₦airaland Forum

Earthquake1:
Women are attracted to confidence, ruggedness,strength and apparently 'bad' guys seem to possess these traits.

gbenyi:
Lately, it is becoming increasingly common the hear guys say these phrases "I was dumped by my girlfriend because I was too nice" or "Because I loved her so much, she started taking me for granted". It is sad but a fact that girls these days mistake guys gentility, patience or meekness for weakness.

Contrastingly, most if not all women claim to want a nice guy, but when they finally meet one, he seems not to be their type. They disrespect and talk down on him. In reality, bad boys who even abuse women get the best and prettiest ladies.

The question is, WHY?

Why is it that ladies who claim to love the generally described " good guys " still fall for the "a$$h0les"

I once dated this girl for a few months. She would not pick my calls or reply texts except when she felt like. She was always going ON and OFF. Nevertheless I was usually the first person she called if she ran into some trouble, got bored, needed some help or her first boyfriend got her side-lined on Valentine’s day.

I mustered some courage at a point and decided I couldn't bear it anymore.

Many of my peeps have had similar experiences with women.

Guys and Ladies, I need you to help me out on this one.

WHY LADIES TAKE NICE GUYS FOR GRANTED

NonsoWow:
Abuchi. Sounds like a wawa name. It is only wawa people you see living in interior villages of the north, thereby making themselves susceptible to attacks. Anambra indigenes are only found in the big cities there doing big business like real Igbos that we are.


On a more serious note, what is Governor Ortom doing with security votes if he can't protect his state with it? He should hand over the security votes to the FG if he can't put them to good use.

Stingman:
You de mind those liars...

As we speak...DAVIDO is having the best time of his life with CHIOMA...

They can't have enough of eastern babes no matter how they pretend!

abdelrahman:
igbo women leave us alone

GLOBALINF:
why is it now a norm that GREAT YORUBA MEN
are the ones capable of marrying ''expensive'' IGBO LADIES?
wetin do our igbo guyz? with all the money u guyz dey get for
alaba, ladipo, computer village, apapa, nnewi, aba, owerri etc
una go work from 11 years till una clock 49 yet wen its time for
marriage, una go run go look for one village girl inside interior village
joke apart!!! most pretty, high-class, educated, intelligent and expensive
Igbo ladies go for YORUBA men.
just look deep and reason without tribal sentiment you will find out i just
exposed the fact..........


and if you wan quote me, you are free at least naija still get freedom of observation

edupedia:
....yet na IPOB man register them o...fearing for his life...abi no be so?...sebi una took say u brave...why una no brave am?...u fake Naija with fake spare parts..fake medicines, fake everything..now u are complaining that someone has faked u in return...shioor

vivavik:
This is a good step to good governance in Africa! Our leaders are beginning to see that it is not business as usual, I hope this can be replicated in Nigeria considering the fact that SA is one of the leading countries in this continent.

Sanchez01:
A friend's partner was rejected by her parents in December because the said guy, though from Anambra, is an Osu.

The noise often times is that it has been abolished but it is far from the truth in reality.

olawalepopoola:
Like it or hate it, the Yorubas have taken the bull by the horn. Ambode will forever be remembered for taking this giant step to preserve our language from going into extinction. All Yoruba states MUST enact this law. Let them call it TRIBALISM. We are not the first to do it Nigeria and definitely won't be the last. At least one man put all his tribe man in charge of all our security networks in Nigeria while another allowed his wife to freely steal our Commonwealth.
Our IPOB brothers should learn that fighting is strategic not shouting. Yorubas are being strategic on this issue.