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yongLord:
Don't know if this is the right thread but I hope it gets to the right audience. Pardon my English. I'll try to make it brief

A very close friend just got an apartment and moved in late December, the house was gotten through the sister (to the owner) who monitored the construction of the house. The house hasn't been registered with the electricity company and water isn't running as at the time he paid (190k + 40k (commission &agreement)) the water.

On Saturday, he said the owner came and the wife attended to them outside as they were discussing some other things about the house while he was praying inside. Before she left she even played with his children and gave them #200 also took their picture.

Fast forward to Monday, he got a call from the husband to the sister saying all sought of abusive words to him claiming the owner of the house wasn't attended to properly, they were supposed to let her in even without the consent of the husband since she's the owner of the house, therefore they should move out at month end. The wife called the owner of the house and she said the same thing then the another of their brother called again saying the same thing. They claimed that their remaining change will be refunded.

The question now is, should he stand on collecting all of the money or the balance as they said?

How is this a problem?,
If they insists on refunding him,he should be the one to determine the amount (his money have appreciated by now).
They're just bluffing, you don't give quit notice on phone.

Floki737:
Happy sunday guys. Abeg who go borrow me 2k urgent.
May God bless you as you do.

Your parents or relations, next please.

NewDadTroubles:
Good morning Nairaland


I'm going to be as explicit as possible and I need professional legal counsel/inputs to the issue stated below. (Pardon all blunders biko)

My wife recently got fed up with her place of work and decided to tender her resignation letter. She happens to be in the teaching profession and we all know what goes on in the private teaching schools (Most anyways).

On Friday the 4th of March which was supposed to be her final day at the school, the school's HM instructed her phone to put her phone on her desk (HM's) on the pretense that it was an open day and didn't want her distracted. She did exactly that and the day went just fine, after which, she dropped all the school's materials/properties with her and left.
On getting home, she went through her phone and discovered that her WhatsApp messages and conversations had been deleted, text messages deleted, all her contacts deleted, and all chats on her phone read. As if that wasn't enough, a few of her contacts called her to tell her they received messages from the school asking what her relationship was with them? Imagine!!!

Moreover, I think it is also good I state the fact that she and the HM haven't been best of friends due to an event that happened sometimes back between both parties. But for her to pick up her phone and go through it, and not just that, but also deleting her chats and wiping off contacts, deleting photos that has to do with the school, that's to the extreme haba!!!

Is there any legal ground to pursue this case or is it me just being emotional hurt that my wife's privacy has been trampled upon and I need to act. What should be my next point of action?

Thanks
NewDadTroubles

Does it mean your wife doesn't lock her phone at least?, who can be that naïve?.

Baitullah:
Must be a virgin, beautiful, pius and modest. Order things can be tolerated

Are you a virgin?

ccollins:
don’t answer him ooo. all this anyhow people looking for cheap services or don’t like to pay. I have warned u

It is OK if you don't want to answer him but why telling another person not to answer him?,do you think for him?

Ulunne777:
My mum tells you the day she will be going as soon as she arrives.It is always 3 weeks no plus or minus.Whether it is your 1st birth or last birth.As long as she stays until navel and circumcision site has healed she can go.cos me have phobia for wounds.

It prevents'See finish' like this case.

Exactly the mother in-law is jobless, if you add shameless na you sabi

Shakitibob0:
Obynolee....

please what's the name of the account you have with them?

One of their marketers has scheduled a meeting with me today

The very first time I did it I was not having an account with them,I used statement from my GTB to get 2m,the money has to be disbursed into their current account, so,I opened an accounts for the disbursement of the loan.
Visit: www.myspecta.com.
It's simple.

Omicron007:
Examination is actually the spoiler and vibe killer in schools. But, no one can actually progress in school without writing exams.

A lot of desperation and seriousness comes with examinations. Students try to avoid carry-overs while others aim at making the highest grades possible.

I was in the examination hall one certain day. In the middle of the exam, I just went blank. I wasted more than four minutes trying to write severe.
To make matters worse, the guy sitting to my right was our pastor and no matter the situation, he won't reply you during examination.
He later came and met me after the exam to apologize.

Share your own experience.

I forgot how to spell "but".

frozen70:
So far it's done in the church and officiated by a priest

You're wrong because the OP did not do his in the church and he is legally married.

frozen70:
So far it's done in the church and officiated by a priest

Because you probably belong to the "oh yes" group coupled with the fact that you must have been brainwashed into believing that the church "conducts" marriages and if not done in the church the couple will be committing sin of fornication.

frozen70:
What about traditional and church marriage

Was it the same 10 people crowd that you gathered or they were more

The way you arranged your marriage is the way people will attend, you are not doing it to impress anyone

But to fulfill all righteousness

He must have done his traditional marriage I guess,there is nothing like "church marriage", no church in Nigeria has the power to contract a marriage,only two laws guides marriage (custom and The Act) what church does is to celebrate a marriage (which is optional).

Shakitibob0:
Wow....

They still offer loan support as usual?

Yes

Shakitibob0:
Boss, Do you still use sterling?please how is their service now?

Very OK, they are number one as far as I am consign

gasparpisciotta:
Bro present day woman no like man wey dey do sme sme!!!

Shout for her head make you threaten to boycott her and her food for the time being unless she change.

And if she no change become more aggressive towards anything that concerns her!!

What she sow she must reap!!!

Once you see say she don calm down, bring her close and take her out but don’t let that be your only joker.

Change tactics from time to time

Best advice, OP do this and have peace of mind.

Esseite:
When you are an Elite in the society with your reputation at stake amongst your caliber of friends and network world wide, would you take it kindly if a "Love potion" seller is destroying all you have worked without a single proof carelessly?..

He that wears the shoe knows where it pinches.

What's police business in a civil case?.

Efe42:
I know bro but she's kind off wife type!!

Go see her parents then.

MisterKennedy:
Hi dear

Woman wrapper if na man made this statement you go mention am?.

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

Hope you have a good filter to filter advice?, some,we have heard stories of friend that poisoned their friend simply because she got visa to yanki the same way some people wants you to come back

Tribalism123:
Fella
Don't bring finance here. If u dont have advise better park well.
Divorce ke.
No be only irresponsible man.
Will u keep kwaaeet?

Don't mind some people, home breakers, hope the OP have a strong filter to filter most of advise

ShenTeh:
Auntie, you are still asking if this is a red light. No, it is black light.

Now seriously, like most victims, there's a tendency to blame yourself instead of the 'criminal'. Please don't blame yourself. The one who needs help here is your husband.
Stop making him see you as an easy forgiver. He knows you are very weak and are entirely financially dependent on him. Trust me when push gets to shove, his people would believe whatever he says against what you do. Save yourself.

He is an irresponsible man who has no business in marriage. If indeed you are in Canada, file for divorce with the evidence you have.

Hypocrisy sucks.

Hmmm this type of advice eh.

kanmie:
As a husband you get home and find your wife sleeping next to this. What would you do?

Smell the cucumber to ascertain if it has been used or not and where it was used(very key in this situation)

Ryda:
You don't have money for court case or you don't think you could win

Figures of speech is an SS1 work,why didn't you know when one is used?, or is it that you didn't finish SS1 ni?

ariesbull:
you were raised badly...i wonder how people cope with this your attitude

Don't tell me it is exuberance.... You were raised badly, take this from me son


Ana ezuzu.. Na emboghari anyi

Tufia

We have seen how well your parents raised you,I aired my view(which I am entitled to) instead of you to "attack" me if you fell offended, you tried conscripting my parents into your frustrated life,are you sure you know your parents?.
Like I said earlier, you're an old fool and I pity your children because since you didn't see anything bad in what the artist did,I believe that is how you're raising kids that will end up constituting nuisance to the society.

ariesbull:
just like the way your parents trained you to be uncout

Why running from your shadow?, the artist behaved well I expected you to say Amen to the wish.
Stupid old man.

luizpippo:
Abeg the artist reserves a right to ask for money.


This is how I told one Air CDR to give me anything for a job of 4.8million and he gave me 100k while it took me 3 months of running upandan to conclude.

And many others.

It depends on the job, if you were contracted, it is nice to name your price but in a case nobody asked you to do anything, it's wrong, what if Blessing didn't respond to her?.The artist lacks sense to say the list.

ariesbull:
This l is becoming annoying and irritating... What is wrong with these Women....must we talk people Down...if you don't want to pay... That is nice but bringing the chat here is gross...

I respect creativity...

If you decide not to give her money.... Please keep it to yourself


She doesn't understand arts... Some arts can be sold for 100 million... Some people sell portrait so much.... 120k isn't upto $1000 dollars it's just about $180 USD na him people dey make noise....

Big boys dey buy pencil work portrait for over 2 milli... It depends on how much the artist want to sell...

You don't tell her what to sell her work....

She is a decent girl working for living and not using her body and she must be Commended


At least she has visible skills.... We must respect that..


This art work is expensive

Raphael Drawing is the world's most expensive sketch at $48 million | Good Things From Italy - Le Cose Buone d'Italia.

You can buy it,I hope you will train your children to behave like the artist.

puyol005:
Am I the only person not surprised by the court judgement.

Not a judgment but an advice from DPP

HenryDion:
So, my friend just called me early this morning to let me know that his newly married wife have a tattoo around her vagina area.

I was dumbfounded, cause that can only mean one thing, but we could be wrong.

Right now this so called friend of mine is confused and restless, and they were the 'no sex before marriage' crew.

I didn't bother asking for a picture, even though I was tempted to ask.

Dear NLders, what do you think about the tattoo? Should he be worried?

You or your friend have been scammed by the lady,because she is certainly not who she made you or your friend to believe before the marriage, that was why she came up with, "no sex".

onthehill:
Man's Car Tumbles In Lagos After He Fell Asleep While Driving (Photos)

A man is lucky to be alive after his car somersaulted, IgbereTV reports.

The accident happened along Admiralty Way, Lekki Phase 1.

The driver of the car said he fell asleep and credited his seat belt for saving his life, according to writer Odega Shawa who captured the incident.

Odega Shawa wrote on Facebook;


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10159104454809735&id=524689734

https://igberetvnews.com/1411015/mans-car-tumbles-along-lagos-fell-asleep-driving-photos/

Has he woken up?

slimjohn2k5:
You would HV listened to her side of the story.

Then process it for sometime before letting her go

Do you really think she have any "other side of the story" if not manipulation at that point?.
Why didn't she call back afterwards?.