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Ivy4krist:Hello do you still need the info? Tnx |
Mr Victory, I want you to continue to help this lady. All the things you have been providing for her is not your might but God! I am telling you today, take her as your junior sister. Care for her and as you have said, don't expect anything in return. You will see the wonders of God in your life. The Yorubas have an adage which says " Olorun ma je ka sanwo tipatipa" which means " God should not let us pay money that is compulsory". My brother, if you have a major ill health or accident, won't you use your money to take care of yourself? But thank God, you don't have that. No matter what, please continue to support the lady and see how God will be blessing you. I know it's hard and not easy but please try. God will never disappoint you. Thank you. |
5k Sobandemojisola: |
Yes yes yesYes yes yesYes yes yes 100%. I am 15 yrs in d union with kids. I always thank God for the blessing of my wife. She is a blessing to me, a supporter of good things. In my next life, I will choose her again. I am using this opportunity to thank God. |
Op, not taking risk is the GREATEST RISK! Pls take the risk. If you are successful...good, if not....good. pls take the risk and put God in the decision. It is well! CsRockefeller: |
Pls don't go ahead. The love will turn to hatred when the stress comes. bigmodo: |
It is a shame that some people said this govt goofed by pardoning Chief Anthony Enahoro. You could see here that it was the indictment from the panel set up by the Muritala govt. But because most people were only aware of the first indictment which Yakubu Gowon pardoned him. We should not always jump to conclusion until we explore all available channels possible. Thank you Cable news for bringing this up. |
Op, your husband is fine. There is an/some information he stumbled on that always disturb his mind. Such information is a negative one. You have to know such information. You have to wake up in d middle of the night and cry and remind how the two of you started so that he can give you the information. Also you have to over his instructions. We men don't like our wives not respecting our instructions. As a married man of many years, I too go through this mood but I quickly resolve with my wife because the more the snubness continues, the more in the gap in the relationship. Marriage is sweet. You are going through one of the challenges of marriage especially in the early stage. Don't give up. If you leave this one, do you know what the next one has in store for you. Also please take your case to God. It is well. Once again don't give up. It is well! |
autologic:thank you. |
Weldone for the good job. Please is it possible to change a MANUAL BIG DADDY Toyota Camry car to AUTOMATIC? 2. Won't it give me problem after changing it? 3. Where can I get good mechanic that can do it? Tnnx |
Welcomme:I laugh when most people laugh at teachers. Do you know that most people are now coming into Education/Teaching? Teaching is one of the best profession around. The ops did not tell us what he makes after the monthly salary of 26k. What of the pp he does? What of the holidays? You have started on a low level, what you need to do is to improve yourself by going for a PGDE, then you move to an international school where you will be happy with yourself for being in the right profession. My brother, THERE IS NOTHING IN BANKING!Its glorified profession...please improve yourself in teaching and you will never regret. Stay in teaching....it pays....You will thank me later. |
Most.of these kids are like that. We have had couples of kids like this. They need help. I always tell my wife that those kids are in their TURBULENT PERIOD! Just like the plane, plane enters turbulent period in the air and after a while it goes away. Meanwhile in that state of turbulency, Passengers are always afraid. It takes the grace of God for such a child to retrace her steps. It's hardwork and prayer from your part. You can inform her parents to come and talk some sense into her. Why she needs to cool down and listen to the advice being given. Also let her do away with her friends! With my experience as an educationist, PEER PRESSURE is number one thing affecting our teenagers negatively. You tell her, NO FRIENDS! And let her see alternatives. That is if you send her away, you can get somebody better than her that will be assisting you. As said earlier, go to God for her. Talk to God about her. It is well. All the best. |
Good evening all. Pls my Nokia 6 phone has a challenge. The screen is bad. Pls how much does it cost the replacement of the screen . Or what will it take me to swap it. Thank you. |
Dear op, We all have what we look at in the opposite sex before committing our lives in marriage. I am sure she would have been approached for marriage by other men in other religions. It's like promising one and at the end the peomise is not fulfilled. It's a betrayal...yes you have betrayed your wife! and she will never be happy with you. You have to come back to your religious self. Being atheist happens when one is not involving in religious activities. The reason why you are having a doubt about your religion is that you have ceased in engaging yourself in activites like asalau, listening to positive Islamic talks etc. For you to come back, please start attending asalat program or look for any of these asalatu on Sundays and start attending, you will see that you will come back to the way she met you and she will be happy with you. Stop listening to negative Islamic talks. Run away from negative friends. Please make your wife happy. You saw her like that before marrying her. Please don't let her down. All the best. |
RevLikeBigYansh:You better pray to get to such an age.... anyone that mocks an older person will live miserably and die miserablly......law of Karma.... |
EternalBeing:Re examine your head...is Sanwo-olu a Muslim? Trash comment! |
My sister, life is a risk. Take the risk, if successful thank God, if unsuccessful thank God. But it's worth it. But I will advice you to take the risk. Borrow him the money. All the best! |
Otnias:Is the wardrobe still available? |
bedspread:You must be an educated illiterate. How many times will they tell you guys that she is not a member of the NNpC board. You can get the members by googling it. Na wa o. No wonder, most of you are referred to as LAZY YOUTH. You find it difficult to research to get the truth before spreading the lies. Use your Otondo head to get facts before spreading lies! |
One thing I want people to exploit is opportunity for match making! Match making is good. For example, if I as a man has a friend that is in need of a wife and I know a lady that is good, what stops me from introducing her to the lady. I will never match make a bad lady or a man. |
[quote author=Chickychic post=69991618]I thought I Am the only one scared of marriage. Worse of it is that most men are not worth it. If you have this mentality, so shall it be (not a curse pls). Have you asked yourself why some are enjoying their marriages. I am about 13yrs into my marriage and I am thanking God for the opportunity of marriage. Yes, not all men are good, likewise all women. I prayed for a good wife and God gave me. There are good men around, pray for your good man. I had facilitated two marriages and they are thanking God. I introduced them to each other. So please don't have any negativity about marriage, to me marriage is sweet! Thank you. |
Please Seun, can you change mine to Bobo. Thank you |
sheggsliveth:Ol boy pls go n get it. Infact with Ntel, I am enjoying the 'head' of my life. It's so sweet! Everyone around me is enjoying Ntel. |
Sex means different things to different guys. To me sex makes me to have more bond to the lady. If I don't like a lady, I don't sex her or if I know I can't marry you, I don't sex you. Infact, if it's the type I can't marry, if she comes to my house 100 times, I won't touch her. She will be forced to ask me if I am not impotent. So sex allows for more commitment to the lady. |
Dear brother, this is a dilemma. I will advice you dig into her past. Find out who she is. Check her FB posts (if she has any). Ask questions around. It is also good to take good risks. Go into prayer, look for signs, test her with money etc. Some people are good. All the best. |
Masters before marriage. You need to equip and invest in yourself for a better marriage. Better marriage means availability of good things which will come about by getting a good job as a result of a higher degree. More pay will come in. |
Na wa o. No wonder we record a lot of failures in our exam. Most people that commented didn't understand what MURIC was trying to say. WHY DID FAYOSE LIED THAT THE DEPUTY GOVERNOR IS A MUSLIM. FAYOSE TOLD HIS PEOPLE THAT HE SYMPATIZED WITH MUSLIMS BY APPOINTING A MUSLIM AS THE DEPUTY GOVERNOR. MEANWHILE THE MAN IS A CHRISTIAN. THE TRUTH WAS REVEALED WHEN RCCG WROTE TO APPRECIATE FAYOSE FOR PICKING THEIR MEMBER, AN ACTIVE ONE AT THAT! LIAR LIAR GOVERNOR! |
Op I have said it before and I will say it again, those that are saying you should send her away are not experienced and maybe just started their marriage. Please and please don't send her away. She has scaled your marriage consideration except this matter you are talking about. If you leave her, do you know what the next lady will do? My brother let me tell you one fact, you cannot get a lady with 100% but if a lady scales 60%, that is Ok. You too, do you think you don't have your faults? I am about 15yrs into my marriage, my wife is the best woman I can see. She is the best for me but she has her weakness too but I am rolling with her with love and happiness. Our elders will say A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE. Keep that lady. I wish you all the best in your decision. |
My brother, it's natural. She needs a re assurance. Most of us are wired that way. Women are like kids. When you rebuked them, you need to bring them back to reassure them. Even we that have been married for a lot of years, our wives behave that way. Even mine, will pass by you in the house a d tried as much as possible not to let a little part of her body touch you. Please roll with her since she has scaled about 70% of the qualities you want in a lady. Please manage her. When you rebuked her, bring her back and tell her you love her. With time, she will do it less. It is well. |
OfficialAPCNig:They should have been naked before you agree that they are Ekitians |
[quote author=ChiefAzubuike1 post=69235590]That boy should be freed and allowed to go in peace. Reports has it that girl was a sex freak and nymphomania. She only died due to the boys' sexual prowess. Its not his fault he took a concoction of doro webo, kick and start, dadabule, baby oku, ogidigba , alomo and la liga to impress he girl. He was only playing his part as a real strong man he ought to be. See your stupid talk. If she is your daughter is that what you will say. Even at that, does that mean she should be killed? Rubbish talk! |