₦airaland Forum

ForeverYoung197:
Yes random pms. These men will keep hitting all females emails to send "hi". Then demanding for a picture but they can't even post their own. If they will send picture, that picture was taken 5years ago.
Very typical trailts of naija men.

lol. What makes you think it's just naija men?

Men are by nature chasers, that way mankind doesn't go extinct; and women by nature would style, that way mankind doesn't overpopulate the earth very quickly. Social media just makes it so obvious.

KnightRod:
The need causes the affection.. If the outcome is fleeting, the cause is faulty.

Alright, noted.

nah... Let's say the need to see in the night makes you go get a light bulb for your room. If the light bulb dies the next day, does that mean the need to see is faulty too?

I agree attraction CAN be fleeting. Let's leave it at that

ForeverYoung197:
Its true. Men just send pm randomly. Don't tell me you never did?

random pm? Shey na me jobless pass?

The average Nairaland lady is the same as the average lady in my street. Ok, not exactly the same. At least I'm sure the ladies in my street are truly ladies.

KnightRod:
sooner or later, the liker would realise the likee isn't as good as induced emotions have amplified the likee..


That should cause the affection/like to fleet or you may say, die abruptly.

oh, in that case it's the affection that's fleeting, not the need for it. Wanted to be sure what you meant. I wouldn't say I agree or disagree though.

ForeverYoung197:
Oh yeah. Men's normal job is to send pm to the ladies. As of the moment, I have no one to pin point. I will keep searching til I find that one.

seriously?

Enahi:
Love, crush or maybe infatuation

em... *scratches head* What of simple admiration?

KnightRod:
I feel the need to like another person for whatever reason is fleeting..


It makes no sense. We were all born single, we should remain single.

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the need... is fleeting? What do you mean sir?

Yes na.
Wait o... Like in what way?

This is childish. If your friend doesn't want you getting inside his phone, then mind your business... Shut him out of yours too if it will make you feel any better, but mind your damn business. Why is that so difficult to do?

southpole:
Tomorrow you will blame the governor should there be an earthquake, go and learn about natural disasters. Heavy flooding also happened in America and many other developed countries does that mean their government are not working?

this isn't a natural disaster please. Don't misuse the word 'disaster'. It's just another normal rainfall in a rainforest region. The drainage system in that state is the disaster and it's man-made.

Hmmm... Any person who attacks another person deserves everything (s)he gets, woman or not.

Some women have this bad habit of going physical on male strangers/acquaintances. I hope they get thoroughly beaten in return.

You can't be both the attacker and the victim at the same time.

Awww... Messi is this passionate about his national team even when Argentina fans are ingrates. Funny enough, some great players would never get to an international final but don't give a damn.

He's just upset. He'd play in the 2018 World Cup.

Strahovski1:
What a well articulated thread

True. In India, black women are inferior. We believe they are slaves from Africa. So most black women in India tone to become the light skin.

not surprising. Most Indians are an unpleasant mix of incurable racism and shocking chauvinism. Your caste system is despicable.

The thread would certainly appeal to like minds.

When you write so much and end up saying so little, there's a communication problem. If you are writing for the average NLder, don't use bogus words (or unexplained jargons) else no one cares.

In layman terms, what's your point sir?

BTW, it's 'happiness'; 'i' not 'y'.

Igboid:
6-1x0+2÷2 = 7, using PEMDAS
6-1x0+2÷2 = 5, using BODMAS
I don't think PEMDAS and BODMAS are basically the same.

they both give 7 bro. Review your work.

Ishilove:
NL beauty pageants are glorified popularity contests.

True. You cannot have a real beauty pageant on NL. It's all shades of impractical.

safareegurl:
the 5 neutral judges will ensure it's not a popularity contest.

It's the same tactic used in pageants worldwide. You couldn't pick enough holes in the idea and you think it's not smarter than what you have now?

You don't see people questioning the top 5, it's just the winner.

This is far smarter than what is on ground, you just won't admit it because that would mean admitting the current process is flawed

safarigirl, you are better than this; smarter too. You are taking this very personal and I wonder why. Aren't you the same person who has been lamenting the way people overhype looks and disregard nicer but plain ladies? What's happening?

There's always room for improvement. If you have a suggestion, air it peacefully without having to attack anyone's intellect or credibility. Right now you are sounding like a wounded lioness on the prowl.

Make your suggestions... If they accept or not, you've done your part. I've read most of your contributions so far and I only sense antagonism. You raised valid points, some others watery. Still I'm curious... Do you really want the contest to improve or you are just pissed that the majority could have an opinion different from yours?

Joavid:
no need for the epistle. you voted for her cos you pitied her. she was being cyberbullied.

now I get it. she tapped into the aspect of emotionally stunted Nigerians like you who are petty.

that's why the country is in a shytehole.
we don't vote for the right reason.
we don't speak up for the right reason.


you left brilliant contestants and voted for an airhead because of pity.

most Nigerians are useless

aunty, kindly shut the hell up and stop sounding like a broken record.

It's pride that makes one think she's a better judge than others in subjective maters.

telemapreye1:

not even thanks?

mysticgal:
I have tried to ignore other mentions, but I need to address you dear...... See, I never failed. First this is a contest and one person must go with the Crown but me failing... Huh? No I was never, I mean never in a competition with anybody but myself, so I never failed. Please be corrected. Thanks

Oahray likes this...

You are queen material, mysticgal.

telemapreye1:
Taa those bleaching cream beauty

lol. We forgive your ignorance.

Wtf is this 'yoruba vs igbo' rubbish you guys are bringing up? What has tribalism got to do with this? Nairaland is for Nigerians (mostly), keep your stewpid tribalism rants in your offline pockets!

Lanicky, if you don't support them, especially those happy you are yoruba or from Ondo, let your stance be known. Your work begins already.

CrazyScientist:
the spin of the earth is gradually slowing down ,but we dont feel it cause it gradual and with the size of the earth compared to its speed we dont feel it, like a car that makes a right or left turn every 6hours, Read more on how we can affect the speed of the earth's rotation (and what would happen if every single person on earth jumps at the exact same time) here: https://nerdvarsity./2016/06/25/what-if-every-one-on-earth-jumped-at-once/#more-41

well I feel it when I'm in a car and it makes a left or right turn, slow or fast.

So how do you know the spin of the earth is slowing down? Guesses like most speculative theories?

Deejavuu:
I said hi, from the other side

hmmm...

sade1994:
Coz she has friends? It's now a popularity contest now Abi..
Nice coz u know her on a personal level bah
She's beautiful? Of course in her own way.. .but she ain't competing with herself... Is she?

anything that involves voting by the public is a popularity contest. Why do you think they campaign with their supporters? To entertain you?

She's has won, she has won, that beautiful soul. Do yourself a favour and quit the moaning. Being sore about it wouldn't even scratch her crown

Deejavuu, well done

joseph1832:
Then compete for pleasure. You can give the money to charity, should you win it. Lol.

lol. Win ke? Where una dey? I'd remember my 'charity' alright. She's never far off

sade1994:
seriously? This is a big sabotage. I smell a foul play. How can that girl win? What qualifies her to be a winner? I've never seen her as a big opponent in this competition. Would really want to know what made her win where we have other contestants like minzy and Ivy.. .


Abeg let the truth be told, the crown doesn't fit her.

Mehn I'm so angry..
F*uck glo network too

Everything is just going wrong this night

lol. E can pain. She won because not everyone is shortsighted. She won because she has friends. She won because she's nice. She won because she's beautiful.

Sleep well

joseph1832:
Mr Ray. Hope you're dusting your writing pad and getting it ready for the Nairaland Poetry Competition. I hope Seun will extend his generosity by sponsoring the years contest, like he did this. And I also hope the current miss Nairaland will join and put pen on paper, since her hobbies are writing poems and stories. LOL.

What sayeth thee?

ah! Would be epic. How can I refuse? Please don't forget to mention me when it's time.

I don't enjoy competing for money though.

Evathyst:
My candidate lost nau!



Despite all that we invested into this competition she still lost. Why are the gods like this?

it happens, learn from it and move on. You win some, you lose some. Cheer up jor. 2nd position isn't bad at all. Some persons didn't make the finals.

Evathyst:
I'm speechless!

why?