I strongly support your idea.
I actually work in a school. O have about 3 students in my school whose parents sent back to 9ja cos of bad behavior. The latest is 14 years old and the father said he joined a gang and started doing some funny things. He sent him home ro 9la and he's currently in Senior secondary.

Now look for schools like Graceland international School in portHarcourt where there is high moral standard. Deeper life high schools nationwide too.

My school is very good too, but i have problem with over pampering and so you won't worsen her case by that.

I handle teenagers and i know what you mean. When you want to take such decision, don't let her have an idea at all. Then look for a reliable and nice guardian here she can be spending her holidays with. When she's mature enough and can understand better, she'll return to her family.

It's well with you...

Mrperfecto:
I will just be brief without writing too much.

We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.

She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.

I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.

My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.

Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue?

Check well.
Do you beat her,.
Do tou verbally abuse her at the slightest provocation?

Do you emotionally abuse her?

Do you apologize to her when you offend her or you stay for some days and start touching her again?

Do you always find fault in what ever she does and never take time to appreciate and praise her at least even if you don't mean it.

Do you buy her things on her birthday even if it's a bottle of drink.

Do you take care of yourself? Do you brush regularly, wear clean boxers and singlets?

If you don't do all these, please work on it.
You will see changes with prayers.

Hold her in high esteem please. Consider her opinions even if you don't agree with her, politely decline. Avoid heated argument.

I wish you all the best bro, ❤️❤️♥️♥️

Human resources/communication. M.sc

E. J. C.
2288183381
Zenith

Thanks in anticipation.

shine12:
I have created this post to start an initiative of offering assistance to individuals who are unknown to me. Every week, I aim to send 10,000 Naira to a Nigerian stranger(I will pick an account number at random if there is more than one), as I understand the challenging situation in Nigeria. This small gesture is my way of giving back to my country, even though I am currently living abroad. I have the means to consistently afford this amount, even when facing unpaid bills, as it is less than £10.

Most of my siblings are also living outside Nigeria, and through this initiative, I hope to extend a helping hand to those in need back home. I find fulfillment in anonymous giving, acts that only God recognizes and rewards.

Through this platform, I wish to continue being a blessing, in my own small way, to any Nigerian in need, regardless of tribe, language, or religion. I am not seeking any personal information from anyone, nor do I want this page to be a platform for scams. Only post an account number or send your account number as a DM. Once you receive the alert, come back here to mention the alert received so I am sure you have the funds.

My desire is to offer genuine help and support to fellow Nigerians, spreading a spirit of compassion and unity. Together, we can make a difference and alleviate the burdens faced by those less fortunate in our beloved country.

Let us come together and embrace the joy of giving without expecting anything in return. May we all find ways, no matter how small, to make a positive impact on the lives of others.

Thanks In anticipation.
J C. E.
2014403806
UBA

Javina:
Growing up, by this time my Parents would have bought us the kids Christmas clothes.

It saddens me that with this bad economy, a lot of children won’t get clothes and gifts or even food this Christmas.

If you are a struggling parent, put down your account number (ONLY IF YOU REALLY NEED IT PLEASE!)

Use your real account for verification. NO SCAMMERS. Don’t deprive those who are really in need.

Ishilove:

Oh he is doing great. His new moniker is JefferyJunior

Okay, thanks
Hope you're doing good ishilove?

Yes something changed.
The picture was clearer in 2014�

I've missed @ J111333
Ishilove how is He?

I just hope this old thread gets to front page

dawnomike:
If i start sharing my own 'experiences', this thread go full
The best is just to flee from such as from a poisonous snake!!!

dawnomike, long time. Hope you're doing good?

Machiny:
if your location is port harcourt you can quote me for solution. And its free

I'm quoting you as I need that solution too. And yes, right now, I'm in PH.

Thanks in anticipation

Please smartriya,
I have sent you an email. I really need to talk to you. How can I contact you? Please don't ignore my message. you'll be saving a soul.
Please mention me with your contact as soon as you see this message.

I am a woman. I need to talk to you as soon as possible. Thanks

Smartriya

I'll like to know too
Those with ideas and experience should please throw light.

Thanks

Please what is clams? Is it ngolo?

Secondly, when water snail is it fresh or dried?

Oh, no idea dear. I don't live in Lagos.
Happy new year.

mojibbz:
Nobone has any idea?

Personally, i am willing and always ready to give my 100% to my family as i do not have any sibblings or parents to cater for as they are all okay within themselves.
But you see when a spouse begins to tell me how we will share the bills monthly, dear, you put me off and i guess that's why the babe ran. She was seeing the future and you were seeingthe present. What if things turn and she doesn't have a job again? You will nlw be doing things grudgingly...by then you would have had more kids, more expenses, anger will set in...domestic violence will ensue etc.

Just allow me, every month, i will take care of everything i can. you may not bother to touch your own salary as we will make bigger plans and investments with that so that we won't suffer at old age or perhaps when things aren't rosy anymore .. If that husband is very transparent and open to me o". But if you ain't straight foward with me.... we go dey do ourselves. My own take.

bigpicture001:
My girlfriend whom I have planned to settle down with simply started acting cold and eventually stylishly slide out of our relationship because I sat her down and made a family financial support proposal to her in which she will be financially committed to running the proposed family we intend to raise...

These are the proposal...

1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I asked that we jointly contribute for all the children's Career funding starting from when we get married even before any of their birth.. I proposed 10k monthly from her and 40k from me to a trust account. From it we plan to fund all the children's Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they choose..

2. That sh choose between Nepa bill or DStv or gotv sub monthly..just one for her

3. I will be responsible for rents

4. We pay into another joint account for vacation once in two years..like sh puts in 20k I put in 50k monthly..

5. I provide all the heavy food stuffs required in the house in large quantities including gas ND change of electronics, but sh provide all the daily food supplements to mk mine complete.

6. She buys her clothes ND I buy mine but we can both surprise ourselfs with gift to the other..

7. I will buy the family car ND maintain it. If she buys no p.

8. I didn't rule out surprise gifts once a while and outting which I bankroll ND expect her to do same occasionally..

Plz oo nairalanders are these responsibilities to a wife too much for her, I mean one who works and earn over 50k...?

Exactly my thought.
Happy new year dear nairalanders

Chloraseptic:
I doubt any doctor would be so upfront with their patient like that

I can simply tell you worship in LFC aka... winners chapel
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Vinnie2000:




Those Girls can Fvckk ehn!!
And nah Choir master, Protocol Unit boys and those Fine Boy Keyboardists dey Fcvkk Dem!

Then on Sunday, you see dem raising hands and Singing praise and Worship!
Or going on evangelism on Saturday morning!

Very Terrible bad Bitches!

TheSourcerer:
you're doing good? Hope you're having a great day ? Cold weather though .

Im good. You?

TheSourcerer:
I have a 3310 , never let that phone go , its a relic.

Lol honestly

My 5year old phone fell inside water. I just insert one of my sim card into someone's phone.
As it stands now eh! 3310 nokia will make sense to me

BaddieFreak:
Which phone are you currently using?
Leggo

Me: IPhone 12 Pro max

You see that concoction native rice they cook with palm oil, plenty crayfish, onions,roughly blended fresh pepper, dryfish, then you garnish with scent leaf...,. I no miss am o

Reno is the Chief judge of all matters arising.

ijaw1stson:
Is Reno so bored in America? Must he react over everything he sees online? I tire for this man abeg

If He is the Alpha and Omega
The First and the Last
The Author and Finisher,
If the earth and it's fullness are He's,
If He made man and breath life into him,
If He made the heavens and the earth, if He said let there be light and there was light, If He can kill and make alive,.......... Then what are these things you mentioned?
Read Jeremiah 33 vs 3, pray with it seriously and sincerely and He the Almighty will prove Himself to you.
Thanks.
NB, I won't respond to anyone quoting me.

TheSourcerer:
Can GoD make his name visible in the clouds ? Can God tell us he is the true God ? Can God stop the Andromeda galaxy colliding with the Milky way?
Can God heal an Amputee?

No big deal there bro.
I also ran into my classmate after 15years, he's a bank manager and funny enough, he lives close where I work. He showed genuine concern too, dashed me some money.
I didn't feel bad. I'm managing with my little hustle too. 20 people no dey live together for twenty years o!
Just be happy where you are and don't feel the way you do. Life na so e be.

ashybabs:
i just had a rude awakening...

i feel so lost!

i ran into one of my school mates after 10 years... and there i was holding a black water proof bag while she called me from her mob...

no words, e b lyk say make ground swallow me!

we exchanged numbers and she showed genuine concern but its so fuxked up i cant dare ring her

am such a loser

Ishilove:

I definitely will and he will appreciate it.

Thanks love

Ishilove:

I'm sure he is fine wherever he is.

Convey my warmest regards to him whenever you have the opportunity.

If this is a true story, then you a my ideal woman.
It is well and you're blessed.

Please, who has seen @ J111333? I've really missed him.

Ishilove please?

Snap the pictures well naa

This question seriously needs an answer please!!

bigtboi:
Is it medically possible for A.A + A.S genotype to birth an S.S genotype?