₦airaland Forum

poshestmina:
Why not leave the marriage and gather as much bastards as you want.

Shameless woman!

She was enjoying the fruit from the church... Why lambasting with sugar boys

Islie:
https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2023/11/26/tinubu-vows-to-crash-petrol-price-eliminate-hardships?amp=1

Nlfpmod

That was how Buhari was vowing and vowing until he vowed out of office with impunity. Another jankara has started vowing, what is so hard is doing it first before vowing? APC vowers...

Nwaokunkpara:
Democracy is not for Africa

Every country should look for what will really work for them

Amadioha and sango type of government is the only solution. Let the leaders swear with Amadioha or sango before assuming office. Blacks fear jazz more than Jesus or Mohammed

SadiqBabaSani:
Hmmm, someone is trying to pass a message to Nigeria from Niger to Sieraleon Burkina and others and the recent unnecessary show of force by military in Nigeria something is amiss, even if I don't like Tinubu I will never pray for a military take over.

That CDS is sounding scared... He is already dragging FG to come to his aide... What a Fulani man will never say on live TV if his brother is in power. Fulanis may take over from him by coup and Nigeria.

1Alex:
Do you know how many landed properties that have been sold to facilitate the movement?

have you forgotten that we are up 200 million? If 50 million people travel today, 150 million is still remaining.

And 50m were either born or imported from futa jalon the same day balancing up the 50m that just left and the total remains 200m or more. You never know this zoo

BlackhatMentor:
But they'll never accept to be a man for a day.


Being a woman comes with its on pros and cons same as being a man.


The daily entitlements they get should compensate them.... And Yes females do enjoy sex a lot and big dickk giving them pains is a myth


They'd say they're in pains but will never ever settle for small dickkk



Have you seen those women on porn sites literally going to sex stores, looking for biggest dildos possibly to insert in the puzzzy



What a gender

It's called PAINFUN

CoronaVirusPro:
How did someone build such a massive structure without doing due investigation and verification?

If verifications were done and owner has legitimate papers to back up case, then owner needs to sue the Lagos state government.

The Omo-onile that sold those lands would have absconded now.

You no no Nigeria again.. The govt can give license or certificate to do something and another government will come and tell you its wrong. I ve witnessed it first hand, the country is a zooo, just pray it doesn't get to you or happen to you.

kcstyle40:
Good day beautiful people,
I am in a bit of a fix and need advice on how best to confront this situation .

There is this mama put restaurant besides my house in lagos but separated by a fence.
However the said restaurant is built attached to the fence in the next compound and that makes it awfully close to my windows and they cook with firewood not even charcoal but all manner of firewood.

The owner of the mama-put a yoruba woman ( very hard working ) starts cooking by 6 a.m up till 11 p.m with smokes going up and into the windows of my bedroom ( upstairs) and other rooms in my house making my room very stuffy and causing me to keep shutting all my windows .

Personally I can't stand any form of smoke be it cigarettes or smokes from burning stuffs

With the high cost of fuel I can't keep running Gen to keep my rooms ventilated and power supply is poor in my area .

I have thought of approaching her concerning this matter but from my observation the woman is very harsh n raze and I fear she might not reason with me .

I understand it's her means of livelihood but I am suffering cus of it and all my cloths in my wardrobes are all smelling smoke ... My room has smoke smell as a result of this , it only reduces if I keep my windows shut for weeks .
I hate problems and I avoid conflicts in every way ... But I have been suffering this for long now

Is there any authority I can report to ?

Or is there a better way to make her understand my plight and switch to cooking with gas without appearing like her enemy of progress ?

Please your advice is needed thanks

At this point, you must install solar panel and ventilator in your room. Tell your landlord you want to break the walls because of that, see if landlord will fight your fight.

nlfpmod:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/world-middle-east-67477240.amp

That's the only language the janjaweedds understands

yinkus6750:
That is the unfortunate situation our youths have found themselves.
With no hope for the future, they delved into cultism, hard drugs, sex and other negative vices at a very tender age.
Parenthood and leadership at all government levels has failed.

A drug lord is at the helm, what do you expect

FinidiGeorge:
Yeah, you're right about the hypnosis and one of the ingredients are the alien religions which turned the hearts of fierce African men and women to pap and chicken like. Whites are very dangerous creations with careful planning and we underestimate them. They've made most of us forget the true pictures of our various lands. I'm just tired of writing, the matter get Kay leg jare.

They brought the religion, went back and be doing another thing. Well I believe one day, Africa will have sense though, may not be this century because this generation is nothing to write home about

1TrippleCee:
Okay. Nothing pain me pass that football forecast, in a bid for life to prove someone as a nuisance that Luton Town will be deafted by Liverpool made us loose that match. All these permutations sha

I don't know if his member is on this forum. They always push whatever nonsense he says to front

FinidiGeorge:
You can talk about Nigeria but can't remember how Nigeria was formed ba? You don't know that it is unjust abi? You want to destroy colonial borders but don't want to destroy colonial foundations (whatever you mean by borders anyway)? Were people not living in peace before the colonialists and the curse of merging different nations together to form one confused country which of course is artificial.

You can't put the cart before the horse and expect progress. If you want Africa unity, for example in a place like Nigeria, let's talk about our differences first which of course are unique, this will germinate respect for each tribe and nations inside Nigeria, let them realize the detriment of ignoring this and how colonialists deceived us into joining the nations together. There can now be a landing point for governance system (division into original units, regional, amendment of constitution for equal rights etc.) As for me, I'll go with the division for several reasons.

You can't fight colonialists or their systems without visiting the foundation of what they did to you and carefully undo their hands and reset the system. But when you believe you will weather and sweat it out using the alien system, you will continually fail, it's no magic! Continue to do it like this nah and call the pseudo country one Nigeria, before your very eyes, another 63 years will roll away

If the foundation was good, Nigeria wouldn't have failed in just 6 years of its establishment! 1960 - 66, and since then, it has been merry go round of stagnation.

The Fulani janjaweedddds are into this shiit because of hopelessness, they are deceived to believe that they can't survive without oil in the south. The Ronu Muslim miscreants are the people I am not happy with. They are so confused and lazy not to see the hand writing on the wall or may be they are just afraid of their masters in the north. Another foolish people are the so called south south. The idiots don't even know the mosquitoe that is biting them. Somehow I believe Nigerians were hipnotized or jazzed. They behave like idiots even some elders in igboland

N3TRAL:
Stay and fix your fvcking country.

Na idp camp na, you no no say war dey fight for zoo. Some of these people fit don die if them dey the zoo but at least they are still alive here. Government go just Waka come one day give them menial jobs

[quote author=Meerahbel post=127140007][/quote]I like working with feminist and arrogant women. I enjoy there stupidity and at the same time using humility to chop them raw. They are the best ooo

TajuDEENaMao:
https://punchng.com/seven-kano-protesters-arrested-yoruba-community-fears-attack/?amp

I thought they use to shoot protesters at sight especially in the east. Why arrest?

FreeStuffsNG:
Fresh Naira scarcity hits Kano, Sokoto, Edo, others
23rd November 2023





https://punchng.com/fresh-naira-scarcity-hits-kano-sokoto-edo-others/

My own scarcity be say I no get kobo for bank

Komoscofield:
Igbos of the present age has come to the realization that they are nothing more than slaves in 9ja without rights or lefts and the brave ones has taken it upon themselves to put their life on the line in the just fight for freedom. it's not 1967 my dear people of 9ja n beyond so on that note, people will surely die but let's pray it ends well for everyone involved. no joke with Ekpa, dude get backing wey 9ja no fit understand+ we know the highest price to pay is death so we try to take much zoo terrorist before we go.
nb: Ipob M-branch is more resourceful that 9ja DSS cuz of the Mossad connection but una no go understand.

we got the backing of our Jewish brethren so make Islamists extremist put body n collect

They have no idea how powerful ipob will become very soon. God just put igbos here to checkmate Islamabad in west Africa.

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
Don't tell me you your mom and dad died same this year

Still trying to over come betting spirits

But I can only reduce the amount spend daily

Before I do spend up to ten thousand naira a day

Now I'm spending about 4 thousand naira
We are making progress though

Na weekend dey really finish me. Sometimes almost 20k dey go for betting.. epl, laliga, bundesliga, seria A, French league
Now I don even dey reason on Saturday Liverpool straight wining and Newcastle straight wining to stake am with 10k

But wait a minute I heard there is a fight between yorubas and hausas in akute in ogun state right about now

You can't stop betting just reduce your stake. Play more odds with less money, it becomes almost impossible to win but its better

dominique:
If we need to depend on the performance of other teams to qualify, then we have no business being at the world cup.

They should just sit down, there is no money to waste

EyeCumInPiss:
IPOB Elders.

Yes it can't be Yoruba elders. Ipob elders masking as Yoruba elders trying to shame tinubu government. Yoruba Ronu ooo

Watcharena:
what you said above does it make sense to you ?

Well, understanding differs and it's difficult for some. Why some can play chess better than others. If you don't understand, don't worry yourself. Hamas will cease to exist after this war.

Watcharena:
but Israel don't negotiate with terrorist and they said Hamas are terrorist.



What do you have to say now , defending some things dey very hard ,some times it can make some one look dump

Yes, if you read my comments very well you will understand. Hamas is negotiating and Israel is playing along. The goal is to release the hostages safely. However, the agenda to eliminate Hamas continues.

Na you wey no understand.

Watcharena:
how do they intend to eliminate Hamas when they failed to locate even a single hostage held by the same Hamas even after 46 days of the operation

They know but won't attempt because, Hamas will execute the hostages. They usually keep hostages for negotiations.

ezeonline:
Peace is non negotiable.... Hostages should be released so that there can be peace.

They just want to buy time to regroup. Terrorists do not repent and they don't have conscience. However, Isreal just want to cease fire for the sake of there citizens nothing else. The agenda to eliminate Hamas continues after all.

Taffeds:
"I have been in the North-east, there were a lot of Boko Haram elements that have been captured. We have kept them for five/six years. We the armed forces can arrest but cannot prosecute."

Story

I thought only me read here. This is something to worry about but the Ronu idiots and agbados will prefer they arrest percecute an agitator instead which they are also a victim. Stupid people in Nigeria

Odewaleadesoye:
A chieftain of the All Progressives Congress (APC), Femi Fani-Kayode, has urged President Bola Tinubu to condemn the killing of children and women in Gaza.

Fani-Kayode urged Tinubu to join world leaders in calling for an unconditional ceasefire in Gaza.

The former Aviation Minister made the call while faulting the bombing of Gaza by the Israeli Defence Force.

Posting on X on Tuesday, Fani-Kayode wrote:

DAILY POST

Tinubu is a Muslim for political reasons... He is not a jihad Muslim. As it is, everyone is against Hamas except terrorists.

guobe:
Nigeria lady cries at the airport as she told his boyfriend that he should promise to come back for her.

I don't believe in a woman waiting for a man for so long. Just keep communicating while you mingle with other good guys. If he values you, he will be engaging you as a wife to be but just let him know you are likely to path ways. Don't be a cheap human being to anyone. Your kidney alone is worth more than 30m

UnproudLife:
So it happened that at this certain time, I was running a lucrative business that had so much cashflow., to the tune of about 2-4m monthly and I married my long-time girlfriend whom I disvirgined and had been dating for 7 years.

The moment we married and started the family journey, I tried making conversations about having a core family standard that would make harmony stand the test of time. Note that I am a man who is disciplined and goal-oriented. So first I approached my wife with a conversation on how to both make meaningful contributions in getting the family from point A to B at all times, to be more detailed, one of the conversations we had was about our finances because I also mentored her in the same business and she was raking in cash as well and was profitable.

I asked her that we make it a habit of both of us making contributions, having a certain joint account where we drop in cash from a certain amount we make sure we get paid monthly from our businesses. This was because while I was a reasonable spender who knows that if I go broke nobody got my back in the whole wide world. I'm the kinda person who when I spend, let's say for example, 200k just knows I'm worth times 30 of that but even with that I didn't have a concrete structure in business, I just spend money or do things as though my business was an extension of me, which the same was my wife's as well. And this was the reason I wanted us to make the conversation and also do things together. So I told her when we get paid monthly from our businesses we send a certain percentage of it to a joint account to run the family and if I was doing let's say 70k she should do like 30k because, with all honesty, I valued her business at if not half of mine or slightly above it was close at the time. And this was immediately we got married oh.

I was met with strong refusal, as she told me I married her and it was my duty to cater for everything, but as a patient person that I am in not making my judgement rashly I kept trying to convince her. I did till when it dawned on me that we was stern with her objection. And then this created in me a sense of deep selfishness from my wife and also note that I wasn't ever nosey about her income and even though I had a way to access her accounts to monitor Everything I wasn't interested and I was being the sole provider in the family while I watched my wife spend her money how she liked, making decisions that should involve me with her sister and calling some things to surprise me, and I don't mean it negatively.

It happened that i started a project in building a house 3years before we married which I'd credit to her sisters's advice and by the time we married we were already done with the roofing, remaining plastering and the rest. We were living at a very moderate house in town but had this project at a suburb in lagos which we all know that as a lagosian is still Lagos but only that the area would be less expensive. So at a time we were planning moving to a better apartment in town when her sister and her friend advised we pour money in completing our own place to move in. After much convincing I agreed and God blessed the most during this period in business so I had a dream house kind of finishing to the interior and we moved in.

During this time we were managing living at our business place because I was still accommodating her in my business space and we lived there and went home ones or twice in 2 weeks as it was easier with my driving. We then had a certain disagreement that made my wife without my agreement move her business and everything to that house and the area sighting her sister advicing it be done. I winked at it for peace to reign and because I wasn't a fool. Sorry without having to correct what I typed up there, this was the real account of what happened. When we had our first child she moved directly there and I went home weekends while running both businesses with me just directing her staffs and guiding them with discipline. We all know when you leave business for strangers it's OYO but all that doesn't mean I was also having access to her money, the money went to her while I managed the business.

This also was playing out while we dated and got married in how she never likes making any expenditure in even the cost of executing her jobs, and she would rather blackmail which I don't buy and because at those times I stick to mindset in business she'd rebel and take rash decision that would later backfire. So that was how she came one day and moved her everything to the area where we built saying her sister advised it.

I was a faithful man, a born again personality who ever since I gave my life to Christ about 5years to our marriage I stopped having fornication even with her or anyone and till that point in the marriage. So as she had moved, ye little things I knew in her business started diminishing while I was running the family financially. But this lady was always making me feel less than a man because she was so so not submissive even though I married her with the us being both core Christians and born again where she was even more fired up than me so we all knew submissiveness was the watchword but she wouldn't sub to it at this point and when I was home she'd make life miserable for me shouting in an area that the voice travels far, insult my life telling me that she regretted marrying me because I was a person who just wouldn't budge and I used to say I don't "think" as in the thinking that leads to depression and I guess this was why she wasn't having it. I always found ways to channel my thoughts to things positive that gets me going and even forgiving her on time while she sometimes take days to stop keeping malice.

This lady graduated to the aspect of telling me she stooped so low marrying me and I could go out and meet other ladies that she wouldn't even give a damn, and this went on for a long time. Without exaggeration, I myself was someone that in her words she feel for initially because of my looks although I was 5"7 and she like 5"6 in height which isn't that short for a man. I knew how young in thought and look I was when I start taking care of myself and dressing nice again and without a doubt an handsome man, so it got to a point I said to myself I've had enough. At this time I was already lusting at my spec in ladies out there in which I married her like but she refused to remain at. I brushed off and even while being in my early 30s I had several ladies saying I looked 23-26 in age and I started meeting ladies and having affairs with multiple through platforms and it was mind-blowing to me because they were telling me I looked better in person even though the profile pictures I had were compelling themselves. So I had several young ladies wishing we were dating for real but u didn't want that and wouldn't lie to get them laid with promises but the only lie I told was that I wasn't married neither with kids which some weren't even suspecting not to talk of asking such. But something was just not clicking with the way guys if this age behave when I relate with them and this is when we have more deeper relations and then they start sensing the nature of responsibility which makes them ask if I was married.

So at this point I said to myself, I was separated from my wife and I told her in several occasions because I wasn't going home as often as before she noticed all the changes in my looks but cared less. I was so far gone in having other ladies that I didn't even know what could ever make me wanna get back with her again. But in all these I was still a man who doesn't believe in divorce, which is what I always tell her made her misbehave. Then lemme note this. I was so far gone playing churchy Al these years I never knew the age had turned around and ladies were now so much for sale, I could remember hearing the word hookup for the first time 2 years ago when I had started contemplating cheating and I turned so many girls down on those platforms when I understood what hookup meant. I mostly kept them friends online for whining and all and I went off without meeting anyone until last year, that same last year by almost the middle of the year I had my first encounter with a lady who was almost begging I had s*X with her right in my car as the car was tinted at the back, and this was while being friends. I refused and explained I had never done it before. But a month later I started getting in the act until miraculously this year at mid year I had been longing for a change in lifestyle when I got the gift of repentance right in church and I just at this moment didn't care what my wife had ever done to me, I just forgave her in my heart, asked for forgiveness from God. Then it has been happening lately by then that she had been begging me and her sister was saying she in the person of my wife was already fed up and wanted to beg back in good terms with me but you know basking in the love of flesh I wasn't into it and knowing she was the kind that goes back to her vomit. But at this point I determined to make her come where I was and then we reconcile. But shortly after I did restitution with her and told her all I had done and what she made be go into but to my surprise she was so disappointed crying and telling me all sorts which was surprising to me because I expected this woman should have already seen the writing on the wall because I don't know how to pretend at all but she said she never suspected that she knew I was a Christian. Although I played a clean game but was was obvious was the fact that I changed in looks and all and shouldn't that be glaring. And now she only sober occasionally when the thoughts kicks in

My main problem now is that, while my first child is a copy of me, I started seeing the looks of my sister in law's last born in my last kid, which my mum has vaguely noted and I seconded. We can't even nurture the thought as we just said it. But personally each day I now stay with the kid I keep looking the semblance and thinking what if my bro in law which is my sister in law's hobby fathered this child. You see that would have out the child conception at about 3 months before I ever started having affairs outside marriage. I just wish to know what you guys think because I haven't even been able to ask any question relating to that as my wife just seem to off to ever fall into such.

Please ignore any typo as it was long and I'm trying to get by with a new course and it'll be hard to go through what I've written again. Pardon me

If a woman start disrespecting you, give her space. Don't argue with a woman or allow her see you finish. A mysterious man is more attractive to a woman than a heavily built man.

Prigidypogodo:
she was complaining a pint of blood costing 50000 naira.
wow how fast can evil catch up with those supporting it.
was thinking the money she got from buhari abi Tinubu should be enough to foot her bills.

not mocking her because nobody hang his or her life for wardrobe.
I hope others learn from this.
don't support evil because of temporal benefits.

Those people supporting evil for 30k or more, I wonder how they reason sha. Imagine if it's a country that works, she may get blood donations for free but No, she wanted an evil government for personal benefits.

Judolisco:
there are some speech that may incite violence I agree.... But speech like I don't like gay people should not be sensored.... Speech like there are only two genders should not be sensored

Fact is anything that is not open becomes dangerous because, definitely its going to be used behind the scene. If it's sensor online it will be used offline so why pretend like it never existed. I prefer cautioning to outright shut up.