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LoL.. I am yet to meet any cute female Nairalander oh . They ones I've met are just there.

I am beginning to have the mindset that no fine girl can come out from Nairaland .

Let me be real with you OP;

It's only in Nigeria this kinda shít happens. A so-called pastor who God didn't call, but he, rather called God would open a church for business.

To them is business. The always pray for Sundays and month ends. Sundays for offering and Month end for tithes.

I mostly don't take these so-called pastors serious. I've done business with many of them and the outcome is nothing to write home about.

Jesus Christ the son of God, his Disciples and the Prophets all fed the poor. But in this present Nigerian dispensation, na poor people the feed pastors.

90,000+

I've amassed over a million views on Nairaland .

Sad, Oga Seun is not monetizing our efforts.

Eranders:
Holy sex? Sex is sex, there is no holy or unholy sex abeg.

I tire oh!

Haha..

You have a girlfriend, but fuulishly accepted Nairaland redpillers advice on texting another girl who also have a boyfriend.

The girl did you dirty . This is on you and other redpillers alone.

Like I told you the last time, learn to be smart. No de waka like odé.

Jeon:
lol, when we said you ppl should rebuke unholy sex because it not only biological, physically but spiritually.. ..

Please enlighten me more.

He's in Ukraine. Any problem?

The feel the shít you felt before opening this thread.

So what do you want us to do? We can't probably join in your confusion.

Next time, learn to be smart.

Bobmarie:
Lol. You typed some incredibly vague words that have little to nothing to do with the topic at hand then proceeded to call the person you’ve been having a mature enjoyable debate with bitter despite having displayed no bitterness towards you because you suddenly don’t know how else to respond. Cringeworthy behavior and very predictable too. To a man, when a woman has enough in her mouth to converse about societal anomalies, she is either too passionate about the topic or bothered.

I agree with your point but there are ways to get them across without feeling flustered and resorting to gaslighting.

Hello dear. I want you to understand that I did not call her a "bitter" person. My statement was a reflection of her previous comments.

Why conversing with her, I decided to read some, if not all her previous comments with other people. Hence, my statement. If you see what I typed, you'll see that I wrote that "you sounded heavy hearted, and for some reasons, bitter".

I was only insinuating. I didn't say "You're heavy hearted" or "you're bitter". I also said that to understand if we're on the same page.

Because, it wouldn't be adequate to be having such kinda conversation when someone's mind is already wrapped.

shantti:
Na lie, ocholu means someone that is looking for work

Comot for here! What do you know.

Ladycewhy:
And women don't don't protect and do all that themselves as well?

I am totally not sure.

Ladycewhy:
So you don't need a care giver , a nuturer ,a home maker , a cook ,an organiser in the home for it's day to day smooth running?

Tell us more.

I am a bachelor. And I confidently do all these stuffs myself. No qualms, no issues.

Anything else?

Ladycewhy:
Nuturing equals the protection the man offers, that's cancelled out already.

If man says he is placing protection on the table, a woman places

Nuturing
Home making
Companionship
Child bearing
Care giver
Protector
Organiser

And many more.
On that table.

Let's talk about propensity. How many of the variables you mentioned above is a daily survival mechanism?

They economist once talked about the hierarchy of needs. According to them, some needs are higher than others. That as humans, we tend to put some variables more than others. Understand where I am coming from, the human angle and not gender.

Offerings, both natural and artificial are outweighed by the most important. You yourself apply that daily in your routines.

I just read up some of your comments on this thread. And I can say that sadly, we're not on the same page. You sound heavy hearted for some reasons bitter.

You need to clear your mind.
Shalom.

Kobojunkie:
Still no explanation to be had.

No problems Junkie. Read it later when you're less dozed.

Ladycewhy:
I only pointed out the difference between instincts and phenomenon to you . I never said instincts cant be natural. However, instincts can be influenced and weakened just like conscience. So know the difference.

Glad you finally validated my points. The thought that men only have money to offer is not a natural phenomenon or circumstance. It was manufactured and projected.

Biglittlelois:
Really? Op said her intention, you said it is not her intention, so tell us her intention, or is it a difficult task for you to do?

You're looking for a defect to misconstrue me. Read my follow ups to the statement you quoted, you'll see what I intended.