₦airaland Forum

phantom: not just any doctor o!! he sacked the very people on which our health system is based. looks like you guys dont understand who resident doctors are.

he sacked highly skilled doctors!! that is you CANT REPLACE THEM WITH OTHER DOCTORS. THAT IS THE ISSUE.

No doctor Is irreplaceable, if they won't work then they shld be shown d exit door. Employees can't b d boss of their employer. GEJ has taken a courageous decision to curb d persistant strikes by these wicked n heartless drs.

Doctors on average r d highest paid ppl in this country n those I.diots won't do their job n wud go on strike just to massage their ego or wat do u call a doc goin on strike to prevent a pharmacist/nurse frm being a consultant. we ve a health emergency in ebola n our foolish n greedy drs r on strike this is unthinkable. Nigerian Docs r killers n comparable if nt worse than boko haram.
Apart frm health, govt has other sectors to face lik security of lives n properties which is anoda emergency of our time.

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Reject sack letter wen dey r nt working. These uneducated Doctors shld b guided by a learned gentleman of d bar. He who hires can still fire. Employees can't b bigger than their employer . Resident docs can look for work elsewhere for nw they r fired
Okay they may b asked to reapply for those dt r still interested to work wen their jobs r advertised in d nearest future.

GEJ till 2019

Healthy eating demands u eat dinner before 7pm but it is very difficult to keep to but nothing enters my mouth after 8pm except fruits n vegetables

It depends on d implementation of their report, if well implemented confab might jst b d biggest achievement of our listnening president

logic2014: I laugh at your ignorance. 1. GEJ is our employee. we voted him there worse worse he's gone after another 4 years. Oya nau carry go, go employ foreigners and know how much it costs. shebi na the money wen una say e no dey una go take pay the foreign doctors. so who is deceiving who about lack of funds.

Do u ve sense at all, D president is d employer n drs r employee. Drs r d highest paid ppl in this country n yet they won't do their work strike today n strike tomoro. Go to a teaching hosp n see wen they come to work n wen they leave. Nigerian doctors r jst pathetic. Most of them ll reapply for d job even begging wen they r fired.
They r only interested in their private hospital where they finish ordinary nigerians wit their charges. Very few nigerian docs r committed to their work with govt. Imagine goin on strike bc u dnt want a pharmacist/ nurse to b addressed as consultant gosh dt can only happen in nigeria.

Gej is right on this one employee can't boss d employer. Drs ve oversized ego n most of them dnt care abt human lives. Those raining abuses on d president r clowns who dnt understand dt his health minister is a prof of medicine n has seen it all in medicine therefore they kw wat they r doing. All doctors shld b forced to resume n those who dnt shld b replaced by foreigners.
I hail this courageous decision of mr president n prof chukwu. Nigerian docs r wicked idiots.

Gej till 2019.

Yes good genes is number one followed by good environment. if ur child is dull he may b lacking one of the two

Op is another mad man lik sawyer he has a wicked mind n shld b quaratined as soon as possible

GEJ till nigeria wins world cup

He is not financially ready for marriage so dnt marry him until u get a good job or his finances improves whichever comes first. Love no dey pay rent, hospital bills, children sch fees, food, transport fare etc
25k can't take care of a single guy nt to talk abt family, its ur choice anyway ppl still live under d bridge n in uncompleted buildin

It ll only work if u r d driver

D girl shld get info frm her parents on hw it is done in their place n give u feedback. U shld go with a relation like uncle, cousin d elderly ones

Caf shld shift all intl football in africa until ebola is brought under control

Even with d age limit ve we produced a Civilian president bw 40 n 44 before nw.

D age limit shld b reduced to 35 yrs but more impt is dt d youth shld be empowered economically so dt they can compete wit d older ones.

Millions of youths r jobless after sch n wasting, is chronic unemployment nt worse than Ebola, unemployment is a national emergency dt is ignored.

GEJ shld stop playing to d gallery n this ur age limit on office of president is d least of the youth's problems pls

Most of our youths ll sell this country self if they get to dt office ve we forgotten demji bankole former speaker

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hispinkolo: There's emotional,physical and psychological death..just to be cleAr sah

We r talkin abt d real death ie wen u stop existin

Godmystrength: YES you are right.

Yeap

munarule: Hello wonderful people, pls I seriously need your advise. I married this man last 4yrs and God bless us with a son who is 3yrs old. Before the wedding,he was doing everything to win my heart and was also claiming to be born again by calling me every night to pray for me. Am a kind of romantic person so i allowed him to hv sex with me to know his skills on bed. I was sure that he can satisfy me on bed before I accepted his proposal cos hv vow never to allow another man hv sex with me once am married. The problem started since the day he paid my bride price,he want me to be treating him like king while he treat me like slave(though he's 11yrs older than me). He doesn't appreciate me anymore and the most annoying part of it is that he's now claiming single on fb,proposing marriage to different ladies. I no longer see him as friend and confidant,he now make love to me twice or thrice a month. am just 28 and I need to enjoy marriage. Am dying silently pls tell me what to do and pls dnt tell me to go and report him to our pastor cos hv done that several times. God bless you

Marriage is till death do u part. Manage ur husband as he is n pray for him while loving him with every cell of ur body. Some women wud gladly ve ur husband n thank God. So posssess ur possession

This ll nt last fashiola jst created problem for the next governor in 2015. There is no way d next governor ll cope without increasin d fees again. Time ll tell

Godmystrength: To you, the evidence might not be enough but how on earth will a married man be requesting for nude pictures from a girl and saying he misses her? What does he miss about her? I don't think any man will see this kind of message on wifey's phone and still be calm about it. Was it not on this same NL that a man posted screen shot of whatsapp conversation between his wife and her boss? I can still remember the responses from people. When i have the time, i will fish out the thread.
I know marriage is till death do you part but i don't think the death here is the one caused by the actions/inactions of one of the spouse..

But come to think of it, isn't the ''till death do you part'' binding on the MEN because it is not so common to see husband of the cheating wives think like that.

If a woman cheats: the men tell the husband to send her away. Any woman that pleads that the husband should forgive the wife will be insulted. Any man that talks about forgiving a cheating wife will be insulted by his fellow men and probably called a pvssy, mumu etc
If a man cheats: some women tell the wife to divorce or separate from the man, some women tell her to fast and pray and endure it, few men tell the wife to leave the husband, most men tell the wife to act as if nothing happened because most men are cheats etc.

Why should the punishment for cheaters be determined by the gender of the offender?

Lol u r taking this personal ooo
U kw our culture nw a man can marry as many wives as he wishes n is okay but I ve never heard of a woman married to more than one man at a time. In short a cheatin husband has little to lose n d woman divorcin him after being wit him for years is even doin him a favour to take in a younger bride. A divorced woman has over 90 percent chance of neva marryin again in her life in Nigeria while d man can take in a sweet sixteen as a divorced man in days. U see d equation is nt balanced. D man is alwys ahead in this senerio.
Nb I am nt supportin cheatin by a man but jst layin d cards on d table

damiso: I am not underating prayers . You saw where I said I will pray for myself for God to give ME the wisdom to deal with the situation and not act rashly .

That's me taking responsibility for my actions or reactions.God has given us freewill and cheating requires alot of premeditation that God does not orchestrate.

Actually going by the Christian faith (muslim too as it says marry them not keep your them as concubines) adultery is a sin.

So NO I ain't taking responsibility for HIS actions. Let HIM pray for God to help him not to cheat again.

U failed to realize dt God sees u n ur hubby as one. So u share in his actions n inactions in d spiritual realm. Prayin for ur cheatin hubby is nt wrong

damiso: I believe in God and prayers but NO as I keep saying I will not pray for a cheating spouse. Pray that what will happen? Is cheating tough times e.g loss of a job, illness, bereavement, dealing with an ill child, trying to concieve etc that I will be disturbing God for?

I would not divorce him immediately after this one discovery but I sure aint praying nothing. Why should I be the one praying when he is the one that did something wrong? I would confront him as calmly as I could (e go hard but dat na where I go need the prayer ) hear his explanations (I would prefer explanations to excuses sef) and then tell him and let him know that I will not tolerate cheating.I will not turn a blind eye "might" be willing to forgive this ONE depending on the reasons but Naaa I aint accepting it as 'normal'.If you value me and our marriage no more if not..... (leave it hanging)


I know its Linda Ikeji tings but all these pray pray for a cheating spouse just kinda puzzles me.


Anyway sha we are all different.Some girls don dey fight 'side chics' since tey tey.I no get that kind pawa.

God is able to change a cheating partner in a fraction of a second forever. Dnt underate prayers

Godmystrength: And what happens if she gets infected before getting the concrete cheating evidence (who knows how long that will be?)

And how do you even enjoy a marriage where all you do is pretend to show love and also looking for concrete cheating evidence?

What is even a concrete cheating evidence? (i guess HIV and its siblings should be one of them)

I hope this advice also applies if OP is a man (why am i even asking? Cheating is a man's birthright and any man that has not started/is not cheating has probably sold his birthright)

yeyenatu.......

Listen like I said d info provided is nt enough to conclude d man is cheatin. If he is nt cheatin hw does d talk of hiv come in here. Neva d less d op may need to talk to her hubby on hw uncomfortable she is with wat she saw on his phone. She shld b more prayerful too n nt childishly throwing in divorce at d slightest provocation.
Marriage is till death do u part.

Wat u wrote is nt enough evidence to conclude ur hubby is cheatin. To imagine u tinkin of divorce bc of this weak evidence is childish to say d least. Again checkin ur hubby phone d way u did is nt a gud habit sha.
Act like u saw nothing n sha him extreme love until u ve more concrete cheatin evidence

Nff wud ve insisted on 5m let me see hw he ll reject dt. No b manage we dey manage keshi self Nigeria is d biggest country he might coach in his career.

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segun544: Nairalanders! Pls help me...........I need all the advice I can get

Do u ve an appointment letter to this job, if u do then its a case of debt recovery. Get a lawyer to write him to pay u or u take it to court n claim 1million damages. Dnt b scared abt money to pay d lawyer he ll take a percentage of d money wen its recovered.

If u dnt ve appointment letter then u can only do little to force him to pay

There is no perfect man or woman check to see if u can live d rest of ur life with his weakness/strength, if yes go ahead wit ur rship. No one is a complete package really success in marriage is by God's grace pray abt it too

3sha4lyf: Relationship experts, well done. Let it be known that if a girl will cheat, she'll do it even if it means doing it immediately she walks out of your door to hers. Likewise a guy. So if you police ur patner or thing face-to-face relationships works better than LDRs, then you're all joking.

People with cheating tendencies care less about proximity AND faithful lovers don't even bother about distance. So pls quit dissing [the] poor girl[s].
Can u also beat your chest that men are faithful in face-2-face relationships talk more of LDRs? Pls let's stick to the thread... how to make cheaper calls.

Ve u ever heard d word probability, nobody is talkin abt cheatin we r talking abt d probability of LDR working out compare to close DR. D issues to deal wit in LDR is much higher n its probability of success much lower but dt doesn't mean it ll never work out. A wise man is d one who learn frm the experiences of others n nt his own experience.
My take

LDR is a no no hw can u get to kw sb by only talking on phone. It doesn't work most of d times Remember as a girl there ll b other guys coming for her within her area n its a matter of time before she chooses one n uses u as a back up plan wen u r wastin ur money to keep d rship.
D only gud thing is dt she calls u but I kw its nt as often as u do.
Start looking for someone to love in Abuja lover boy.

After south africa overlooked him he is jst jobless n am sure he ll b humble nw

Keshi d poor coach forcing a defensive midfielder mikel to become a no 10 overnight.