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thesilentman:
You treated her like she's some kind of prize from the onset.And the reverse ought to be the case.The more you invest in a girl,the more entitled she feels-35k?When last did you gift your own mum that amount?Follow me let me teach you how to scatter any woman toto on credit.

Bro I need orientation

1Alex:
I got a graduate job on grade level 08 without knowing anyone.

After like 2 years, I also informed some people about new recruitments and one of them also got the job without knowing anyone

Your Ancestor they your back

This is totally Nonsense,Men will only Realize that my Wife Is not my Family when he goes Blind or become cripple Bad circumstances hit him, that's when he will realize, Woman will Leave you for another Man,I know a Man in my street,the Man was part of administrative in a Big organization,And circumstances hit the Man suddenly, he go Blind his wife bear it with him for some years but later dump him for another Man,I will always say this to my people that your Wife Is not your Family, until Bad things happen to you na then you will realize the realthruth

labake1:
You are cheating on her and you didn't respect her by letting her to know, you don't have any right to complain. If you do me, I go do you.
Men will be feeling on top of the world with their sins and crimes. Na you want use your hand destroy your marriage.

Why are you cheating? Olojukokoro okunrin iranu

You fail to realize that Men were Polygamous in Nature, Wife should be where Husband place her

Wow I like your statement (that's the End of our Relationship) you're a real Man,not Simp,

alphabbey1:
Go and be watching Investigation Discovery (Channel 171) on dstv. You will see evils you've never thought exist...

What of Gotv is there channel like that their

What does he mean by withdrawal method,can someone explain to me? although I didn't watch the video,run out of data

madridguy:
Pentecostal pastors are worse... They are just perfect in hiding their fetish package.

Dey Play

You better get off,you this Evil Churches,the Man said the truth, Celestial and Babalawo were the same both of them were patronize leku leja as well plugging leaf

Am in your shoes also, but God will help us through, things were not moving well for me,am also undergraduate too,as well working

Animal better Igbo people oh, don't ever marrry them oh

Godfather898989:
I have difficulties keeping relationship with the opposite sex,for clarity I'm heterosexual male....I'm single, I need help brothers and sisters

OP search this channel on YouTube,(edris tips) I believe you will find solutions to you problem

Tell him to brush his tongue well,and he should be using Oral B as toothpaste

This sacrifice was made for sports and it's called “for the love of the game”, if the same is done for God it will be called “craziness and mental slavery”.
Some of us will be crazy and mentally enslaved to God forever 💕

*Several years ago, a preacher from a distant town accepted a call from a church in Leeds. Some weeks after his arrival, he had an* *appointment that made him to board a bus to another part of the town. When he sat down, he discovered that the driver had mistakenly given him his balance in excess of 50 pence. As he considered what to do, he thought within him, 'You'd better give this money back. It would be wrong to keep it'. Then another thought came, "Oh, forget it, it's only 50p; who would worry about this little amount, afterall the bus company makes so much money on fares; they will never miss it. Accept it as 'a gift from God' and keep quiet. "When he was getting down from the bus, he paused momentarily at the door, and then handed the 50p to the driver and said, 'Take; the balance you gave me was in excess'. The driver, with a smile, replied, 'Aren't you the new preacher in town?' 'Yes I am', he replied. 'Well, I have been thinking a lot lately about where to go to worship. I just wanted to see what you would do if I gave you a balance in excess. I'll worship with you at the church this Sunday. When the preacher stepped off the bus, he grabbed a nearby electric pole, looked up and said, 'Oh God, I almost sold your Son for 50 pence!'. Our lifestyles are the only Bible some people will ever read. This is just a subtle example of how much people watch us as Christians, and will put us to test! Always be on guard -- and remember -- You carry the name of Christ on your forehead and shoulders, once you say you are a Christian. 'Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny'. I'm glad a friend forwarded this to me as a reminder and I chose to forward it to you. If you don't pass this on to anybody, nothing bad will happen to you; but, if you do, you would have ministered to someone today and God will bless you

DIntegrity:
Well, I didn't need to got through all of them but I know one thing...the aim is to destroy family which is the bedrock of a society.
Young people don't know they're being programmed for disaster unconsciously.
Funny enough the human vessels that convey theses News don't know what they're doing is contributing to disaster as long as they get the reactions and feedback they want.


The truth remains that there are good marriages everywhere. True no marriage is free for quarrel but not as toxic as they make it look.
If you feed on these evil news all the time you're programming yourself for disaster in time because for everyone you meet you'd have suspicion no matter how genuine they seem. Even when there's nothing to worry about you'd worry and you'll just be living without peace and that's where devil wants you to be.

There's nothing new under the sun.
There is a defined path to a successful relationship/marriage/family life . It only depends on what you decide to believe and expose yourself to.
Countless genuine materials out there to feed on.
So guard your hearts else you'll be influenced by nonsense.

We've come to the point that if someone said my marriage is a bliss, he or she would be tagged a liar.

we expect bad things unconsciously.
Let's be careful o

Well, I don't care what anyone says.
Their experiences are bespoke to them.

With Intentionality you can and would have a good relationship if you want to.

T for thanks

Wow thanks for your advice,you really spoke well, you're wisdom Man,it left for everyone to decide what he/she wants in life

blaise26abj:
I believe it and I don’t believe anything . In my short experience and interactions , I have heard things from the mouth of married women that I can’t post . All I will say is that most Nigerian men and women ( married or not ) deserve one another . None is holier than the other .

Please share what you heard from the mouth of married woman,I wanted to learn

They all practice the life of Nollywood

Reminderz:
stories not new, next!
it will continue happening over and over again..

and btw, this just proves further that the redpill does not lie... reading through some of the stories, it validates some redpill sayings below:

1) never ignore red flags..
2) you can't negotiate genuine desire, you can't buy a woman's love.
3) women are moved by emotions and how they feel at the moment.
4) hypergamy doesn't care how long you've been together.. she will leave you when she has weighed her options...
5) do not be naive when it comes to the nature of women and what women are capable of before considering having a relationship with them...
6) never rely or trust any woman...
7) do what you want to do as a man, women will always whine..
8 ) trying to impress her might work for a short while, but will haunt you in the long run..
9) women know what they are doing...
10) always make sure the woman you're in a relationship with have something to lose...
11) women don't love men, she's only in the relationship for her selfish interests... she will be gone the moment the benefits cease...
12) women will cheat multiple times and pretend they've never flirted or seen another guy's dick but flare up violently the moment they catch you cheating...
13) women are natural actresses... always verify...
14) a woman's past matters, judge her by her past.. scrutinize her thoroughly!
15) save yourself because no one is coming to save you..

modified: last but not the least, women are not the weaker vessels as you've been misled... they are manipulative, cunning and powerful.. underrate them at your own risk..

This quote is my handout every blessed day

GOFRONT:
Thats Bobrisky's wife.

From Wizkid to churchill to Kpokpogri to Sani and finally to Bobrisky.

Tonto I hail oo

So she date Wizkid before?

Kama reward him with his Bad things he had deed to people

Reservers

BigBlackPreek:
money wey you for collect

Who don die, don die be that o

Same thing will applicable to you too,then your wife will collect the money,dead brain Man

Lanmon:
change my mentality
Have u seen d world out there, commitment is failing by d day
I'm being honest, will it not give u peace of mind rather Dan double dating

I'm not forcing anyone, it's a forum where we all get to share ideas,we are from different parts of the country, different taughts n experience, this is what rocks my boat u have no idea what I've been through with relationships
Na my opinion na my own, if it hurts u imdeeply sorry but it's still my openion

Waiting you pass through,no be you cause am,why you open you leg when you're not married?

She will pay the price for unfaithful,I will treat her bad,I will make the marriage hell for her

A young man identified on Twitter as Arome has shared a WhatsApp conversation he had with his mother, in which she inquired about his romantic life.
Under a tweet asking users to share conversations with their parents, Arome posted the exchange, highlighting the admirable relationship they share.

The conversation shed light on their open communication. A concerned mother asked Arome why he had never introduced a girlfriend to the family.

She further probed, asking if everything was functioning properly in the intimate aspect of his life. “Are you sure your ‘thing’ is working?” she inquired.
Arome’s mother encouraged him not to feel hesitant about discussing such matters with her. She emphasized that it fell within the realm of sex education and wanted him to be comfortable opening up to her.

They should collect the cup to welcome our new president Tinubu

Nairaland has taught me not to be Generalized,it helps me know the area to concentrate in life,it help me to be kind to everyone I meet

Boldtrust:
All these "if she loves you...if she loves you..." are just hypothetical, idealistic and theoretical scenarios.
The reality is, whatever makes a woman a "successful career woman" will always make her a terrible partner, except her man is a simp to the core!

Yea you're right I experience that thing from my Boss wife,

001Lagos:
It crashed only on the pages of the Newspaper

You're a Reason Man,we should not let News fake us oh

Jennyclay:
MONEY
SEX
LOVE
ATTENTION.

If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.

BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her.

You're only deceiving your self,you can't find all what you want in this life,I believe that Reality will set your Brain later

Karemarealty288:
If the bases of judgments are sexual pasts then men should be judged by their criminal past...kabish?

Who open leg for Man,who control leg?or leg just opened itself? Answer me?