₦airaland Forum

Enugupikin:
Same testing you lots have been testing and having 20 exes, I just corrected you at the emboldened, ask your mother if your dad did not marry her as a virgin and is your mother worst off with it? No but you that have had sex with 20 women which one u Don marry

Small boys who don't know how to even clean nyash de come talk

I would have taken you serious if you're a virgin or marry as a virgin, but you're one of those hypocrites who are too religious but don't know God.

tidalstorm:
Nobody said she's a virgin. Sex wey no go pass 1hour. I know she visits him.

He paid the dowry, traditionally she's his wife.
Until the wedding, i think the father doesn't want them to rush things.

The father is just confused and I blame his confusion on our religious body,what makes him think that his action will prevent them from having sex?.

Enugupikin:
He should relax for the two months, if he has waited this far why can't he wait more,
There is this joy of making love to your virgin wife on the wedding night

I can't remember reading that they are virgins,where did you get that information.
The worst thing that will happen to anyone (both male and female) is to marry a virgin.
Sexual compatibility is an integral part of marriage,it needs to be tested.

Saao:
The father is helping the groom and the bride to have a clean marriage without sex. Let him hold body small

How

BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage.. That's in God's presence, He that giveth the blessing in the marriage. Not in front of some ancestors in a traditional system. If some traditional elders are honored by presenting the intending couples before them, should God not get even greater honour?


Smh atheists and liberalists would do anything to attack Christian faith




Why it's so hard for them to take in is atheists and liberalised want to attack any concept of God to anything goes.


The sheer hypocrisy is what I find appalling. If they hate Christian marriage, they should leave Christian ladies and families alone simple.


If you won't marry a Christian lady the Christian way, please marry your kinds. Go for the traditional woman and after the traditional rites or even before, you can have your way

All you said here are just rubbish, you reason this way because you have been brainwashed, does church have legal power to contract marriage?,there are two laws that guides marriage, (the Act and the Custom),what church do is to CELEBRATE a marriage that is why no businessman sorry pastor will celebrate your marriage on realizing that you have not paid the dowry (custom) because there is no marriage to celebrate abi initio.I challenge you to support your position or the father's position with a biblical authority. The father is just wasting his time,the girl will just go to her husband's house simple.

[quote author=Jack005 post=97850063]Some men sef.kpele ohh[/quote


Have you heard from the man before passing a verdict?.
It's very important you hear from both parties.

Praxis758:
If this report is actually true, then, it is not logically justifiable on the ground of poverty but greed, sabotaging, blindness and moral decadence.

Those guys have done a great disservice to the adjoining terminals and communities. They shouldn't come online and start crying blue murder because they can't hold the few given to them.

When was the last time train pass that rail if I may ask?

Emperormartin:
Compliments of the season to all nairalanders...

Please I noticed a disturbing scenario playing in my house as I came back for xmas... My 67yr old dad use to smoke weed (Igbo) in our sitting room.

When we were younger, he use to smoke outside and occasionally smokes around the house especially late in the night or in the wee hours.

As a matter of fact I'm 30yrs and I have another younger brother who's 27yrs then my sister who's the youngest. But Non of us smoke weed or have toed in his line... My mother has tried in that aspect not to raise us like that!!!

I brought this issue here because I need help on how to make my aging dad DESIST from that lifestyle... It breaks my heart seeing him popping smoke like that and it's degrading when we have visitors in the house... And secondly I'm wary of his health!!!

Pls help a Brother!!!

Respect your father is a commandment of God.

BlessedNuel:
The tori long....the lady in question fine no be small

Have you seen her without make-ups?

Millimann:
How come she never visited your home when the husband was alive. Who followed your dead brother to go and marry her?

You forget that them dey "buy " elders for such occasions?, more especially when the two are not from the same place

samincredible44:
kanyamata is working in ur life

Exactly

lalasticlala:
Nicholas Ibekwe of Premium Times has alleged that households at the Ojo Military cantonment now pay money to private vigilantes for security.

Mr Ibekwe took to his Twitter page to reveal this and wrote:



https://twitter.com/nicholasibekwe/status/1330851441444007938

I was at the barracks to buy vegetables after the #End Sars# curfew and the woman I was buying the vegetables complained of the insecurity they were encountering on their way to the bush where they are buying the vegetables.

yarimo:
Is GEJ the YAM eater and the Mandela of otuoke not longer a human being that people can visit again ? KOLA OLOGBONDIYAN you are the worst and incompetent PDP spokesman since 1999

You don't see the political undertone to the visit because you're naïve.

TecM0:




El Rufai gave a wonderful restructuring idea with his fellow Governors in 2018 but what many still fail to understand is that only the National Assembly can restructure our constitution

No President can do it, no Governor has powers to do it



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He is making a political statement in furtherance of his 2023 Presidential ambition.

Warlord2014:
Ladies have higher chances of contracting HIV than men...
A guy could lash a positive lady countless times without contracting it.
That is why it is good to avoid all those extreme s3x you watch in porn, with such...na express way to contracting HIV.
A precum from an infected guy can transmit HIV to a lady...

What does porn got to do with one contacting HIV?

Bellotelli:
This is about the first story I'll be posting here, so please pardon my typo and I'll try to make it a short one.

I met this girl about four years ago and we started dating immediately (she was 20). She was a good person but I had no deep emotional feelings for her. She even got a customized Man United Jersey for me.. The first birthday gift I ever had.

Fast forward to December 2018, I decided to break up with her becos I met someone else whom I thought I would settle down with but that relationship turned out be my worst nightmare (story for another day). By January 2020 I decided I've had enough and quitted, then I reached out to my ex and mended things with her cos she never offended me and I didn't want to be lonely.

Our relationship was mainly sexual.. Sometimes without protection.

Fast forward, mid May 2020 she sent me a message asking when last I did an HIV test and I told her since August last year (a lie). I called her immediately and tried to know why she asked and she confessed that she has been diagnosed HIV positive since late last year and she has been battling with her conscience since we came back and started having unprotected sex.

Initially, I was very furious with her and myself. How could I make such a silly mistake?... How could I be so gullible as to trust a girl merely by her looks? She called, messaged and begged that I should forgive her but I told her to give me some space for the time being.

I became so scared of going for a test until last month (September) when I decided to meet her. We spoke at length and I was more traumatized when she told me that she wasn't in any sexual relationship since our break up in 2018... She thought I infected her. I was also confused because aside catarrh I've not treated even malaria since the beginning of this year. In fact since August last year I was only diagnosed with malaria and typhoid.

Conclusively, I decided to go with her to the hospital to conduct the test yesterday October 19, 2020. I prayed for a second chance as i waited anxiously in the Lab reception.

Finally, the doctor called me and told me the test result. Wow.. What a relief, I thank God Almighty for a second chance. I know HIV is not the end of the world, but what I feared the most and for most people out there is the stigma.

AND FOR MY NOW EX... I'll Like to sit down with her in order to know the truth. I want to know how she contracted HIV.

It not yet Uhuru,repeat the test after 3 months and another 3 months.

Biodun556:
From this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6204752/anthony-okechukwu-mother-whose-son

In a video, Tony's brother said He died in a motorcycle accident on his way home from an accident and was not a victim of the Lekki shooting.
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10217415171039014&id=1466898029

It's a pity that you can lie against the dead.

hakeem4:
First of all the people who stole the staff don’t use Nairaland

Secondly the people who stole it don’t read news

Thirdly, we on Nairaland are going to set a 5 man panel to look into what really happened. Just give us time to work.

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From my findings, it shows that the oba misplaced his staff carelessly. Since no one died at the toll gate

You mean the Oba is homeless now?.

LegendAnselm:
wetin u d talk? Put urself in their shoe u will do d same thing

Which shoe?,is Sonic a politician, they didn't know the house of those politicians that impoverish them?.
They went to Tinubu house to dance.

Makavelli25:
Are you a Russian
ABI where are you rushing to


If he is just moving to nursery classes then he is still okay with what he knows already.
Let me do a short breakdown for you
Playgroup/kindergarten (1yearold) -all they go to school to do is play sing rhymes and sleep
Prenusery1/kg1 (2year old)- learn life basic skills, greetings etc sing rhymes play and sleep. Some schools may introduce them to the alphabet but they don't really expect them to Know it
Prenusery2/kg2(3year old)- they start giving them pencil so their wrist will be trained to hold it well, they start reading the ABC so they will get used to it

Then Nursery 1 and 2 by now they would have known how to hold a pencil properly here they will start learning numbers up to 100/200 so when they get to nursery 2 the will start all these 2/3 letter word.





Just keep calm and find time for your kid. Monitor his improvement and communicate well with his teacher



He go det okay. Let him reach Nursery 1st

His mates can write 1-50 at least,that's his level, if mixed in a class with such kids,he will be left behind because not all teachers have that kind of patience.He needs home coaching.

SilverNorGold:
.. Enemies of Nigeria doing everything possible to destroy Nigeria, but they will always fail..

They should continue peddling fake news, and altering reality. One day, they'll meet their disastrous end..

Nigeria must be great..




My beloved brother, Nigeria is not finished, and will never.. That well-meaning Nigerians, eyewitnesses and security agencies are coming out to dispel your wicked lies doesn't, in anyway, signify the end of this great nation.

If anything, the truth has rebuilt and strengthened Nigeria. Abi as infrastructure and lives are being wasted due to the fake news, you like am? If you do, we don't.

That said, Nigeria must be great, whether its enemies like it or not.. Forward ever, backward never.

God bless Nigeria.
God bless us all.

You're one the enemies of this country,
"Forward ever,backward never" it's only one who falls from sky that can use such words to describe the present Nigeria.

Bessppectt:
Life eh. Only God knows tomorrow

Good evening all.

Please as we all know, life can be so unpredictable that
today, I can longer take care of my family due to untimely
death and loss of job. It's unfortunate it has gotten to this.
Please help a mother (with kids) with any amount as
starvation coupled with high cost of living in the country
have really dealt with us.
Also, please I want to appeal for any job opportunity be it
private or public. I'm a degree holder from one of the
federal universities in the country. I pray I get a job very
soon and get back to my feet. May God keep prospering
you as you help.
313 72 28 897, First Bank, Blessing O. E.

There are a lot you can do legitimately to earn a living other than this

Naijaaaaa:
Please which country?

If you're in Canada legally for instance, it wouldn't be much difficult to bring your spouse

StepTwo:
We’ve never had so many high profile deaths in the history of this nation. This isn’t a war but there’s something going on up North.

He was 84 years,pray to reach that age first

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright...
Oshiomhole, Kabaka, ize Iya mumu, captain hosa, tinubu and APC don't know what they have put their hand into
I told you all obaseki is gonna coast to victory... uhunwmode my local government of origin nor dey fuckkk up...as am typing now i dey my village....

Obaseki my real niggarrr

Ambode is a pussy asss niggarrr...with no balls...

If not for security reasons and police and SARS wahalar shebi i for disclose my location immediately i leave my village enter Benin city make we real niggarrrs for Nairaland meet in Benin city make we drink enough bottles and smoke enough weed

Edo truly no be Lagos

Oizee:
honestly I understand his pain, showing kindness to our parent is mandatory on us, irrespective of what they might have done.
One thing is sure, they are already regretting, especially d mother. They will surely reap what they sow. Let d guy forgive. Forgiveness usually brings peace of mind.

Thank God you said, "patents" are they his parents?, does bringing someone into this world (man impregnating a woman and the woman giving birth) qualifies one to be called "parent (s)"? (because that's the only claim they have over him).
You're talking about forgiveness, have they in any way shown remorse, apologized for the ill treatment?,do you think that they would have been looking for him now if not that he is doing well?.We need to be rational and stop given everything spiritual connotation,na him dey spoil things.

gaius01:
I don't blame you, you can't just conclude that's it's a pastor that thought me everything. I learn by my self from the word. Stop destroying the image of pastors when people say anything related to God that you don't find convincing that is bad. Please stop it!!! People learn from God and the spirit.


I don't blame you that's what an average Nairaland guy will say.

Assistant God,
Stop fighting for God because He will be surprise who sent you.Are you not ashamed that you went off key?.

Oizee:
Nawao, ur case is like that of someone I know, but his mum was there all tru, she sacrificed all she had. The dad was completely absent, he didn't even know when he finished pri/sec sch.
God bless d guy and he got a job, he lost his mum shortly after.
Now d dad is really in a bad condition and not that he remarried after the separation from deir mom, he wasted his life to alcohol.
He was a serious drunkard. He has 3 kids from d woman and my friend is d first born and only male. The younger ones are married, d man will be calling dem and be reporting dem to people as if he was there for them and the children are now neglecting him.
One woman told my friend that he should look at the whole thing as a challenge in life and as a test from God.
Your parent failed themselves and God, don't be like them, God will continue to protect and bless you more.
But do only what u are capable of doing and don't go extra mile for them, cuz they don't deserve it. But inorder to get total blessing from ur God, please take care of them in any little way you can but don't abandoned them, don't commit sin out of pain.

The concluding part got me,"don't commit sin out of plain ",what do you mean exactly, what sin?,what moral right do they have to call him," son"?.Is he indebted to them, how?.

gaius01:
Unless you ain't a Christian.
And even you are, then you are a neophyte in the things of the spirit .

Don't forget Sir, life is spiritual anything that happen has already take its effect in the spirit realm before surfacing the physical. If you don't agree Am open to more, let me hear your reasons.

What is this one saying?, I am talking about the victim proving her case in the court based on our laws and you're talking trash,is it my fault that you have been brainwashed by the pastors

bolaayenimo:
Temidayo Akinsuyi, Lagos



https://www.independent.ng/those-plotting-to-buy-votes-wont-succeed-in-edo-election-inec/

No be Yakubu's INEC?,so empty, assurance

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Ize Iya mumu is gonna lose

Here in my village...in uhunwmode local government area of Edo state...
Obaseki is coasting to victory...

Elections in Nigeria are won in collection centers.