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TV/MoviesRe: Top Ten Movies That Make You Cry by OAM4J: 2:53pm On Jul 01, 2010
The Champ! cry
FamilyRe: I Found Messages My Wife Wrote Toanother Man When We Were Together by OAM4J: 1:54am On Jul 01, 2010
And now that you know the truth, what you do with it is entirely your decision. Good luck.
PoliticsRe: Ekwueme: PDP Agreed On Rotational Presidency by OAM4J: 1:52am On Jul 01, 2010
Kobojunkie:
So, you are essentially admitting we are probably getting the same old bag in a different ethnic group, but for some reason you are ok with it this time around?
Where and when did i say that? I am not a PDP member or supporter.
PoliticsRe: Ekwueme: PDP Agreed On Rotational Presidency by OAM4J: 1:31am On Jul 01, 2010
^^ 1st, what I mean is that Nigeria cannot get worse than it is presently.

About Jonathan getting PDP ticket, that it is already a done deal.

Why was Ogbulafor sacked/forced to resign? with less than N1B spent in the right places and people like Obj behind him, he has PDP ticket already.

Kobo you know naija now, or has anything changed recently?
CareerRe: She Sacked Me because Am A Lesbian by OAM4J: 12:45am On Jul 01, 2010
maltinal:
let her hold her job,God will provide another one for you[b] in jesus name[/b]
hmnnnn, I dont think Jesus answers the prayers of homosexuals o, or it's not the same Jesus I know.

Notice this is your very 1st post undecided anyway, welcome to Nairaland.
PoliticsRe: Ekwueme: PDP Agreed On Rotational Presidency by OAM4J: 12:43am On Jul 01, 2010
udezue:
Let's renege it and wait for heaven and earth to collide.
for once I agree with you. Let the heaven fall. Can it get worse than it is?
PoliticsRe: Unbelievable: Ettehgate Bags National Award In Nigeria by OAM4J: 12:32am On Jul 01, 2010
Whao! shocked shocked shocked shocked

These are honors without honor to dishonorable people.

Even my local area chieftancy titles seems to have more honor than these national awards
PoliticsRe: Ganging Up Against Jonathan – 3 Reasons Why Arewa Mob Action Will Fail by OAM4J: 12:19am On Jul 01, 2010
Interesting article, I agree with most part of it.

I sincerely wish we can have a truly free and fair election in 2011.
PoliticsRe: Ekwueme: PDP Agreed On Rotational Presidency by OAM4J: 11:52pm On Jun 30, 2010
IMO, if Jonathan decides to contest, he would still not be breaking the agreement except the agreement stipulates that each zone must have two terms.

After Obj (south) came Yaradua (north), so it is the turn of the south or was it Jonathan or Southern conspiracy that killed Yaradua?
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Appoints Former Governor Diepreye Alamieyeseigha To Fg Committee by OAM4J: 6:27pm On Jun 30, 2010
[quote author=onye_ngbu link=topic=471210.msg6310268#msg6310268 date=1277917623]You better start caring about other people's side of story. especially when it was about Nigerian politics.[/quote]My point is that, his side of the story is very irrelevant because the facts are obvious for all to see.

Besides of what use is his side of the story coming after 4 years.
SportsRe: Jonathan Bans Nigeria From International Football For Two Years by OAM4J: 6:15pm On Jun 30, 2010
What?   shocked shocked shocked huh

Wahala dey o !
PoliticsRe: Much Ado About Nothing? Crazy Pple by OAM4J: 5:54pm On Jun 30, 2010
Nonsense!
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Appoints Former Governor Diepreye Alamieyeseigha To Fg Committee by OAM4J: 5:48pm On Jun 30, 2010
[quote author=onye_ngbu link=topic=471210.msg6310112#msg6310112 date=1277915516]I am not saying that Alams is not a thief and I am not also in position to say he is  . . . .

below is the link to his own side of the story.

http://www.sunnewsonline.com/webpages/news/national/2010/may/23/national-23-05-2010-001.htm


This is what he said about dressing like a woman to return to naija.[/quote]Who cares what his side of story is?

The fact remains that he stole money, laundered money, arrested in UK, he jumped bail in UK ran back to Nigeria, after he was impeached, was arrested and taken to court, he pleaded guilty and was convicted.

So tell me which part of the above is not clear enough?
CultureRe: Should Inter-tribal Marriages Be Encouraged? by OAM4J: 5:09pm On Jun 30, 2010
Whatever rocks your boat, each to his choice/preference.
CareerRe: She Sacked Me because Am A Lesbian by OAM4J: 4:59pm On Jun 30, 2010
Either in Nigeria or anywhere else, when you engage in what your boss detest you stand the risk of losing your job. SIMPLE.

The lady knew she was doing what her boss detest, she got caught and she got fired. You dont shi.t where you eat.

The boss did what any rational human being will do and as far as the laws of Nigeria is concerned she is justified.


@Uju

You can date your boss' child (male or female) for as long as your boss is cool with it, if not, you stand the chance of losing your job.

It doesn't make the boss right, but which boss will keep a considered threat/enemy around if he can afford to keep the enemy far away?
CrimeRe: Ghana-based Nigerian Named In Fraud Ring by OAM4J(mod): 4:13pm On Jun 30, 2010
Jesus wept cry
PoliticsRe: Plateau Pledges 100% Vote For Jonathan In 2011 by OAM4J: 4:13am On Jun 30, 2010
PapaBrowne:
On the simple basis that he is currently putting Nigeria back on track.
So Nigeria is now getting getting back on track huh. . . WHAOOOOO, This is news to me. tell me more.

PapaBrowne:
You are talking about[b] Agenda[/b]. Haba. Have we recovered already from the punishments meted out on us by YarAdua's seven point Agenda?

Abeg, we don't want agendas. We want action. Simple and short. No agendas any more. Just freaking get to work. And I think  Jonathan is doing just that.
Yaradua 7 point agenda is a punishment, undecided so on what agenda has Jonathan been performing his action or it is a case of 'as the spirit leads'

How do you follow or campaign for someone you dont know his agenda - (vision, goal, aspirations, targets, plan of action)?  huh
FamilyRe: I Found Messages My Wife Wrote Toanother Man When We Were Together by OAM4J: 3:43am On Jun 30, 2010
webelite:
women can never be trusted, but what i will tell you is that you should make sure you are satisfying your wife so that she wont go outside.
There are many honest and wonderful women all around, I dont know the kind of women you are surrounded with though undecided

@OP

I am a Nigerian man. Nigerian women dont talk like that. I in your shoes would not be able to swallow that from the woman I love.

And it will take only God speaking loud and clear, possibly with thunder and lightning, asking me to forgive her before I forgive her.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nland Cult:"so Called Founding Fathers Who Run Rackets In Nairaland. . .e.g Odia by OAM4J: 2:56am On Jun 30, 2010
Very funny grin grin grin grin grin cult indeed grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Quick Q? by OAM4J: 2:38am On Jun 30, 2010
dayokanu:
Cakeboyz,

You said you dad is a MP does this mean Mobile Police aka Mopol
lol  grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin



Cakeboy

I know many teenagers love TV and internet, but you are wasting too much of your time on them.

Now be a good boy and make your daddy proud by spending more time on your studies and less time on TV and internet.
PoliticsRe: 2011: Babangida To Set Up Offices In 32 States by OAM4J: 2:23am On Jun 30, 2010
BTW why offices only in 32 states and not 36 states and Abuja.

He owes every single state in Nigeria and Abuja - Its pay back time.

My advice is simple, poverty or not, Nigerians should collect as much as they can from him and on election day vote him out by voting for the right man. cool
PoliticsRe: Plateau Pledges 100% Vote For Jonathan In 2011 by OAM4J: 2:09am On Jun 30, 2010
Excuse me people. Has Jonathan declared his intension to contest?

What agenda is he planning to implement? How does he intend to achieve them?

If he has not given answer to the above, I wonder on what basis someone is promising him 100% vote huh
PoliticsRe: Clueless Abia Govnor Quits Ppa As Party Loses All Governorship Mandates! by OAM4J: 2:00am On Jun 30, 2010
Another Godfather-Godson relationship gone bad. Unfortunately Abia is worse for it.

It same old shyt story.
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Appoints Former Governor Diepreye Alamieyeseigha To Fg Committee by OAM4J: 1:51am On Jun 30, 2010
Sagamite:
We should not jump the gun, it might not be true.

It might be another case of "useless naija journalists".
I want to assume the bold is the case and Jonathan is not that foolish.

It will not be the 1st time Saharareporters will publish a false story and they also failed to mention the name of the Federal government committee.
CrimeRe: Shocker!!! My Husband Is A Serial R.a.p.i.s.t by OAM4J(mod): 4:39pm On Jun 29, 2010
Damysa:
@mutter
Kaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii no wonder the bible say my people perish cos of lack of knowledge.
well didnt know I should have done that. The rage in me beclouded my thinking, Though mucus was discovered at night during bath. everything happened real fast

Anyways as it is now, admit I wasnt sensible enough in some areas.

Now that the deed has been done can u guys itemize the options available to me.

How do I proceed from now onhuh? That's wot is important for me
Good you have changed your daughter school, the next important step is what chaircover said, keep the child within your eye shot.

Also if you notice anything unusual around her, go to the experts (Doctors, Medical lab etc) immediately

As per your husband, what solution is he seeking for? has he started seeking and getting one?
PoliticsRe: Fashola Donates Crèche To Church To Mark His Birthday. by OAM4J: 3:39pm On Jun 29, 2010
Nice way to mark a birthday. Happy Birthday to BRF.
CrimeRe: Shocker!!! My Husband Is A Serial R.a.p.i.s.t by OAM4J(mod): 3:22pm On Jun 29, 2010
@ Damysa

Let me start from the less serious issue, which is your husband:
I know many married men cheat on their wives, but a married man that sleeps with his house help has no sense of shame and has no iota of respect for his wife. When a married man now graduates to wanting to sleep or sleeping with his sister inlaw, then the man has lost his sense of reasoning and has a SERIOUS sexual problem, unfortunately nothing you have done so far is solving his problem, at best you have only asked him to be more discreet in his affairs.

Now, to  more serious issue, your daughter:
I honestly think you have failed the little girl; you suspect someone is molesting the innocent child, but have not done much to get the fact. The hair you saw could have been taken to hospital for analysis. I was more disappointed in you when you noticed mucus in her private area and that also was not taken to the hospital for proper analysis - You failed her woefully.

My biggest fear is for your daughter, I know you have changed school, but who knows if the abuse is not not comming from the school but from somewhere/someone else, and all you have done now is to tell whoever is responsible to do it with more care.

Chaircover asked you what you think would have happened to the child, you and your husband  if you live in a civilised country, you couldnt answer the question. I will tell you, The child would have been taken away from you and neither you or your husband would have any access to her.

I cannot ask you to divorce your husband even though I know he has a serious problem (though not beyond solution), But I beg you in the name of God or whatever you hold sacred/dearest. PLEASE put more effort, energy and attention towards your daughter, whatever you have to do to find out if she is truly being molested, who is responsible for it and to STOP it.


@Moderator
PLS THIS IS MORE OF  A FAMILY ISSUE THAN CRIMINAL ISSUE, RETURN THIS THREAD TO FAMILY SECTION PLS.

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