pdppower:
You claimed you were prepared to accept the results. Why then the long epistle to Biden?

ozalogbo:
I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.

However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.

Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.

Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.

What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?

Neweramify:
Op your wife was wrong, but try and understand her fear. Most women feel inconvenient around their mother inlaw. Not because she hates her mother inlaw but for the fear of the unknown.

Let her know how you feel knowing she wanna bring her mum in when she rejected your mum. I'm sure she will feel remorse of her action.

Permit her to bring her mum, cause if anything happen to the old woman, she may accuse you of one thing or the other.

sync:
Dear Nairalanders,
I’m in a dilemma and need your advice
There’s this friend of mine who out of the blue contacted me last year October asking for a favor to come stay at my place a couple of days since she had an interview in Abuja. I allowed in her without hesitation since I thought it was just going to be a few days. Fortunately, she got the job.

When she got the job in October, she asked me to pls allow her stay for two months before getting her place. My people, it’s been five months already and she’s still not making any moves to get her own place.

The problem really is I am currently jobless. She doesn’t contribute anything to the house. I am responsible for our feeding, gas, electricity, everything! And I do not have money. The little money I have is from my generous elder sister who has been my helper since I lost my job. Weekends she sleeps all through while I clean the house. I also do all the cooking. She doesn’t cook.

I am a light sleeper so I get up at any slight movement. This lady gets up between 3 to 4 times every night to use the restroom thus keeping me awake all through the night. This really has a toll on me. During the day she goes to the restroom between 14 to 16 times. She doesn’t contribute to buy foodstuff but she eats 4 times a day

What have I gotten myself into. Please how do I politely ask her to leave without hurting her feelings and savaging the relationship I use to have with her. I am tired, depressed and jobless!

Vixlot:
South East Zonal APC Women Presidential Campaign Rally for Bola Tinubu

Omicronvaccine:
Actor Allegedly Stabs His Neighbour To Death Over N1000 Electricity Bill In Lagos (Graphic Photo)



https://igberetvnews.com/1436906/actor-allegedly-stabs-neighbour-death-n1000-electricity-bill-lagos-graphic-photo/

lhordspy:
Comedian self want throw banter.

Retire him with this crowd?

God1000:
This is bad, it doesn't speak well of our first lady and this administration.



Freedom of speech is one of the essential foundations of a democratic society, infact it is the essence of our democracy and the most cherished of our Constitutional rights

The Clampdown on nigerians for expressing their displeasure and dissatisfaction with the polices of this government is unacceptable

This first lady has lost my respect

Karen2024:
I have done so much for him that we can't recount. I'm amaized that he called me a gold digger.

Exmilitant:
I stopped watching half way.

The embarrassment was too much. My annoyance is with the so called men watching aloof from a distance.

And the uncultured lady was not even remorseful!!

Akindefunminiyi:
The girl supposed to be arrested for two things:

1. For embarrassing the man; Can you imagine, she even tore his clothes before and after he paid her. I know that the man won't want to beat the woman just because she is a female. She is a female and she is really misusing her rights against the man. Assuming it was man to man, I know what would have happened

2. For rough handling the new naira notes

Lastly, The government is meant to reward the man cos the embarrassment was just too much. Asin, I really felt for that man

Techpik:
A Twitter user @naturalboifilmz has narrated how he changed the life of a Nigerian lady who was into hookup.

According to him, he met the girl this year and while still in talking stage, he found out that she was into hook-ups.

He kicked against her job and cut her off only to find out shortly afterwards that she decided to get a job as a waitress.

"Met a girl early this year, in our talking stage, I got to find out she's into hook-ups. I decided to hit her with some hardcore truth before letting her go, cus I felt she was still young & redeemable.

Guess who attended to me today at the eatery I came to watch match? Her."

See post below:

babyfaceafrica:
Datti can't win one lg in Kaduna

Naira20:
The useless girl called her mother would be somewhere o.

Tomorrow, she'd come out to start telling yeye stories with crocodile tears.

Some naïve people too would say every mother is blablabla.

Being kind or good is not gender based.
Being a woman doesn't make you kinder.

efficiencie:


Madness. I blame the churches and families that accept to make wives out of hoes. They will ask for genotype, blood group test and pregnancy test but they will not ask if the couples, especially the lady is sexually pure as a precondition for the solemnization of a marriage. Then when the couples start having sexually related issues in their marriage they will start rubbishing the marriage institution instead of calling out the fools that joined two misfits in an unholy matrimony. If every clergyman and every family enforced the virginity of ladies before marriage, this foolish mother will not allow her daughter have sex before marriage let alone going as far as recommending family planning for an underage girl and even the girl will never try any sexual nonsense knowing fully well she would be jeopardizing her chances of getting married. This will elevate the punishment for rape to capital punishment and will make rape victims easily prove their case.

Himtulie247:
.... This kind headline na waaaaah! Knowing fully where Nairalanders thinking go run go to

oyebanji44:
Even though ,he goes for the interview

No one can beat Tinubu intellectual camp he will definitely dislodge you ni.


very clever man


Yes like some of his "wonderful " quotes we have heard in recent times.
1)El'rufai was able to turn a rotten egg into a bad one.
2)How can you prevent a church rat from eating poison etc.
Very intelligent

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.

I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too.

The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.

For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.

My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.

JASONjnr:
If you're poor in Nigeria, the law will always be against you, no master your innocence....


He was lured and probably threatened that if he refused, she will have the husband deal with him and he obliged and now facing it...

pquaver:



You are the liar here. You asking me what actions did his party take. Apc just let it slide because it was gonna hit up the polity more. Your type will claim Lai Mohammed and dss saga didn't happen if videos didn't exist.. Exactly what iis running foul of electoral law is what obi and dss did. You stand here to spill rubbish.. He was there in his capacity by his party and u can't determine for a party who to delegate as an observer.. was not He was there in is official capacity from his political party to monitor the elections from the APC situation room so what are you saying. Where does he know in Anambra he wants to go? He was supposed to report at apc situation room. In order to continue supporting your useless deed instead of apologizing or admitting it was the way things were back then, you want uphold the Saint obi theory.. . It's obi am sorry for with you people actions... You will only lead him to golgotha.
You are the one who is stupid not just sounding stupid. Your hypocrisy stinks to high heaven.. You obididiots calm people exactly what you are. A set of illiterates who have never heat of the comparison church rat is calling someone else stupid.. I am not in your low IQ level go find ur mate..
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2013/11/anambra-election-sss-detains-el-rufai-awka/amp/

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwjG6dvLiu36AhVQ7rsIHXY4BVA4ChAWegQIAhAB&url=https%3A%2F%2Fthenationonlineng.net%2Fsss-detains-el-rufai-awka%2Famp%2F&usg=AOvVaw3tv0a_fbe6f8f7ljBmlKcF

pquaver:


He was assigned by his party as observer so he was there as an official..

pquaver:

Oga go sit down when is obi he does no wrong.. If it was El rufai will you be capping this your rubbish.. Abeg go sit down.. He who comes to equity should come with clean hands..

Toluwanise247:

You don’t know how to read, 3rdclass student .
You should have saved yourself this public embarrassment. Some obi supporters are educated illiterates They went to school but they are still illiterates because they are bankrupt of wisdom and sense at the same time.

pquaver:


Simple in. Everything you do think about tomorrow.. Obi didn't realise a day like this will come... It all about the futuristic thinking I have harped on that obi lacks. How he didn't envisage an airport for Anambra shows he is visionless unlike Amoda

Ilekokonit:
Once husband and wife sleep in different beds or in different rooms, the marriage is almost over and may not last for very long

Husband and wife have no business sleeping in different beds or in different rooms.

The excuse some women give is that they are nursing a baby who must breast feed through the night and thats a fair point but at some point, the baby will stop feeding on breast milk and at that point, the baby can go and sleep in his or her cot and not in the parents marital bed and after some time he or she or they if twins have to go and sleep in their own room and let Mum and Dad have the needed private time so that they can bond if their young marriage is to survive long after their children have left home (which they will someday).

But the mistake a lot of women make is to over prioritize their time with their baby / toddler to the detriment of their marriage. Why go into a marriage when at the first sign of a baby, the wife imports the baby permanently into her marital bed under the guise of breastfeeding and in some cases even when the child is more than 3 years old, he or she is still sleeping beside the mum at night and often times the man has been stylishly shunted to sleeping in another room and even if chairman wan nack during the day, the 3 year old child is furiously banging on the door for the parents to open the door because the child has been made to always feel he or she has to be beside the Mum.

But wives who want their marriage to last will know where to draw the line and give unto Caesar what is Caesar's in a TIMELY manner.

A word is enough for the wise woman who wants her marriage to last way past when the kids will have left home to start their own families.

Prettygirl200:
I honestly don't know, but I know I won't stay unmarried. I will like to experience marriage nd even though am scared of childbirth I still want to have my own kids.

MonsieurX:

We said this at the same minute bro... Too bad the government is so wasteful. Apart from fake drugs and toxic substances, I don't see any sense in incinerating valuable things.

Mrkindness:
Why not government confiscate it and turn it into national asset. Black man is a disaster to himself. This belong to Asari Dokubo and Tinubu join business

wwwihy:
South East Women for Tinubu about to showcase their Love

SultanOfPuna:

If she is hearing voices in her head
That is a sure sign of Possession by earthbound spirits.
If she is not hearing voices then you can refer her to mental clinic

But if she is hearing voices that tell her to do certain things. Then no amount of medical science will solve it

So Find out if she is hearing voices then give me feedback
Then i can tell you how to cast those earthbound spirits.

I have been possessed many times by both good spirits and earthbound spirits. So i know the difference b/w the good ones and dark ones.
And i know how to make the dark ones run away from me ( well there are some stubborn ones that take more time to leave)
The most important thing is "does she hear voices in her head?"
That's the only way I can help