₦airaland Forum

FreeGlobe: It's a Nigerian Senate syndrome, he has not done differently from other senators. Can you tell me any Senator that has done better than him

senator ike ekweremmadu is a shining example.. that's why his constituency will. always support him through thick and thin

sagombugo: Money is not given to legislatures for constituency projects

You fight and lobby that your identified projects should be included in the appropriation act

He shouldn't have trivialised the issue

bros Stop saying what you don't know.. senators from a state are given 1 billion for constituency project.. that's approximately 333 million per senator

this interviewer is a very shallow human being.. I was expecting to hear the most important question of them all.

why did gowon renegade on the aburi accord.

aburi would have prevented the war.. would have brought healthy competition between the regions like in the pre war era..

but he killed it just to concentrate the power at the center for the selfish gain of a few.

COYG!!!

you are not losing today

FreeGlobe: can you give us any updates? we wey no dey on ground?

so all these noise you are making online won't get Ngige the only one vote you could have been sure of.

your vote!!!

United

stand up for the champions!!?!


Nigeria!!! the giants of Africa

gooooialllll


juninho will be proud

if arsenal wins this match and napoli draws.. then arsenal needs just a point in their next 2 matches to make the knock out rounds

COYG

Gombs: Gooooooooaaaaaaaal

that's what I'm talking about.. opportunity comes but once.. make it count

COYG

Na wa o.. arsenal never get shout whether on or off target

Nomski0: There's no way these gunners are progressing to round of sixteen.

babe just sit back and enjoy the ride

Funpeter: ASUU are not concern by that, na their earned allowance them wan go table for meeting if he pay them or not.

yeah.. I was bothered about that as I didn't see it on the agreement.. but if ASUU insists on the earned allowances, then they're only showing Nigeria that their main concern is their pocket..

I don't think they want that.. so I think they will accept this offer

1025: hahahahahahahahahahaha, we are suffering from documents and agreements this FG signed without checking and now a larger amount has been promised. when it is time to live up to their promises now, stories will change. i do not trust this pdp led govt. they are fraudulent.
the same fuel increment that was aimed at bettering the lives of nigerians is now missing N500B. what a shame of a govt.

actually it's not a larger amount.. the 2009 agreement was 500 billion for 3 years = 1.5 trillion..

the government is suggesting 220 billion for 5 years = 1.1 trillion plus 100 billion for this year.

this is what I expected from them ever since

raytony: Shebi na wetin him for don do all these while. He left it and was dragging his foot. He didn't see the need to meet them in person all this while. Was he that busy? This is truly not the hallmark of a true leader.

what are the functions of his ministers?

Iyke Chukz: “To our APC guests, I like to say we are a group of seven governors. In that group, I’m perculiar because the president is from our zone. So regarding your invitation, I will consult our leaders, I will consult my party, I will consult even the president. He is from our zone. I will consult all the consultables


Amachi the smart guy. Something is fishing here.

since this whole thing started, I've never really believed Amaechi is fighting Jonathan.. that nigga is too smart for that..

this one huge scheme.. aimed at destroying APC and northern caucus from the inside.

you all see GEJ as clueless.. well I see him as a master planner who operates smoothly and quietly.

APC will be too busy criticizing his administration to understand what hit them.

Make no mistake about this.. Amaechi and GEJ are on the same team.. The winning Team

tiwa my love!!! Marry me already

chukymoney: I guess this is the longest thread ever on Nairaland 20hours and still counting

bbm for Android own beat this one o.. that thread was online and active for more than 72 hours before the ginger died down

Booty butt chic: Hello fellow Nlders,I have a friend who loves taking kush,codeine,several shits and stuffs like dat,and I noticed most people around him knows dat because he even posts pictures of him sniffin shits on social networks and dey don't even seem 2 care....so I took time out 2day after thinkin of how 2 make my approach and also saw dat thread on majek fashek,so I picked up courage talked 2 him seriously and also showed him pictures of majek fashek,he freaked out and wuz like can I help him ,I.e wat can he do to stop taking does things.......SO I decided 2 bring it down here....Yoll shld please drop wateva advice or procedure u feel is right for him.......

slow withdrawal.. he should start by reducing the quantity he takes gradually till he stops taking eventually.

a 3 months withdrawal plan is perfect

freecocoa: Come respect yourself atleast, even if you can't respect others, I replied someone that quoted. I wonder who the noisemaker here is, I that spoke after being spoken to or you who go about talking when not necessary.

Dey your lane biko.

nne ndo o... iwe ewela gi

lemme explain this situation.

uke is a remote village in idemmili not quite developed when compared to other towns in idemmili.

a priest in the local parish with a calling starts a ministry in a Temporary location.

the ministry booms and attracts worshippers from the city of Onitsha, awka, nnewi and adjourning communities.

the parish being in a village do not have the funds to provide permanent structure to take care of the multitude plus the erosion site close by.

the priest extends invitation to the governor so he can experience the challenges First hand.

the governor duly attends and unfortunately something bad happens after he left.

I hope this answers the question a lot of us have been asking as to why the governor has to attend

freecocoa: Oh! The more reason why Obi should be prosecuted, why didn't people die when Ngige went there?

Bottomline is that people don't want Obi and the dullard he stands for, being pelted with sachet water at onitsha should have told him so, did his goons have to scare people simply because they stated their minds?

you probably aren't from anambra of live here.. I believe this was sabotage

Ujujoan: It's funny how for the past eight years Obi has been invited for this rally which holds every year . . . and not once has he attended.

And yet people expect us to believe that his attending this year has noting to do with politics? How gullible do they think we are

He didn't just attend, he made a donation of 2 million naira to the priest who rejected the money and asked him to give it to the impoverished. The place is a holy ground, not a fund raising event or a campaign ground.

The crowd was outraged the Obi was using the huge turn out as an opportunity to sell his stooge of a gubernatorial candidate, which is why they kept shouting him down with screams of 'onwa' (Ngige's popular name).

The fact that the Governor is blame this on Nigige not only shows him as being petty, but also reveals his weakness. All his woes is caused by Ngige . . . this Ngige must be a God!

my dear, can you please shut up... which rally has they been inviting him to?

FYI, Ebube muonso is a young priest and his holy ghost adoration is barely 2 years old.

please desist from giving wrong information

freecocoa: Yes he did something, he obstructed public peace and sent his goons to scare innocent citizens thereby leading to a stampede that killed people.

nne.. your noise is becoming too much.. take a chilled coke and relax.. Obi didn't cause the damn stampede.. have you read the archbishops press release on the stampede..

his grace, Valerian okeke is not someone that will lie. his press release is in line with eye witness reports and Peter Obis press release.

yours faithfully is writing from Nkpor, idemmili north lga in anambra state.

Peter Obi was already in awka before the stampede occured.

freecocoa: Satan go sha punish this Peter Obi and his cohorts, like how wicked are these people?


I'm sure nobody invited him to anything, since when do governor's now attend night vigil just with the aim of praying, why did he mount the pulpit? Abi was he the guest speaker at the crusade?

Useless man, mscheew.

Ngige came to the same prayer ground a day before.. what exactly is your point?

Imanuelle: Brother of life

It felt like I've known you all my life

Safe trip Bro

I'm honored to have crossed paths with you!

safe journey nigga... stay safe and sound

I don't know where OP got his informations from. but the news we got here at the building materials international market ogidi in the same idemmili north on Saturday morning even before you guys started politicizing the whole thing was that..

after Peter Obi's team must have left the prayer ground and when Ppl were leaving the venue.. someone raised a false fire alarm because of the flame from a woman selling akara near by and that was what caused the stampede.

yes!! coming to the ground for campaign should be condemned but then even Ngige himself did the same sometime ago.

but playing politics with the dead as Ngige is doing leaves much to be desired.. Desperate politics should be condemned

I was tempted to leave without commenting.. but how could I..

my sweetie came all the way from warri to see me and arsenal gave me that extra vigor I needed so very much..

all Is left is to read ESPN fc matchday analysis and....

sips my second bottle of stout while waiting for cross to publish the damn commentary.

tonight is definitely gonna be a goodnight...

it might interest you to know that most of anambra debt were incurred by mbadinuju and Ngige.. Peter Obi actually brought it down..

www.nigeriamasterweb.com/blog/index.php/2012/10/01/at-52-nigeria-celebrates-wobbles-fumbles-with-huge-debts-corruption-etc

Imanuelle:

otuoke fisherman... i salute

Nancyij37: Marriage is not  a bed of roses, as conflicts between husband and wife could bring worries and stress to the marriage. Issues and conflicts always arises  when two individuals are living under one roof as a husband and wife. it might be Parenting issues, jealousy, money issues,broken trust, boredom, poor communication, lack of appreciation and the list goes on.

Marriage is complicated and a mystery, so conflicts are inevitable and to keep your marriage safe you have to learn how to handle conflicts. Yes is true that every body wants happy and a long lasting married life but conflict cannot be avoided. So here are some tips on how you can handle conflict in your marriage.

Self assessment: The saying: “It takes two to Tango” In your marriage when conflicts arises, instead of pointing accusing finger to your partner, Simply take a good look at yourself and assess yourself. To handle conflicts in your marriage effectively, you have to look at yourself and your mistakes than stay their and keep blaming your spouse. Self assessment can help you build a long lasting marriage. By always taking a good look at the actions that cause the conflicts and think of a way to improve and avoid such.

Pride and ego: Discuss the conflict with your spouse, Pride and ego is very good in marriage but in the case of resolving issue with your spouse your pride and ego should take a back sit and be left alone. And don’t wait for your spouse to talk to you, be the first to initiate a discussion and you have to be sensitive with his feeling. For example Instead of saying “You made me feel bad last night by leaving just like that” which sounds like you are blaming your husband for what happened, it is better to say “last night because I was left alone”.  I think is best to start the conversation with “I” instead of “You”.

Listen to your spouse: Talk and refuse to listen cannot handle conflicts in your marriage. Lets say you want to compromise on something, your husband opinion is also important. Give him the opportunity to express his feeling and to be heard not nagging. When your partner is talking, Simply listen and don’t bring topics that are unrelated to the conflicts, all you need to is ask question. As marriage decision is made by two not just you.

Stay Calm: Never you allow your emotion to rule over you, as this can make marriage worse instead of handling the conflict. Stay calm and Do not yell as well as call your husband names and bring up past baggage  because nothing will be resolved with this attitude. And don’t lose your temper, you might say thing you will regret.

Be Positive: If you really want to build a long lasting relationship, Always bear in mind that every marriage go though rough times and conflicts. Every marriage see conflicts the main thing that matters is how you handle it. so simply keep to a  positive attitude to avoid getting stressed out or anxious.

SOURCE

www.naijadiary.com/how-to-handle-conflict-effectively-and-save-your-marriage/