"Rock me I Rock You... "A case Study.

dontrulee:
Childish.
If you press your phone, I press mine too

Both are influentiall. But to what end... One had a whole state in his pocket with state funds.. The other had a whole country running riot with looted funds transferred across the world. Influence my foot.

No Matter the good intentions the writer has. It can never come to fruition why? Because Nigerians are going to abuse the space. The whole place will be messed up by pooing vendors that makes it a habit to deficate in any space they can run riot on.

Your head is not the problem. Your self esteem is..and you don't need validation from anyone to know that you are special. And to all out there who makes it a habit of body shaming people to get likes and popular you are indirectly directly, creating harmful effect on a human being. That blood is on your head.

For a man self control is next to Godlness..







quote author=arinze198 post=109777812]A 61-year old man, Agbaje Oladapo, has landed in trouble in Lagos State after he allegedly lured a 19-year old girl into sex.

P.M.EXPRESS reports that the suspect, Oladapo has been arrested.


The incident happened at Akowonjo Street, Isolo area of Lagos, where they reside.

The Police however, did not state how the suspect, Oladapo, raped the victim, who could be described as an adult. But it was stated that he had sex with her without her consent, which is statutory rape under the Lagos State Law.

After his arrest, he was transferred to the Gender Unit of the Lagos State Command for interrogation after the victim had reported that she was raped by the suspect.

He reportedly denied to have raped her as he claimed that he actually slept with her with her consent and she never complained during the romp.


full story: https://pmexpressng.com/man-61-faces-rpe-charge-over-sx-romp-with-girl-19/[/quote]

Depression is real only you can ask GOD to show you how to get out of it.








quote author= post=109789744]Update From . COM

Member of Parliament for Mandevu constituency in Zambia, Christopher Shakafuswa, has mourned his 20 year-old niece, Nivea Chezwa Nabuzoka, who committed suicide on Thursday night, January 27.

The lawmaker took to his official Facebook page on Friday, January 28, to share the sad news.

"Lost my niece last night. Sad to comprehend how a young girl @20 years with a bright future would take her own life." he wrote.

See Photos As Obtained By Below:[/quote]

Never ever look for validation in/on Nairaland. Follow your gut.. If his yours stay true and forget the certificate.if it's meant to be... Your certificate will come to you Married... Trust your guy...




quote author=Rita005 post=109227923]Thanks a lot... But I have heard both of them speak on phone. The woman keeps begging but he's made up his mind already. When I first met him, I even advised him to go back to his wife. All he could say is that "it's okay if I don't want to be friends with him but I shouldn't tell her to go back to a woman who threatens his peace". [/quote]

It's called warm up to marriage and married Life... No great girl out there learn to tolerate.. And double up the hussle... Or don't you want to buy a house with a Brand new gen...Guy double up.. I mean man up.. And love her hard... Things go fall in place... As long as you no go thief to please am.

pansophist:
It's a bad sign.

You sef, why would you accept such treatment from her? She does this because she knows you'll succumb. How is cooking slavery ? Won't she cook her own food? If you cook for her, does it mean she is enslaving you ? Since you brought the money, why can't she cook? Isn't marriage a teamwork anymore?

Well, if I were you, I'll pause everything. Introduction can go to hell, just pause. Then make sure you get this cleared before carrying over. But its a bad sign. But work on yourself man. If she know you won't take this, she won't do it. The way people treat you is a mirror to your standard.

[Jobless Girls everywhere.. Na only man go feed you and your family...








quote author=pmoye post=90933985]This is advice is really for Nigerian ladies. Please and please do not marry a man that is not rich. Your very life will depend on it. You heard me... How long you live as a woman may well depend on how rich your husband is. This may seem like an over-generalization, but a very needful one. Quite a troubling percentage of Nigerian men can not handle a woman who is more financially buoyant.

Ideally it shouldn't matter how much each person earns, because I believe that the husband and the wife should be one financially. That the home should be planned like a company with budgets, financial planning, sound auditing and all... But from the much we have seen around the average Nigerian family is far from this ideal. We often have what increasingly looks like a union that appears more to serve a cultural/societal expectation, a union that is sustained just so that the society can think you are happily married, while between the man and the wife it is more like between US and China, between Northern and Southern Nigeria, a perpetual cold war and bitter jostling for resource allocation and control.

I have seen women who have died because the husbands couldn't afford antenatal care and used ego-motivated argument to keep the women from accessing timely medical care... And of course, few years or even months after that those wicked men would later bring in other wives into the house.

The poorer the man, the more wicked, the more angry, and the more deadly he generally is in Nigeria. Do not let any man or any woman convince you to marry for love. There is no such thing as that, just a queer surge of hormones that makes you think you are in love. If you marry a poor man for love, hunger and suffering will soon reset your thinking, and by then most women feel too culturally compelled to remain with the toxin of a husband they have. Take a cue from evolutionary development in animal kingdom generally where females select the most suitable male for mating.

Do not simply believe in a man's future plans and dreams. If he doesn't have money now, he is not ready to be a husband. No matter how much you think you love him, treat him like the case of AS genotype (yours) marrying an SS genotype (his). And this is something I respect some Igbo men for. They will never think of marrying a woman unless they are economically ready.

If he is earning N30,000, or N40,000 or N90,000 per month he is not ready to marry. These are just examples from posts I have seen around here. Do not be fooled, the amount on the payslip is not always available for taking care of the home. But that's the talk for another day.

Some of us are probably never going to get married, I personally find it very scary to read about how men because of poverty increasingly turn against their wives in marriage... I may be too traditional though, because I do not fvcking care the money the wife is bringing into the house. Her role as a mother and a wife is already supremely more than you need to compensate for as a man. If you are a man, do not get close to a man when you are still poor. It is wickedness. It is dishonesty. It is crime against humanity. Do not sell her a future hope of becoming a pastor and other popular silliness.

Marrying a lady when you cannot completely and single-handedly take care of her is gender violence. Stop it.
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Who tell you say Architects. And Structural. Engineer are not involved. Na over greediness dey kill them pass.

motymop:
The pillars can't carry that building, why won't it fall.

This is what happens when you give a bricklayer to construct the building.

Send me your number





quote author=Pricezz post=107022382] at a cheap price DM me for your logo and flyer design [/quote]

Don't fall for it... GOD will not forgive you if abandon that Child now. Stand up Defend that Baby and see yourself grow... In all areas of Life....






[qquote author=ThankYouGod post=106465004]Your wife no get family? Take her to them, and if that fails, take her to motherless home.

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Spot on..!!!





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quote author=Mynd44 post=106495179]
The parent/guardian can get a SIM card, register said SIM under the adult's name and give to the child/ward.

And since the parent/guardian is responsible for the underaged, the parent/guardian issues responsibility for the actions done with the SIM

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...Take am easy Bro.







quote author=Staysave post=106236772]All Nigerian soldiers, male or female are useless....
May thunder fiiiiirrrrreeee all of them amen...[/quote]

My guy no be by meat... I get wife when like to chop meat pass me for plate... I no dey worry as I go task am commot 5k... Go chop cow leg..order for 4big cow leg.. Clean mouth... Still buy extra turkey wings go house.. Again... She most chop pass... Again...Aluta continua..

KiNg0G:

Your right on point bossu..

But as a man, you got think left and right all the time in scenarios like this.

For that girl to demand for 2meats when her guy is having just one....tells it all that my guy most likely don simp throway pant.

"SHE EVEN INSISTED, SHE WON'T CHOP UNTIL SHE HAS THAT TWO MEAT. ( Keyword INSISTED)

bros, you think am, woman shit test us because they know kind of men we are.

Don't be surprised that my guy use brain take save face, because he dey public and all eyes are watching..... and as soon as they leave that restaurant, he dey give that girl 3k make she go buy any kind meat she want....( That's simping with sense)

I mean as a normal guy man, he supposed dey embarrassed, how him go say make them give am one meat.... and you wan chop two meat...even some Simps with hot annoyance will reflex that way.

Even some young teenagers, will react that way...to their siblings, crush..


Though i might be wrong


But Bros, am not calling him a simp.....i just dey try weigh two odds.
Why that girl go get that mind at all to request for 2meat..... while her guy de with only one for public.

...No you are Left... �





quote author=Martinez39s post=105686189] So, let me get this straight, she begged that someone should help her by sending money into her account and someone offered to help. However, she disdained his help and called him a "broke ass niģga." Am I right? [/quote]

No borehole.. Welll ...advice dig borehole for your mum in her flat.. Or better yet by her a home.... You should have dialogues maturedly with the landlady see reaon Why she is acting up.. If reason fails... Then implore legal means...








quote author=Nononsenseguy post=106215838]Good day all, hope your day is going well.

I'll go straight to the point. I rented a 2 bedroom flat for my mum last year October, paid agent and lawyer fees, the agent never told me the place has the landlady living in it.

My mum was happy and moved into the apartment, I noticed that after some months she was complaining about the house, I finally went there to see her, guess what? The landlady is a devil in human form, she's an unmarried bitter human who was opportuned to inherit the building from her family.
This woman locked the well and told my mum and younger bro to source for water elsewhere, I was mad when I got to hear what she's making my family go through. I came to the house and removed the padlock she locked the well with, she called my mom and told her to pack out when her rent expires next week.

Well, since she thinks the world revolves around her and wants everyone to fear and worship her, I'll show her what real madness is.

I have decided to ask her for a refund of the agent and lawyer fees I paid since it's barely one year, she can't stress my family this way and get away with it.

To everyone reading this, I have one advice, never live in the same building with the landlord or you would have yourself to blame at the end of the day.

Please nairalanders, Is my action justified? [/quote]

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You sure you can last for 20mins.. Na lie... And you go rent room ohh... Abi you want chop slap for back of counter for area F... [color=#990000][/color]






quote author=OnyeObodo post=106170337]Give u 3k? When I can just walk down allen and select any beautiful babe and beg her with same 3k to lash for 20 minutes?[/quote]

Sir/Ma....its dump.... Not dumb..

Totilopussylick:
I love rich people

They can dumb your Ass any time any day!

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How do you make water for her.....






quote author=schumastic post=50951442]hmmm, clean it up is the best thing a guy can do for his girl, and also make some water for her to bathe that's all..although you might tease her with it, just for a laugh lol [/quote]

Spot on Bro.

MikeofKd:
These Mumu people shouting money money up and down ,is Bill Gates poor ? or Jeff Bezos ? what happened to their wives ? Dangote has been divorced up to 4 times now , you think money would keep a woman ? i pity y'all with the mentality that it only money women want.

Money is an important factor yes ,but u can't use it to get just any woman to like you and even if they do, it only fake and as soon as d money finishes they are gone like the wind . Argue with ur keypads I'm talking facts here . Low esteemed insecurity pple only thinks it money women want. Y'all chasing hungry girls then come here to spew trash. Ogbeni chase women wey get money and class already, if she Bill u make I know wetin cus am.

I've dated girls when I was dead broke cus I was attractive enough for girls to want to be around me, I didn't need to spend money on people's daughter and they appreciated my time and effort I put into d relationship that's all they even spent and bought gifts for me without asking . Change ur mentality abeg it really annoying ,if you're ugly stop using money to console ur ugly ass ,girl wey go love u go still love u ,money or no money.

You would be sorry.. For the world is filled with manipulative persons that would change the color of the story and gossip to spite you or save their Ass.. So it's better not to say a word but to listen and agree with a nod of the head... Or better yet... Emphasize the last word or sentence made....i. e.... Very bad indeed.... Unacceptable totally... Unacceptable... Or my best line..... REALLY,,!!!!

TheUndercover:
Never complain, particularly in front of others. People have their own problems to worry about; hearing about yours only annoys them.

Caveat: You can charm a person by complaining about the same thing they are complaining about. Hatebond with them; hate the same things, and the same people, who they hate.

Rather choose to give stories of people that had encountered similar situation and had either gained or loss face as a result of their decision.. Let them make up their mind... They would end up thanking you... For they already know the part they most stride, take,jump or leap into before they asked for your opinion on a matter...

TheUndercover:
Advice, Appear Receptive:

Whenever someone gives you advice you must appear receptive to it, and grateful for it. If you overtly reject someone’s advice, they will feel insulted. This is mostly true when dealing with superiors. At the same time, most advice from most people is garbage; so while you outwardly must appear receptive and grateful, inwardly you should discard it.

Avoid doling out advice to others; unsolicited advice is usually perceived as an annoyance. Even if someone does ask you for advice, be hesitant to give any since if you give advice that offends their sensibilities they will dislike you.

That being said, whenever someone tells you about some difficulty they are having, do appear to be sympathetic.

Your mum is very handsome...

Mide3367:
give example of such compliment

I hope you read...just can't understand some people... The chairman of M. A... Breeders association.....you have google do justice..






quote author=FreedomArmy post=105913388]Believe this and you will believe anything.[/quote]

CONFIDENT WOMEN DO THESE 7 THINGS DAILY

Confident women have been always shaping the world with their energy, strength and courage. Above all, they seem to live their lives as if nothing can get in their way and there are no obstacles that can stop them. Moreover, a confident woman takes on the whole world with an aura of grace and strength that ignites inspiration and respect. Above all, confident women make the world a better place.

But how do they achieve that? Is it only intrinsic factors such as their strength and ambition that paves their way to success? Or maybe they are just simply born like that? While some of this might be true, it isn’t quite right.

In fact, for most women building their self-confidence takes time, a lot of work and life experience.

And while there might not be a magic formula to gain self-confidence instantly, there 7 things all confident women do daily to achieve their healthy self-esteem.

CONFIDENT WOMEN DO THESE 7 THINGS DAILY
CONFIDENT WOMEN
Accept and love themselves for who they are.
Trust themselves.
Keep promises, to themselves and others.
Live with integrity.
Don’t doubt themselves.
Are decisive.
Are brave.
1. THEY ACCEPT AND LOVE THEMSELVES FOR WHO THEY ARE
Let’s face it. A confident woman knows that the person who she will always surely be with is herself. For the confident woman, life is too short and too precious to waste any second of it on wondering, wanting or searching for eventually other people to accept and to love her. Thus, she accepts and loves herself for who she is.

Her self-love is in the center and the deep root of her self-confidence. Therefore, a confident woman does not crave a different life, or a different body, or a different mind. She accepts, loves and takes good care of herself. Therefore, she does not do things that are not good for her. Moreover, she spends her time mostly with people who make her feel good. When she looks around herself and she sees that everything that surrounds her is exactly how it should be. And that makes her feel good and comfortable. But most importantly, she truly understands that she is the right person in the right place at the right time.

2. CONFIDENT WOMEN TRUST THEMSELVES
As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.”
― Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, Faust, First Part

Confident women know that trusting yourself is still as simple as it sounds and it’s given to all living creatures from birth. How? Never forget, that we all were born naked, hungry, tiny, with limited vision and limited control of our bodies. Not to mention our limited communication skills. We were born apparently knowing nothing about the world. It’s almost scary, how fragile we all are born. But obviously, we trust ourselves, to come to this world and we trusted the universe to survive. We all have found someone, to take good care of us, to feed us, to dress us, to love us, otherwise, we would not be able to read this right now. Thus, a confident woman knows that even if we don’t realize it, we actually always bear endless trust in ourselves.

3. THEY KEEP PROMISES
A confident woman knows that the promises she makes, make her. Thus, her self-confidence comes from integrity. So simple is that. In the first place, she knows that promises are made to be kept and not to be broken. Keeping a promise is, therefore, for her, not an option. It’s an obligation. It’s an expression of her self-love, trust, respect, and discipline.

4. CONFIDENT WOMEN LIVE WITH INTEGRITY
“If it is not right do not do it; if it is not true do not say it.”
― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

For the confident woman, living with integrity means to live in harmony with herself. Namely, her thoughts, words, and actions are in harmony. In her life, she seeks neither the favor nor the approval of others. She is true to herself. In the end, she always does the right thing even if it’s hard.

5. THEY DON’T DOUBT THEMSELVES
The moment you doubt whether you can fly, you cease for ever to be able to do it. J. M. Barrie, Peter Pan

A confident woman knows that doubt and fear defeat more people than any other one thing in the world. So, she doesn’t waste her time to doubt herself. She follows her dreams and follows her plans. She is a doer. When someone tells her “no, you cannot do it” she knows that it doesn’t mean that she can’t do it. It simply means that this is what they believe. And this is not her reality.

CONFIDENT WOMEN DO THESE 7 THINGS DAILY
6. THEY ARE DECISIVE
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing. The worst thing you can do is nothing.”
― Theodore Roosevelt

A self-confident woman is decisive. She knows that life is not about necessarily to take the right decision. She knows that you need just to take a decision and then make it right.

7. THEY ARE BRAVE
“It’s not the size of the dog in the fight, it’s the size of the fight in the dog.”
― Mark Twain

Confident women are brave. They follow their dreams, and dare to live the life they dreamed of.

Need more inspiration? Ask

10 Things Women Notice On a Man – They Pay Attention To Everything


I’ve always wondered what are the 10 things women notice on a man. I know that they are more observant, and pay attention to details much more so than men do, but I really wanted to know what is it that they really notice on a man.

I’ve done the research and what I ‘ve found may surprise you.


I sure know I was surprised when I learned that six-pack is not on the list.

So, here are some of the many surprising things women find attractive on a guy.
10. Body Language
Yes, women study you.

They pay attention to how a man carries himself. They notice your attitude, posture, the way you walk, how you act in different situations, how you treat people around you.

Your manners and a firm handshake can also fall into this category. All those little things you do, subconsciously show them whether they want to talk to you or not.

9. Confidence
Confidence is very important for a man. If you look at the floor all the time, or you’re unable to maintain eye contact it really says a lot about you. It’s no secret that women love confident men, so number 9 shouldn’t really come as a surprise.

8. Hair
Your Hairstyle is very important. Messy and unkempt hair doesn’t really scream ‘sexy’.


There’s no need to spend 45 minutes in front of a mirror to style it, though. Keep it clean and tidy. Rock your desired hairstyle and have no worries, my friend. Just make it look natural, and your sexiness will skyrocket.

7. Scent
Well, your scent can reveal a lot about you. If you smell like you’ve just finished working out, it says a lot about your hygiene. On the other hand, if you smell nice it’s a huge plus.

You don’t have to smell amazing to leave a good first impression. Take care of your hygiene, neutralize body odor, a few sprays of your favorite fragrance is all you need to do.

6. Shoes
Women love shoes. Women also love to see nice shoes on a guy. Although, I believe that the condition of your shoes is more important than shoe style, having a nice, clean pair of shoes is definitely a plus.

5. Smile
Oh yes. The way you smile also seems to be very noticeable by the ladies. The way you smile at them, especially. A warm, natural smile combined with healthy white teeth is very sexy according to women.

4. Your sexy ass style
Yup. They notice what you wear, and more importantly, they notice how you wear whatever it is that you’re wearing. No need to smash your head against the wall over this one, they don’t really care whether you’re wearing a sweater or a button up shirt, just make sure that your clothes fit you properly, are clean and don’t look like you keep them in a garage.


3. Hands
Surprised? I sure know I was when a girl told me once that I had pretty hands. I didn’t even know it was a thing, but yes. They notice your hands, and they notice everything about them. Size of your palms, size of your fingers, your nails. For some reason, they find this stuff very attractive.

2. Your voice and what you have to say
Deep voices are correlated with high testosterone levels. Testosterone is the stuff that makes you a man. So, it’s no surprise that women find a nice deep voice sexy. Do you know what else they find sexy? What you have to say with that sexy ass baritone. If you are an eloquent, deep-voiced gentleman, well, lucky you.

1. Face
Who of us would not like to have the perfect, Brad Pitt face? Unfortunately, not all of us are blessed with perfect facial proportions and a perfect Hollywood smile.

But, let me tell you something. It’s not about how pretty your face is. It’s about how you maintain what God has given you. Develop good grooming habits, keep your skin clean and healthy, maintain your beard if you wear one, eliminate the unibrow, avoid chapped lips and your face will shine.


We all want to be recognized and perceived as attractive, and that’s perfectly normal. But more often than not we get nervous and tend to miss the most obvious signs. Knowing how to recognize subtle signals that women send your way when they’re attracted is a great way to eliminate the fear of approaching and stop wasting so many chances.

Improve your game, look for any of these signs and act upon them.
You won’t regret it!

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7 Attractive Bad Boy Traits Every High-Value Man Must Poses.
It’s no secret that bad boy traits are always in high demand.

Women want bad boys and their babies. Men secretly want to be just like them.

But I’m not talking about those self-destructive bad boys who are in and out of jail all the time, even though they are sought after as well.

I’m talking about the good bad boys who have the right qualities, attitudes, and mindsets.

The ones who offer so many positive values to themselves and those close to them while also having no problems creating and dealing with conflicts, also for the sake of themselves and their loved ones.

These bad boys don’t shy away from opposition or hardships and, instead, find opportunities within difficulties to elevate themselves and improve their conditions.

These kinds of men are extremely rare to find, especially today in our homogeneous societies where everyone acts and speaks the same way to avoid attention and controversy.

In an age where masculinity is shrinking and often shamed, adopting the right bad boy traits can easily help you stand out and become a high-value man worthy of women’s attention and men’s admiration.

But that’s only if you don’t give a damn what others think.

So let’s go through the bad boy qualities every man should have to become a better and stronger version of himself.

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7 Attractive Bad Boy Traits Every High-Value Man Must Possess

1. Bad Boys Are Unapologetically Authentic
One of the very obvious bad boy traits that will stand out to you in a typical bad boy is his authenticity.




Bad boys tend to be extremely genuine without trying.

They say and do what they want regardless of what others think, and this is a polarizing mindset that engages men and women enough to draw them into their interesting lives.

People who are blessed with that trait know what they are and what they are not. They remain centered and grounded in what they believe they are and should be, regardless of the norms of their societies.

And that’s exactly why they draw people to them.

It’s a refreshing quality that shows a lot of strength and status within itself because we all know and understand what it takes to become genuine, different, and uncensored.

To just be without consideration of opinions, comments, and judgment.

That’s also why authentic people are more memorable, mysterious, and exciting.

When a woman finds an authentic man, she’ll normally get intrigued by his uniqueness and the uncommon way he presents himself. This intrigue is could easily become the starting point of sexual attraction in an interaction.



It’s that authenticity is what gives women reasons to stay and enjoy your approaches/dates. It’s your bonafide character that convinces them to give you their number and join you on your way home.

Obviously, authenticity on its own is not the only trait you must possess for attraction, but it’s a very decisive quality; it will either help pull a girl to you quickly or push her away immediately.

And that’s what you want when you’re dealing with a woman: genuine desire.

How to Become More Authenticbad boy traits
You might be convinced that authenticity is one of those good bad boy traits to have, but not sure how to ingrain it into your personality.

You might see yourself as an average man who doesn’t quite stand out in a very noticeable sense.

If this is your case, then how do you change your own personality to become more authentic, when authenticity is not about to change and more about self-acceptance, to begin with?

Wouldn’t you be faking it if you’re altering who you are?

This a very common question a lot of people ask themselves as they admire authenticity in others, but not sure how to replicate the trait in their own nature.



What those same people somehow don’t realize is that authenticity is not about copying a mindset from someone else or even adding to your character, it’s about taking away all the unnecessary thought processes, behaviors, and traits that don’t fall in line with your intuition and what you truly believe in.

When you pay close attention to the most authentic people around you, you’ll notice that they don’t think too much about how they talk and react — their actions and behaviors tend to be seamless.

They don’t hope they offend others with whatever they say and they don’t feel the need to compare themselves with others and how they dress and act.

They just listen to their intuition and act accordingly.

Now, this doesn’t mean you should only follow what your instincts tell you every single time, because that will lead to a lot of emotional reactions and reckless behavior, but it’s important to pay attention to your gut feeling and what it offers to you while using your common sense and logical thinking brain at the same time.

Stop doing something that you know isn’t right for you only and just because everyone thinks that’s the way to go.

Stop preventing yourself from taking certain opportunities and risks because your parents/friends think it won’t help, when you deep down know it’s all you’ve wanted.

When you make tuning in to your instincts a habit and communicate more with your emotional mind, you’ll gradually become more authentic.



You’ll slowly become you.

2. Bad Boys Are Unrealistically Confident
Out of all the bad boy traits, if you ask women for the number one quality they look for, most likely it’s going to be confidence.

Just look at all the bad boys women tend to flock to, you’ll notice that these men are usually extremely confident — sometimes even arrogant and borderline delusional.

And even though they come off as narcissists, girls will somehow still believe in them and what they say. Girls for them anyway.

It’s just that attractive as a trait.

If you just look at any successful individual who’s great at what they do, you’ll notice their supreme confidence in their abilities. There’s so much self-assurance that you almost think they know something you don’t.


Swag.
Confidence comes in a lot of forms; in speech, body language, eye contact, and even the internal dialogue that takes place in your own mind where nobody’s watching, and to become a confident man, you must have conviction in everything you say and do.

You must have total faith in your values, beliefs, boundaries, and standards to the point where you prioritize them over those of others.



Because without confidence, you’ll pass through life without creating and capitalizing on opportunities that could serve you and help you grow as a man in your career and relationships.

With no conviction in your values and standards, you’ll be walked all over by other men and avoided by other women.

On top of that, you’ll always feel sorry for yourself for squandering the potential to be a more capable man.

How to Be More Confident
Like any muscle that needs training, confidence is a quality that you cannot have and master it by practicing it in everything you do and say.

Until it becomes part of you.

If you’re someone who is struggling with developing self-confidence, it will be hard to get out of the comfortable low self-esteem that has been ingrained in you for a long time.

You’ll want to boost your self-esteem by being more purposeful with the way you act around others, but the problem is sometimes it won’t make a lot of sense.

Sometimes you’ll feel like you’re not being authentic and real with yourself, and sometimes you’ll feel confused and lost with how you’re supposed to act.

The best way to deal with this is being aware of your unconfident and lackluster state, and then always pushing your boundaries gradually to broaden your comfort zone past that unpleasant state.

It all starts with your inner dialogue; what you tell yourself about yourself.

Also, most likely, you already know what you’re already afraid of.

You might already know that you’re not good at public speaking, and this would be your starting point.

Or you could have an idea that approaching women is something your intuition has always wanted but you’ve continually talked yourself out of it with excuses that don’t really serve you. This is also a great starting point to deal with for a more confident version of yourself.

Remember that you’re going to suck at whatever it is you push through for a couple of times, but as long as you know that it takes a couple of more trials, time, and as long as you understand that it’s normal to suck at a new skill — even when it doesn’t make a lot of sense at times, you’ll always reap the rewards and become thankful for trying.

How Exactly Confidence Plays a Huge Role in Attraction
Women are wired to get attracted to confident men.

To deliver financially, you need a healthy degree of confidence to compete in any capitalist market.

To provide security, you need to become confident enough to able to protect your own family when the time comes. And that’s extremely important for a woman to have.

To have a healthy sexual bond with a woman, you obviously need confidence in your own physical and mental abilities to be able to keep your girl happy, in both short and long term relationships.

Women don’t usually rationally and intentionally look for confidence, they will instinctively feel it. Once they do, they will start feeling something towards you.



Because if you have enough confidence, you’ll flirt, escalate, check, and have fun with the women you’re dealing with.

When they feel your positive vibe and how sure you are of yourself, they’ll naturally just want more of that — they’ll get invested enough to enter your Frame and follow your lead knowing that being with you would be enjoyable and worthwhile.

3. Bad Boys Are Shamelessly Selfish
Bad boys are extremely selfish and they can be very ruthless about it.

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It so sad. That she still hasn't learnt anything from all going on.. No one truly cares what goes on in your home.. The next door neighbors got what bedevils them. But how you choose to portray your life to the world on social media.. Is the worst kind of validation any woman or man should do. No matter the pain you feel never feel the need to post your feelings of love or hate... Or otherwise to anyone... On social media. Take it or leave it.

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quote author=TheChameleon post=105503589]Instead of Benue men to use their testosterone and strength to fight bandits / fulani herdsmen....

Na to do cultism, screw women and kids.[/quote]

quote author=pocohantas post=105454543]The interviewer is so dull and his exclamations are ********

Whether Tuface married her or not is not our business. What we know is, Annie thought she could pull a Disney love story with a community gbola. If our husband were a human being, it would be Tuface.

Pero done kuku do breast and nyash. We die here. Na unofficial second wife she be.

Annie should take heart o. Naija men no fit retire from brolosho duties until they are old, broke and sick. They will now find their way home like the prodigal son. Straight into the bosom of the virtuous wife. She would have to spend her retirement posing for family frames, reminding him to take his drugs and cooking unripe plantain swallow with oilless vegetable soup. [/quote]

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TheRareGem1:
Adefarasin, Ekeh, Ahmadu win Forbes’ awards



https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2021/08/09/osinbajo-at-forbes-awards-says-nigeria-attracts-10bn-investment/