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depends how constant your baths are. i dont see a problem with about 2 to 3.

On the other hand bathing too much actually drains the moisture out of you skin.

And your skin can sometimes not be able to keep up with replenishing oil and moisture, it simply runs dry.

So take a nice warm bath, with a soft sponge or towel as you said. Also




Remember to put something that seals the moisture in your skin. Ideally this substance should have the right oil and moisture balance for you.

This should be done not more than 3 minutes after a bath.

This should also not be filled with chemicals and should be mild.


i.e. you could you acqueous cream (plain white one) mixed with olive or even loads of sunflower oil. If you do this i think you should be ok.

Am just trying to help the poor man.

He sounds desperate,

and apart from God, maybe he could try a few things here and there.

Ofcourse God is the ultimate.

Its the Male Chromosome that determines sex.

Women have: X

If Man adds: X = Girl
If Man adds: Y = Boy

(Please correct me if am wrong)

But point is its actually YOU who determines sex.

Having said that, they say if you want a girl a woman (probably a man too) must eat Alkalines (Milk and all).

If a boy loads of Acid (Tomatoes, sour stuff etc)

Victoria beckham is proof i geuss. she must eat loads of acid to stay skinny. She got all 3 boys.

Evil must come in this world,

But woe to him through which it comes.

Bible.

ask the doctor in the house. check that thread out.

Both you and him go shopping.  You pay for it all.

Then put in his and your shopping basket smelly stuff like roll on and all.

Say your going out tonight so yall need to BATH and look good.

Then use your stuff ask if he has used his, make sure he does.

Then go out. 

Next day i doubt he will go back to the old self.

If not take a warm bath.

Cold water can cause you skin to contract.

Let me tell you how i learnt to swim 17 years ago in my quite early teens. And have done competitions and even won Gold and Platinum medals.

I started in a baby pool. (Yall can laugh)

I used my hands to take me around in the baby pool.
Once confidence came, i moved to the shallow end of an Olympic.
After that, I used to hold onto the sides and go round the whole pool swimming with one hand - whilst the other holding on for dear life.

Slowly but surely i started to let go and swim 4 or 5 quick strokes without holding.
Then i would hold again and let go and so on.

Then i learnt to swim, but only with my head above water,
I perfected my swimming through my younger sisters who went to white private schools and can now:

Swim all 4 strokes PERFECTLY: Crawl, Breast-Stroke, Back-Stroke and the hardest of all strokes - Butterfly.
I dive perfectly as well. And have swam on a regular basis from 2 - even 4 hours straight.

The only thing is, i cant do a tumble turn when i reach the end of the pool cause for some reason i loose my positioning
and end up breathing water.

BOTTOM LINE, I DIDNT DO IT IN A DAY, IT TOOK ME YEARS. BUT AM GREATFUL. SWIMMING IS THE BEST FAT BURNER

AND FOR FEMALES IT MAKES YOU LOOK SLICK AND SLIM WITHOUT ADDING MUSCLE LIKE LOTS OF EXCERCISES CAN DO,
MAKING YOU LOOK THICK AND CHUNKY AGAIN.

Go private.

It is apparently not a wise idea to do home tests. these apparently have a high chance of yielding false positives.

But also just a flue or a bad mood can cause p24 antigens which are really the bodies reaction to threats.

This i hear is a more common problem with Elisa, which is not accurate. But the Western Blot is accurate after testing at month one and month 6.

A negative Western blot at month 1 and month 6 is apprently 100 percent negative.

I personally wouldnt test my blood for the sake of. Test as you have to like:

- To know your status
- When you meet a new partner (at month 1 and again at month 6)
- Pregnancy
- When travelling
- When donating blood
- For monitoring viral loads, cd4 counts etc.

But if you just doing it for the sake of or you know your status and know your 100 percent ok, and still keep fiddling, thats not a good idea.

It could be your diet.

I find that when your diet is not balanced, your gums could reflect this lack of vital nutrients, by them not connecting properly attaching to the teeth.

Do you eat enough, and enough of the right foods?

I kind of think so.

Cause white people are just that professional.

Sorry.

Its a hard one.

Cause in one shot you are giving her a licence to go and "do the deed", but then if you dont, what if she falls pregnant.

Remember apart from contraceptive she needs condoms, cause use of contraceptive may lull her into thinking she is safe - When
the greatest enemy is not even pregnancy but STDs.

I have also heard that girls that use contraceptive too soon, or for too long - can have trouble conceiving later. All those eggs they kill.

YOU KNOW WHATS BEST? LEAVE HER BODY BE. LET HER BODY DO AND GROW ITSELF NATURALLY WITHOUT ANY SEXUAL INTERRUPTION.

All those ones make a man look weak, more like the lady again.

Easybaby it had to be so,

na yo people who dey dissapoint me abi?

Only because i dated a bad one of yall.

Which gave me the impression yous all bad.

However, i still dig the culture, and my Nigerian movies and especially Nairaland,

Back in the day when it used to rock with all my mates - whom i wont give up yet.

For some reason SEUN gets pleasure in moving my threads

SEUN how am i going to spell it to you, my people be here in romance no where else!

Anyways my maties try this thread to connect with me on a deeper level

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-123301.0.html

aiight.

I still like your accents and food and animated behaviour, and how manly the men where.

Only that i am not rolling with you guys no more, i have found love from another part of Africa.

So am afraid I wont be eating pounded yam and egusi soup wit yall no more.



Whichever way Nuff LUV to Naijans.


BIG UP NIGERIA!

Whats up my people!

I am back in the house.

Anyways this thing of chaning names (for those who get banned etc) really doesnt help does it.

Anyways am glad yall replied.

Big up Mukina2 and iicey.

ITS BEEN A WHILE BUT WORD UP TO THE FOLLOWING:

mukina
sillyboy
omo eko
coco29
mcube
coco
iice
debosky
davidylan
babyosis
omogenaija
mekoyo
dakmanzero
jaybaby
mckren
cabali
snazzydawn
uche2nna



It would be nice to hear from yall.

PeaceOut

AmOut.

Try not to read depressive stuff.

Your state of mind is now important to you.

dantata

you gotta read up as much on the internet. google hiv/ aids message boards. talk to as many people confidentially as you can.

talk to those infected. on yahoo, you can chat to groups of infected people. just talk communicate.

go to the doctors.

and get on the meds - how long since infection? you need advice and courage. about your parents, wait, till the right time.

if you dont, get on meds, something in life later could make you wanna stick around, and then you could be poorly. so please dear try.

its not the end of the world abi? HIV people even live longer than perfectly fit individuals.

get yourself educated and counselled.

May God be with you.

Madam.

EXPLAIN SOMETHING TO ME.


If 4 million people are living with this disease, whats the population of Nigeria.

Is it not 100 million plus or something like that?

cause then only .04 percent of people are living with it.

The maths doesnt sound right somewhere somehow.

Make it clear please.

Did you consult God about this.

Then after did you listen to YOURSELF?

its you who has to live with this decision. so the choice you hear from Him and You should be the best for you.

You can give birth to HIV neg kids. theres a 40% chance of passing disease on to kid without treatment, and only
less than 2% with treatment.

It can be done, if its what you want. you need to educate yourself about protection and all that.


We all MUST die one day - how we die? Well, ,

If you love her, she is right for you, you have peace about her, have educated all your close people and are being 100% careful and mature, ?

I did see a programme were an HIV plus mother gave birth well, and another lady who had two healthy babies.

You could run from her and end up in more trouble later cause God could have written this experience in to your book of life.

Please check with HIM and You whats best for You. God gave you the power to choose, so you can say yes or no. Just make an educated Choice.

PeaceOut,

Mama's Out.

I wish i had caught this topic on time.

Only God is the Judge but abortion only makes a serious problem worse.

You have to live with yourself after that.

If i were you, i would offer no advice, or ask her to keep it at that.

Or else you would have participated in something wrong.

Its only after its committed that people or the woman realise the dire decision -

By then its too late.

I wouldnt advice anybody to do an abortion.

sorry