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It is not "konko below".
It is rather "go go below, go below".
Respect to the legend, Lágbájá omo baba mùkomùko

The man should be celebrated.
May God bless him abundantly.

seankafor:
yawa don gas be that naa

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spiritualmubi:
I was diagnosed to have schizophrenia when I was 18 in a psychiatry , which I still go to up till date for follow up, and regarding the symptoms, bro it was crazy, even ran from home and slept far away from home outside for 3 good days, they had to look for me, voices and visions commanding me, and all. Thanks bro, and regarding the tahajjud I even find it difficult waking in the morning for fajr due to the prescribed drug I take to induce sleep.

With time you will get better, bi quwwatiLlah. Keep your duty to Allah, it might be a test.
Have you tried ruqyah? If you haven't, I think you should give it a try.
You should also, for better mental health, make general lifestyle adjustment. Do away with anything that affect your mental health, whether it's your habit or action. I hope you get what I'm saying cos I saw your one of your comments on one topic like that.

They are just hell-bent on tarnishing the image of Islam. They have no knowledge .
What they did is not in Islam and they should be made to face the full consequences of their action with immediate effect.

Ginaz:
Good evening house.
My phone got stolen last year November. The thief cut my window net and stole my phone along with the charger through the window. I woke up around 4.a.m searching for my phone with no success till I looked at the window and saw the big hole staring at me. I was so shocked is an understatement.

I have replaced my phone but right now I wake up in the night and start looking for my phone even if I must have safely keep it.

I wake up and first thing I search for, is my phone.
I open eyes, first thing I want to see, is my phone.


How do I stop this biko? Who have experienced this? Is it panic attack or what?

As one commenter has said, this is a sign of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder(PTSD). You need to see a psychologist as soon as possible.
It shows you are yet to recover from the shock you experienced during the burglary incident. I suggest you find a designated place which you will be keeping your phone before going to bed.
Because it may start affecting you in the long run if don't find solution to it.

spiritualmubi:
Hello, good day Nairalanders.
I'm presently in a critical situation in my life. I really need your advice on this situation of mine.
I just feel like a looser, I am an undergraduate studying botany. In 300 level due to me deferring a semester due to a Relapsing illness (schizophrenia). I suffered from brain fog when I resumed school after the relapse and lock down. I'm 26 and I don't have any skill and don't have a degree at hand.

The reason for this is not far fetched because till date I still harbour that anger for what my Dad has done to me. When I was in Jss1 in a very good school and also doing well, he removed me and my younger brother from school and took us to a Quran memorizing Islamic school following the advice of a hausa colleague of his in his place of work.

We memorized the holy book but for me it came with it's price, I didn't even have solid memorization of the Quran self to speak. I went through hell in those two years memorizing the holy book, ranging from mental, physical and spiritual challenges, which I believe triggered the schizophrenia am suffering from today. After the graduation ceremony from the Islamic school he enrolled me in conventional secondary school into Ss1 which means I never attended Jss2 and Jss3. Had episodes of relapse of the ailment am suffering from after then twice apart from the first occurrence after my memorization of the holy book. I believe that if I was allowed to continue my education back then I would have been a graduate by now and even working and must have gained financial independence
Presently my mum brought the idea that we should meet a Sheikh who is a saint of God, regarding my issue of not being able to read, assimilate let alone retain, the Saint said that I should defer a session, that is a year so that he will pray for me that there is a good spirit standing beside me that needs to be dissolved into my system, which (the spirit) is as a result of a spiritual book, litanies I read that my father gave me.

So now I don't have any skill, my Father has no source of income whatsoever, he doesn't earn any salary, he only has ND, the money we are even feeding on presently is a contribution by BOT of a foundation he founded to buy a house for its Islamic school.

I started learning photography during the lock down but left it for no tangible reason. My Dad insisted that I should learn shoe mending, that it is easy to learn and get small small change, I started it but had to leave it when I faced the challenge of sowing and polishing shoes, I don't just like the work.

Presently am been pressured by my parents to get something doing to be getting money because even to eat once in a day is a problem for us now, and to buy the drug am living on which enables me to sleep but believe me I'm at loss of what to do, should I go back and learn photography as a skill or should I find a job, like a company that can employ an Ssce holder. Cos the former needs start up fee and also need time for me to master it before talking of getting money from it.

Secondly, regarding my academics, I am thinking of using this one year or two years which I would defer to gain financial independence and mental well being, then rewrite jamb and apply for my original passion which is medicine and surgery but hmm, am already in my late twenties, so please Nairalanders help a confused soul.

Sorry for the long write up, just had to say everything.
Thanks, any contribution is welcomed I am really in a critical situation.

You will surely overcome it.
I've been there before. Most people won't understand you. Stop putting unnecessary pressure on your self. I will urge you not to take leave of absence in school. What would you be doing after that? Unless you have a concrete plan laid out and you are ready to follow the plan to the letter, please don't think of LOA.

I think this is happening to you because you over think about stuff that you have no control over. Just focus on what is within your control and stop blaming yourself for not being able to be the ideal self you want to be for now. You can still develop your self.
You get depressed because you know you are not what you should be. Don't give up. Keep fighting. Be positive and optimistic.
You need someone to confide in and also you should be seeing a psychologist or psychiatrist for therapy and evaluation from time to time. I suggest you get rosemary tea. It helps in boosting brain functions.

Since you are a Muslim, I have some ruqyah audio you can keep listening to and share some special prayers with you. Do you pray tahajjud? If no, start observing it and ask Allah to help you. Pleade don't visit anybody not upon the Quran and sunnah, lest they misguide and lead you to commit shrik.
Never neglect your solah, engage in dhikr intensively, seek repentance abundantly from Allah and put your trust in Him. May Allah ease your affairs, aamiin.

And I don't think you have schizophrenia, it seems like a major depressive disorder. When and where were you diagnosed of schizophrenia? Can you let me in on the symptoms you experienced or experiencing?

spiritualmubi:
Thanks sir.
I would have also loved to endure and graduate but now, that Saint of God told us to defer a session for me to gain good health, and my parents don't want to go against him, so that is why I just decided to concur and used the 1-2 years to develop myself mentally and financially before going back to school.

You will surely overcome it.
I've been there before. Most people won't understand you. Stop putting unnecessary pressure on your self. I will urge you not to take leave of absence in school. What would you be doing after that? Unless you have a concrete plan laid out and you are ready to follow the plan to the letter, please don't think of LOA.

I think this is happening to you because you over think about stuff that you have no control over. Just focus on what is within your control and stop blaming yourself for not being able to be the ideal self you want to be for now. You can still develop your self.
You get depressed because you know you are not what you should be. Don't give up. Keep fighting. Be positive and optimistic.
You need someone to confide in and also you should be seeing a psychologist or psychiatrist for therapy and evaluation from time to time. I suggest you get rosemary tea. It helps in boosting brain functions.

Since you are a Muslim, I have some ruqyah audio you can keep listening to and share some special prayers with you. Do you pray tahajjud? If no, start observing it and ask Allah to help you. Pleade don't visit anybody not upon the Quran and sunnah, lest they misguide and lead you to commit shrik.
Never neglect your solah, engage in dhikr intensively, seek repentance abundantly from Allah and put your trust in Him. May Allah ease your affairs, aamiin.

And I don't think you have schizophrenia, it seems like a major depressive disorder. When and where were you diagnosed of schizophrenia? Can you let me in on the symptoms you experienced or experiencing?

RIP to the dead.
This mob action like this has to stop. He wouldn't have it in mind to kill someone with his bike.
Why would they burn other riders' bike with the accused.
That's retaliation taken too far and unfair.

AlhamduliLlah.
The FG must go after the terrorists.

Parachoko:
Nnamdi Kanu bought it for them.

Wow!
Exactly what's on my mind.
It's Lamidi Cownu

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Here is the link to watch the APC presidential primary live.
Courtesy: Channels TV

https://www.channelstv.com/live/

Disembark:
My pppple abeg any link to stream online

Watch it here live

https://www.channelstv.com/live/

Allah is sufficient for us.

Mashaa Allahu laa kuwwata illa biLlah

Interesting

Iamgrey5:
lol

ACN had house representative in those states even before Buhari ever dremth of winning elections in those states.

Senator Akume of Benue was the senate minority leader with ACN

You get time sha.
You should've ignored that kid.
He's obviously one of those kindergarten children on Nairaland.

Where is Kwara and Taraba?

How

Paddy paddy things.
Not surprised one bit

Look at those mumu bigots up there.
So because of open defecation, Kwara is now a Yoruba state and no longer a Fulani state anymore just to exhibit their hatred for us. But they ignored Ebonyi state mentioned in the report and focus on Kwara as if it's only state in the report.
It's Yoruba matter that will kill you all.

See what hatred can turn someone into.

As well as all the evidence against you, abi?
Find better things to talk abeg. You have no shame for wanting to bring a political angle to it.

So much for our super cop cum tailor cum druggie cum scammer.

Be right back

Those in charge of our sports administration are very mad and myopic.
As in what's the meaning of all these nonsense. The players just labored in vain.
They should sue the government.

Nonsense. How is that an imposition?
Their candidate was defeated in the election.
So, what's the fuss all about.

It's finished.
This man is not okay and incapable of sound reasoning.
I guess there will be ministry for imports, cocoa, rubber, palm oil, spare parts, poultry, etc.
Nonsense and gumi

I'm so happy right now.
Being satisfied is an understatement.
Well done Capo

O- Oman
C- Cameroon
C- Comoros
U- Uganda
R- Rwanda
S- Senegal
T- Togo
A- Algeria
E- Eswatini
M- Mali

Sergio104:
Rip dearest sister .

Your death was a hard blow to me


Please I'm allergic to lie's and must say the actual thing that happened, as I have spotted what I can call a Big fat lie in this report.

N.B....I Don't support any party in this madness

I returned to my hometown when this happened, and I clearly have information on it.

The lady that died was my relatives (rip dear)....we did protest today because she was laid down today. She was a computer Operator and was shot in a stray bullet when an army man ran to her shop immediately the unknown gunmen killed an army (she was killed from Gunmen's bullet that was fired to the army that ran to her shop)

Now info and details....

Firstly.....her wedding is coming up next two weeks

Secondly.....Two persons died that day, my sister and a soldier. The soldiers did not stand thier ground when the Gunmen struck, they ran.

Now because the ran.... two event's has unfolded from this menace

1. The soldiers on duty who ran when one of them was shot are all facing serious punishment right now.

2. The person that videod the video of the unknown gunmen attack that day has been arrested (if you watched the video, you will notice he was videoing from a storey building). The man is a Tailor.

This are the true events that happened, and is happening.

Before you tag what I posted a fake..... check my profile and see a thread I created that day about my deceased sister.

RIP dearest sis.

This is saddening.
May God give you and your family the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss of your loved one. My heart goes to her spouse too.
She didn't deserve this. Too bad. RIP

This news is laughable.
I can assure you that this has nothing to do with Aregbesola.
Talk of sensational headline. The ex-aide is even a paperweight that just want to cash out from the VP.
People who don't know will think Osinbajo is gaining ground. Far from it.
Osun is with Tinubu

Assetinvestor:
The most tribalistic people in Nigeria are yorubas yet they would deny it openly. From their pastors to traditional rulers, agberos to politicians, and even the educated ones, it's still the same thing!

They claim to be educated and sophisticated yet are campaigning and hoping that a criminal and desperate old man like Tinubu would rule Nigeria even when far better candidates like Peter Obi is there. They even decide to fight Obi and preach hate against Igbos.

Well, it is left for all Nigerians to decide their fate, vote for tinubu and suffer the consequences or vote Obi and experience a turn around.

This is exactly what Tolu is saying. Please intensify and continue with the insults, don't stop please.
Just like someone pointed it out in the tweet, it is as if one of your consultants have informed you that insulting is a viable way of canvassing for votes and winning election.

Stomoney:
Note that pdp also have Ajilesoro and Dr wale oladipupo in ife.

PDP will win Ife. The governor got his calculations wrong banking on Omisore to win Ife and Ilesa.