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dayokanu: It seems your retardation is inherited and genetic cos no one can be acting this dumb.

Any woman who gives money to her husband to buy a land should share the property. But in a case where the woman contributes nothing Tell me one reason why she should get anything?

So if women dont invest their money what do they do with the money? Any woman who contributes financially to any asset should get part of it, Not stupid and insane stuff like she contributed emotional, Spiritual psychological rubbish

I ask why cant she use that Spiritual emotional and psychological to develop herself

Men who get fat during marriage was probably as a result of getting older, Its like saying more men have grey hairs when married than when single

-My friend went to UNILAG got a first class, Went to Imperial college for Masters got a distinction, worked in a consulting firm, and an Investment Bank after few years wrote GMAT scored 730 got into the best Business School in the world - Wharton. He wrote CFA and passed, He now works with a Hedge fund and he is not married yet

If in 10yrs time he becomes Minister of Finance and makes a fortune now some 2 left legged woman would waka and say she was the one who made him? HOW? Was she there with him in Primary, Secondary School, UNILAG, Imperial College, Wharton, CFA classes and those qualifications that made him a hot property.

Like Kobe Bryant said BITTCH YOU WASN'T WITH ME SHOOTING IN THE GYM

https://creambmp.com/wp-content/uploads/shooting-in-gym-kobe-wife.png

Hey, maybe his future wife must have supplied the "emotional and psychological balance" in advance .surely, that must explain your friend's success, not his handwork at all .

[quote author=baby_123]Dayo, what exactly are you saying? Just say from your own experience and the women around you. Are couples going to come out and confess to you that they jointly own properties? What is so difficult to comprehend in that? Because you have surrounded yourself with a little crowd, you are now in over-drive on your true thoughts. Honestly this thread has gone to sh*it. The fact remains these laws will be paSsed, only a matter of time. No matter how you want to kick and scream, you will still pay. Abegi! *with this I exit this thread*[/quote]What laws? In obodo Nigeria abi? Keep dreaming Missy.

fellis: So you believe that you are only supposed to assist with house work whenever you feel like? You think housework should the responsibility of only the wife?

Lol. Some Naija men and their unbelievable laziness.

It is your duty to assist her with house work, whether you agree or not does not change the facts. I believe you married a working woman and not an illiterate full time house wife.
Since she works and contributes financially to the upkeep of the house, you also have to join her in doing housework. You cannot expect her to fully shoulder the responsibilities of doing housework, taking care of the children and running her job at the same time, while you do nothing else but go to work and return back home.

Point of correction. It is NOT my duty to help out with house chores, especially when I'm the one that slaves all day to bring home the bacon. But I don't mind helping out my wife from time to time, especially when she has her hands full.

dayokanu: Utter tripe. So when you want to buy a house its emotional balance you would present to the seller that would make him sell the house to you?

Oh Are we saying Single men are not buying houses? So who provides them with the emotional and psychological balance to buy the house?

Since the woman has the psychological balance, why cant she monetize it and carry it to realtor to buy the house?

Personally I dont see the point in being a housewife and most women who are housewifes are simply lazy. There are millions of women in offices in markets making a living Dont those have families?

Most women who are housewives dont have any skill to make money in the first place. How many times has a neurosurgeon been asked to be a housewife or a Lawyer, Engineer etc. Its only the lazy ones who end up being housewives. Okonjo no be woman? Grace Alele Williams, Bolanle Awe are those not women? Dont they have families

If you spend your own money buying clothes and shoes then you want to split the house someone bought with his own money he too could have been using for clothes and shoes then YOU ARE A THIEF

GBAM!! SIMPLE!!!

Seriously, we have a number of sissyfied men here.

dayokanu: Sagamite my realtor, I want to buy a house, How many thousands of emotional and psychological balance should I collect from my wife to pay you?

How much emotional balance is needed for a bungalow? how much for a duplex? Cos the emotional balance cost of a Bungalow must be different from that of a duplex

LMAO !! Nice one.

[quote author=baby_123]I think you are generalizing too much. What a man can use to buy one shoe, a woman can use to buy 5 shirts. . A lot of women own their own investments. In fact women are known to be better savers, that is why they mostly handle the home front and the finances. [/quote]TOTAL HOGWASH!! Women better savers?! Ha!! One complaint I keep hearing as a married is the inability of wives to save, and it's so true. I even had the very same issue with my own wife, and things changed (at least a bit) when I took a hard stance.

The thing about you ladies is that you spend a lot but can't even account for your own expenses. Ask a woman to save at least 40% of earnings, and watch her grumble.yet we men/husbands tend to keep aside 40-70% of ou monthly earnings for the upkeep of our families and capital projects that we intend to invest in. And we do whatever it takes to achieve that, even if it means us wearing rags or going hungry.

Well, my wife wore hers for 5 years till we got married.

@ naptu2, thank you for the initial posts. It's about time Nigerians read up about our military's feats in the past.

May God bless our heroes in uniform who paid the ultimate sacrifice in serving and protecting this great nation. And my the good Lord also protect our service men and women, especially those currently in the Malian battlefield, and those who will join them. Please bring them home safely to their loved ones when the mission's over.


As for the d.I.c.k heads posting trash on this thread, what the hell's wrong with you bastards? S.T.F.U and show some bloody respect to these extraordinary men and women.

So she was accustomed to a particular lifestyle when she was married. Now that she walked out of same marriage, you still expect the ex-husband to spend his hard-earned cash in financing her lifestyle? No bloody way.

I'm sure most ,if not all fathers, will do whatever it takes to make their kids very comfortable and happy. But we draw the line when it includes catering for a lazy adult who intends to reep from were she did not sow. And I don't care if she has to live in a face-me-i-face-u or channel-O (hut). She won't get a dime from the wealth I toiled for. Simple.

[quote author=baby_123]Why not if the lady is used to a certain lifestyle which has been provided by you since you both got married. .[/quote]Then let her work for it and stop being a leech.

I'm all for child support and a law that is not biased towards one party. But divorce settlement? HELL NO!!! Why should I part with a percentage of my hard earned wealth? Is the lady a damn cripple? Abegi..

Wisdom and flight.

Harjibode: Here is some valid information due to
recent estimations and studies.
1. South Africa: South Africa (South Africa
has the most powerful army in Africa; it
has more harmful weapons than any
other country in Africa; it is the only
African country that was trying to create
the Nuclear weapon but was stopped by
the US. The South African National
Defence Force (SANDF) this includes:
South African Army, South African Navy,
South African Air Force and South African
Military Health Service. South Africa has
recently lower their budge on army from
$7.21 billion 2003 to nearly $4 billion
2011. Trained by Israeli, and British,
South African solders are more armed
and more trained than any other
country's soldiers.
2. Egypt: According to recent study, Egypt
is considered to be the second most
powerful country in Africa. For many
years Egypt has been the first strongest
country in the continent of Africa. With
number of troops exceed that of South
Africa, and more suppliers from countries
such as United States, Russia, France,
China, Italy and United Kingdom, political
instability has made an affect to Egyptian
Armed Forces. This includes Egyptian
Army, Egyptian Navy, Egyptian Air Force
and Egyptian Air Defense Command.
Egypt has increased their Armed Forces
budget from $3.9 billion to $5.85 billion
within the last five years.
3. Libya:
4. Morocco:
5. Nigeria: Nigeria has the second largest
army by number of troops, but due to
political instability and lack of equipment
Nigeria has appear to be the 5th
strongest country in Africa. It has been
estimated that in year 2013-2018 Nigeria
may get weaker.
6. Tanzania: Tanzania has the most
powerful army in East Africa; The
Tanzania Peoples' Defence Force (TPDF)
(Swahili: Jeshi la Wananchi wa Tanzania
(JWTZ) the one defeated Idi Amin of
Uganda with big help form Muammar Al-
Gaddafi of Libya and . The Palestine
Liberation Organization (PLO) The
Tanzania People' Defence Force includes
Land Forces Command, Naval Command,
Air Force Command, and Military
Intelligence. Julius Kambarage Nyerere
(The first Tanzania's President) prepared
president Laurent Desire Kabila of DR
Congo to take over the powerful Mobutu
Sese Seko Nkuku Ngbendu WA Zabanga;
also prepared his son Joseph Kabila.
Tanzania has trained Congolese solders
in Tabora and Kigoma region for Kabila
to return in Congo and take over power.
Both Kabilas father and son were
schooled and lived most of their lives in
Tanzania before returning to Congo.
Tanzania Also prepared Yoweri Kaguta
Museveni who also schooled and lived in
Tanzania before the Tanzania and
Uganda war that resulted in defeating
Dictator Idi Amin. Most Uganda leader got
help from Tanzania before becoming
leaders. This includes: Tito Lutwa Okello,
Yusuf Kironde Lule, and Bazilio Olara-
Okello. Recently, Tanzania did not want to
send his solders in Somalia but offer
training to Somali solders who will soon
return to protect their country. Tanzania
sent 924 soldiers to lead the African
Union Solders in Comoros's Island to take
Colonel Mohamed Bacar of Anjouan off
power. Tanzania has the 3rd largest army
in number troops after Ethiopia, and
Eritrea, and recently considered the
second in equipment after Kenya, but
with more well trained troops. The recent
estimation shows that Tanzania is the
country in East-Africa followed by
Ethiopia.
7. Ethiopia: Ethiopia once was considered
the strongest country in East Africa. After
continues civil war Ethiopia has gotten
weaker. Ethiopia is still has the largest
army by number of troops followed by
Eritrea and Tanzania, and the 3rd in
equipment after Kenya and Tanzania.
2011 Estimation shows, Ethiopia is
spending 2.4% of its GDP in military. This
includes: Ethiopia Army and Ethiopia Air
Force.
8. Ghana:
9. Kenya: Kenya is the second strongest
Nation in East Africa Economically after
Ethiopia; it is the first in East African
Community followed by Tanzania and
Uganda. In 1981 Kenya was consider to
be the 4th strongest nation in East Africa
after Tanzania, Ethiopia, and Somalia. In
1994 Kenya was considered the 3rd
strongest country in East Africa after
Somalia and Uganda having both
economic and political instability caused
by war and dictatorship. The estimation
indicates that Kenya will get even
stronger within next 5-10 years. Kenya
has the higher army budget in East Africa
followed by Ethiopia. 2012 estimation
shows Kenya is using 5.3% of its GDP in
military. This includes: Kenya Army, Kenya
Navy and Kenya Air Force.
10. Uganda:

Who the came up with this ranking? It is TOTALLY FLAWED? First of all, what's this trash talk about the Nigerian Army being weakened? Are we talking about tge same military known for its professionalism and experience? The same military that has spent a lot in training its officer and rank-&-file corp in some of tge best military training institutions within and outside Nigeria, and has invested a lot in the purchase of new combat platforms and the repairs/upgrade of old ones? If anything, the Nigerian military is way more experienced, thanks not only to military operations outside the country, but security ops within from Counter-insurgency to coubter-terrorim ops.

And why the hell are the Ghanians ranked higher than the Kenyans and Ugandans, when the Ghanians are notorious for their cowardice? The KDF is a well trained force that's currently kicking Al-Shabaab a.s.s in Somalia, same with tge battle-hardened Ugandan Defence Force that has equally been hunting down LRA rebels up north and Al-shabaab in Mogadishu.

And PLEASE take off Libya from no. 4. Why? Because, they had their collective asses handed to them multiple times by the Chadians during the Pick-Up wars in the 1980s. The Libyans simply lacked professionalism, and tge current military (or whatever it's called) is just a collection of a bunch of ragtag militias.

Overall,the ranking's total garbage.

Haba, the poster is funny oh. We have a name for No.6 in Naija: POINT AND KILL.

bookface: This sounds very nice, your "military speak" adds to the flavour.

So, "Nigerian operatives have been crawling around the terrains of Mali"...and meanwhile, somewhere else, Islamist rebels kept advancing and gaining territory up to a point where the Malian government yelled for help and it took the french more than 3000 km away and a single night of airstrikes to halt the advancement? So what's the point to all the extensive "recce"?

Recce is of extreme importance, as it provides our military the necessary intelligence needed to successfullyexecute any forthcoming op in country. I'm sure DIA and NIA operatives, along with Army Special Forces and the NAF must have obtained much intelligence on enemy locations, troop strength, assets, supply hubs/ducts, enemy CCIC (command, communication, information, and control) hubs, etc.

homerac7: simple. u have ur orders, and you simply follow. your orders r not to engage, it is strictly "recce". imagine the HQ denying your presence only ds morning, so what do u think wld happen if you entered action? ...absolute denial of your presence! the mission is strictly covert recce, under such situation, ur rule of engagement is stricter.

Example for u is the storming of ECOMOG HQ and abduction of Samuel Doe therein by Yommie Johnson and his group right in d palm of ECOMOG led by Nig and Ghana. It wa a major disgrace, but alongside the leadership change that came with it was a new ORBAT and Rule of Engagement. Thats because initial Rule of Engagement was lax, so the soldiers couldn't engage when they could have repelled the attack.

Correct. One lil correction though....the blame for Samuel Doe's capture falls squarely on the shoulder of the Ghanian contingent, not Nigeria. It was their screw-up.

onatisi: i dont support this notion.if they have sent any troops they will say in order to encourage other ecowas countries to do the same

'ever heard of the term "OPSEC"? Btw, the Nigerian Airforce is already on ground, 'though sorties flown are reconnaissance only, for now.

Aifey: Good one. Every PDP member is a theif n a failure in d nation building. Even GEJ admin is becomin d wost. Multiple visa, mansion, cars, wifes. Etc. An average african mentality. 4gettin tht they are all vanity.

And what of A.C.N?

earthgreeners: Bastard!!!...In my area (a part of Surulere, Lagos) power supply is so epileptic that the Landlord and Tenant association (formed as a result of dis power issues), pasted poster that no one should pay the bills....I hate when people come here to make fake testimonies on power improvement just becos that retardeen is their brother..LOL
The fact that u have light in ur house/area doesnt mean it the same all over....

GEJ is a failure, my people are ready to vote him out....

Then lodge a damn complaint with PHCN about your damn distribution transformer that's probably faulty, and stop whining about a president who has actually done quite well. In my own area here in Jalingo, I enjoy abit over 23hrs of light per day for 1year+. GEJ has done very well.

AdoOloro: S/Africa produces/generates about 40,000MW. Nigeria generates about 5000MW.

40,000 divided by 5,000 equals 8.

Inference:
S/Africa is 8 times better than Nigeria!

South Africa did not have her power sector sabotaged and neglected for FORTY PLUS DAMN YEARS. Take note of that before making another comparison.

[quote author=GARRI (x7)]So how many MW are we generating.

If the Man's claim is anything to go by, then its less than 5,000MW. Meaning some persons have been peddling falsehood...[/quote]Currently, 4,500MW.

As someone already pointed out, the main reasons are fuel economy and availability of spare parts. That said, I think Nigerians, including myself,are beginning to embrace other brands, particularly Korean vehicles like KIA and the Hyundai. But I have to admit that my KIA Cerato's fuel consumption is quite high compared to the Toyota vehicles i've driven.

CFCfan: The Nigerian government should also demand the release of Nigerians in Russian jails in exchange for the Russian sailors.
If the Russians reject this request, then GEJ should allow the Law to take its course.

Simple.

snakova: why is it that libya had to release those bulgarian nurses that infected babies wit HIV? The fact that the powerful sergei lavrov is involved in this saga is a cause for great concern. Do u think cos of ur useless numbers u can witstand a blitzkreig? Chechnya was far mor determined but how did it end up:a russian puppet. It may nt result in all out war but a few punitive expeditions could prove very costly 4 naija. Ignore russia at ur own peril. They r d only reason d west has nt put down syria's Assad.

So it's military now. No wahala. First of all, we both agree that Russia is a world power and an energy super power.

But here's a few questions:
-Do you really think the Russians will be so stupid to lunch a military campaign against Nigeria over a bunch of criminals?

-Let's say they intend to launch military campaign, how do they intend to project that military power down to west africa? Please do tell.

-The German blitz of WW2 involved the use of Panzer groups to punch through Europe. Let's say the Russian intend to adopt such tactics, were do they intend to use as a staging ground/base? Benin, a friendly country in a regional bloc dominated by Nigeria, and one with French protection? Cameroun, Chad, or Niger, French satellites?

I'm impressed. She reminds me of my own dad. Anyway, it's great she's setting a good example, but if I were in her shoes, I'll go further by investing in their education.then againm she may have done that alread.

Why do I have this feeling that a number of fools here are actually praying for the FG's failure in this critical sector? Una bi winch?! Tufia!

baynix: Smh!! When South Africa Dey Use 50K MW??

Team Anti-GEJ Are The Progressive!

So you expect the GEJ to fix a system damaged for FIFTY+ YEARS and generate 50k MW? All within 2-3years?! Haba!

[quote author=~Bluetooth]We have so many illitrates on Nl and the few educated ones know little about inter-states relations.The westphalia treaty sets out the relations among states based on sovereignity while the treaty of utretcht sets out the balance of power among them.what we forget to realise is that Nigeria and Russia are both sovereigb states irrespective of their size,population,economic or military might.
Russia only has more power than Nigeria because it is a veto-wielding nation of the united nations and one of the five that can independently start a war.Now let's look at it,what has Nigeria done to warrant an attack ? The russia would only strain relations with Nigeria and nothing will happen.The US has threatened to cut off aids to Nigeria if it eventually banned homosexuality but Nigeria still maintained her stand and nothing happened.If Nigeria jailed the Russian,the government of Russia will only come and dialogue with Nigeria,possibly bribing for their release.

P.s
The united states of America paid the sanction imposed on Di*ck Cheney former vice president of the UD for his complicity in the haliburton case to the Nigerian government and heaven didn't fall.[/quote]Excellent post my brother. What the clowns on NL fail to realise is that we've done way worse, yet the world hasn't ended. Read up on the history of your country's foreign policy. You think the Federal Republic of Nigeria is some ordinary country you can push over? We openly opposed the Americans and UNITA in Angola and provided weapons covertly to ZANU-PF in their fight against the then British supported Rhodesian govt. We also vehemently opposed the Americans again during the 2nd Gulf War. Did the Earth end on all three counts. Yet some fools think that we'll be punished by the Russians for arresting a bunch of criminals. What the hell are they going to do? Send Alpha/vympel or other spetnaz unit to break out a bunch of criminals? Impose sanctions? Abegi..

So the Russians demand the return of their sailors? Let them lodge a complaint with our Foreign. We've dealt with far worse threats.

Anyway, I suggest the FG hands over the Russians in exchange for a number of Nigerians held up in Russian gulags. But confiscate the ship and all weapons found in it.

CHESSBOARD: Maybe this is the time Biafra use their good old friend Russian to secede, I tell you they know where to bomb....

Good old friend Russia? The same Russia that provided the FG with MIG-17 fighters used to bomb and straff your collective biafran asses to oblivion? Dude, you definitely don't know your history.