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Celebrities › Re: Alfa Spotted Praying At Bobrisky's House Opening (Photos) by Occurstaem(m): 10:25am On Jun 20, 2022
This is shameful. Because of money they will receive, they don't fear their Creator whom they will account for all their deeds, either big or small.

Those Alfas must be high on substance.
If I'm the Imam of where these stupid Alfas reside, I'll ordered them to be flogged.
Nonsense and bobrisky.
Crime › Re: Gunmen Attack Kaduna Catholic Church, Kill Three, Kidnap Some, Injure Others by Occurstaem(m): 6:04pm On Jun 19, 2022
Too bad.
The killers will not end well.
Politics › Re: Peter Obi's Supporter Threaten Reno Omokri and His Family by Occurstaem(m): 1:54pm On Jun 16, 2022
I don't think that's a cruise.
A lot of commenters on this thread can't differentiate between an insult and a threat.

Reno has been on an insulting spree against Buhari and then Tinubu but didn't in any way threaten them. So those of you saying Reno can't take what he dishes out are wrong.
Reno has never threaten anyone. So why would the supporters of candidates threaten him and his family.
It's very wrong. It should be an eye for an eye. If Reno insult your preferred candidate then insult him back but don't go overboard by making threats against him.
Politics › Re: Senator Ademola Adeleke Campaigns In Ila LG & Ifedayo LG (Photos) by Occurstaem(m): 8:15am On Jun 16, 2022
Like play, like play.
Well, let's wait and see.
Politics › Re: Peter Obi's Egypt Trip: Paul Arkwright Replies Sowore by Occurstaem(m): 5:59pm On Jun 15, 2022
Urheadmaster:
Would have thought that learning from other countries is a goal to strategize and turning round the failing performance of the current government of Nigeriahuh


That breastsucking Sowore from the descendants people of oduduwa federal republic of miners need to be educated by the educated one cheesy tongue cheesy.
It's okay.
You never get tired of insulting other people.
I implore you not to stop dishing out insults.
Sports › Re: Referee José Arnoldo Amaya Dies After Being Beaten By Players And Fans by Occurstaem(m): 5:18pm On Jun 15, 2022
They just murdered someone's father and should be made to pay.
I hope justice is served.
Politics › Re: Senate To Honour Ejiro Otarigho For Driving Burning Tanker Away by Occurstaem(m): 8:03pm On Jun 14, 2022
AlhamduliLlah.
I hope it is not audio sha.
I'm happy for the man.
What an honor! For saving lives.
He is the real MVP.
Politics › Re: Ekiti Governorship Election: Tinubu Campaigns For Oyebanji, APC Candidate by Occurstaem(m): 7:55pm On Jun 14, 2022
Oluwatobiloba07:
How can I share the video here make I share one video how they use *EMI lokan* for prayer in church
Upload it on YouTube and copy and paste the link here. I think that should do.
Politics › Re: Ekiti Governorship Election: Tinubu Campaigns For Oyebanji, APC Candidate by Occurstaem(m): 7:55pm On Jun 14, 2022
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Kagame Deports 18 Chinese Investors For Mistreating Rwandan Employees by Occurstaem(m): 3:48pm On Jun 14, 2022
Nice one. That's the way to go.
But I feel the government should have prosecuted them if they violate the law of the country and made to serve their sentences in Rwanda rather than deporting them.
Politics › Re: Ekiti Governorship Election: Tinubu Campaigns For Oyebanji, APC Candidate by Occurstaem(m): 3:43pm On Jun 14, 2022
solmusdesigns:
cool



Emi lokan ...

The power of affirmative words

Orire , Ayo ati Alafia emi lokan

Wealth, good health, happiness , Promotion it is my turn



.
Even some churches have been using the slogan to hold prayer sessions. I've heard about three adverts of different churches on Unique FM using it.
Èmi ni gbogbo ohun rere kàn.
Crime › Re: Lagos Prostitute, Hannah Saliu, Burnt To Death For Keeping Quran In Room by Occurstaem(m): 12:25pm On Jun 14, 2022
chukskafor:
Are you sure those guy's did not put the Qur'an in her room just to blackmail her one need to be very careful with these set of people always check yourself to be sure if their holy book is not with u when working or living whit them
I seconded you.
Crime › Re: Lagos Prostitute, Hannah Saliu, Burnt To Death For Keeping Quran In Room by Occurstaem(m): 12:24pm On Jun 14, 2022
What is the idiotic customer also doing in a brothel?
They should also be punish the same way they killed the lady. Bloodthirsty mofos.
Honestly, I'm tired of hearing this kind of news.
Politics › Re: Justice For Tinubu by Occurstaem(m): 8:10am On Jun 14, 2022
If it is going by religious card, believe me PDP will be at a great disadvantage, especially in Osun.
CAN has been hypocritical since time immemorial. CAN were there when Oyinlola and Erelu (both Christians) governed Osun state, serving two terms as governor and deputy governor respectively. CAN didn't make a fuss then.
The way forward for CAN is that they should just register a political party and ask all Christians in Nigeria to join and stop bothering us with their ranting abi wailing.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Funded OPC To Kill Northerners When He Was Governor by Occurstaem(m): 6:34pm On Jun 13, 2022
They have started.
You can only deceive your co-conspirators.
Campaign has not even started officially and you think publishing lies against Tinubu is the way to go.
Promote your candidate, but no, it is how you will find ways to malign Tinubu's character that matters to you.
Continue with it please. All of you will be put to shame, God willing.
Politics › Re: Melaye Dance To “konko Below Song”, Host Get Together Party over Atiku's Victory by Occurstaem(m): 10:14am On Jun 13, 2022
It is not "konko below".
It is rather "go go below, go below".
Respect to the legend, Lágbájá omo baba mùkomùko
Travel › Re: Truck Driver Drives A Burning Fuel Truck Out Of A Residential Area To Save Lives by Occurstaem(m): 3:57pm On Jun 11, 2022
The man should be celebrated.
May God bless him abundantly.
Sports › Re: Football's Greatest Excuses by Occurstaem(op): 7:53pm On Jun 10, 2022
seankafor:
yawa don gas be that naa
Check it out
Career › Re: I'm In A Critical Situation, Please Advise A Confused Soul. by Occurstaem(m): 6:13pm On Jun 10, 2022
spiritualmubi:
I was diagnosed to have schizophrenia when I was 18 in a psychiatry , which I still go to up till date for follow up, and regarding the symptoms, bro it was crazy, even ran from home and slept far away from home outside for 3 good days, they had to look for me, voices and visions commanding me, and all. Thanks bro, and regarding the tahajjud I even find it difficult waking in the morning for fajr due to the prescribed drug I take to induce sleep.
With time you will get better, bi quwwatiLlah. Keep your duty to Allah, it might be a test.
Have you tried ruqyah? If you haven't, I think you should give it a try.
You should also, for better mental health, make general lifestyle adjustment. Do away with anything that affect your mental health, whether it's your habit or action. I hope you get what I'm saying cos I saw your one of your comments on one topic like that.
Crime › Re: Lady Set Ablaze For Possession Of Quran In Lagos by Occurstaem(m): 12:44pm On Jun 10, 2022
They are just hell-bent on tarnishing the image of Islam. They have no knowledge .
What they did is not in Islam and they should be made to face the full consequences of their action with immediate effect.
Phones › Re: My Phone Got Stolen And Now This Is Happening To Me. by Occurstaem(m): 9:45am On Jun 10, 2022
Ginaz:
Good evening house.
My phone got stolen last year November. The thief cut my window net and stole my phone along with the charger through the window. I woke up around 4.a.m searching for my phone with no success till I looked at the window and saw the big hole staring at me. I was so shocked is an understatement.

I have replaced my phone but right now I wake up in the night and start looking for my phone even if I must have safely keep it.

I wake up and first thing I search for, is my phone.
I open eyes, first thing I want to see, is my phone. sad


How do I stop this biko? grin Who have experienced this? Is it panic attack or what?
As one commenter has said, this is a sign of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder(PTSD). You need to see a psychologist as soon as possible.
It shows you are yet to recover from the shock you experienced during the burglary incident. I suggest you find a designated place which you will be keeping your phone before going to bed.
Because it may start affecting you in the long run if don't find solution to it.
Career › Re: I'm In A Critical Situation, Please Advise A Confused Soul. by Occurstaem(m): 3:52pm On Jun 09, 2022
spiritualmubi:
Hello, good day Nairalanders.
I'm presently in a critical situation in my life. I really need your advice on this situation of mine.
I just feel like a looser, I am an undergraduate studying botany. In 300 level due to me deferring a semester due to a Relapsing illness (schizophrenia). I suffered from brain fog when I resumed school after the relapse and lock down. I'm 26 and I don't have any skill and don't have a degree at hand.

The reason for this is not far fetched because till date I still harbour that anger for what my Dad has done to me. When I was in Jss1 in a very good school and also doing well, he removed me and my younger brother from school and took us to a Quran memorizing Islamic school following the advice of a hausa colleague of his in his place of work.

We memorized the holy book but for me it came with it's price, I didn't even have solid memorization of the Quran self to speak. I went through hell in those two years memorizing the holy book, ranging from mental, physical and spiritual challenges, which I believe triggered the schizophrenia am suffering from today. After the graduation ceremony from the Islamic school he enrolled me in conventional secondary school into Ss1 which means I never attended Jss2 and Jss3. Had episodes of relapse of the ailment am suffering from after then twice apart from the first occurrence after my memorization of the holy book. I believe that if I was allowed to continue my education back then I would have been a graduate by now and even working and must have gained financial independence
Presently my mum brought the idea that we should meet a Sheikh who is a saint of God, regarding my issue of not being able to read, assimilate let alone retain, the Saint said that I should defer a session, that is a year so that he will pray for me that there is a good spirit standing beside me that needs to be dissolved into my system, which (the spirit) is as a result of a spiritual book, litanies I read that my father gave me.

So now I don't have any skill, my Father has no source of income whatsoever, he doesn't earn any salary, he only has ND, the money we are even feeding on presently is a contribution by BOT of a foundation he founded to buy a house for its Islamic school.

I started learning photography during the lock down but left it for no tangible reason. My Dad insisted that I should learn shoe mending, that it is easy to learn and get small small change, I started it but had to leave it when I faced the challenge of sowing and polishing shoes, I don't just like the work.

Presently am been pressured by my parents to get something doing to be getting money because even to eat once in a day is a problem for us now, and to buy the drug am living on which enables me to sleep but believe me I'm at loss of what to do, should I go back and learn photography as a skill or should I find a job, like a company that can employ an Ssce holder. Cos the former needs start up fee and also need time for me to master it before talking of getting money from it.

Secondly, regarding my academics, I am thinking of using this one year or two years which I would defer to gain financial independence and mental well being, then rewrite jamb and apply for my original passion which is medicine and surgery but hmm, am already in my late twenties, so please Nairalanders help a confused soul.

Sorry for the long write up, just had to say everything.
Thanks, any contribution is welcomed I am really in a critical situation.
You will surely overcome it.
I've been there before. Most people won't understand you. Stop putting unnecessary pressure on your self. I will urge you not to take leave of absence in school. What would you be doing after that? Unless you have a concrete plan laid out and you are ready to follow the plan to the letter, please don't think of LOA.

I think this is happening to you because you over think about stuff that you have no control over. Just focus on what is within your control and stop blaming yourself for not being able to be the ideal self you want to be for now. You can still develop your self.
You get depressed because you know you are not what you should be. Don't give up. Keep fighting. Be positive and optimistic.
You need someone to confide in and also you should be seeing a psychologist or psychiatrist for therapy and evaluation from time to time. I suggest you get rosemary tea. It helps in boosting brain functions.

Since you are a Muslim, I have some ruqyah audio you can keep listening to and share some special prayers with you. Do you pray tahajjud? If no, start observing it and ask Allah to help you. Pleade don't visit anybody not upon the Quran and sunnah, lest they misguide and lead you to commit shrik.
Never neglect your solah, engage in dhikr intensively, seek repentance abundantly from Allah and put your trust in Him. May Allah ease your affairs, aamiin.

And I don't think you have schizophrenia, it seems like a major depressive disorder. When and where were you diagnosed of schizophrenia? Can you let me in on the symptoms you experienced or experiencing?
Career › Re: I'm In A Critical Situation, Please Advice A Confused Soul. by Occurstaem(m):
spiritualmubi:
Thanks sir.
I would have also loved to endure and graduate but now, that Saint of God told us to defer a session for me to gain good health, and my parents don't want to go against him, so that is why I just decided to concur and used the 1-2 years to develop myself mentally and financially before going back to school.
You will surely overcome it.
I've been there before. Most people won't understand you. Stop putting unnecessary pressure on your self. I will urge you not to take leave of absence in school. What would you be doing after that? Unless you have a concrete plan laid out and you are ready to follow the plan to the letter, please don't think of LOA.

I think this is happening to you because you over think about stuff that you have no control over. Just focus on what is within your control and stop blaming yourself for not being able to be the ideal self you want to be for now. You can still develop your self.
You get depressed because you know you are not what you should be. Don't give up. Keep fighting. Be positive and optimistic.
You need someone to confide in and also you should be seeing a psychologist or psychiatrist for therapy and evaluation from time to time. I suggest you get rosemary tea. It helps in boosting brain functions.

Since you are a Muslim, I have some ruqyah audio you can keep listening to and share some special prayers with you. Do you pray tahajjud? If no, start observing it and ask Allah to help you. Pleade don't visit anybody not upon the Quran and sunnah, lest they misguide and lead you to commit shrik.
Never neglect your solah, engage in dhikr intensively, seek repentance abundantly from Allah and put your trust in Him. May Allah ease your affairs, aamiin.

And I don't think you have schizophrenia, it seems like a major depressive disorder. When and where were you diagnosed of schizophrenia? Can you let me in on the symptoms you experienced or experiencing?
Crime › Re: Mob Burns Bikes After Fatal Accident At Jakande Estate, Isolo, Lagos. by Occurstaem(m): 1:21pm On Jun 09, 2022
RIP to the dead.
This mob action like this has to stop. He wouldn't have it in mind to kill someone with his bike.
Why would they burn other riders' bike with the accused.
That's retaliation taken too far and unfair.
Politics › Re: Abducted Kaduna-Abuja Train Passengers Regain Freedom by Occurstaem(m): 7:31am On Jun 09, 2022
AlhamduliLlah.
The FG must go after the terrorists.
Politics › Re: Who Bought APC Presidential Forms For Fayemi,akpabio,amosun,badaru, Others by Occurstaem(m): 6:51am On Jun 08, 2022
Parachoko:
Nnamdi Kanu bought it for them.
Wow!
Exactly what's on my mind.
It's Lamidi Cownu
Politics › Catch Up Live With The APC Presidential Primary Here by Occurstaem(op): 11:31pm On Jun 07, 2022
https://www.channelstv.com/live/

Here is the link to watch the APC presidential primary live.
Courtesy: Channels TV

https://www.channelstv.com/live/

Politics › Re: APC Presidential Primary: (Live Updates, Pictures & Results) by Occurstaem(m): 11:24pm On Jun 07, 2022
Disembark:
My pppple abeg any link to stream onlinehuh
Watch it here live

https://www.channelstv.com/live/
Politics › Re: The Moment Tinubu Arrived Eagles Square For APC Primary (Video) by Occurstaem(m): 8:49pm On Jun 07, 2022
Allah is sufficient for us.
Politics › Re: The Moment Tinubu Arrived Eagles Square For APC Primary (Video) by Occurstaem(m): 8:43pm On Jun 07, 2022
Mashaa Allahu laa kuwwata illa biLlah
Politics › Re: 2023 Election: APC Special Convention (presidential Primary) Lives updates by Occurstaem(m): 6:55am On Jun 07, 2022
Interesting
Politics › Re: Orji Kalu: APC Chairman, Adamu, NWC To Present Lawan To Buhari For Endorsement by Occurstaem(m): 6:12am On Jun 07, 2022
Iamgrey5:
lol

ACN had house representative in those states even before Buhari ever dremth of winning elections in those states.

Senator Akume of Benue was the senate minority leader with ACN
You get time sha.
You should've ignored that kid.
He's obviously one of those kindergarten children on Nairaland.

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