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I wish you'll watch your weight from excess 'wacing' (eating) in 2011 

mukina2:
i wish you'll only have eyes and ears for me

Am all yours honey i wish you'll believe and trust me more in 2011

I also wish you'll be treasured more than diamonds in 2011

I wish you stop poking your nose in other people's personal affairs in 2011 and mind your own business

mukina2:
i wish he'll pop the big question  to me next year

I wish she'll say 'Yes' to my big question next year

Dont you just envy this man

Everything about him is news, when he coughs, sick, sleep, harassed, joke, laugh. . . is all news.

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
A) he may be the problem here and therefore marriage to anyone would be as fruitless as yours.
B) the minute you accept this BS, and his new bride gets pregnant, is the minute you will become worthless in this union. i can already see the abuse flying day in and day out till you decide to jump in the lagoon to end it all.
C) even if you were sterile, if he has a problem with it then you guys should divorce and each find happiness elsewhere. staying and being humiliated in such manner will only show your low self esteem and lack of emotional strength.
D) the fact that your OWN blood would consider such evil man, and be a concubine is alarming. 9ja women would really do ANYTHING to get the "wife" status. NIGERIA NA WA OH!

True.

I wish you stop daydreaming and join the winning club-Arsenal in 2011

The answer on the average is No. (even though I believe there are still many exceptionally good and rare breed Nigerians out there)

But I agree with 9ijaman, an effective solution will be top-down approach. Give us some good, inspiring and exceptionally good leaders, and you'll see many Nigerians inspired to walk the path of honor.

Also, I think the corruption was top-down, cos many Nigerians stop believing in Nigeria cos of the attitudes of their leaders, so the solution should naturally follow same approach, even though i agree it will take time.

chaircover:
. . . . . .  .OK folks so I didn't get the X5 (well not a real one anyway) 

[b]But I did get a nice wrist watch, so I am going to be content and say oga thank you very much & of course I am going to pray harder so that for Xmas 2011 it will be a Range Rover Sport. . . . .in White  ;[/b]D

@Femmy motors; I suggest you contact Mr CC and start collecting Installments from now 

Good girl wife! (clap for yourself ) Dont worry, Xmas 2011 will take care of itself

Abydee,

As I said earlier, this man is wired differently from you. You two should probably not have married in the 1st place. You have only 2 choices: dumb him (most convenient) or accept him as he is and make the best out of him.

I understand you husband type, The truth is that the more you complain, the more frustrated he becomes and the more you grow apart.  It is a tough call to change him (might require changing yourself 1st) but if you are wise and patient you will squeeze out honey from his rock. here are few tips:

1. Stop complaining, dont demand or expect more for now (that way you'll never be disappointed)

2. Appreciate the 'little' he is offering you genuinely

3. Spice up his life with love - keep telling/showing him through your words, actions, text msgs, gifts etc how much you love and appreciate him even when he doesn't give back

4. keep encouraging him and tell him you believe in him and his dreams

5. Get out of the box and spice up your sex life. I always believe that a smart woman should know how to turn his man on, no mater how frigid he is.

If you are able to do these, you will see him gradually giving in more and possibly change him for life. But dont expect it so soon.

Siena:
Illegal, no. Immoral, yes.

True

Patience

OP

The truth is that your husband is wired differently from you as far as showing love and being romantic is concerned and it will take forever to change him.

Now that you know/understand him, I will advice you become more creative in getting the fun/happiness you want from him with the way he is.

Waste of time. There is no case to answer.

Eddy216:
Urgent pls forward the police report form to my email, Kachi_kalu@yahoo.com

forwarded.

Dont you ladies know that the economic melt-down has not molded-up yet, abeg try listen to financial news and free my brothers jor 

Hi darling, where have you been? and you know the weather is not friendly this season at all. . .I miss you.

Sagamite:
Can anyone tell me if this is another candidate for castration? 

He is 84 and she is 24!!!

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-12080521

Certainly!

Only that this time around the 'castrator' will be the 24 yr old girlfriend and what will be castrated is Hefner's heart

Why do you think the girl cried after collecting the ring? she was weeping for the soon to be announced burial of the man but smiling inside for fortunes she is about to inherit

Romeo4real:
Lol! That is an understatement!

+10

I wish you have a mind of your own in 2011

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=573716.msg7411013#msg7411013 date=1293366067]I wish you 10,000 dirty slaps in 2011 for poking your nose into my Profy [/quote]I wish you have more sense of humor and cooler temper in 2011

I wish u'll take mbulela's advice concerning Mukina2 now and in the future

I also wish you read more than you post. 4500+ posts in less than 4 months. . . haba!

And be more productive in the 2010

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=574674.msg7409812#msg7409812 date=1293334976]Ekitis have no problem with anyone. WHO we have problem with are our politicians and "elections". Apart from that, wetin we wan [b]logger [/b]anyone's [b]head [/b]for?  We're a peaceful bunch  [/quote]Ekitis were always at logger heads with the Ondo people before the state was divided - fact. The point of my argument is that in the event the Yourubas becoming a nation, we cannot be too sure that the debate of Igbos vs Yoruba vs Hausa will not be shifted to to the debate of Egba vs Ijebu vs Ekiti vs Ondo vs Ijesha. Even if Ekiti should become a nation, the debate might shift to Ado vs Ikere vs Ikole etc.

Splitting at this time will be difficult (though not impossible) and will come with its own complications. The 1st challenge is: 'what will be the defining lines?'

If we dont identify the real reasons why we cannot live peaceable together and deal with it, how are we going to be sure that after splitting, Egbas will not be at logger head with the Ijebus, Ijesha with Ekitis, Kanuri with Nupes, Irhobos with Itsekiri, Binin with Ishan, owerri with Aba, etc.

I dont think the solution is splitting, there is beauty and strength in our diversity, if we only know how to maximize it. The real solution to our problem is True federalism with a smaller and less powerful center.

Whaoooooo! y me these are lovely. . .

Gbawe:
My brother , let us be proud Nigerians as well as proud Lagosians . Both can sit side by side. In that respect we should celebrate achievers like Fashola and Amaechi together rather than fall for the bait of tribalists who want us to pit them against each other. I am sure both Amaechi and Fashola will be embarrassed about the support they have from ethnic bigots considering that both individuals seem to believe in merit and ability above other considerations.

You are right bro. I just wonder why people must just criticize for criticism sake. I really have nothing against Amaechi, but I dont have much info about his activities and i wish some of them will at least mention some of his good works worthy of commendation, alas, they fail cos they only want to criticize Fashola for nothing.

We should not just complain when our leaders are not doing well, we should also remember to commend them when they are doing a good thing. Imagine someone calling that hero-worship

Merry Christmas!

babapupa:
Actually, it was a dumb comparison and I'll tell you why.


Rivers state yearly budget with 5-6 million people to serve is higher than Lagos with 18 million people and the heaviest human and infrastructural demand.


With Lagos state building the most mordern bridge in the whole of West Africa, commissioning roads, housing estates, old people homes, transit homes for abused women, modern pars and recreation centers, drivers institutes, water works, hospitals, constructing the most sophisticated expressway in Africa (10 lane Badagry Expressway with BRT and Metro Rail access) biggest environmental renewal in Africa and still have to serve and produce for 18 million people.

Shouldn't the clown be asking and showing us what the same Amechi is doing with the largest budget in Nigeria to serve just 5-6 million people and less infrastructural demand?


See why you can not pay attention to these clowns and loser. I know they are always looking for a hero to carry on their shoulder to needlessly counter anything Yoruba because of their silly tribal competition that's not even close, but unfortunately, they got a long way to go.

Thank you jare babapupa. Am so proud to be a Lagosian

let all the haters and losers jump into Majidun river for all i care. Funny enough none of them is able to mention those laudable completed projects/activities of Amaechi that beat Fashola hands down.

Eko o ni baje jor.

lol

angeltebo:
man i feel so sorry for you but don't worry. one day you will look back and smile over it. if to get another wife is a problem, hmmmmmm  don't worry, i have a friend who is looking for a GOD fearing man, loving, caring, understanding and full time working or legal business man. if you fit the description please send me email on my private mail so that i can hook you up. i am not an enemy of progress, i want you to be happy again. well by the way she is a South African, You know how we are created, BIG BIG LOAD TO CARRY ALONG. i hope you get strength. byeeeee.  oooh here is my email   tinavuyo@yahoo.co.uk

dayokanu:
One woman's loss is anothers gain

hahahahaha. lol

OP, here comes your solution 

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=570469.msg7399451#msg7399451 date=1293159271] Ha ha, how can Jennykadry get a love letter and I don't get one Nobody should settle this fight oh [/quote]start praying and fasting now. . . you might just get a Christmas card before the year ends

chaircover:
. . . . Oops I seem to be stepping on a lot of toes these days. Think its time to start my Xmas holidays

Because one or two people disagree with your opinion doesn't change the fact that you are always loved and appreciated dear. . . Merry Christmas CC.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=573412.msg7399410#msg7399410 date=1293157483]Se Olorun kan ti e wa?  [discussion for another thread/day]
ki le n se fun keresimesi?[/quote]Hmnnn! Why? cos you lost a friend? much as I dont like discussing religion on NL, invite me for the discussion when you open the thread.