There is a always a reason why people want you for marriage or relationship....
Endeavor to find out before committing to them...(note: don't ask them directly, just find out) You are a star!
Very important....
I once dated one lady that only wanted a relationship because she doesn't have a comfortable place to stay...she was perching with her friends and wasn't comfortable with them.. Even though she finds me attractive....the above was what she wanted the most....
So a relationship with somebody like that can never last if she eventually finds a better option....
Find out the reason why he or she likes you or want you for marriage.
cowboyvs: Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.
This topic keeps popping up on nland. Once a LovePeddler, always a LovePeddler. Ignore every damn thing clouding your true sense of judgement, please just let her go. If you don't, your sanity go collect wotowoto..no cap.
99% of our ladies are extremely promiscuous, they always want to feel the next dick. Very gullible and annoying set of people. Social media already nuked their morality.
Iamdbull: Omo as soon as I enter Abuja last week men don dey book me down for shows everywhere but you know now I turned them down.
But last night I was invited to Transcorp Hilton to come and perform and since the pay was very okay (got paid in dolls 710) I decided to attend.
Long story short I couldn't believe it when I stepped on stage everywhere went crazy, even though it was a just a bar in transcorp but trust me the whole place was on fire when Dbull was on stage performing.
The manager had to tell me to perform longer when I exhausted my song had to start performing other songs!
Alexreports don't dull it ooo I still dey Abuja ready for show ooo
Hi, many of us are not happy with the kind of tribal comments that are being posted on this platform on a daily. All these need to stop if you would agree with me.
This was the post that led to OkoYibo's response. The guy Killington started it and from the looks of things, he bit more than he could chew.
Have they denied it? Try use your flat head to think
You are so naive! Does denying it making you any better? You are no where close to them, just mind your biz and be matured. Make your own money, let's hear about you too.
viceddy95: How which she was your sister, will you do same thing to her even though she spends years there.. No single respect for your husband's family
Madam make peace with your in-laws, don't come to social media looking for support in the name of advice....
Your husband just traveled abroad and you want to start turning him against his family already...
Your name is supposed to be Wiseddy95...so much oil on your head.
Kollins11: You better talk sense into her head because if she cross my path and she verbally abuse me with her sharp mouth. I will help her repair her leaked mouth tap with correct slap.
I go beat 20 years out of her life span... Me I no get joy ooo. Better talk sense into her head. I nor be gentleman at all oo.
spydera: Oh dear... When I saw this topic, I assumed you couldn't swim because the size of your joy Stick was too big that it forces you to drown like it is Thors hammer partnering with gravity to pull you into the water...
Only for me to read it and see the opposite.
If you want to swim next time, double the shorts or wear skirt. Swimming skirt or wrapped (hollandaise)
stunnert: I remember that year the company I was working with lodged me in one of those fancy hotels in Ikeja. On my last night there I had a bottle of big stout and nkowbi at the bar which had a good view of the reception, where I saw one lady with super super extra big mighty ass checked in one the rooms which happened to be opposite mine. I finished my drink and left for my room, I was just about to sleep around 10pm when I heard a knock on my door, I got up and checked thru the peephole and it was the big ass lady I saw, I opened the door and was about to ask wtf she wants at that time when she quickly apologized and introduced herself, I notices she was probably in her 60's, she the told me her AC wasn't working and the hotel technician wasn't around to fit it and all other rooms have been booked and if she could spend the night in my room, saying she wouldn't mind crashing on the floor. I was about to say No when I saw that ass again, I then allowed her in and told her she could sleep on the bed and I would sleep on the floor but she didn't agree and we both agree to both sleep on the bed, immediately we got in bed she asked me if I could cuddle her from behind, I actually tried to do just that but dick too stubborn and when she realized I was having a hard on she grabbed and one thing led to that other and we ended fvcking for four good rounds.
We both left the next day, we still keep in touch tho and still manage to fix match once in a while where we fvck our brains out
Food / Re: The Noodles I organized as Dinner. by Ojukwu007(m): 6:57am On Nov 05, 2022 
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