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God1000:
Such staggering numbers

This is very true sha, it's an incurable addiction

the high unemployment rate is partly responsible, infact it has become a walk of life for some people.

Bet is saving us a lot of things if you don't know. Nothing as dangerous as a hopeless man. Bet gives the average poor man hope.. Helps them to keep pushing and never to commit suicide or become a terrorist. Bet is good

MadamVanessa:


Men are no longer men anymore. Weak and timid. So emotionally ridden.

Our forebearers will be turning in their graves with much disappointment to see the numbers of weak emotional ridden dingbats calling themselves men walking now in the world.

But you want to be equal right? Go to science school.... You will understand. We have what is called PH value. Organic or acidic but one neutralizes the other to water. Come to physics... Protons and electrons... One neutralizes the other etc. So if you want men to be men, you better be a woman for real.

illicit:
Unfortunately my home state, Ekiti 😞

Nearby

illicit:
Motherfucker

Must have come from Ogun state... I didn't read anyway

budaatum:
You may think you are talking about your wife whom you hope becomes the mother of your child but I must warn you that you are actually presenting yourself so satan meddles in your future which will be shortened thereby.

Nothing devil hates pass marriage, he will fight you to the last

Goto jumia and check what people are buying according to the reviews

GO0DHardDick:
Damn!

See the way she met the king with ease and comfort exhibited by so much confidence. But the drug lord looks so confused as though he was being forced to see the king.

Respect get levels. Massive respect to okonjo iweala.

If Nigeria was sane, this woman and Peter obi would have been made president of Nigeria

It would have given Nigeria a nice face lift but then Agbadorians and the janjaweedds prefer darkness and they want everybody to join them by force in the name of unity

Babaken:
The same people that introduce Christianity to us.

Na The same people ooo

9jatriot:
Wait, I non understand. For a job that has the potential of giving you a revenue of around 3 million, that was how you replied a potential client. Abi non be 3.1 something million I see for that chat?

Some people pursue one job for years, while pursuing that job it does not stop them from doing other businesses, yet this one is just one month and see how your replied a potential customer.

Na wa

The guy no good. Some people just tie emotions to business.

LUAN:
mine is effecting my mentally, I have inability to think on the best thing to do to myself, each time I woke in the morning, I will be as confused as what I can't describe, infact I am a confusionist . I can't create anything as you stated.

If you are still single, you should be grateful. Just change location, come out every morning for menial jobs and as an experienced person, you will get the right connection before you know it. It would have been worst if you have dependants. Assuming you already have kids and your wife is not bringing much, still attempt to change location but if that won't work for now, you have no choice than to downgrade to menial jobs outside your vicinity. Just make sure you don't stay in the house to avoid depression. At worst get a teaching job of 30k a month. That was what I did to keep body and soul busy

Ballotelle:
Good day house, has any experienced job loss unexpectedly as a graduate and how did you cope during that period expecially when you have a family (labourer jobs are not even easy to come by), how did you cope with rejection, the emotional effect

Talking from experience, it makes you humble, stronger, and a thinker. You are likely to create something during this phase. However, handling the rejections, insults, etc is another topic. Just keep pushing but don't commit suicide. However good or bad situation is it will change.

beekind:
I am the 2nd born out of 2 children, my elder brother has been married for some time with no kids as a result I am super careful with issues relating to fertility.
I am in my late 30s and have been dating a 27 year old lady for 4 months now, the relationship moved so fast as she is a perfect match for me .
I have met her family and she has met mine, we are already planning marriage and have started counselling sessions in her church.

She complained of irregular periods so I told her to do a hormonal profile test and see a gynecologist, turns out she has got PCOS.

I have done my own fertility test and I am fine, I am at a cross road now, I cannot afford to struggle with child birth considering my age and also my only other sibling still also having issues with the wife also still trying to get pregnant after many years.

The only other option would have been to ask her to try for pregnancy before marriage but she is a virgin and wants to keep it that way till wedding, besides if I disvirgin her, how will I be able to walk away incase she doesn't get pregnant ?

I am at crossroads now, its not too late but walking away at this point will be very costly for me since we have already started plans towards the wedding and our families are already in touch.

My heart is heavy and I am confused, I need good advise as I cannot discuss this with anyone.

The phobia you already have won't even allow you impregnate any woman. If really she is a virgin, then she should be OK. Even if she doesn't get pregnant immediately, it can be corrected. If pregnancy is really your problem, then start having sex with young girls, anyone wey Carrey bele for you is your wife then. Life is short to live in misery but your peace of mind is paramount

mytime24:
No breaking of records from science and technology


Who washing/cooking thon help

That's to tell you how the education in Nigeria is failing. Children are not learning shiiit

iwaeda:
https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2010/1/6/absent-nigeria-president-challenged

I don't care na person wey e never reach him turn.

Aboks:
its good to be independent


no body go make yanger 4 u

Tinubu no get sense... Now, money you no get, power for Nigeria we still no get.

RedAlert08:
Where will he get the 70k since he's not working? Would it fall from the sky?

He is already working... Need to plan for upgrade instead of selling his precious time for $70. If he doesn't plan it now, he will end up selling 10yrs for peanut

Floky215:
Dem no dey tell person nah....!!

The other day terrorist and their sympathisers were jubilating that musk is supporting them...now musk have agreed with isreal that hamas must be neutralized completely...!!

No sane human would see what hamas did and not push for their total destruction...!!!

Hamas is a terror group and must be neutralized like alqueda and hesbola

12345baba:
Make una watch the video finish. B like them dey catch cruise

Hahaha, I dey tell you but jazz or jabulani can actually do this kind wonder sha.

NJV:
Let me just believe this is a skit or something. But if it's real, then this is totally unhealthy!

A simple question...how will that man feel is someone does exactly this to his blood sister?

I mean this is so unhealthy
Is he an im.becile or is he handicapped? Can't he work to fend for his family? Why take advantage of this old woman? Imagine asking her to get a third job at her age, just so she can help his family back home? Is this healthy? Does he want to kill her?

Again, asking her to sell her house so he can marry a third wife

Let me just believe this is a joke Sha

No be juju be dis? That woman is obviously not in her right senses. This is all shades of wicked and wrong!

God forbid bad thing

The guy tell am to sell the papa house so that he can marry 3rd wife

EmperorTolson:
I earn above 70k monthly and I was recently offered a job at Mutual Benefits Assurance Plc as a Marketing Executive, with no salary, only commission and bonuses.
What'd you advise I do? Do you think it's worth it? Please enlighten me.
Thanks.

70k is just $70 for a whole month... Wow. May be the job is stress free or not time demanding. If not please, don't sell your precious time for $70 neither the marketing nonsense. Use that 70k invest in some other things constantly for 1yr.

TooMuchStuff:
The guilty ones are always afraid of mob justice

The idiot can't sleep again.

SyrusdeHansome:
After working for pple for some time i realized that most Nigerian employers aren`t interested in the wellbeing of their employee. They`re only interested in their businesses without paying any attention to the welfare of their workers and that`s why if u`re very good nd loyal ur boss will never want u to progress. He may even want u to work for him for life with very meagre salary and when u can no longer render the quality service u`re known for maybe due to health or age factor he discards u like a piece of rag.

Yes that's how an average black man is. Very terrible animal

Broveens42:
Kanu single handedly stopped open grazing in my region, something no governor in Nigeria can dream of doing

Not only that, he single handedly chased Fulani herdsmen and janjaweedds very far away to God knows where. You can confortably go to farm now and come back without fear. Release Kanu today, all governors in the south east will become irrelevant.

Austineva:
All sabos must go one after the other
Biafra is a spirit, Biafra is unstoppable ✊

Fidel castro

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

I no dey ask that stupid question... Why you no check your table before marrying her. You dey find who go bring something come for your miserable table

officialwdhtv:
Why you should not come to Canada - Lady tells Africans

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9m5aAyVZfAY

A farmer in Canada is better than a banker in Nigeria. Don't mind the ganja lady. The only reason why I won't wanna come to Canada is cold, lack of big nyaahhh women and cheap nkwobi and isiewu. These are the only three things I wil miss in Nigeria

Jadiks:
These are people's bread winners lying on the flow lifeless

Come be like say they are enjoying the death... They are lying well like people wey dey sleep when rain dey fall for night. Make Fulani janjaweedds come try this thing for east... One piece of Fulani no go remain. Nonesense

eepeepook:
Congratulations to her. I thought she was in her forties.

I thought she was married to osuofia movie dierctor, chikere. This is the 3rd husband now, na wao

QueenDima47:
They continue to use security personnel to protect themselves whenever they do evil. One day it will fail. Somebody must die once.

I see that protection failing soon...

iHart:
If they don't stop it, one day uk will become an extension of Nigeria. Nigeria will fill up their parliaments, government agencies, military, police and even become prince, Princess, King and Queen. We are dominating them and will soon recolonise them

Na so life they work, nothing is permanent. In return, they may start reoccuppying Nigeria and leave UK for us.

overdrive:
I thought he now sells clothes?

Multi tasking is a must a an agbado government settings. That's the life of an igbo man.

immortalcrown:
You can't change an adult.

But you can attempt to find her a husband because she giving birth to a child might humble her and compel her to behave well. Childbirth doesn't guarantee the change but can help. Their gateman or driver won't be a bad choice since money is not a problem in her case. I suggest a gateman or a driver who will benefit money from the marriage since her father is a billionaire. No be only women go dey marry for money this time wey economy hard.

Compel her to keep one pregnancy and her case is settled