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All of the above share a bit of the blame. From the man without self control to the selfish home wrecker to the wife not doing her part (unless she's doing her part). How many women actually continue to be as sweet to their husbands as they were before marriage?

The man and the lady he cheats with are the major culprits though.

Had to like this... Especially the part about taking responsibility.

All for beauty? Why are you painting every guy a freak? I dunno about you, but I'm not obsessed with looks. There are pretty girls everywhere, something else should make her special and worth any attention.

Op please what is agape love? What has it got to do with a guy professing romantic feelings for a girl?

Una no even dey make research before creating topics.

Well written. While cheating isn't justified, it doesn't happen for no reason. Nice points...

I don't agree with points 1-3 as to why cheating may be your fault. They are watery. As for points 4-6 and 8, I don't see how they can make a person cheat.

The only contributory reason though, is point 7, in the case of lack of satisfaction of basic needs. But we have to restrict it to sexual needs, and to situations where attempts at communication break down.

When you are hungry, it's harder to turn down an offer of food.

Some guys are even guilty of bleaching too, yet people would like to make it seem it's just girls, and it's all girls.

Funny how you notice a girl more after she gets lighter, yet you pretend you like it natural. Make we hear word jor. There are more important issues on which you can correct girls, not one guys support directly or indirectly.

That horse is dead, but you can keep flogging for your amusement.

Why would anyone offer me that much just to make me quit a relationship? I'm naturally curious. If it's too good to be true, it most likely isn't.

ayusco85:
Cc: Lalasticlala, ishilove, seun,

if this crap enters front page, I go deactivate, leave NL for una.

Smh... Some people don't know how to deliver the killer punch. Quietly gather as much irrefutable evidence as you can, then you can attack.

If he's disturbing you on phone, get a phone that records calls automatically. Then play along. Take pics and record videos when possible. Never alert him to your intention, until you strike. If I were you, I'd have this thread hidden and go lowkey.

Never punch soft. It's a crime.

Pipsland78:
This fraudster of a trekker is still wearing this same clothe?

Reasons he's fraud:
1) Nobody saw him trekking along all other states other than Lagos, Ekiti and Niger states.
2) His phone battery never went dead all along, how did he charge his phone battery?
3) He never changed his clothes yet he didn't die of stench from the clothe.
4) He had only one bottle of water with him all along.
5) He never lost his way. How come he knows the route so perfectly.
6) It's simply not possible to cover that distance in 19 days except you trekk non-stop which no human can do.
7) Where was he when it rained? where did he sleep when it was dark? What did he eat when hungry? How did he survive the dangerous lonely nights?

The dude is faker than Abacha's smile.

you dey mind dem? It's always easier to deceive a man when you first stroke his ego. Buhari never even enter power, dem don already dey play with e intelligence. Dude is too flattered by the 'love' to recognise the sham.

How can you fight corruption if you can't recognise it?

Highly educative. I'm so saving this page.

You just dey make me jealous lollipop users sha

Yaaaay! Up Centje. You deserve it jor

Gosh... Privacy is dead

YoshiMaster:
For every girl that has ever rejected me in this life, I shall pay them back with a most successful me. That's my word!

awww...

A perfect woman? Lol. Ok we are going idealistic. Let's see... She should possess all these:

- Totally smart
- Extremely beautiful with loooong hair
- Very humble
- Completely selfless
- Can speak at least 7 languages
- Can play at least 6 musical instruments
- Have great sense of humour
- Possess unwavering loyalty (for her one man)
- Possess excellent communication skills
- Can cook any food as long as you tell her what it looks like
- Can dance very well
- Doesn't nag
- Doesn't gossip
- Totally tactful in speech and actions

*continues reading from long list*

Reporting far from reality, I am Oahray

5) Loyal and
7) smart. Gimme change

Prodeegee:
She won't o. Soon she'll open a thread "prodeegee corrected my english". Popularity seeker iranu‎

You should stop stalking her though. See your signature na.

ireneony:
fuuuk you!
why do you keep on following me then

before i open my eyes unfollow me this minute

or do you think am here to impress anyone.

zookeeper!

well, you really didn't write it correctly. You should be grateful, if anything. What exactly is wrong with you girls of these days? You want guys to kiss your feet despite the stink?

Accept correction and move the hell on.

chigomiced:
check again

smh. He chose to add an (f) in front of his moniker instead of crediting his source.

Says alot.

chigomiced:
i knew i was gonna touch sum1's life today

life experiences is my source

A female wrote this, and you aren't female. Please credit your source.

Lol. I wonder what you mean by touching someone's life though.

Lol. I'd say it belonged to the family of the high priest Caiaphas, likely his wife. It was evidently in his courtyard that it crowed.

Awww... She's too embarrassed to reply.

Op, I know it's easy to just write whatever you like with an alternate account, but you should be considerate, at least with those whom you claim to admire.

rudebouy:
Some women are grateful. Some are not. U cant put all women in one category.

I used to date a girl dat appreciates d little 200 naira airtime like it was 5,000 naira. D day I bot her a gown, she want scata ma head with appreciation. Can u imagine wot she did d day I gave her 15k? Back den I cd forego my salary for her becos of her attitude of gratitude.

I had anoda chic dat I gave a set of earings and necklace made of pearls, she kissed me for like 30mins straight. I had to beg her to stop.

Den der was a chic u wd send her 5k and she wd say "Okay, I don see am." Finito!

I also rememba a lady on nairaland who sed her boyfriend. As in boyfriend oh, had two cars while she was trekking around, and d dude cant even give her one. Na boyfriend e be oh! I just wished d guy saw dat post and knew her monicka.

So u will always have d grateful and ungrateful. Which is more, I cant tell.

well said. There are jewels among stones

Awesome piece... I can totally relate. I actually was once in that kind of relationship where the lady bases her perception of you on the opinion and experiences of others. A breakup was inevitable. It's a terrible thing to date a lady without a mind of her own.

When one believes something enough, he/she actually starts to see or feel it. When a lady strongly believes her man to whom she isn't married, is up to no good, it's no use remaining in the relationship and tormenting the guy with your glaring distrust.

Op, don't forget to put your source o.

Mzflexydeeva:
some guys can really be pathetic

noted.

Mzflexydeeva:
and am sure you and yourself make up the two guys right Jeez! I believe the introduction stated "even when you know she's lying and still smiles"



Gets a chilled holladia and keeps moving

hmmm... You seriously mean to tell me that you do not know that 'a COUPLE of your male friends' is the same as 'TWO guys'?

Some girls can be so disappointing

I disagree with this on many levels, but mostly because it seeks to justify cheating and it makes the woman the perpetual victim, the one who never cheats, has total control of her desires and has an awesome view of marriage and commitment.

Neatly written all the same.

You created this based on what just two guys told you?

You sef no even use your mind take drop the most ridiculous ones.

You do know that guys aren't exactly carried away by words the same way as girls, don't you?

Hmmm... Nice.

If they were good mathematicians, they wouldn't have had a problem with approximations. The wise man knew how to deal with simple minds. He knew how to see beyond what the average eyes can, yet patiently teach them to see it too.

Edit your topic though. '18th camel'. It's just one camel.

khassy:
and that's not a point abiiijj

just in case you dunno

THAT'S THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT IN A PHONE IN NIGERIA

use Nokia torchlight then. Their battery dey last wella.

Carlcaresophia:
Pls take your phone to our Carlcare Service Center and ask our colleagues to check it for you. Thank you!

wetin dem ask you different from wetin you dey answer. Na wa o.