If you can, snub her intimately for three months...don't ask, don't act like you do want, don't do petty intimacies. Allow her to herself. Don't quarrel or speak rudely to her tho..in fact, be more lovely and hypercaring...but don't agree to intimacies.
Don't act angry! Act very happy always...esp when you return.
Talk normally and more confidently.
She'll feel you're getting it outside and watch the magic. This will introduce a foundation for discussion and settlement...and everyone learning simple lessons.
This life na common sense.
Lastly, chief, in anything you are doing in this life, don't ever reject food.
This is good news, because until people stop being happy with their bad situation they will never be ready for change. Nigerians are done “suffering and smiling “.
The political situation in Nigeria have taken a new dimension, before we knew to hear about suffering and smiling today it is known as suffering and suffering.
Unfortunately the people will end up voting for a criminal as usual this is the mentality of Nigerians
Quit your job in this economy, don’t even try it. You can start searching for something better but don’t quit till you get another job.
elimsun: Good day great people of nairaland. I'll make this as short as possible and forgive my typo errors. I've been working in this construction firm for the past five years together with taking care of my family and my girlfriend who has been in school but due to ASUU strike, now at home. I'm usually busy and spend less time at home except on weekends - Sundays. Recently, my girlfriend has been talking me into changing the nature of my work to another job that will afford me the opportunity to give more time to my family and her. I insisted that I'll need more time to be able to find another job but she will not have it that way. Seems to spoke to my mother about it and it's now hell in the home with my mother threatening she will kill herself if I don't quit the job. This job is something I have used in completing my house and paying the fees of my girlfriend. Lest I forget, I got the hint that my manager is considering me for a promotion and my quitting the job might just spell doom on me!
I'll appreciate all your suggestions, advice and criticism. I'm really in a fix!
Men are polygamous naturally. From time immemorial it's been they way of life of every capable man. And by capable I mean Men who can provide for their family.
Even 2 minutes Men have that polygamy blood running in their veins not to talk of the mighty men in battle.
Those men dragging Yul by his balls including this mf have tons of women spread everywhere.
I'd rather have wives as many as I can handle, provide for and take care of than be caught in a web of hide and seek with little girls called side chicks cuz I don't want madam to find out.
I've said this to every intending future wife of mine. Be ready to accept as many women as I deserve. And if for any reason your bumbum shrinks and ur boobs turns to table tennis bats, you are out of my house.
I can't be looking at a naked woman with frown on my face. NEVER.
Please don’t discourage them, let all the fake lifers go,haven’t you noticed that they have decongested the mainland for us.
Eriokanmi: No be una wan stay for lekki? Fake lifestyle, running generator 24/7, living always in fears with most places with green floors and mosquito infested environment where water can't be used to bathe or flush the toilet without being treated with floods everywhere blocking driveways.
I have money to build in lekki but I chose not to. My friend working with an oil and gas compamy who built there ended up selling it and moving with me to the mainland. I enjoy steady power supply with good environment in the estate where I live with family. Before the national grid collapsed, we were enjoying electricity for at least 20 hours daily. When traveling overseas or within , I always get to the airport ahead of those coming from that side. I still wonder what they're seeing there.
Lekki insecurity is worse even now. If care isn't taken, you could be picked and taken off to a ritualist den unnoticed. There's a boy who's been missing since early march who went to work at lekki so he wouldn't stay home doing nothing due to ASUU strike. He's not been found till date. We always pray that he returns home safely. His name is Samson Adeola Ajayi, a UI student. He got to same lekki and never returned. Some people said they sighted him around lekki that morning he went missing, meaning he actually got to lekki before his disappearance. He never reported for work. There's only one road leading there from the mainland. The government keeps using 4th mainland bridge to campaign every 4 years. Hope we'd reason well next year by not fall for their lies again. Lekki my foot.
Nedangel: So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.
I sooo much have feelings for this girl. I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.
Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.
stomach hunger has joined the other hunger, now you have to do what you should have done from the beginning, romance your wife and find out what is really bothering her. As for the forceful sex keep apologizing no matter how long it takes, go to the market and buy a big basket of patience, you are going to need it.
Noah9: Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.
My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.
Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.
Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.
Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.
I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.
I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?
I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.
First of all, it's not " your food" it's for the family, secondly please escort your wife to the market one of these days, because you have accused her of diverting funds for food, "who nor go nor know"
The only reason I don't want to do that, is because I be ashamed if the issue escalated and neighbors gets to hear that we are quarreling because of quantity of meat and fish. It doesn't make sense at all.
The world is moving away from formal certification to acquired skill, my brother inlaw works for the United States government with computer skills he learned on youtube, he later went to school to fulfill all righteousness, your boy sounds like an intelligent child just because his intelligence doesn't align with our expectations as parents doesn't make it less. Encourage his strengths and live the rest.
treatise: Good morning Nairalanders, my is son is 12years old and in JSS 3 and has been adjudged to have high grasping ability by teachers and those he's interacted with but we have made several efforts to make him have interest in his academics ; he does not have any interest. We started giving lesson teachers when he turned 3 years but he particularly does not do well in math whereas he does wonders with his laptop.
A corps member who was teaching him math casually introduced Coding to him, copied some introductory steps to his laptop and left town. Since then he's been playing with the ebooks the corps member left for him and that informed my decision to employ the services of a computer engineer who was wowed by my son's level of advancement in coding ; he's built a couple of websites though rudimentary in my consideration.
It's a fact that almost all courses in universities require math as a prerequisite in getting admission; I kindly need your advice on best approach(es) in solving this challenge.
In the video, you can see their assistant chaplain Dr Azubuike speaking about regulating social media such as Instagram Twitter Snapchat tiktok etc so that students can focus
Covenant university doesn’t allow students to use phone or sim enabled device. The school provides wifi access for the students
I am just curious, what exactly do you love about this person, so far she sounds like a horrible human being, brother I pray you receive sense before it becomes too late.
ultiabaz36: Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.
The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.
But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.
Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.
Yes it is a sin to sell gadgets that encourage sexual immorality or pleasure, makeup, attachments, weavon, skimpy cloths, "women trousers", alcoholic drinks, cigarettes. Romans 1:32, 2 Timothy 3:4
If it's genuinely a health product. It may not be sin. You'll should still pray and ask God to lead you
Vaughanlanrewaj: Ma, the signs are always there but sometimes we ignore the warnings. Some women know their husbands have this weakness but still carelessly leave their husbands to walk into dangerous relationships that can kill him or both of them even through STI like HIV. A 2-week camping with a strange woman can never escape detection of a wife 100% involved in the daily life of her husband. It's so sad he died such a violent death and I pray he gets justice in death. Imagine his children and their friends hearing the way their adulterous dad died in the hands of a strange live-in-lover woman who is not their mother.visit FreeStuffsNG for latest freestuffs in Nigeria.
I don't know about you, When I go to the mall to buy something I am out in 15 mins, I don't sit on a sit for 3 hours, I am a Christian, but doesn't mean I shouldn't see things clearly. The "church" is not just a building, its US.
Bodydialect57: And what do you say of malls and enclosed markets. It's not all markets that are in the open, you know.
This statementmakes no sense, why do I keep hearing it every where, let me educate you, the virus has been found to be more easily transmitted in enclosed spaces like buildings, markets are in the open under the sun, so it is less like to catch it than where people are recycling the same air.
Newcreature2020: Question? why aren't the market place or malls having these same rules? Now it's obvious the fight is against the church
Vice President Yemi Osinbajo on Thursday stated that Nigeria can turn the coronavirus pandemic into an economic victory.
Osinbajo said this at the State House in Abuja after presenting a well prepared post-COVID-19 Economic Recovery Plan to President Muhammadu Buhari.
Osinbajo led the Economic Sustainability Committee to submit the report entitled, “Bouncing Back: The Nigerian Economic Sustainability Plan”.
The President is expected to approve the recommendations of the report which contains modalities and policies that would strengthen businesses in the country as well as provide jobs for the teeming masses amid the impact of the coronavirus pandemic.
Osinbajo said: “We are confident that if the proposals are taken as a whole and implemented conscientiously, Nigeria will avert the worst of the impending economic headwinds, and convert this crisis to a victory for the Nigerian economy.”
You know the embassy now asks for social media handles so most people think one day, all this trump support will get them green card, � Nigerians drinking panadol for other people's headache since 1960.
habsydiamond: for Naija here i never see wetin my own presido do yet not to talk of America wey far like lagos to kano. you cant know America like their citizens same as Nigeria. we Nigerians can defend anybody even when we dont know if that person is doing well or not. i stand to be corrected on this sha. supporting a president will noy bring up green card and not supporting wont bring u deportation.
Family / Re: I Caught My Wife Using A Vibrator by oghenetega100(f): 5:37pm On Aug 21, 2022 
. I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore. 
. What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?