen to the reasons for nullifying pinnick's election. The law of Nigeria stipulated a time period for election after a tenure must have elapsed and a new election must be carried out within that period which I not subject to FIFA approval.

An election was done and FIFA refused to accept it because it was done with out their approval and fixed a date for a new election in Nigeria which they supervised and decided to accept which is against the law of Nigeria. FIFA supposed to adhere to the laws of each land and not Nigeria bending it's laws to accommodate FIFA are we guided FIFA laws in Nigeria or the Nigeria laws.