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Nothing is worth th sacrifice for a life.

not even to save her dads reputation, yes fornication is a sin (cause it does result in pregnancy you know)
but to abort is like getting fired and then bombing your whole country in reaction.

1month preg no go show.  she is already getting married, if that church wont marry them, then let them find
else.

couples who abort have a VERY reduced success rate, the reality of taking a life can get too hard to deal with,
the man losing his DNA is something he often never gets his head around.

Kids are a blessing, this could be your only chance.

Better watch out.


DONT MAKE THE BABY PAY FOR YOUR STUPIDITY.

in defence of adam,

Although Adam has a somewhat poor way of expressing his emmotions, he never the less is, and to me the root of his expression screams ANGER.
I dont know you but i believe you may have lost a child/children through this - your grief is really evident, and i geuss screaming and expressing
yourself the way you are is a right you have.

Adam says that when women get pregnant, they may do things to save their reputations or something like that anyways.

Could this be the truth? Why is a woman put under soooooooooo much pressure. This same gurl, if she had not committed the abortion, and
supposedly had a 5 year old son when she met this man, would he have touched her?

Which is better? A seemingly "fresh" girl who took care of her business or a mother of 2 trying to get married? In her defence, she could have
done it because nobody will touch her.

That said, and in defence of the baby, i am no judge and should never be, save if i walk a mile in a man's shoes. But God has different ways of
delivering lessons to us, and whats good wont always come easy, the loss of a child via these means is a great great great loss for the woman
in question (somehow she seems to get the hardest blow). But to the baby, rest in Gods arms of love.

To the couple: marriage is for better or worse. Sorry. Only reason for divorce the bible says is marital unfaithfulness, somehow, a marriage
wont end even after tons of adultery as we have it in today's society, but you want to end after no baby? I am not your judge, this is your
test, but be honest with yourself and God, its ok to be.

PeaceOut
Madam

As a southerner, although not south african,

May i apologise, for this inhumane treatment, not only of nigerians, but currently also zimbabweans.

Its not the white man whos our threat, but our own selves.

There was a man on a programme who said before, Nigerian artists did not make money unless they
sang about apartheid, and then when apartheid was over they were almost out of work.

We can only beat our breasts in shame, at how the west probably treats nigerians better, than
their own african brothers and sisters,

Theres gotta be a better way to control immigration than killing and violence.

ACCEPT OUR APOLOGY.

Madam.

I couldnt even say it on here.

Once a cheat.

HIV.

@2dye4

He could be in a relationship where the girl is sending him mixed signals and wont say what she thinx of him.

He has soiled her. In the bible days they had to get married.

does he think he will get away with this?

DONT MAKE YOURSELF AVAILABLE FOR A MAN. HE WILL TAKE ADVANTAGE.

BREAK UP WITH HIM. MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. HE MAY THINK TWICE AND THEN FOLLOW YOU.

MEN LIKE NOTHING 2 COME EASY.

True religion the bible says, is one that takes care of other people.

I am so sorry, but when i see TB - cant help but think he sent of God.

this one man said

"any body who helps me like this, i will serve his God"

i have to be honest and say, i have rarely seen a minister give to that degree,
and not demand "an offering, or a buy this and we will send you 10 of this".

His prophecies are usually bang on correc. [s]havent really checked deep into the miracle bits.[/s]

overall i think he is ok.

Once a man sleeps with a woman he looses interest.

He has squeezed this orange but now he wants a fresh one.

However, he was fast to corrupt her, but not quick to cover her shame.

Indeed, One leaf will not fall.

it hasnt

And just for the record i wouldnt take him back anyways. Once a cheat.

One day it will be a young beautiful girl to lure him. not good.

Get him tested 4 HIV b4 u take him back.

I mean what has he brought back?

@Poster you said:

1. I've always being the one talking about our future together which he never mentions to me.

2. In one of our gist I told him I'm actually waiting him. What he told me was that I have choice,.

3. He practically said it's my choice, which means: it's either I continue wit him/ leave him.



Ive once heard it put, DONT PRIORITISE SOMEONE TO WHOM YOUR AN OPTION. Prioritise someone who prioritises you.

Men do not speak direct, read in between the lines and also the writting on the wall. Basically.


Just move on.

I dont think there is an excuse here for what she's doing.


However, there could be a root to this problem.


She maybe angry at her mum for some reason.


Human relations are complex and only the 2 of them know.


I still maintain theres no excuse for this.

I dont think thats the attitude to have.

Many innocent people have caught this disease.

Although your not infected your affected just because someone else is infected.

Its also not a death sentence anymore.

With a life expectancy of an added 50yrs for those on ARVs and good nutrition and positive thinking and living.

By then the cure or vaccine must have been found.

We are all in this fight for our brothers and sisters.

Re: A Man Discovered That His Wife Has Hiv
« #21 on: April 29, 2008, 04:10 PM »

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Quote from: elizabetta on April 28, 2008, 02:07 PM
You mean there is advaced medication to protect the partner that doest have HIV?because this story is base on true life story and the couples are presenting outside Nigeria.The wife with the virus has started taken drugs but the doctor told the man to stop making love to his wife except with a condom.so please i will want u to explain better.




Several studies have identified people who repeatedly expose themselves to HIV but remain uninfected, suggesting that something is stopping the virus. A small percentage of people who do become infected never seem to suffer any harm, and others hold the virus at bay for a decade or more before showing damage to their immune systems. Scientists also have found that some rare antibodies do work powerfully against the virus in test tube experiments.

An effective AIDS vaccine, which potentially could thwart millions of new HIV infections each year, remains a distant dream.
That means, as one AIDS vaccine researcher famously put it more than a decade ago, the field is "flying without a compass."

MC Usman.

IT IS NOT A DISTANT DREAM NO MORE. JUST TODAY, THIS VERY DAY THERES BEEN A MAJOR BREAKTHROUGH ON THE NEWS, THAT SHOWS THAT A VACCINE IS CLOSER THAN EVER. IT GOES ALONG THE LINES OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE DEVELOPED A RESISTANCE (FOR SOME NATURAL REASON - OR GOOD GENES), WHEN THEY PASS ON THEY VIRUS TO SOMEBODY, THE PERSON WHO GETS IT HAS A LOW CHANCE OR MUCH LATER TIME OF DEVELOPING THE VIRUS.

SO THE VACCINE MAY OPERATE ON THAT BASIS - E.G. LIKE PASSING ON A WEAKER STRAIN OR NO STRAIN, PROBABLY THROUGH MEDICATION.

UNTIL THEN THEY WARN THOUGH, KEEP TAKING ARVS, USE CONDOMS, BE FAITHFUL OR THE BEST ABSTAIN.