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Mikel with a shoooooooot lol wat do u expect it went wide

kreamidiva:
Lol @odikwa very risky...

Okwa i ma that onwere ike it's not the lady's fault that her marriage crashed. I had one nanny whose husband wanted to use her kids for rituals and she ran for her dear life and became a divorcee.

Now, how can anyone say that a man who has fallen in love with her shouldn't marry her simply because she's a divorcee? Neways, na the op know the babe well. His decision, not ours.

Yeap it may nt b her fault n it could b her fault too, it is a 50 50 thing. Only d op kws d details in this case. I believe he ll b in d best position to size up things. But personally I think she is carryin a lot of baggages into d new marriage ie if it happens. If u paid attention to d op story u ll realized d lady hide her divorced status plus child until d op fell deeply in love wit her b4 letting d cat out of d bag dts alone is a red flag to me. She might b manipulative. I hope I am wrong though

kreamidiva:
Please, is a divorced man equally not a good candidate for marriage?

Op, find out why she's a divorcee and know if you can still go ahead and marry her. All the people saying the op shouldn't marry someone he loves because of a mere stigma, should put themselves and their sisters in those shoes.


Goodluck@ op.

I only said d op shld b very careful maka o dikwa very risky. D final decision is for d op

kennethkenneth6:
I have an issue that has been bothering me and I really need matured opinions on this. I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years now one year into the relationship she told me that she has been married and even had a baby girl fir the man but they had to separate now the ex is married to another lady while the baby is being trained by her mum in order for her to go back to school. Now iam ready to settle down and despite all this I still want 2 settle down with her but my fear is that my people may not accept her if they know she is a divorce with a kid .is it advicable not to let my peopple know about her previous marriage so as to preserve her dignity and since we arent from thesame state they may never know or do I take the chance and tell them everything. As for me I have no issues with the fact that she has been married I love her and I just want to do what is best for her.

Bro b very careful bc a divorced lady is nt a good candidate for marriage ooo. U shld b more worried abt marrying a lady who has failed in marriage before n might quit at d slightest provocation again

Ur family accepting her is quite secondary here. D final decision is urs

kingchi32:
I m an independent lady with good job, residing in another state different from my fiancé own.

We met during our NYSC program 3yrs ago & started a relationship. He concluded service before me after he got a job that doesn't pay much.

Opportunity came and i got a nice paying job. I have been saving & i know i have enough.

We have been talking about taking the relationship to the next level,everybody in his family knows me and i have been visiting him when opportunity presents itself.

Fortunately the Sallah break provided opportunity for me to travel so that we go and see my mum. On Saturday we did that and my mum accepted him.

Prior to our visit, we have discussed that we will perform some of the marriage rites that he can afford and leave the rest later, but during the visit my mum suggested we should try and conclude all the traditional marriage rites because we are not from the same tribe, so we don't stress ourselves calling and coming down home again and cooking again for people.

When we got back, my bf did not bring up the topic again so we discuss and know what to do, on Sunday night, i have to bring up the issue as i will b travelling on Monday morning.

He said he doesn't have the cash and doesn't need my help, that he wants to do everything on his own, so he is not sure when the marriage will hold.

I told him i cant be in a relationship that i m not sure, I threatened to quit which he accepted without committing himself.
The quarrel has gotten to the extent that we r planning what to tell our parents as cause of separation.

He said he will tell them our genotype did not match, whereas i said i will tell them that i was impatient and have to move on.

I love him and never wish to leave him but i cant just sit and wait as i believe he is still young (27yrs) and may later change his mind if i don't get him to do the needful now.

Please i need your advice......

With advice i got on this forum.... i called and apologized, he said he has forgiven me but it will take him time to forget.

I asked him what next... he said he felt bad that he will loose someone like me but felt relieved he doesn't have to rush again.
That I should wait till April... I said OK.

I felt so emotionally down with the way he talked to me.. he totally changed overnight....that I kept wondering if i m dreaming because this is the Ist time we had issues and it turned out this bad.

I felt i was the one that gave him opportunity to say or do what has been one his mind because this is an issue we can easily talk over.

All my efforts to make things straight went bad as he will tell me that i have quit the relationship already even after apologizing yesterday.

After accepting to wait, he now came up with another one....that he wants to go back to one stuff he was running before because his salary is not OK for him...this i stopped him from doing 3 years ago when i met him.

I begged him not to, he said his mind is made up, i cant say whether its another strategy to force me out as he knows that I wont be part of that.

Please you guys should not crucify me.....but analyzing things...
The money is already there as i can say i m a rich girl with humble beginnings, i suffered with him & i m not flaunting the money in his face.

When we did our genotype test..he is AS while i m AA.
I accepted him when he was a bad guy and changed him..or so i thought i did..

I m still in shock as i have gone through a lot...

Don't know whether this is bad as i planned to b communicating with him until i feel emotionally stable & leave him.

Please you guys should advice me.....

U want to tie a 27yrs old man down by force nawa listen marriage is nt n shldnt b his priority nw. He ll get more serious @ 30yrs plus. U can let go if u ve back up plans . D communication gap btw u two is quite wide, by d way hw old r u bc ur desperation ll even scare a lion to death

Kennyfancy:
pls the 12% is it every month or ones in six month ?

12 percent per year ie 6percent in 6months or 1percent per month whichever way u want to express it

100k gives 12k per year n 6k in 6months

Keshit ur days r numbered as super eagles coach

She shld assist d husband based on his financial strengths

A wife shld b a helper and nt a leech. I can only respect a woman dt helps me in everyway possible as we live as husband and wife. If I bring 10 naira u shld bring 3 naira. If u bring nothing to d table (no problem) then u ll b more like my servant n u dnt talk while d boss is talking n everytin must b done my own way else u ll go back to ur fathers houz wit dt ur selfish self

Any woman dt is working and not contributing to her family upkeep is d devil incarnate I mean even if his husband is dangote. It shld give u joy to b contributing to ur family as a woman esp wen u ve. Ur family is ur number one on earth

rofemiguwa:
Actually this was what i had in mind. But i dont. Wanna look overzealous or am telling her how to run her life.and i dont wanna be the bad friend.
On the other hand i feel like i shud jus tell the guy to cut down abit on all the services. Maybe the gal will miss him or sometin.
The guy has Such goodheart. Jus hope she isnt taking advantage of it.

Like the guy goes out of his way to do tinz for her like he will wake up by 7am to drop her at work den go back home to prepare for his afternoon shift.

That kin tin.i cant belive she sees him like jus a loyal driver of some sort!!

D guy is acting desperate hw can he b doing all these to a woman he is nt yet dating wat more ll he do assuming they finally start dating. Dt lady is way ahead of him in d dating game n ll really show him pepper esp as he is getting attached to her. Introduce another girl to d man if u care abt him so dt he ll reduce d attention he gives to her. Sinces it is only frnds for nw let him increase his options to b safe. He is obviously nt jst nice but weak n has surrendered too much power to dt lady. He shld tell her his mind n cut his loses asap

Op u r jst building castles in d air. U tink ur man is an underachiever n slow gosh. Can u tell us one thing u ve achieved with ur life so far apart frm dreaming and being a student. U r fast n articulate lol nothing u ve written suggests that no b by mouth. Tell us wat u ve gone into d real world n achieved dreamer

Listen if u r anywhere close to fast ur business plan shld ve been acted on n it ll even be boomin nw as a std.

U can but ur pocket ll decide ur tastes frm house to food n others jst budget with wat u ve n make sure u save at least 10% monthly.

U shld also learn hw to eat without n hw to do two square meals or even one meal at times

Also forget anything dt is nt a need for nw

In times lik this beans n garri must always dey houz they can come in handy wen notin dey so buy them in bulk

My life is on track and I am very very happy with my speed of growth which is wonderful my destination is nt too far away

Tire manufacturer always put the maximum pressure d tire can contain like 195/65/15 is 44psi but I dnt go above 40psi. Road side Vulcanizer onces put 50psi for me on d tire gosh na God save me
Again d tool they use to guage tires r so analog so give an allowance of ±5psi.
So if u tell them to put ur tire at 40psi u may end up with tire of btw 35 to 45psi

Uche onye adigiya njo

BANGERLEE1:
MAGA'S

They jst can't resist them bc they too lik money. Magas shld make d cut jare

Op r u kiddin me d rich dude didn't make d cut d rich n care free spender is d number one for an average naija girl

grip on d d**k by d punny is d number one cause. No man can stay up to 10min ontop of a tear rubber vj or a first grade tokunbo vj but once it is third hand n fourth hand plus enough strech by baby head it is punishment for d man during action

Advice: a change in position can help d grip sha ie positions dt allow d woman's legs to be closed together n d man tries to find d honey thro side or back. This might b of help. Missionary is a no no if d woman is wide down there.

He shld b fired immediately no sentiments

Toyota highlander d year ur budget can afford, thank me later

Capital NO dt one na third hand nw n d mileage will b too high Even if na dash self I ll reject it, I can manage first grade tokunbo. but if I get brand new I won't say no

This must b an independence comic relief

My check engine light comes on and off too toyota carina e 1998 but I read its nt something serious to warrant nt driving d car except it is blinking.

I ll look to see if I can get a scan too sha

Too many demands they shld reduce it to four or five max

If u dnt listen to me then u ll bear d consequences of ur actions alone

If I am d man d woman is in a hot soup for killing my baby due to her senselessness. She shld b gettin ready to hit her fathers house bc d marriage may ve ended with her killin my baby.

It ll b difficult to forgive her for killin my baby. D man is d head of d family n he shld ve d final say on his family matters.

Simple
My names are ..... or my name is ......

But I always say my name is .....

carpenter: I invest in the FBN money market fund and it is NOT guaranteed (principal and yield). The Fund is rated low risk by Agusto and Co.

You can do a search for FBN Money Market Fund, I think KGIF suits you better though.

What is being invested in is what dictates the trend...

They pay when due and I reinvest my dividends, they also give bonuses which is outside the 11.5% (just remembered this).

When I took stock of yield rate after about 1.5yrs, I was having about 21% increase (dividends and bonuses).

Ok thanks

carpenter: I dont think I have heard 12% and payable quarterly. The closest that I know is FBN @ 11.5% but I just use 11% for my calculations most times. Also, nothing it guaranteed. KGIF may be your best bet on 12% or above

Ernie,
I have a question on the "guaranteed" in InvestmentOne's product, is that just part of the name because they were formerly from GTBank or they really mean it? or both

D first rule of my investment policy is 99.99% security of my principal. This is not negotiable ofcourse I worked soo hard to earn this money. I detest losing my principal after denyin myself somethings to save this money, my last investment in oando stock comes to mind though I didn't lose bc of my swift action but my stockbroker almost messed with my money. I almost develop high bp while all dt lasted

R u into this first bank fund n is my principa very safe in d fund. 11% pa payable quaterly is nt bad if my principal is 100% secured.

Pls shed more light on ur personal experience wit d fund I am interested

angelo82: For them to give you fixed 12% on your fund,the only tangible reason is that they must have invested largest part of your money in FGN Bond and thats why they are paying the interest every 6 months…..So far the company is trustworthy,then you should know 6months is not so long to earn such a high rate..…..I ready from UBA website that their Bond Fund return 13% within one year but I don't have any experience with them…

I want to get my interest paid after a maximum of three months is dt too much to ask on a minimum of 12% pa

ENZOSCIFO1: What friendly matches? The one the FA will not organise until 2 weeks to the tourney or come to think of it which FA will put it together ? The one in power tussle? or Keshi should use his resources to put it together? After still being owed 6 months salary and no job guaranty.

I wonder how many of us can function effectively on a job you don't have an employment letter and being owed 6 months

Well we ll celebrate keshi's resignation if only he ll mean it onces
If you r feelin hot then u leave d kitchen

ENZOSCIFO1: ODE if he doesn't experiment with qualifier, when should he ? At the tournament itself.

Some of you need to think before you type rubbish

U dnt experiment in a crucial match like afcon qualifier where u ve lost 5 points n needs all d points ahead to stand a chance of qualifying. U can experiment during friendly matches

Keshi is long over due for a sack letter

A coach who doesn't kw he has no number 10 n messin mikel up on dt role.
Moses or osaze shld b playing number ten nw since Nacho is too young. Pls wats d latest abt osaze

ernie4life: Kakawa Guaranteed Income fund(kgif)

12% interest per annum
Interest paid twice a year.
Minimum investment is 50k
No with holding tax
Principal is guaranteed anytime 
Managed by Investment One financial services( formerly GTB asset management)

Do u kw of any other mutual fund dt can pay a guaranteed 12percent of ones principal per annum payable every three months. Kgif pays after six months dts too long.