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NoToPile:
Can't believe I watched the 3 parts of this movie in one day,almost 9 hours.

yeyeboi:
If the OBA cannot curse the bad politicians then he is not serious yet

Nyceguy92:
I don't know how the OP arrived at her conclusions but I beg to disagree.
In every family, there is hierarchy and each level, from the oldest to the youngest child, has its expected roles and responsibilities.

I do not agree that a parent would, without some form of empowerment in the form of education or vocational training, totally transfer the burden of catering to the younger ones to the eldest. You would be talking of a family where the man is a loafer, a drunkard.
Or a case where both parents are debilitated and can no longer earn a living.

The case the OP quoted must be a very peculiar one.

The first child is a mini parent. He/she guides and looks after the younger ones, including buying them items.
These are roles they happily assume, even without being asked to do so.

But that does not mean the parents have taken their hands off their statutory responsibilities.
Or what would they be doing with their money if they have it?

Sunofgod:
He probably kidnapped them also....

peterbello:
Nawa o OP, so you mean you can't visit a dermatologist abi?
Book and appointment with a dermatologist, he would tell you what to use. You could also mention Ro-accutane so that he can prescribe it to you.
I want you to understand that acne is just a phase, it is caused by hormonal imbalance and It would clear with time. But if you really want it off, Ro-accutane is the drug for it. You can google Ro-accutane (isotretinoin)

ephi321:
Some of the comments I have read on this thread today has made me scared of the kind of people roaming our streets. Truly evil times we live in.

Anyone who watched that video and is attempting to defend the woman in any way is simply as evil as her. No story.

chloride6:
I hate Nairaland eh. Why are you all being sentimental?

In my opinion the woman was only a little harsh. Come after me if you like. This kid needs to learn how to sit down and the truth is that she won't learn without pain. Sit down she no green sit down. The essence of that training is not hold her into position but to let her sit on her own.

You can see she made a conscious effort to change the chair when she kept hitting her head on the bed. Even ordinary potty training you can't do without slap. So she should not be slapped because she has cerebral palsy.

Abeg sentiment too much. She sat on her hands, do you know if it was some sort of training?

You no fit train pickin make you no slap am. Not to talk of the special one sef.

ephi321:
So why collect money to "handle them"? It wasn't a free service. She was being paid 20k per hour, 3 hours each week.

Besides, why train to be a therapist if you don't want to deal with kids with such medical conditions that are "hard to handle"?

Wow. Can't believe anyone is even trying to explain this away. Incredible.

NnamdiiKanu:

My ex girlfriend

bamisepeters:
please don't be so quick to judge my opinion, we are all learning, you have pointed out many things which you have hidden with your first response. I am not a relationship writer, speaker and counselor that doesn't seek for other people's opinion of things, a tree doesn't make a forest, the day a man stop learning is the day he is called to where he came from. Thank you for taking your time, i do appreciate.

ChristyB:
In a home where there's love, this means nothing cos the husband will always want to assist.

bamisepeters:
but do you know it doesn't make sense to have said this without correction? I asked for opinion as that was what i thought, i want to learn also like many have learnt one or two things from the thread.

celestialAgent:
All this namers sef! Which one is blood cancer again? Is every cancer not primarily associated with the blood?

Rip to d lady..

Kondomatic:
Lucky him



I mistakenly bashed a new Prado jeep today with my Kekenapep and the lady inside yelled out to me through her window.

"I'm gonna make your life a living hell" ...

I yelled back, "Thanks but I'm not looking for a relationship right now."

Then I dropped the Kekenapep and fled.

She should look for a boyfriend elsewhere.

Bigsteveg:
It's not a very good thing and it's most common among the women. They tend to forget that the child will go to school and get married later in life and leave you two alone. The husband needs to be calm in this case,
1. The husband need to sit d wife down and talk some sense into her, d woman might not realize what she's doing is wrong.
2. If this continues, divert your attention to something else not neglecting the family tho, a good wife should know something is wrong


The husband needs to grow up and put himself in the woman's position, it is the hardest thing to be a mum and it's very easy to become overwhelmed,the needs of a child talkless of children are endless and unless you are a primary caregiver you would never understand.
Clearly the woman is overworked and overwhelmed by her duties as a mum, the husband needs to either get help for her or pitch in so that some of the woman's time is freed up and that freed up time can be directed to him.

Is she just sitting down watching tv? Is food not prepared? Are the kids not taken care of?laundry? Upkeep of the home nko? All that is human effort and it takes time, a lot of time,in between she is ensuring that the kids don't drink bleach or throw themselves off the balcony or harm themselves in numerous possible ways , only a selfish SOB will not acknowledge the amount of effort it takes to keep kids safe

What the woman needs is help not some stupid selfish induced discussion about his stupid needs

HungerBAD:
I give up on humanity.

wise7:
she dey occupy too much space abi

Cutehector:
Jokes apart, it's not right to wash a woman's clothes.

Teespice:
as well as the educational sector as I heard on radio that most schools are funded by the EU.

but then I don't know how politics over there works, so what do I know.

martineverest:
They've made the greatest mistake in their history.. Their economy will suffer..... They weren't happy that Germany, Italy and France were in charge of EU.....immigrants heading to UK will suffer the most