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WHY HAVE 2 WEDDING CAKES THOUGH

NwaAmaikpe:


From the girl's submissive demeanor it is obvious he caught her cheating and went ballistic.
These girls just love to cheat.

He is handsome, he is sexy, he is tall, he is a star, he is rich...yet she chose to cheat on him.
Why
Why
Why are women so frigging heartless?

WHAT DO YOU KNOW OF FEAR?
just how have you just concluded that her submissive behaviour is because she is guilty, do u know if this is not the first time he is hitting her?

Caustics:
this man has no shame. posting pictures of his wife in a vulnerable position for the world to see because of his low self esteem.

that escalated real fast

234GT:
Married people should stop making the thing look like rocket science. Marriage requires only the commitment and determination of the 2 individuals involved to work.
A woman committed to the success of her marriage won't pick up FOOLISH quarrels with her husband, and a committed man won't start sleeping around.
It's simple.

so infidelity and nagging are the only reasons why marriage fail?

Sorry its a lot more, marriage is very tough i beg and in some cases it is rocket science, it comes with the biggest roller coaster of emotions that one will ever experience. we are talking 2 different human beings, different ideas, backgrounds, expectations, personalities coming to live together.
Its because people are not honest these days to tell you what it means to be married, getting married is cool, wedding and all but staying married is the issue, it takes a lot of compromise , self sacrifice, letting go, tolerance, risk, PLANNING.

LOVE is great but LIFE will test that love over and over again.

People have stopped treating eachother like human beings, so its ok for you,but what about the other person? is it fair and just? people just dont care enough anymore, too many alterior motives, lack of honesty.

There will be happy moments though but a lot of tough times too.

wman:
NwaAmaikpe may be silly but I assure you, he has a higher IQ than most people on this website.

your statement doesn't exactly put the rest of us in good light

NwaAmaikpe:



Such a big bang.
But it should have come earlier.....dude was worse than a vegetable.

This is the only man who made ugly Larry King look super handsome.

intriguing is the 20 likes you got

This is a genius (number 25 in the BBC's poll of the 100 Greatest Britons) who survived for 53 more years more than he was given after being diagnosed of motor neurone disease. An authority in the world of science, if there was ever anyone who showed what resilience can do it is him and you call him a vegetable?

the chat history is disjointed

as long as you are human, there is no telling your reaction some days, something you tolerate today might be unforgiveable tomorrow.
The human body can take a lot of pain so for someone to beat someone to the extent that they lose their life shows that there was a lot of rage and it is criminal regardless of the offense.

How do you beat someone to this extent, you can hear them crying or screaming, begging but your continue to pound them, till they are numb to the pain or pass out.

It is criminal!!

i am just appalled by the way the poor baby is being handled. its a baby regardless of the abnormality, its a soul nevertheless and should be buried properly, Nigeria has no standards of anything.

babies that should clearly be in an incubator

why dont we like sincere people, she has come out to say she doesnt want kids and thats a problem, ok if she has kids and doesnt have the capacity to love them as society expects , its also a problem.

She knows herself and she has made a perfectly adult decision and people still have a problem with it, what dont people have a problem with?

suddenly went into uncontrollable act, leaving his manhood blown out of his white garment dress, and in a twinkle of an eye allegedly buried it into one of the victims vagina.

i literally imagined this happening

AreaFada2:
Not that painful these days if done gently. Haba! It's not a mechanic job na.

I have never seen any lady show more than a little grimace. Certainly NEVER excruciating pain as to scream.

The person doing it should always warn that it might cause a little discomfort.

A little of that every 3 years is worth it. Compared to dying at 29 or 33 leaving 2 little kids behind (God forbid). Yes God covers us. But many God's children die daily.

May be that "cover" from God includes the chance to find out via Pap test and get treated early.

Thank you

cococandy:
Have you ladies ever seen a woman with cervical cancer? If you do, you will thank this woman for this initiative.

A little discomfort is nothing when it can detect and prevent a future is pain, suffering and eventual death.

I don’t joke with Pap smears.

as in i dont even try to reschedule my appointment when i get a letter from my GP saying i am due one, i just go.It is not to be joked with
the discomfort you feel is when they swab around to take the sample from the cervix but its literally seconds and you are done.

Wonderful initiative

hippieguy:
The moment taking care and training your own child becomes a burden to you, u have lost the right to parenthood. So would you be happy if God decides to help you and relieve you of the burden or would He be wrong? I think she probably used the wrong word for a sound expression. I'd preferred seeing it as a responsibility than a burden. It's like saying a student in school considering reading for ur bright future as a burden. Then such a fellow being in school in the first place can be questioned. Much as I understood her thought, that's too much disconnect a word to use when it comes to parenting no matter the condition of a child. They just don't match. Responsibility better. That's what God gives parents: stewardship responsibility, not burden. I stand to be corrected though.

Truth is as a parent there will be a time when you actually think , omg what have i gotten myself into, you will wonder about your choice to get married , who you married, having kids, was this the right time and things like that ,it also ok to miss your single days when you had nothing to worry about and were free to do whatever.
its perfectly natural to feel less than a parent at times.

some people dont feel the pressure of parenthood because they dont do anything really and leave the caregiver responsibilities to someone else, for the main care giver and for some one who is very hands on with the kids, it can feel like a burden sometimes.

if your idea of parenthood is just to pay for school fees and watch someone else actually care for the child, then parenthood will be a breeze.

DrinkLimca:
She is a mental health practitioner and i think that she is developing mental deficiency that needs serious attention from a real health practitioner...

No kid is a burden and children are not burden..

On the contrary children are blessing to the world because all great men and women that have made the world a better place were ones kids..

I was never a burden to my parents.. and i believe that she too was never a burden to her parents and that was why she was not aborted..

People that think children are burden are irresponsible people that failed to plan for their lives..

They are wayward and selfish so they see children as a burden because they live a wayward life filled with bad decisions, they are lazy in even taking care of themselves so they see kids as a burden when their inresponsibilities brings a child out of wedlock..

goodness me 29 likes

Cutehector:
Locked you out of home on Wednesday night and you had no where to go?


Sharap and tell the whole world also where you came from at that hour of the night? See slay queen who went to Cubana.

An African mother is an African mother, an icon, you mess up, she messes you up. She didnt spare the rod so that you can have sense in this life and thank goodness it worked. She is not afraid to chastise you! Yes she is proud you didn't toe the path of hoe-ism and she is proud you graduated as a chartered accountant..

Nonsense girls everywhere mchew.

but how are you so sure that he mum is not to blame,PARENTS CAN BE WRONG YOU KNOW.
some parents are evil, oppressive, tyrants in their own home , abusive

NwaAmaikpe:




She remarried just after 3years?

This is a shame.
A proof that no woman is loyal.
A proof that their love is seamlessly transferrable.

A widow should remain celibate till she dies,
A good widow should not even think of remarrying.
A woman should completely lose the ability to be attracted to any other man once she is married.
She is lucky that her husband's ghost is the lenient type, if not this betrayal of love qualifies for him to strike her mad.

I pity men who don't cheat on their spouse, just keep shortchanging yourself.
Know that life is not fair and husbands have a greater tendency to die before their wives.

And the moment you die, she will start scouting for a new feeder because the vacuum in between those thighs must be filled.

please God what have i just read? pray tell does this apply to men?

and the 28 likes you got for your remark is baffling, so we have not one but 28 people thinking like this?
GIRLS THE WELL IS INDEED GETTING DRY BUT PLEASE THERE IS STILL TIME TO CHOOSE WELL

Callmemike:
I will try to be very brief. My son is some months shy of 4 years old. However he has not started talking. When he was almost 2 years we took him to FMC owerri for examination. The result said he was ok. Unsatisfied we went after some months. They referred us to the International Speech and Hearing Centre Enugu.

There the result was that his hearing is limited. They said we should come for a reevaluation when he is past 3 years to see if his hearing has improved or if he needs a hearing aid. But we were advised to enroll him into a school to increase his interactions. The problem with this then was his repeated bouts of illness after each two weeks in school. We tried homeschooling him for a term and half afterwards. This term we have enrolled him into a new, regular school and he has adapted just fine.

Between this period, we have visited other hospitals for evaluation and they said it is ok. That he is just a late developer.

We just went for a reevaluation and they said he does not need a hearing aid and that his hearing is very OK now. They recommended a professional speech therapist to help him pronounce words, since all he does is just babbles. He captures things fast and can act out a full cartoon movie.

So please if any info is available about a speech therapist in Owerri, it will be appreciated. Other advices are also welcome.

Mods, please help me push this to the front page. A child needs your help and i believe in your epatant care. Thank you

not speaking at 4years of age is a cause for worry and i am happy you are awake to this fact, speech therapy is a good way to go, quick question when you say babble, is he actually saying anything, like can you pick out any words?

when you say his hearing is fine, are they(doctors) absolutely sure because even the slightest hearing impairment can cause late talking.

how does he communicate with you, say if he is hungry, or needs to go the loo or wants something, cut down the cartoons unless its educational, a bit more reading to him, flash cards help a lot, small world toys help a lot as well.

how does he communicate with his classmates and his teachers , what do they say about his development?

My good friend has a son, he is about 7 now , didnt speak at 3 yrs , i was sure he was autistic but his dad is a medical doctor and said he had been assessed and nothing was found, later tests and assessment revealed that he is slightly dyslexic and after 3years of speech therapy , the boy can talk for England, so let all hope not be lost at this point.
i am wondering if this could be the case with your boy?

Also when you speak to him , speak in full sentences as you if you were talking to an adult, no baby talk.

PLEASE DON'T CORRECT EXCESSIVELY when you are teaching him,God's speed as you seek a solution to this

scholes23:
All I see is someone who sees the complete opposite of what what was seen by the parents of these children

Wehdone Ma

truer words have never been uttered

Ricky97:
The cure is out but trust the whites. They are hoarding the medicine just as a control tool for depopulation against their New World Order

i think there are faster and cheaper ways of depopulating the continent if they were really looking into that.

HIV is one heck of an expensive way to go

Gerrard59:
Any evidence?

@Post: A better question will be why has there not been a black Nobel Laureate in the science category.

another good question is just how is it possible that a whole Nigeria still doesnt have uninterrupted power supply in 2018.

ybalogs:
doesn't matter bro. He will never be able to pay back her bringing him to this world.

i am sorry but he didnt ask to be here, just like no child asked to be here, sex happened and the child was concieved in most cases, therefore it is the responsibility of every parent to care for the child.

Most likely this mum was never there for the boy and now he has made it and she is now crying wolf.

she is trying to make a claim that the boy abandoned his family and that she has been abandoned, but the lad is catering for his brother so something must have gone wrong in the scheme of things.

RAPE CAN NEVER AND SHOULD NEVER BE JUSTIFIED

ubunja:
just tell her to dress properly, stay out of shaddy hoods and avoid quiet places.... training her to fight back rapists is like training her to fight robbers, a waste of time coz they gona redecorate her face a thousand ways.

what of those who are raped at home, sometimes rape comes to you just like trouble comes to you even when you have done so much to keep to yourself

and kids who are raped?

and people who are raped by family nko?

no harm in learning a few self defence techniques for people who are in a posiiton to defend themselves

efesodje:
I get very edgy when people say all men cheat, men are scum and what not

Some men are still decent and have values. Ok, we might see a lady with a massive ass and we look (yeah we are programmed that way- men are visual beings) but nothing comes out of it, once she goes it's forgotten.

I have being with my present girlfriend right now for over a year and I have never one day cheated on her you know why? because she ticks all the boxes-sexy,good communicator,neat,smart & intelligent---everything I desire in my woman. So why then will I cheat on her?

Generalizations suck

Great and i applaud you but just wait until she is your wife, its a whole different ball game when its for better for worse, this i learnt when i got married, life will throw all the shit it has to offer and more and then you start to notice things that you never had the opportunity to see before the marriage.

But good on you that you kinda see your girl this way now

its easy to stay sexy all day long when all you have to think about is your damn self,money, hair, iphone and other people's husbands.

Koolking:
Technology will render mankind used and useless. Life expectancy will be so short because man has become inactive and stagnant. What a boring world we are heading

there will always be something for man to do in a progressive environment

abiodunalasa:
And we are still here debating Cattle Colony

as in i am so tired, almost like we are 300 years behind in everything.

DaniDani:
Interesting! Good people keep making the world better while evil people are causing sadness and sorrow. With this development, agriculture will be attractive again and fun to do.

exactly, with all these developments, it wont seem so daunting

VivaDeAngelo:
When the world was filled with less controversy.

simple times

bigtt76:
We are too obsessed with 'largest' this, 'first' that, 'biggest' this.... 'longest' that in this country. At the end of it all, it's either under utilized or abandoned.

honestly!! and it all amounts to nought