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Companion1224:Ok do u have any at the moment, sent u a WhatsApp message already |
RealBadBoy:U want to split votes for Buhari to win anu ofia |
Buying properties in individual names is a bold message that the marriage is coming to an end sooner than later and everyone is preparing for life without the other. Thanks |
uote author=babyhrt post=74939296]I want to make this as short as possible. There is a topic at the front page about whether or not it is okay for a woman to acquire property in her name. https://www.nairaland.com/4970457/there-anything-wrong-wife-buying I feel strongly to respond especially as I feel alot of the responses failed to address what I consider as the core of such a scenario. PS: my views are heavily guided by my beliefs as a Christian. This word "Two shall become one" says it all To start with, when a couple starts acquiring properties in their sole names or in secrecy, then something is fundamentally wrong with the UNION... Something that is not sudden but has always been there with them either as individuals or something about the marriage. That marriage is defaulted right from the beginning Such couples have no business being married from day one...they should sit together and sort out whatever it is that is the issue or see a counselor. Why are we married if you have your own properties and I have mine...means we should not even live under the same roof, or we sleep in different rooms, I don't tell you what I earn or how I earn it and you don't get to know what goes on in my life. While the idea of having properties in your individual names may sit well with the proponents, I dare say such its only permissible in a TOXIC marriage...but in ideal situation where you got it right from day one.... Couple should NOT acquire properties in their individual names It breeds division, suspicion and disaffection. In a family..the man and wife are supposed to plan together, do things together, grow together, face their fears together while helping each other to become better each day.... marriage is not a competition That is the kind of marriage that I know. The fact that you are in a TOXIC marriage does not change the standard. Happy Sunday MOD... kindly move this to the front page[/quote]Spot on |
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ikeepitreal:It's an advice, a sensible one at that so shut up already |
dicksonadams:2000/2001 Camry Aka Camry big light toks If u have only one source of income then I will advice u to buy naija used tiny light for 500k n save 700k for investment. It's unwise to spend 1.2m on car when u have one source of income. The decision is yours |
Companion1224:Are you a house agent at Enugu, could u help me get a two bedroom flat located not more than 7km from okpara square/Agric bank axis. Budget 200 to 240k max |
No pictures are u a scammer trying to invade ppl WhatsApp ![]() |
Rented crowd for sure Just 2k and someone can climb the roof for you |
IamTheAnswers:Beautiful nonsense Incoming president of Nigeria don't debate, history will surely repeat itself |
SmartMen:As if your vote will change anything He is your next president, deal with that Everyone is fully Atikulated, how do u expect him to debate with irrelevant candidates |
700k it's 2003 not 2006. Naija used neat 2006 is 850,/900k |
How much have u saved for the car |
obembet:In her name or in the family name ![]() This usually happens when a working class married woman does not contribute anything to the house while banking her money and being a leech to the stupid man. For me it's a signal of divorce that we may not be in it forever |
obailala:It won't still change anything those that will vote atiku will still vote him whether he debated or not. Buhari did not debate again GEJ in 2015 guess what he still won. Those that debated cannot win atiku in their LGA so they are irrelevant. Everyone is fully Atikulated already he is the only true Buhari Challenger. No Muslim will vote any of those Christian southern debators that's why they are useless in this election. Election is between Buhari n Atiku |
handie:Atiku did the right thing, everyone will either vote Atikuobi or Buhari, why should he debate irrelevant candidates that won't win their LGA against him. Even if u put a monkey as pdp candidate he will easily win those irrelevant debator, the only opponent of atiku is Buhari. It's party politics baby. The debators are irrelevant bc of their useless party put any of them as pdp candidate and he or she becomes instant hit |
Nice decision Atiku doesn't need to debate irrelevant candidates |
Let her start school and it's over |
ote author=dee92 post=74887406]I need perspectives on an issue that occurred between I and hubby. I travelled after Xmas to spend the 1st few days of the new year with my extended family, I went with my 2 kids. When I returned, I asked hubby how he spent his new year day, whether he went visiting. He told me he only visited a lady in church,who told him she had moved from her former place,hence he wanted to know her new place and share love and fellowship as it was a festive season. Now who is this lady? A single lady in the choir cum secretary of our church. My hubby is the organist of our church. He used to drive her ailing mum to church on Sundays in the past, from her former place for a fee, she sends him hymn numbers on WhatsApp and my hubby thinks that enough relations to qualify her as a 'close' friend. I objected to that visit strongly because I felt it was unnecessary, plus she's a single lady of between 35-38 years although she has a younger brother who lives with her of about 21-22 years,I don't know if the bro was around when he visited and I don't care. My own is, he is a married man with kids, who should have principles when it comes to fraternizing with single ladies. I prefer he goes with me or a fellow man friend or with his kids, if at all,he feels it's necessary to visit a single lady in her home whether or not she's from work or church. He retorted that soooo,because he married me, he can't visit who he wants again? I told him i would revenge by going to visit my single male friends come easter,after all,it'sa festive season. He said i'm vengeful for saying that. Am I being irrational?[/quote]The truth is that you did the right thing. Your husband has no business visiting a single lady in her house alone. He actually disrespect you by doing that. He should have boundaries. That he told you is immaterial, he may not be cheating but that's a wrong behavior and he may not be intelligent enough to know it's wrong. Kudos for telling him but don't threaten him it's needless |
![]() When he is supposed to go back to Abuja to debate ![]() |
Op you deserve a national award for this analysis Spot on |
No Everyone is voting Atiku already |
Which stupid debate are you watching when the only two contestants won't be there is Buhari vs Atiku It's just a talk show by irrelevant candidates that can't even win their LGAs |
Munachimxo4040:Buhari and Atiku are the only contestants, they will easily beat the other irrelevant candidates even in their local government areas. Party structure, grassroot electoral value and foot soldiers is what wins election not forgetting money aka vote buying. Real voters are in villages waiting for 3k to vote they will not watch any stupid debate, guess what they only Atiku n Buhari even their pictures |
bluecircle470:Other candidates are irrelevant Atiku can't debate Candidates who can't even win their LGA against him Election is between Buhari n Atiku others are noise makers |
Supported Since Buhari won't come no need debating irrelevant candidates like fela, Kingsley and oby. Election is between Buhari n Atiku Debate is just an inconsequential talk show |
How much is she worth? No be by acquiring needless degrees |
MisteerConcord:Ok where are u located Car currently at Abia state Pictures coming soon |
stanliwise:U can continue weeping for your stupidity |
MisteerConcord:I have Toyota Carina e for 380k Automatic |
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