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phorget:
You wont see their names now o but go to every office you'll find them heading the sensitive positions...

That's why the country is on reverse since 1960.

Landowner101:
I am also like you and I am happy like that. Peace of mind is priceless

I like my peace of mind too much... I just need enough money to balance

Oblitz:
it could be that Putin doesn't want to take responsibility for using nuclear weapons. Wagner will now stylishly take control and unleash nuclear weapons. and Putin cannot be held responsible.
it may be planned work

Fear Russia... Those people are badass muderfuckersss

DyshApp:
Beyond the gift-giving, acts of service, physical touch, words of affirmation, or quality time and all that lovey-dovey whatever.

Very often, we hear about the five love languages that help us understand our partners better. Things that help us to love and care for our partners in ways they desire to be loved. However, these are only applicable when everything seems green and rosy. In those moments of raising voices, walking away, and exchanging words, how do we deal with our partners?

When conflict arises, we desire to be heard, and quite frankly, I don't think anyone wants to be spending time with or be touched by a partner who they have unresolved conflict with.

Realistically, every healthy relationship has conflicts, and when these issues arise, it is important to know your partner's fight languages or responses to amicably resolve conflicts. Just as we need to understand the love languages of our partners, we also need to understand their fight languages, as they are essential in understanding how to communicate with your partner.

Broadly speaking, we have people who are expressive in conflicts and prefer to address the issues immediately; on the other hand, some are suppressive and prefer not to address the issues head-on. Let's break these personality types into categories to fully understand the what and how of dealing with a partner's anger and our anger as well.

Check out some perfect responses to dealing with relationship fight language on Dyshus webpage(link in bio)

What do you think makes a relationship last long?

Money and respect... Have money, and get a woman that is respectful

Hidewell:
Good day, sirs and ma. I moved to Abuja to work as an Administrative assistant at (name withheld) close to Galadinmawa. The agreed pay with my employer was 50,000 which I accepted because I don't want to stay idle and I wanted to garner experience.

The Friend's house I stay is in Kagini. Those that know Abuja will know this place. The transportation cost from the house to my place of work is 1,100 and coming back same, which makes it 2,200 every day excluding Saturdays and Sundays.

After crossing my T's and dotting my i's I found out that The total cost is 2200 x25 days= 55,000 with a 5,000 deficit. The organization provide light breakfast and lunch. So, my food is a bit covered.

I am just confuse now. I talked to the organization for a pay rise but they gave me a stiff neck.

Please what will you advice me to do. I am seriously frustrated with the look of things. Do you think it's worth it.

P.s. I have worked for a month there now. I am scared my friend will complain that I am not contributing.


. I'm drained and frustrated.

Since you are close to Abuja, go and report them to Tinubu. There eyes go clear

ManWater:
Still wondering how a sane person will spend almost ₦200million to embark on a very dangerous 4km trip to the bottom of the ocean just to see a ship wreckage, & just for fun.
The fun is simply not worth the risk & the high cost.

Thats why yahoo boys were created... God hates waste

chokekachy:
https://gazettengr.com/seme-border-not-open-for-vehicle-importation-customs/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=seme-border-not-open-for-vehicle-importation-customs

Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7737294/fg-okays-re-opening-seme-border#123955681

This APC government na wao... How many president we get self

ottersberger:
His Generals already thought about that eventuality . They have their stolen oil and gas money and their families to protect. Do you really think the Wagner man is acting in isolation?.

War no good... Russia fell for this trap from US

ottersberger:
The day Russia detonates a single nuclear warhead in an allied territory or Ukraine, that will be the end of Russia. Putin knows it.

Putin wouldn't want to be captured... He may use vex throw one nuclear bomb

StrikeBack:
What pisses me off most times is this “I pray” why do we leave all important stuff to God?

Why can’t we search deeper and solve our problems?

We spend too much time with religion

The thing don dey tire me. Religion is making Africans lazy

seborrhic:
Ok.But it's annoying quoting a long post like that.
It get's on people's nerves.

Honestly, I don't know but it's OK since I will still read and modify.

saintbillion:
https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/Nigerian%20lady%20recounts%20how%20she%20was%20blocked%20by%20a%20guy%20she%20tried%20wooing_1687461350.png

A Nigerian lady has narrated how she got blocked by a guy she tried asking out.

@Pretty_Vikkii who shared the pickup line she used, concluded her tweet by stating that some “Nigerian guys deserve to be single till eternity".


She tweeted;

"Omo, I entered this guy Dm with a mad pickup line like "Guy , are you a school bus. Cause I see my children in you" The werey con block me, some of these Nigerian guys deserve to be single till eternity"

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/6/nigerian-lady-recounts-how-she-was-blocked-by-a-guy-she-tried-wooing-2.html

God didn't design women to woo men. If na me too I go block am. I no dey chop watin I no like

seborrhic:
You didn't bother to read,yet you quoted the whole thing!
Dindirin!!

No mind me... As I see Nigeria police station, there was no need to read yet.

I no even know how I take reach here

Thuglife2020:
We still have a long way to go in this country regarding police brutality. This happened on 16th to 17th of June, 2023.

This happened in Ado-Ekiti.

Admin, please, push to front page

This is an account of the events that unfolded yesterday night.

We received a call from a friend at approximately 9pm, informing us of their arrest for an alleged assault on a civilian and urgently requesting our presence at the police station that same night.

We promptly proceeded to the station, where we encountered several police officers stationed at the entrance. They inquired about the purpose of our visit, and we explained that we were there to support our arrested friend. Upon our explanation, we were granted access to the premises.

Upon reaching the designated area, we encountered a group of officers, and a female officer assumed responsibility for assisting us. She informed us that the suspect was unavailable for visitation at that particular time and advised us to return the following day. Despite our attempts to persuade her otherwise, she remained steadfast in her decision. Consequently, three of us departed and waited outside, while one individual who had initially accompanied us continued to engage in conversation with the female officer. Unfortunately, all his efforts to persuade her were futile.

At that point, I noticed a worrisome escalation in the woman's demeanor, suggesting that she intended to exacerbate the situation. Sensing trouble, I stepped aside and retrieved my phone. As soon as the police officers noticed that I had my phone out, they swiftly approached and confiscated it, subsequently grabbing me by my clothing and forcibly dragging me back into the police station alongside my friend.

Inside the station, the woman locked the door and immediately began accusing us of attacking the officers present. Another officer arrived, and without giving us an opportunity to explain our side of the story, he resorted to physical violence, repeatedly slapping us and demanding that we sit on the floor.
The officer then escorted us to his office, where we had a brief conversation with him about the purpose of our visit. The DPO came, and he inquired about the individual who had taken out their phone during the intense argument, and I acknowledged that it was me. Consequently, he instructed one of the officers to detain me while allowing my friends to leave. These events transpired within the confines of the police station.

The officer led me to the counter, with the DPO (Divisional Police Officer) accompanying us. Upon reaching the counter, my slippers were confiscated. While waiting there, before being taken to the holding cell, the female officer levied an accusation against me, claiming that I had assaulted her by pushing her. I vehemently denied the allegation, emphasizing that such an incident never occurred. During the argument, she had been holding onto my friend's clothing, while a male officer had a grip on mine because I had taken out my phone.

This denial seemed to anger the DPO, who deemed my speech aggressive and labeled me as stubborn. He threatened to teach me a lesson and asserted that I would be taken to court the following day. Subsequently, I was placed in custody. Shortly after being locked up, I was escorted out again to provide a statement. I recounted the events that transpired prior to being returned to the cell.

The following day, an officer approached me while I was still in the cell and informed me that the DPO had decided to release me on the condition that I offer an apology. I firmly and unequivocally expressed to the officer that the DPO was fully aware of the events that transpired the previous night and that my confinement was merely a result of my refusal to comply. I made it clear that I was not prepared to apologize to the DPO for something I did not do, as it would be an infringement upon my rights.

The officer realized that I was not willing to comply with the demand. Despite this, the DPO ordered my release. If I had committed a grave offense, I would have been willing to apologize, but I firmly believed that my rights had been violated, and I refused to apologize for something I did not perpetrate.

Later on, another officer arrived to effect my release and escorted me upstairs. This officer informed me that the DPO had instructed him to prepare my case file as I would be taken to court. I was taken aback by this development, as I questioned the basis for such action. What charges would be brought against me? From where did these accusations arise? The officer responsible for preparing the case file was fully aware of the actual events that took place, yet he had to adhere to the instructions given to him.

Subsequently, another officer entered the scene and proceeded to read both my statement from the previous night and the statement provided by the female officer involved in the incident. This officer expressed a refusal to accept the contents of my statement, citing that I had included too much detail. To my astonishment, he presented a different statement and instructed me to complete it according to his guidance.

It became evident to me that he intended for me to incriminate myself by accepting responsibility for assaulting the police officer. When he began posing questions and directing me on what to write, I firmly stated that everything that had transpired had already been documented in my initial statement, and that was the only account I would repeat. This response infuriated him, and he accused me of being stubborn, threatening that they would take punitive action against me.

Meanwhile, my friends had arrived at the station and were working towards resolving the situation. They sought an audience with the DPO, engaging in conversation to explain the circumstances. The DPO instructed them to retrieve me, and they proceeded to the office where I was writing the statement. They accompanied me to the DPO's office, where the female police officer was also present.

The DPO requested that the woman provide an account of what had transpired the previous night. Unfortunately, she proceeded to fabricate numerous falsehoods in front of my friends, taking advantage of their intervention in the matter. She accused me of assaulting her; and my friends, despite recognizing the untruthfulness of her claims, were unable to intervene as their primary objective was to secure my release.


The individual accused me of assault, and my friends, who were present, had to prioritize my removal from the situation. Consequently, despite any claims made by the accuser, I acknowledge my involvement in the alleged incident. However, I was only afforded a brief opportunity to speak before being instructed to remain silent.

This led to a situation where everyone, including myself, showed deference (prostrate) to the District Police Officer (DPO), who subsequently ordered my release.

Before my release, I was required to sign a document indicating my understanding, and a friend who accompanied me was also asked to sign a similar undertaking. Reluctantly, I was compelled to accept responsibility for assaulting a police officer in uniform while they were on duty. My mugshots were taken. Although I was disinclined to accept this, I recognized that declining or asserting my rights would likely result in continued detention.

Before leaving, there were extensive discussions among the on-duty police officers regarding the incident. Some even directly stated to me that I had assaulted a police officer. However, my friends strongly advised me against defending myself, as they feared the repercussions of challenging the prevailing narrative.

It was apparent that these officers had formed their opinions solely based on the statement provided by the accuser, without expressing any interest in hearing my side of the story. Interestingly, the officers who were present during the incident and were aware of my innocence chose to remain silent, abstaining from participating in the discussions.

I didn't bother to read... Don't expect vip treatment at the Nigerian police station. I wil read later anyway

kemika8989:
Today News I heard some set of people are now sleeping in there office's. Suffer for this country e no easy oo

Thats the only way out

vibrant40:
Okay. I met this girl in an exam hall, we were both writing exams, so we did the student things, she asked me a maths question which she was kind of afraid of and me being a maths person answered her question and moved on with with my exams. After the exams she search for me to say her gratitude and we moved on. I think after the results was released and she got an A in the exams was when she had to find me and got me on Facebook. She chatted me and introduced herself, so we began chatting from there and that was how I got to know she is my kind of woman.

I asked her out, we started dating or lemme say I started dating her because at a pint she told me we were only friends during the time, be she do come to my side, we do touch and kiss but no s*x. Down the lane I got to know she had a guy whom she was dating but she could not marry because she has so many revelations and dreams that he is not the one and according to her, the guy had so many red flags. At a point I put it to her she should choose what she wanted on time, the guy or myself.


According to her she choose me. Along the line, she told me about another guy disturbing her for romantic relationship, because no matter what she will tell me anything even if she knows I am gonna hurt by that, although I do take it that she is trying to literally tell me to do quick and pop the question if I really want to marry her. All of a sudden I observe she was receiving a Seyi call till like 12midnight, and I would want to call her only for her to be busy on another call for a lengthy period.


She will not stop talking about this guy whenever we are together, how good the guy is to her, she even was like we have the same character but only that the guy is taller than I am and she had also never shy away from talking about the physically height of her dream children.


I saw all these as competition and keep letting her know how much I love and want to marry her. One afternoon, she just rang me and said just a sentence, 'I will marry you'. Well that gave me the assurance I needed, I met her mother (dad is late) and I must confess she has a very good mother, the mom checks on me everyday (infact she did while I was typing this epistle). I popped the questions and she said yes. We had our introduction and currently planing on getting married.


The problem now is, she would still not stop talking about this Seyi guy. She even called me one to tell me she went to his house, that the guy called home to come, I confronted her so many times to tell her how I felt about it, she kept saying sorry and keep repeating the same thing of no cutting loose from the guy, she even claimed that at least she is not having s*x with now that they are just talking..


Some days ago we had a serious argument about this matter and she was like maybe we should even end the relationship if I don't trust her (and this has always been her anthem whenever we have serious arguments, she would say maybe we are not compatible). She later apologized and promised not to let that happen again that she would cut loose of the guy, only for us to be talking via whatsapp last night around 11:40 for to receive this guys call and they spoke for like 10mins. I ended my call, she called back later and was like it was just an innocent talk they had....


Seriously, I am tired and confused, what should I do? Please help me with your candid advice. So sorry for the long epistle and some bad grammar.

You be sisi oo.. Sorry for you. I had to use these words for you to understand the shiiit you in. Read redpillers documents una no go read. See how you carry public toilet whole sale keep for house. You go suffer sha.

scholes23:
Yes he's the one

Chai... Life sweet before... I no no waitin happen ooo. Buhari just carry his bad energy share give everybody. It's well sha. I for at least buy my children common Sega.

scholes23:
xzxzxzxzc⬆️AAA


BRUTALITY!!!

Hahaha... Mehn... I don forget who get this Brutality ooo but e be like say na Noob Saibot

kingthreat:
People like you have sown the seed of wickedness in your life, hence you cannot wait to reflect it when making simple opinions. If you were a good person, you will pray help comes to her rather than look for justification of her financial condition.
Did Da Grin make that much money? And also if he made enough money and was steadily taking care of his mum then, isn't close to 10 years enough to make a his mother have financial issues after his demise?

Don't mind the janjaweedd, he doesn't know money comes and goes. Nobody was born with money and nobody will die with money.

dre11:
Police Inspector Jailed For Impregnating Daughter, Killing Baby



https://leadership.ng/police-inspector-jailed-for-impregnating-daughter-killing-baby/

Northerners and weird characters... Pls allow them drink alcohol and drink away their sorrows. Other hard drugs are worst than alcohol

Tinubu like working with touts. Army will soon become irrelevant in Nigeria

RingRoadMafia:
Tinubu has one of the worst gene pools I've ever come across. How can you be old when you're young and even older when you're old?

You're ugly in present tense and past tense 🤦‍♂️

Hahaha... In Mortal Kombat voice, Finish him.

I think say na only me noticed, the man was old 20yrs ago... And still very old 20yrs later... I don't even know what he will look like 20yrs front. He might be right he is 59yrs sha.

COOL10:
Mehn, this witness came prepared.

I love his attitude 😃😃.

That guy bad

XY23:
I saw through the gamble PO's lawyers are playing by allowing cross-examination deferred to a later day. It seems they're using it to draw the respondents out. The more questions they ask, the clearer the WSOO. I said it before that, cross-examination is a double-edged sword, it only works one way IF you know the right questions to ask. Unfortunately, the respondents have shown they don't. Why? Because they have something to hide.

Yes especially when you are lieing, you will surely need more lies to support it. Obi planned for these idiots with much confidence. Tinubu may never return from France soon because they will need more meetings in France than in Nigeria. For now, Shettima is our president and he will sign a lot of documents soon without agbado consent

IamV:
Q. You did not attach your Interrogation to your report.

A. I did

Q. Mention the pages where you interrogated the AWS in respect of these 12 documents.

A. In para 24, last sentence there refer to an attachment.
[he reads it].
What else do you want?

Q. There are 3 items mentioned there.

A. There are 3 items mentioned here

Q. Are you aware that there are 176,000 polling units ?

A. Actually, there are 176,846.

Q. And you picked 12 ?

A. With proof of consent

LO FAGBEMI:
I'm angry, I'm not asking you any questions again .

[ ]

[ That's that for the cross examination of the witness by the 4th Respondent ]

This is Brutality in Mortal Kombat voice

momsloved:
Good afternoon everyone, pls I urgently need your advice and suggestions on this.

My husband has been out of job since towards the end of last year. Almost the same time I had my second baby. The truth is, the same me nursing my baby has been the same person struggling to provide for the home.

Knowing that he contributed to his lost of job. He goes to work late, different excuses, doing the job anyhow that the management had to fire him. This is the second job he's losing due to carelessness.
He wasn't still meeting up with responsibilities even when he had those jobs. He was always complaining of TP expenses, deduction due to late coming, his salaries was not benefiting us.

Our present accomodation of 250k, one bedroom apartment is expiring ending of next month and I don't know how we're going to pay for the rent. The previous rent I have always contributed when I had the money.
Presently I have no job. I left my job during delivery, but I'm hoping to start looking for job very soon. Yet, I'm not idle. I'm still trying with little business to cartar for the house.

The issue now is, he has arranged his stuffs preparing to relocate to the village and he wants us to go together because he can't afford to renew the rent.
I told him I can't go to the village with him, we are too young to start retiring to the village. What about good school for the children especially my first child? But he has decided to go without us, leaving us with the whole responsibilities.
I'm afraid, I can't afford everything here either. But going with him to the village is also very scary. A man who ignore us when there's nothing in the house, waiting for me to fix, how can I trust him and relocate with my two children to his village? I can't speak their language and it's an interior village, How do we survive there?
He's not even considering all these.
Pls, advice me on what to do. I'm really fed up.

You can't cater for everything but you said his salary was useless. Means he was actually contributing directly or indirectly. No matter how useless a man is, as far as he is not cheating nor getting violent domestically, he is still very useful. If you can borrow money and pay the rent, do and get him to work with you. He will be good in business, direct him towards that path... But there is something about change, if Abuja is not Favouring you, relocate. Though, I understand village is a terrible place to stay, move to another town if you can unless you are established in Abuja

The court has now been adjourned.
Learned Silks, tomorrow is another day.
Keep your eyes on the Judiciary 👀

Someone should soluninini solenlyly say the closing prayer 😭

@IamV pls continue with updates today... The court is becoming interesting

Justice Tsammani has now admitted the documents as evidence before the court

SAN Afuba: My lord now I seek to tender Supplementary IREV reports for Gombe State for 1 LGA as certified by the 1st respondent

All the respondents have objected to the document

Justice Tsammani has admitted the document as evidence before the court.
SAN Afuba is now done with the documents

SAN Livy: My lord, I think this is a good place to end today’s proceedings. The day is gone already.

Justice Tsammani: Any objection
😅

SAN Pinhero: There is no bashing on INEC today so no objection.

Tinubu and Shettima: No objection my lord, let’s go home. The respondents have had a very long day today since the morning session (PDP’s case was this morning)

APC: Sh, no objection oh, we can adjourn
(🤣🤣🤣 why did he shout ahh like that)

Justice Tsammani: This case is now adjourned to tomorrow 22 June 2023 by 2pm

Justice Bolaji: I want to thank you all for the endurance with us, I want to thank all the lawyers and everyone and all the Press for the endurance today. By God’s grace tomorrow is another day. Have a goodnight rest.

The judges are talking extensively with each other

Justice Tsammani and Juatice Adah again
This gist must be sweet oh

Justice Bolaji the only female judge and justice Bello are also gisting.
Justice Bello’s face looks like the face you make when someone gives you surprise gist.
This one he’s opening all his eyes and using the eyes to download the gist 🤣

Justice Ugo is just flipping his own documents and writing.
Finally the clerks are done. Apparently they were trying to put together all the documents submitted by Labour Party and needed the help of Peter Obi’s lawyers to sort them and present to the judges

The clerks are now lifting 2 giant buckets of Jollof rice and thanksgiving evidence to present to the judges.
It’s really heavy and one of the clerks almost fell down🤣
Labour Party giving evidence that is causing pain and injury🤣😭🤣

Justice Tsammani: Is it all sorted now. Okay

APC: I have not State my objection yet

Justice Tsamamni: You want to object abi
We know already even from the way you’re standing. We have written your objection already. We know
😅

SAN Afuba: So you know what me to I want to say then my lord

Justice Ugo: No. You don’t have scary moustache like him 🤣😅🤣

True true that APC lawyers moustache looks like “bad bozz” in movies. All those villains look 🤣😅🤣

SAN Afuba: So my lord now we want to tender IREV reports in respect of Lagos for 12 LGA and not 13 LGA because we applied in number 9 to discountenance
They are all duly certified by the 1st respondent

All respondents have objected to the document tendered.
The judges are actively searching for something

The clerks are scattering some documents in Labour Party’s Jollof rice thanksgiving buckets.
The clerks are looking for a document

It’s like they’ve called Pinhero oh😅’.
Justice Tsammani has now admitted the documents as evidence before the court.

SAN Afuba: My lord may I quickly move on to Page 2 of our 11th schedule of documents and respectfully seek to tender supplementary IREV report for Cross River State for 2 LGA

Immediately PHCN did fiam and the whole courtroom is now as dark as the heart of those who stole election

Power holding has held the power in the courtroom😭
Hallelujah oh
The light is back on

Hold up
It has gone off again 😭

PHCN allow us finish this case today oh.

Justice Tsammani: Let’s go on, any objections

All the respondents have objected to the document

Hallelujah, let there be light
There’s now Power in the courtroom😅
APC’s lawyer was still up