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Nubian113:
*let me get comfortable because this might take awhile*

Modified:


Wow. It's not very often that I get to really learn something in the romance section but today I found a blessing because like oahray I was foolish and believed that love concurred all.

That while there was love I could put up with the points the mentor mentioned.

I would let myself be devalued, delayed, deceived, dishonored and disregarded just to hear him say I love you.

Today by the grace of my higher being I now understand that love is shown and not just uttered.


*So let me grow an ancient beard and sit amongst the wise sharing kola with the op*

lol. Sit with me jor *offers her kola*

Foolish wasn't exactly the word for mine sha. Your level be high pass my own... Like well well

Forwetinnah:
...and I'm supposed to be scared? Eish, I'm peeing in my pants
Let the disrespect kontinu* yes, I said it

lol

Forwetinnah:
I will so help in disrespecting the in-coming one. Let the disrespect kontinu*

don't be too sure you'd get away with it. Not everyone is as gentle as GEJ.

When Nigerians don't respect their own presidency, why should another country help us do so?

SAZZYSKOLY:
Any day arsene wenger beats morinho I will commence my own walk from PH city to LONDON promise

why una dey make senseless promises wey una no go keep?

When e happen now, you go say na Morinho you talk, not Mourinho

English football too boring jor

Kedam:
Who taught you that ! Do ur research a lot of girls starts having sex at an early age of 14 if not lower unlike guys. I still know some members of Nigeria Association of Male Virgins(NAMV) lol who will never tell u they are one. Male virgin plenty of which I am one. If I tell u I am one I am sure u go think na joke.

smh. Bros, you too rush reply without first understanding what you want to counter. You just repeated exactly what she said, with a different set of words.

Brugo:
Women are natural psychologists. They are experts in manipulation. They want to prepare the ground so that you will react and break up with them by yourself.

Best thing is to carry face comot. Act like you can't see what they are doing. Two can play the game.

why play the game when you can cut her out of your life? Saves time and energy that would have been used to pretend.

machinegundammy:
mentioning the 2 year when it's not yet September is like boasting your team don reach champions league final when you still get bayern to play for the semi final

lol. Guy, na you sabi. Barca don reach final

Princecalm:
He must be a good footballer.
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If a persons fails you once shame to him but if twice then shame on you.

hmmm... When I was young, that quote used to be "If a person fools you once..."

How things change.

A guy who openly flirts with other girls and only wants your body, is loving you right?

Please stick to repairing phones. Recognising love isn't your thing.

djeezy:
Could've been from different men. Lol

exactly

2sex:
bros, it's not me o. I saw it somewhere and I decided to share it here.

better post source before your fellow guys start to chyke you

Hmmm... Op sorry ehn.

Were I to advise you as a friend, I'd have told you never to start a relationship on social networks. It's too deceptive a medium to start anything serious. While it has truly worked for some, they are by far the minority.

Unless you have really poor social skills that cannot be improved, I'd suggest you make your search face to face. Go out of your comfort zone, if possible, depending on what you want. If you are looking for a serious life partner, it's worth the effort and worth that time you feel you don't have.

What's with the virgin bashing na? I believe it's better to keep it as an achievement than to gain a reputation as a public toilet.

To each one his own, choices and resultant consequences.

Teempakguy:
It has a fuel? It has requirements? What you just said shows that you know nothing about love. Once you begin with the 'requirements' it just became conditional, and anything that is conditional is not true love abeg. Happy Sunday.

there's no such thing as unconditional love in reality.

This your opinion of love is one major reason why many marriages crumble faster than weak buildings today. Marriage mates fold their hands and wait for love to do the magic.

Then when their mates find it difficult to get over their inaction or any of their foul flaws, they quickly question his/her love and subsequently, faithfulness. The fights begin. Another marriage licks the dust.

Don't work on your self, keep dreaming of a love that happens for no reason at all.

This is an overly romanticised picture of love. True love is selfless, loyal and enduring, but it has requirements. Like a fire, it needs fuel.

It doesn't just happen, else everyone would fall in love (romantic) with just anyone and everyone, including close blood relatives and persons of the same sex. The fact that we can't figure out any reason why, doesn't mean there's no reason why.

If it's up to your heart to decide, then it doesn't just happen on it's own. Not even in romance novels and fairytales.

Nice piece, only as a feel-good writ though.

Postus Articulatus!

*pasting GBAM stickers all over post*

I agree with all of this. Every point.

When I was young, and naive, I thought 'love' was all that mattered. I thought it was heroic to overlook every flaw, in the name of love, without looking out for myself.

But now... *stroking ancient beards and sharing kola with op*

phoebe69:
Why is the woman always to blame when the man cheats? Even if you serve him ur p..... y on a plate as breakfast lunch and dinner, he will still cheat. Except u are rescued by the almighty himself.

that's not true. Maybe the men you know are that way, but they don't represent every man out there. Women aren't all the selfless and innocent victims you are painting them either.

I'm interested. What if I'd like to give her a private jet? Please where do I go?

Kolade354:
sure i knw i av to step-up mai game but me and you are not in d same klass kid........Now go and Pick Beans.

lol. At least you know that your intent is crudely plain. Ok step your game up then. You don't have to worry about thanking me either.

You are right about the class part. If we were in the same class then I, like you, would throw stones at my prey and hope that they somehow run into my hunting bag while charging at me.

prettythicksme:
expantiate more on dat number3!!!

oh, you mean expatiate. Alright...

Scenario A: You are well fed and a random friend serves you your favourite dish.

Scenario B: You are starving and a random friend serves you your favourite dish.

Which offer would you more likely reject?

Kolade354:
And hw is dat ur fvking business if i want to woo her........This is hw u gossip street to street O.D.E

you are derailing with your boring predictability, that's how.

Step up your game, but stop derailing first.

prettythicksme:
expantiate!!

pardon?

Kolade354:
Dnt be lost dearie dis is Nairaland not Linda Ikeji Blog...............

abeg woo am if you wan woo am, and spare the world this boring drama

prettythicksme:
op d numbe3 tho,how can a wife hold down his husband at home?it is by sex,showing care,cooking good food,being romantic or what?u berra pull out dat number3

it says 'holding it down'. It's not the same as holding the husband down. It's a slang for taking care of something, being in charge.

I don't see why it should be taken down.

PunkyOh:
Maybe they thought you were crazy. Picking insects off stray puppies & stopping on them does sound a little cray cray.

lol. He didn't pick off the ant. He just stepped on it where it was.

Ok, seen. Joke section please.