to be honest , this a loss either way , whether she stays or leave , the man is incapable of taking care of anyone new born or disabled child

in this day and age we still have unidentified persons? a simple rape kit would have done the needful, run DNA sample through the database and voila as long as the person is documented , culprit identified

CecyAdrian:
Every tom,dick and Harry now have an opinion and without respect

respect for who exactly

Drphemmy4u:
Current practice is CS for all breech presentation to reduce maternal and neonatal morbidity and mortality.In modern day obstetrics,assisted vaginal breech delivery and external cephalic version (changing the presentation from breech to cephalic per abdomen) are no longer practiced.

thank you, My pikin is currently breech and i have a scheduled procedure

A key problem is lack of statistics, how can you say you want to compete internationally or even locally when you haven't measured anything.
You dont even know where you are talkless of where you want to go

Schools abroad count/measure EVERYTHING and it helps in benchmarking against competitors , it helps make a case for additional funding , it is when you know what you have that you know what you dont have and know what you need.

Schools abroad know exactly how many students they have , they know how many books are on the shelves in the libraries, they know how many study seats/spaces, how many working sockets are in the libraries , they know the ratio of lecturer to student on each course .

They know their exact budget and their expenditure and seek external funding from many places.

They have records of everything so there is little or no waste.

They measure every damn thing so that they know what is outstanding and work towards ensuring that students are getting value for their money .

Also what is the standard in Nigeria really? what are we benchmarking against?

Kellibae:
Madam stop crying victim abeg u know the ethics of ur hospital that the doctor should see the patient first and u failed it.
And u were asked her to kneel down and u refused.
What happens to obey before complain.
Besides the doctor's side of the story should be heard

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, how is it ethical that a doctor can ask a nurse to kneel down, this is not his house, the nurse is not his child. He literally assaulted her
very unprofessional and unethical
What baffles me is the number of likes you got for your post

Post-traumatic stress disorder

Munzy14:
I hate people who present people's private issues in public, on a one sided account. We all heard he beat up the wife, but we didn't get to know what the wife did.You can just wake up and start beating a woman u sleep with who have kids for u. Something went wrong, which women don't usually bring up in this case.

On no account i repeat on no account is domestic violence acceptable MAN or WOMAN, the man beat both his child and wife.
Some people have issues that they havent dealt with and are now transferring it to other people because they feel like they are in a place of power and there will be no repercussions , these sorts of people usually go for weakminded or physically weak people, people that can be dominated.

So yes someone can wake up and start beating a woman he has slept with and who has kids for him.

izzou:


First rule of life: Nobody owes you anything

Your Aunt is actually wicked but I expect you to look at where you are now, and smile over the past, but instead, you decided to keep hurting yourself by lamenting and to worsen the issue, you had to even post it on social media.

If I was your fiancee, I would cancel our engagement just because of this singular reason. I can't afford to love someone who prefers to take personal and sensitive issues to the world

But your aunt wicked sha

clearly this woman's inner child is still hurting. Yes nobody owes you anything but this aunty accepted to be guardian to the girl but had other plans.
May God heal her and touch her where is hurting.My dad is 81 and when he talks about what he went through in the hands of relatives during his younger years you can still feel his pain , you can still feel his hurt in his narrative.

Ugosample:


It's not possible

Being a father is beyond providing for the child

There are A LOT that no matter how the woman tries, she can't fit into the shoes.


The best they can do is to let a male respected figure play that role.

Father's have a role that only fathers can play, and mother's have a role that only mother's can play
Believing otherwise is self deceit.

This depends on what you think a man's role is and what a woman's role is, these days , the lines are blurred unless where it is biological like breastfeeding even this can and has been replaced by bottle feeding.
i think its rather myopic that anyone should think that a mans role is just to provide for a child and likewise that a womans role is just to nuture a child. Real life will happen and one will find that roles are interchanging these days.

Olalan:
Truth is no woman can play the role of a father perfectly well,

but some women are giving it a damn good shot and exceling at it

good move, 4 months is really short but its a start, work life balance is crucial for maximum productivity.

i am taking 10months off maternity starting the end of this month , and when i come back my job will be waiting for me with my 1% salary increase , we also have a dedicated room for nursing mothers usually used for expressing milk with a fully functioning fridge for storage.
We also have a nursery at work of course its not free but its handy and its a sure sign that the govt and workplace gives a damn.

for real, the government doesn't owe her nothing

Burchester:
no use to nigerians since it required japanese comptency...

Proficiency in Japanese language (JLPT level N3 or higher) or proficiency in English.

Timfreds:
What's the proof that it's nigeria Jersey they queued up to buy?

it is indeed the jersey, as i was on that queue, planned to surprise my husband with the jersey, but that surprise isn't going to happen.
Till next time

EzeDiEgo1:



Why must you leave a man that invested heavy on you.

She should go and thank God she survived her wickedness.

God have mercy on any woman that will try this kind rubbish on me after investing my money and time on her. I will not only cut the girl to pieces but burn her alive.

You girls think is easy to be a man.

Disgusting women

clearly he was justified. Ladies again the well is getting dry but please be very careful , choose wisely or rather remain single and safe

nikkypearl:
Lol...aunty Kemi,see your life outside

The Linea is getting darker..

exactly! if thats not a genuine pregnancy bump i dont know what is

hisgrace090:
Must naija thing always different?


I wornder what a visitor from organized airport to this canopy airport will feel like.

ah please let us not upset ourselves, shithole is still good

they should bring it back indeed, does Nigeria know what special collection is? do we have a clue how to preserve and conserve items of important value. Where are these items stored?

and how did he know they were stolen?

all i know is that if you marry for any other reason than love, YOU ARE DOOMED!!!!!!!!!!

You get the usual love alone doesnt make marriage work, but thats what makes marriage work ironically, because TRUE LOVE will make you do whatever it takes to make a marriage work.

you will not want to hurt eachother and even when you do, the love you have will push you to make amends immediately
you will always create a platform to resolve issues.
you will pull your weight and work hard at work in your career/business and at home, raising the kids together there wont be any stupid talk of its your job, its my job, rather its our job, you will easily do things for eachother.

you will automatically be solution driven in your thinking, how can i make things better for my spouse? where can i contribute to make this work?

you will see eachother as human beings not gender , we are all human first before man /woman/ bobrisky/husband /wife

The statement is true to a very large extent but it applies to both parties not just women

win - dj khaled
Titanium- David Guetta

Depends on what you want for your life, if you want to spend your whole life catering for kids, good luck, if you have other things you have planned asides catering for kids , good luck too, each to his own really. Whatever your choice its not easy

NwaAmaikpe:




Mumu,
So he didn't see a fresh young girl to marry?

No wonder he has been in bad form.
He has been mixing his youthful blood with congealed condemned engine oil.

he is the father of 3 of her kids sir

honestly what's all this slaying about.

Oreofepeters:
Spoilt children everywhere.

If I say she lack home training now them no go say I talk bad

According to what I observed, she lack humility and submission.

Well I guess age is still by her side that's why she's selective.

By the she clock 30(+) her DespeRado spirit go dey hunt men upandan

great from your observation you have identified the problem of the woman , what of the man? pray tell what did you observe is his own problem?

ANGELMARVE:
She is overreacting..
There are some ladies that can't cook but that does not make them less of a woman and a bad wife..

Life is a teacher and we learn everyday..

Everything we do in this life and have perfected, is as a result of learning and that includes cooking..

The lady should understand him that some guys have this mentality of "cooking is for women" it's just a state of mind that do not interact with their character..
There is a different between a state of mind and character..

That being said why is the lady concern about food that much?

Is she getting married because of food?

This are the types of ladies that eats more than minimum wage on a first date..

Food is not her problem, its the man's mentality that so screwed up. Marriage a lot of times means crossing over into eachothers roles temporarily and if life is mean to you eh it might mean that you take on the role of both man and woman permanently!!! for instance the death of a spouse.
At some point in life you will as a man be expected to hold the forte in the womans absence and vice versa for the woman. So an engineer should not know how to cook? cooking is a life skill, not a woman skill.just like paying bills is not something only the man should do these days

The man is clearly deluded, he is the type that will make tea for his colleagues at work but when he gets home to cook common rice is a problem.

24sqm:
The guy no even sabi spell prostitute....

hin one na past tense

honestly!! as in prostituted

northvietnam:
thats what happens when u r too soft on a woman....

women needs to know that if they play with u eeeeh... the aftermath will be bitter.

love a woman but also make her fear you, make her tremble when ever u r pissed...

and they just hit the man ordinary frying pan and he just fell...

baffling is the 36 likes you got

sarcasm at its best

Olalan:
As much as the girl isn't in anyway obligated to do the cleaning, her doing it would earn her some respect from the guy, it's just like borrowing a car for use and not refuelling it, thou you aren't obligated to refuel but if you do you have earned some respect for yourself

no i disagree , you see this relationship thing is what it is A RELATIONSHIP" , boys and girls expect too much from each other when nothing is actually on the table, if she came to his house and expected him to foot all her bills like a husband probably would , would that be acceptable ?
it is important to set boundaries to avoid the often quoted AFTERALL I DID FOR HIM/HER.

people keep testing and setting traps but still end up making bad choices it seems these days

BobTeeJoe:
Education sector in Nigeria needs Revolution

that is a total scrap and start again