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If you are happy im happy.

I broke up with him so it doesnt matter aight.

By the way your not ailiens, but in future, going out with someone who is more like me will make my relationship easier, Nigerians are better off with each other.

nah,

none taken.  well me and my boyfriend have now reached the end of our road.  I think i came here because of all the reservations i had about our relationship.

for us, i think our differences are too big.  its been on and off, on and off, well now its perpetually off.

i wanted something to work that wouldnt work i geuss.  i think also i just bumped into the wrong person.  i wont date nigerian again.  its done for me now.  been there, done that bought the Tshirt and the video.

To be honest, i think i feel relieved.  i would have to put up with much if i got married to him, God had to stop it.  For my sake.

Anyways, if yous all the same, and have a lot of similarity and stuff, thats good right?

speak to you later

if a guy loves you he dont cheat on you or

sleep with you in the first place.

before marriage.

i too was like you. had a boyfriend for about 3yrs. it was self deception on my part. now its over.

when he did it to me about 3 or more times, i roasted him. i felt guilty after that, but i ripped out his heart through his mouth.

i geuss it was just to validate the fact that i couldnt let you abuse me over and over again and just let you walk over me.

think of diseases. think of your self worth. think of your future. THINK OF YOUR GOD.

no man is worth it. im glad you have come around fast and sound very serious about moving on.

read the post carefully.

i said pics were for special effects.

anyways,

How long have you been out with your boyfriend?

the one you love doesnt love you

the one you dont love loves you.

GREATEST PARADOX OF ALL TIME.

I cant blame you for trying.

I dont even have the strength

Jus wanted to know yall experiences.

rowlandwhy

remember what they say:  mamas always right.

but seriously, a man 6.3 a woman 6.0

thats an accident man.

seriously, assume they will be about 4 inches taller than you both.

if the girls were guaranteed 6.00 thats ok,

but after that, thats just too much.

It starts with calls.

thats a warning sign,

soon it will be action.

MOVE ON.

I didnt even waste my spit by reading this post. Trust me i did not even read one word but the heading.

I know we all make mistakes, but sometimes this is just too far.

Sorry but u dont deserve an ounce of my spit on this.

What everyone has said to you so far is absolutely beautiful.

Yeah our womens intuition tells us she still loves you deeply.  and will probably always be in love with you,  just that a woman needs security in a relationship, its very important,

but having said that, if she really loved you she wouldnt leave you just because of money?

think about it.

@2dye4,

there is one secret to relationships you need to understand.  My  husband and i have been married for 46 years now.  We have 5 children.

even if it wasnt 100% in action, it was 100% in intention.  and his true motive was never to give me less.

I really hope my son takes after that example.

I hope you are also good.

@mcube,
i wouldnt worry if i was you.  I know this boy for sure and if i can tell you one thing, you are the one in his heart,

so my dear, if i were you, i would just relax.  I know him he is going no where.

the only thing thats worrying him is that he can't make a choice, he still wants to be a bit independent, but my daughter please enh, please, lets go to the kitchen so i can teach you how to cook his favourite soup.
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@My Boy,
so you came home late yesterday?  anyways, as long as you were safe.  your presents are real now.  as real as our virtuality.  can it be better abi?

Please my boy, that girl loves you.  that 95.99% am hearing is just not good enough.  she needs 100% -

afterall, is this not the best way to enjoy life? Take care my boy. Mum

cool

Surprise!!!!

Open up now.

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You know i can't forget.  About your birthday.

Please, i took a long time to say happy birthday because i just couldnt find the perfect present for you.

Anyways, after a long struggle, now i finally brought you this one here.  i hope you like them. 

PS.  (i needed ideas custom making this watch - i even had to fly to new york to talk to PDiddy - i hope you like it.  As for the convertible, it was on my mind a long time.  now you are responsible i am sure)


Before i go please, i want you to think about mcube. she has really been patient in dealing with you, i dont know how you feel but this is the kind of woman you want enh? think now.

HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY.

Hope you like your gifts my son.

The way i have been looking for you around the land.

Where have you dissappeared to my boy.

Yesterday i left some dinner in the house and you didnt even enter kitchen.

You are worrying me, i hope its not that girl Mcube making you thin O.

Please enh, come home now.

Mum

Its hard to say - but u know best.

I wouldnt take him back.

First time he breaks up means he seen something that makes him think your not worthy.

at the most punish him

but really just break it off and carry on with your life, he will always do that.

sometimes relationships just take time to breakup. so this could be your process - its only slow and painful.

just kill it quick.

if he is the one, set a VERY HIGH standard for him to jump through - if he makes it, he's the one.

but i wouldnt waste time to be honest, been through your experience.


FIND AN ALREADY GROWED UP MAN.

its that mysterious "soul tie" connection.

even the bible says "your desire shall be for your husband and he will rule over you.

even when a man is bad, women need courage cause they just cant "snap out of it".

I always think women should watch out who they date, cause whatever happens they will be "enslaved to them"

better be enslaved to a good man.

@mcube,

mcube my daughter,

Please, i need to meet you face to face first my daughter

i want a very good girl for my son ok?



My son,
you know i can never abandon you abi? Its just that i have been so busy. but first i need to take some time out and really solve this issue.

Because when you are worried i am also worried.

And please, eat properly ok? Dont sulk now?

Mum.

(I will see you soon when i come from work)

My son, were you a bad boy?

How are you anyways.

Boy what did you do? please is she a very good girl? if she is we have to find a way to get her back, but we need more information.

Take care my son,

Please, there is some food in the kitchen enh? Dont be worried that you refuse to eat.

Madam.

Yes it matters.

if you have a brain 2 hands, 2 legs - u can make money.

no excuse for poverty.

u gotta have d cash, i cant marry a man who will remain poor for the rest of his life.

how about my babies school, and little toys?

the cheek to ask a q like dat

if its good then go for the gold.

sounds like your relationship could actually work.

i can only live mine to God.

did you enter marriage knowing this fact?

to debosky and davidylan,

its wrong for men to sleep around.

but in our culture we certainly get those vibes, and like its approved or something.

i hate to say it but if a man sleeps around he's a stud if a woman does the same she's a whatever.

i hate it, but thats just how it goes.

you are right tho, its degrading oneself to accept a cheating man.

thank God for men who think like you.

I cant.

i will be taking "used staff".

you need to think hard,

i have once heard it said that ex girlfriends are the strongest threat.

sometimes he hasnt just moved on from her, and he hasnt managed to leave her really. so think if i were you i would test him to see if

its me or her he really wants in his future.

sometimes men use girls when they have had a bad fight with their girlfriends. or are just on a break,

you dont wanna be babysitting a man for another woman he is going to go back to in the end.