₦airaland Forum

iPopAlomo:
The deed has been done... you don't cut off the head to cure headache... if the woman had been virtuous... I still insist we wouldn't be reading this news in nairaland...

if the man had kept his willy in his pants we would not be reading this news as well .

How exactly did he expect the woman to react ? you cheated on her , impregnated someone outside, i'm sure this would have been the cause of many quarrels in that home , then now expect her to be staring at the result of your betrayal and philandering everyday because all of a sudden you realise that the person you have been cheating on her with is irresponsible.
On top that you assault her , kai truly there is no justice in this world

iPopAlomo:
You're being to dramatic... he found out the baby mama is irresponsible... otherwise he wouldn't have brought her home... besides... what's herculean about taking care of another human being...

ok, he found out almost 3 years later after fooling around with her that she is irresponsible and you think its fair to bring the result of that fooling about home to his wife who has her hands full already?

so what you are saying is that its ok for him to bring all his illegitimate kids home to his wife and she should because she is she -woman recieve them with open arms , no questions asked?

enieme:
This is bad. battery
but on another note, she vud have just kept her cool and reach some understanding. Afterall iys just a baby not the mistress

Talk is cheap , its easy to ask her to keep her cool and reach some understanding, whats stopping him from even bringing the mistress home?

Omotayor123:
Not a good idea.. What about cases of emergency where you need to call out to the other party to avoid accident

Should children starts coming, they can't hear his/her cry.


They can only communicate when they are looking at each other face to face.
You can't even call your wife from the bathroom to bring you a towel or from the kitchen to bring you a spoon

I wish them all the best though!

kai so positive yet so negative

i want to believe that your friend is educated and has access to internet , first of all he should find out as much as possible all he can to understand this condition because the more he knows about it , the better , then he can make an informed decision about where he wants to take things- go ahead or back out.

Then he can proceed to have a chat with his lady friend, it wont be an easy conversation , he needs to be very sensitive and sympathetic , a lot of people are bi-polar and dont even know it at least she knows and is getting treatment, although i have to say it would have been good for her to mention it earlier but i cant blame her its not the easiest topic to discuss in a relationship having said that he must get her to talk about her condition.

whatever he decides he shouldn't marry out of pity, it wont be fair to her, its okay to back out.

Anybody can be ill even your friend, we all must have a cross, whether now or later , we must have a cross

maybe we should be looking at benchmarking within Africa first, the world is a bit over ambitious for now

nwanna89:
If govt gives money to everyone who does not expect twins or triplets, then govt will be setting a very bad precedent and will get broke over time. I feel bad for the couple but they cannot say what govt gave them is too small. If they cannot take care of all three babies, they can put one or two up for adoption.

The govt will get broke over time you say ? wow! as in i'm absolutely blown over by your comment,
They have stolen trillions yet we are not broke but in your opinion its now to take care of innocent children that will bankrupt nigeria?

yes what the govt gave them is too small, even for one child it is too small, did they plan to have triplets NO ?do they deserve all the help they can get ? hell yes .

some people need to travel out of Nigeria for once and experience what it means to be a citizen of a country.

Beremx:
That settee costs nothing more than 7million.

Wow!

costs that much and is that tacky?

ProphetUdeme:
they had love escapades many times. So its obviously certain that he is the father of the unborn child.

yes because the secretary signed a written contract stating that she will only commit adultery with the poster.Jeez

ufelove:
#youknowyourmumisanNigerian#
When she gives u order in an opposite manner.e.g
Don't close that door oo, there's no need.
When you ask her how did u meet Daddy. Answer- Ma ro mi lejo , go and ask him how he tricked me
When you wake up by 6am and she says its 7am you woke up or even 8am.
When she calls you "olowo Ori mi" just to get make your head swell until you do your work.
When she asks you to stand up and blow her air with paper after she notices u dozing off.( She's just too afraid to stay awake alone waiting for daddy)..
I MISS MY MUM

absolutely hilarious

AwesomelyMade:
Madam, Pls forgive him and go back to your husband!

Whether you like it or not, remaining single while your husband is alive will brush off some honors of being a responsible woman.

some honors of being a responsible woman you say, and what honor did she get when she was being abused as a married woman?

His intention is to marry the girl.

ah ok, marriage is the intention, in that case lets all hold hands and group hug , if it was her daughter who was the victim will she even have the mouth to come out and spew such rubbish

Hell is not just enough for some people.

It actually depends on the country you are applying in , in the UK if you are not at the peak of your career and you dare submit a CV more than 2 pages , you will find your CV in the recycling bin

Very few people have a no limit on the no of pages on their CV ,mostly top professionals, academics and leaders of industries these people are usually headhunted and really dont need a CV per se (although they might need one for their records ) .

writing concisely is a very good skill, and the recruiter wants to see that you can do this on your CV, this is a good skill especially if the role involves report writing . 2 pages is more than ideal in most cases, you have linkedIn to write your life story , even that has a word limit.

summarise what is important and leave out the unneccesary fluff that could actually put you in trouble if you cannot defend whats on your CV.

i think that children have become overexposed to things of a sexual nature too early in life and this is the result

she come dey take style resembel nkiru sylvanus for that 2nd pic

Slimzjoe:
I don't have all the answers but one thing I know for sure is Only Lazy People Give there bodies out in exchange for Money

it might surprise you that something that might come naturally to you might not come naturally to others , some people are self motivated others are not .

Slimzjoe:
Some girls Funny sha.....you accepted to be his Sex machine and you're complaining

Some Girls are Carrying Blocks just to make ends meet but you sit all day in a man's House And open Your Legs regularly without you supporting the 'Family' In anyway.....This one needs Formatting Slap

you are so quick to judge, clearly you have all the answers.
Have you ever been desperate?

StepTwo:
OP, did you say swimming spot?

Hmmmm!

me sef tire

bros , if you had a 16 yr old sister, will you let her date ? if at all will you let her date a 28yr old man?

Jamean:
Gardener

i be no kill me with laugh

In a civilised country ,a simple swab sample from the gilrs will sort all this confusion out , there will be no need for too much talk
DNA no dey lie

But right now, she is insisting I propose to her 'formally', and that I make the setting romantic enough to make it a memorable day for her.


something about this statement right here is so unsettling and unromantic

in anycase you can tell her you think you should have nice professional pics of both of u at a photo studio , prior to that you would have arranged with the photographer that you intend to propose and that you want it captured.


you should aim to have 5 main shots
the 1st and 2nd will be a single shot of each of you , the 3rd should be together, the 4th should be the proposal and the 5th should be the congratualtory pose after she has agreed of course
this will serve as your official engagement pics

Excuse yourself just before the 4th pic , gather your thoughts , cue very romantic music , re enter the studio , she will wonder what the hell is going on , as soon as you enter the room, get on your knees ,speaking very confidently , clearly , get her attention by calling her by her full name (her full name oh) then proceed with your speech , dont just say will you marry me, you have to assure her , you have to promise her ,then say will you make me a happy man by agreeing to be my wife ?

Mr photographer should have taken this picture by now , and shoud be on standy for the very last pic when she says yes

GOD'S SPEED

why didnt the pastor give her the money spiritually too, nothing wey person no go hear for this life

why me? you had sex and you got pregnant and you are asking why me?

BOWOTO:
Comfortable? This was their royal attire.

non the less comfortable

those are breasts that have nursed,i respect how they are very comfortable with their bodies.

wow it took them 3months to bury the man?

oh puleeeeeeeeeeeeeeze, we are sick of this already

Lilimax:
This comment does not add up to the matter at hand.
A cocaine pusher was arrested in Nigeria International Airport and you are here writing gibberish
No offence please

At my second attempt at trying to see the connection i gave up, came to same conclusion as u

all this best in this , best in that , WHAT EXACTLY IS THE STANDARD, HOW ARE THEY BENCHMARKED?

SurePresident:
Creatively funny.


Yes, Don Jazzy put Nigeria first before being an igbo and he refused to make imbecilic statement like most of his kinsmen. This is how it should be. Civilized nations like America and others that we aspire to be like will always tell you Country first before tribe. Jazzy is one of the very few intelligent igbos that I admire. Majority of igbos have fart-filled craniums, they've been brainwashed since young age. Whenever an igbo heads a Govt office, he never employs other tribes despite better qualifications, only igbos. tribalism has eaten so deep into igbos that other wiser tribes can NEVER vote an igbo as President. This is the major reason why an igbo shall never rule Nigeria. It's a verified fact that there are triple Nos of Hausas than igbos in Lagos, yet the Hausas give us no head ache whatsoever. But igbos with their leaky diarrhea mouth, are hated by both Yorubas and Hausas in Lagos. For real, I can see where tribalism is guaranteed to end these senseless igbos.

calm down honey , lifes too short , have some fennel tea

MoonCares:
Please I need advice from matured people.

There's this guy that am dating, he's so caring, lovely and humble. He is planning to marry me but he is short, though I have not gathered the courage to tell him my fears. Am average 5ft, but am taller than him. So am afraid that our kids will be short.

Please my fellow NL, I need your advice, I don't want to make mistakes in marriage. Though I have been praying to God for the right man.

My dear everyone has fears when marriage talk becomes more serious, at least you are not ashamed to express yours.No matter how shallow they may seem to others these are YOUR fears .

1) if he is shorter than 5ft yes the truth is he is indeed short but how do you really feel about this man as in really really feel about him?
2) Please keep your insecurities to yourself, he doesn't need you to highlight the fact that he is short, believe me he knows and he is probably thanking God that he found someone who wants to marry him despite his height, so please dont tell him your fears.
3) if his height bothers you so much leave him alone, his height is not his fault, he wont grow taller in the nearest future.
4) Please leave him alone if you are not proud of him or will be ashamed to pronounce him as your husband to who has ears
5) Please leave him if his height is more important than his caring, lovely and humble personality
6) The issue of short children is really not an issue as short parents doesn't necessarily mean short children.
7) my ex was 6ft 4 and now i'm married to a sweet loving man who is just 5ft 4(same as me) i had the same fears as you, funny enough his parents are average height ,but my dear if i had let my fears rule me i would have missed big time , i cannot begin to tell you how happy i am.
Ultimately its you who has to decide what is really important to you, nothing wrong with short kids,i need you to look beyond what people will say , how you look in public, look at how this man makes you feel , do you feel safe with him, do you laugh with him, does he make you happy, is he interested in you as a person, your opinions, does he defend you ? does he celebrate you, is he willing to grow with you to create a wholesome life? if this man makes you happy wetin again ,sweetie there are too many unhappy people everywhere , dont join them oh.

Dear i want you to be happy so please take time , make the right decision, i wont even ask you to pray because this is all YOU