Corridon: We have to obey the laws if we want to progress as a nation. What you can't do in London is what you are doing in Nigeria. We all want a sane country but we don't want to be sane.
Stop talking nonsense,traffic infraction can be punished by fine in most cases without impounding the car,why sent him to jail,impound his car and still auction it?,who does that?.
Sonnobax15: And someone was telling me the other day to vote in the landlord of Lagos as president of Nigeria..Make I go mistakenly go park my keke wrongly,next thing na to auction am out
Over my dead body...I rather sit-down my house on that day than to go cast my vote for who go remove my source of food from my hand
You will be indirectly voting those you don't want by sitting down in your home on the day of election.Go out and vote your conscience, that's the wise thing.
It is very uncouth when you guys make statements like this. Do you know what yoruba people who support obi pass through daily? Or you think obi has no yoruba supporters?
This is inclusive election like obi said. Instead of making provoking statements like this, don't comment at all. Obi is a Nigerian course. Don't make him a tribal politician. He said that too. If we should get it right, we should start by doing the right thing.
Do you know this person?,this is Internet and anybody can be anything,my profile shows that I am a female, am I really a female?. You shouldn't allow such a post burder you.
prove me wrong if igbo youths are not dump in oyi river under his watch
counter me if Pityobi didn't make excuse for our youths decadence
what's propaganda about a candidate having fanaticism somewhat of threatening to kill other candidates members? if Pityobi is really important outside social media as you m0rons are claiming, why is his supporters threatening electorates ahead of the election? they're threatened anybody that dont support the fool that talk before reasoning
I would have said you should be ashamed of yourself but I remembered that you are doing a paid job just as Reno and others, you forgot that the Ezu River incident was investigated by the Senate?,was PO indicted?,I know you will indict him because of stomach infrastructure. But remember that a poor man in the South is the same as a poor man in the North, if Nigeria is good,it's for everyone, I am sure you do not belong to the bourgeoisie
New222: . I'm afraid of her parents, FOR HER. They'll most likely disown her. And stop her education. Other than that, there's nothing. Worse case, my family take full responsibilites for the child. The girl, I'm not too sure about
This comment portrays you as having only dick,if you family can take care of the baby can't you take care of the girl @25?.
New222: I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.
I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.
Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.
I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.
Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.
The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).
I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?
We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life. I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?
P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.
P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.
How much does it cost to do family planning?,that could have saved you a lot of stress,terminating the pregnancy is more riskier than keeping it,the options are yours.
Below are registered voters of all southeast states in 2019 general election
1.Abia - 1,793,861
2. Anambra - 2,389,332
3. Ebonyi - 1,392,931
4. Enugu - 1,935,168
5. Imo - 2,037,569
Total registered voters in southeast is 9,548,861.
Kano state has registered voters of 5,391,581.
The who south east is slightly ahead of Kano with just below 5000 registered voters!!
U guys should do more!
Remember that Igbo has 99% of votes in the South East and 2nd highest in population in other regions after the indigenes,this election is not about religion or tribe it is about the soul of the country and future of the youths.
Go to anywhere n ask people about Peter obi or tinubu n hear them out
Some will even think d Peter obi na footballer cos it sounds like Peter rufai of those days
"Anywhere" you said?,can you be specific?,can you conduct a poll here to see the result?,Dino Melaye with over 3m followers on twitter couldn't accept the offer of a poll when he sounded like you.
StilmaVsBorn2w: Back then when my mom was warning me not to go that far when our relationship started She kept on insisting I should go for the girls in my tribe, I thought she was just been a tribalist bigot. If only I had listened
She bore me a son, he's 3years now... though her people knows me well from normal visitation..but I haven't been able to pay her bride price yet due to the hardship this regime has on us. life happened, unfortunately she got sick since February, ever since then from one hospital to another..I took several loans from people for hospital bills to the point of me looking sick myself.so sad for us we lost her last night.
I informed her elder brother who knows about all thats happening, he called me back this morning to tell me that his people told me to be prepared to marry her corpse. He went further and said if I don't pay her bride price, my boy will be taken from me and I should be ready to withstand the consequences. I was surprised, I called for the burial arrangements not for a marriage ceremony
I blantly told him, I won't, why would I get married to her corpse. He was angry and cut the call on me.
Am more concerned about my son, please lawyer's in the house do they have any right to take my son away from me? Even if they do am ready to give it to them, but spending money to Marry her corpse I will not.
I only brought this here, if had chance for my son whose still in my custody.
1)You must not marry the corpse, you commit no crime by cohabiting with the lady,it is called "Common Law marriage ".You can burry your wife but before doing that involve the authority (possibly conduct an autopsy to ascertain the cause of her death incase tomorrow, though if they assert otherwise, the onus is on them to prove). 2)That Igbo custom that denies a man the paternity of a child he did not pay the bride price has since been abolished because it is repugnant to natural justice, equity and good conscience.(if judged in a village square you will lose but if taken to high court,you will triumph). Nothing much to worry though.
calmness0: Op, most tribes act like that, you did not pay bride price and you have been with another persons daughter for years, banging morning afternoon night without paying bride price, you never knew death can knock early right? if it were your sister nko, op go and settle her family.
Na only man dey bang woman, woman no dey bang man?.
My father happened to be the first son of my grandfather who automatically inherit his lands and other properties.
My father just died and since I'm the first son of my father. Which means I'm automatically inherit and in charge of those inheritance.
Now my uncles are all ganging up against me. These guys not allowing me to do the burial of my father who passed away for a while now.
They keep giving different excuses on why the burial will not hold.
They gang up and cancel the burial i fixed previously and I lost everything. All what I spent for the burial arrangements was wasted.
I really want to charge them for this.
They are using the influence that if they are not in support the burial will not hold.
These uncles has really fustrate me and I keep spending money and wasting my precious time traveling back to the village for series of meetings just to please them.
Yet they're not approving my burying my father. Not like they are giving me any money for the burial. I'm the one handling it yet they no gree.
They said i cannot inherit the grandfather and my father's properties..so I cannot do my father burial. And these are for their own selfish motives.
The Kingsman and the king supports me and has cautious the uncles to desease from such. But yet they still persist.
I have tried to make peace and peace with them as family concern but yet they are all still ganging up. And wow to fustrate me.
Now my patience has ruined out. I'm in mood for actions now.
I want to take matter higher than the community level with them now.
I'm thinking taking them to court now. But I don't know the process.
I'm seeking for the right direction i can take to solve such issue.
Thank you so much �
What exactly are you going to court to do?,I believe you father has his own house, did they enter your father's house to stop you from burying your father?. Since the kindred and the King are with you,what other support do you need?. How exactly did they stop you from burying your father?.
Is there God in that building?,or you believe those lies all these CEO's tells?. If you think otherwise,support your position with a biblical authority.
Pickmycall: Did you fix Enugu state in your 8years as a governor? Any politician who make this kind of promise is a criminal.
From your comments it clearly shows that you're confused probably by poverty (either mentally or physically or both),I also see from your comment that you don't have PVC. What's Peter Obi doing in Enugu state for 8 years if I may ask?.
echomanji: I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.
1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.
2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff, most especially the female friends.
3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.
I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail.
Need advice pls.....
Never you start what you can't finish in a relationship with a Nigerian lady,that i have learnt in a hard way,your greatest undoing is saying "sorry" when you're not at fault, it will be very difficult to stop now(I am talking from experience,I was in that shit before,the fight was so fierce, but I was determined, at the end,it stopped).
gasparpisciotta: Install and let us see the available channels on their bouquets
Channels yakpa bro,foreign news Channels, local news channels, cartoons,MBC,African magic, ESPN,Christian or Muslim you are covered,sports channels etc(Na premier league no dey).
Smokeybrain: I promised myself that I would get TSTV after an objective review by a nairalander. I have fulfilled my promise. Now am connecting my world. Good bye DSTV
Welcome on board, my last recharge was in December, 2k I am still rocking over 300 channels.Gotv have been calling me since last year to recharge, I made it clear to them that I GOT A BETTER OFFER ".I don't know why some people still waste their money on DSTV/Gotv.
Kobojunkiee: The woman was married to the man at the time of his death, so there is technically nothing wrong with what she did.
Being in charge of the bills does not give one legal guardianship so the in-laws are wrong in assuming they should have been consulted on the matter. So the in-laws should probably work on accepting their loss and moving on from this.
Are you saying that mere marriage is a defense for her negligence (because she actually failed to do what she is supposed to do to save the husband)?,I so much believe that the husband was in a state that he can't think for himself hence the wife thinking for him(by signing the undertaking). I believe she is liable and can be prosecuted the same way government can prosecute that parents that refused blood transfusion on their child and the child dies.
I will make this as short as possible. Before marrying my wife she seems to be this very generous and accommodating fellow . I felt fall in Love with her because this is just the kind of partner I want,
I have not really stand very well financially, though comfortable and contented, but I have this great dream of, because of what I pass through to help as much people as I can. While dating her, she told me all kinds of stories of her philanthropic and generous gestures to people.
But moving forward to today, she seems to be direct opposite of everything. She detests people coming close or we offering any kind of help or assistance to family both hers and mine not to talk of friends.
What about suggesting to assist a relative that can't afford, with their child education na war We have not born but I have more than enough space to bring one or two children to see them through school but my wife is not buying is at all at all.
I know who I am before I marry, this is the only thing that gives me joy, and my only reason for asking God everyday to bless me so that I can bless people.
But right now am seriously confused it hurts me alot but I don't wanna force anything against her will.
I have tried discussing it over and over with her but she is still not buying it, with the excuse of that we have not stand enough to carry anybody .
What could be her reasons and What should I do?
You're a weaklings,why would you allow her to control how you spend your money?,except it's hers you are talking about.
Travel / Re: Widow, Son Cry, Beg As They Win Bid To Buy Back Their Car For 450,000 by Obynolee(f): 1:41pm On Sep 16, 2022 
her selfish wicked boss got her into this mess
