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Ladycewhy:
The fact is only child birth is a natural phenomenon.There is nothing fallacious about it. You can only associate something as a natural phenomenon to a gender if the task cannot to taken up by the other . It's just like having a penls and vagina. Don't mistake natural instincts for natural phenomenon.


By natural instincts women are nuturers while men are protectors .

How about natural behaviours? Natural strength patterns? And what makes you think instincts cannot be natural?

Y'all see things only in its biological representation forgetting that, that's not the only composition of a living being.

Biglittlelois:
Lol what was her intention then?

What are you trying to achieve though?

Ladycewhy:
The only natural phenomenon here is child birth because it is a biological process women can't transfer to men.

What you call natural in terms of what men have to offer is subjective . Same way it might be natural for a man to pay bride price according to you but other societies will consider it natural for a woman to pay groom price.

Hahaha.. Choi!! Come with facts. Let's have a proper discussion.

Not opinions, biases and "what I think". I urge you to do my reading, research. Then quote me let's talk.

For now, statements are heavy with fallacies.

Kobojunkie:
I'd like to better understand what you infact mean. ..

Follow my responses. Your answers are there.

Ps: read it slowly. With an open mind.

Biglittlelois:
You are deflecting, be clear, Op says what you men expect women to bring is finance because that is all you can bring, is she right or not?

Nope! That's not what she intended.

Kobojunkie:
Can you please elaborate?

Why??

Ladycewhy:
The society made up of who? Aliens?

I find it funny when we use the phrase " society" as if we are not part of it.


And you think as a woman ,she can't protect herself or ogransise her life?
What does a man need to protect from tho? Ritualists? Armed robbers? Troublesome neighbours or Police?

What does he want to organize when some women eventually even stop their dreams to raise a family ?

It's funny how y'all are quick defensive. Most of my statements are empirical. I'll drop sources if need be.

A recent study showed that women are mostly the ones who push the "what does a woman offer" narrative. Go to saner climes, and the kinda narratives being projected by women are manufactured and artificial thoughts.

And, when I referenced the "society", I was talking of both you and me, so??

You need to understand that I am not arguing with you, neither I am debating. There's no factual statement were I said women can't be their own protector and others. That narrative and bias was subtly manufactured by you.

Somethings are natural. Regardless of how you choose to alter, change or twist it.

Ladycewhy:
And the level of protection , organization and derivation is directly proportional to how wealthy a man is .

It's natural. And not proportional to anything. Just as how child birth is natural to women, so are these offerings to men.

It's the society that sold that narrative. And there's a certain social strata that such narrative doesn't exist.

Cerebellum:
Wow...I do laugh whenever I see your moniker, never knew it meant something good.

Proud to bring happiness to you .

SmellySperm:
Yeah,as the psychiatric doctor,I came to inject some antipsychotics into you. you're my patient

But why are you bounded though? Leg chain, hand and even neck chain. Ha! Oga oh!

Ladycewhy:
Tell us what else they offer that is not directly or indirectly linked to their financial capability.

Protection;
Organization, and;
Derivation.

SmellySperm:
Ocholu means burnt diick

I can see you in Yaba Left.

Cerebellum:
What's the meaning of ocholu??

Wealth.

Ladycewhy:
The popular phrase is "what do you bring to the table" and men usually ask women this question.

But what does "table" mean for a man? . It simply means financial capability. Which is directly or indirectly proportional to his job or business.

I have seen men wail and nag about how women only rate them according to their pockets or what they do for a living. But when the only thing you have on your table is money, well you might as well be sized up by what you have on the table.


In a scenario where a woman offers support , loyalty, home making, care on that table ,it is regarded as incosequential except she has financial input as well sometime equal percentage with the man.

Men have subconsciously sold the idea that all they have to offer is money, yet they cry when their pocket is used to size them up. What an irony.

Men don't only offer money my dear beautiful damsel.

Nonexisting:
You spent nothing less than quarter of an hour going back and forth with a vaginarian discussing absolutely nothing of importance and the worst is that she was not even interested in discussing with you from the beginning. I wonder how you guys do this. Even when I negotiate sex, I don't spend this much time because it's either she says she is coming or not coming.

See them.. Hehe. You even de negotiate for sex . Tells a lot about how lowly your life is.

Go out and see how real men do it. You're here saying dregs.

pretydiva:
It's obvious you are the only one in the relationship. Quietly give yourself some respect and end it

How did you conclude that she's the only person in the relationship. Don't use your past index to weigh another person own.

BoredBerry:
Superb!!! Excellent!!!

You're a good writer...

I don't know why this reminded me of my ex-boyfriend and I?

He's a Muslim... I'm petite... I couldn't have sex with him cause of the pain...

Which pain?

jonaifame22:
We started dating in January,the kisses are great,during the moment of kissing sparks fly like the cracking of Christmas fireworks,as our lips tumble against each other like two men slugging itl out the wrestling competition during the new yam festival in a village setting,


She's petit and her breasts are quite small like a mound of eba cut to be swallowed,the nipples on her breasts are quite tiny like the buttons on a TV remote,but guys when I suck her breasts,those nipples double in size and stand erect like the ears of a guard dog that has just heard clanking sounds of it's master's gate by a stranger,

I take my time to eat her pussy hungrily like Muslim devout eating his meal at the break of the Ramadan fast,and when I look at her face I'll see her eyes closed in bliss as she enjoys my oral game


My dick already standing like the chair person of an occasion standing for recognition when his name his called by the mc,but when I put my dick into her she cries and whines on my bed like she has jus heard the news of the passing of a loved one

And when you cum dear OP; you come to your genuine senses. Thoughts of "why did I dive in raw" emasculate your medulla.

Both of y'all. Sitting quiet in the dark wanky room. The echoes of diapers, milk, bills, take the bliss away.

Bros. Yours is even soft compared to what I passed through for this life. I will write series of thread it. There was a time that I touched my stomach, omo! I was feeling my spinal cord. No money to even buy pure water.

Today, I am properly placed. Three things helped me;

The Grace of God.
Hard Work.
Consistency.

I shunned yahoo and hustle my way into acquiring a digital skill. I began with graphics design then, to digital marketing then software engineering. Those days, na from one bet Naija shop to another just to see power work on stuffs I was learning. Omo! The talk plenty. But when the Grace of God found me, choi, I was over prepared.

You can look at my lil little here an pick one or two from it.

Smoke some more marijuana bruv.

Jmichael1:
I agree with u bro, bcus nah ashawo disvirgin me ooh.
don't knw if dat was the major reason i was addicted to them.i have bleep more than 150,i'm happy i no longer petronize dem....

Please share how you stopped. You may be helping a lot of dudes out there.

Jeon:
seriously?

He just released you right?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Rosaline5000 you good?been a while..

Yeah. She in my crib as we speak.

Iyaebe:
Is it your derailing?

Until I ban you for 600 years.

Iyaebe:
It's good you are now calm.

Y'all should stop derailling this thread na .

Put on the "I don't care" hat and pretend she doesn't exist. Don't plan on revenge. Double up your hustle and make some cash.

The fight is not between you and her, but against poverty.

Omicron007:
Is she fair, with a slight gap teeth?

No sir

Jennyclay:
This your write-up is so poor.

No paragraphs, poor punctuation marks and no space in between. Nawa oo.

Well, Nobody is above breakfast. You can be served breakfast even at night.

Mr man, stitch your heart together and move on. Better days ahead.

Professor of English and Literature. Please help us edit the thread.

Descottes:
Wow. Although I've fvcked a lot of call girls but I wasn't disvirgined by one.

My older cousin fvcked me raw when I was 16... And that was my first

Hmmm .

Bigbright7:
I will say about 70% of Nigerian men fall in that category.

Oh! Well.

Jeon:
OK.
I thought males ain't virgintable

Funny how you didn't drop a meme to buttress your point.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
You have a point..
Does it even matter tho?

LoL.. Well, It's becoming a pandemic .