quentin06:
Take heart , take a break from relationships, do something else with your life, it seems you potray yourself as being too desparate hence the guys use you and dump you, at 31 there is still hope.

Just work on yourself, the guy that values you will go after you, just dont transfer your frustrations and anger on the next guy, if not 45 go meet you as single.

Wizywiz:
thank you bro...u get the scope....no be to dey cry he jilted me he broke my heart.....the koko be say is she entirely innocent?

czarr:
That guy has been detaching himself emotionally from you little by little and you failed to notice it. It's not easy for a guy to move on to another lady if he is emotionally invested for up to 5 years.

Here is what I believe, he is paying you back for something you did to him in the course of your relationship, he felt hurt and betrayed, he may even have discovered something you did behind his back and chose not to confront you but just to waste your time as revenge. Did you cheat on him in the 5years period and thought he won't find out, after all what he doesn't know won't kill him.

It's easy to be an angel when you are 31 what about when you were 26 and you still had market value, did you do something that you thought he may have forgiven you because he can't do without your hot body.

Think hard and well, nobody is that terrible of a person,it's just that some people don't forgive betrayal.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram


MY Gee.. Na woman born me NAA..


I be human being wey turn Ganja Planter!



WTF MAN!

CoronaVirusPro:
That's all Russia got

Very quick to mention Nuclear bomb!

Take away the bomb from from them and Nigeria will run over Russia

Outdated soviet military!

tuzle:
u guys sound uneducated, will shooting nuke benefit any of this countries? Even with the way Russia are bragging, it will be very hard for them to use a nuke first because it would also mean the end of Russia too and most part of the world. So all of u shouting nuke up and down better sit down and think before u guys come here to say rubbish because u don't even know if u will survive too if nukes start flying from left to right

zoedew:
M.A.D.

Thrycimacus:
Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.

Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.

I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.

Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.

I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.

I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.

Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.

I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.

I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.

I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...

To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.

Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.

Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.

Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.

Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?

Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.

I created a new account for privacy sake

Jennyclay:
Honestly, don't mind those poverty stricken broke men.. Broke men have plenty wahala oo! God forbid if I ever date any of them.

aaah, broke men wahala opoor!!

MadamVanessa:




My gender can ride useless dick I swear. There's no amount of money that Portable can boast of that can make consider sleeping with him.

I have taste and I also have class

Rastaramsey:
Haaaa
This one wan kill Putin oooo
Wo Russia go chop am die

Puheza:
Before I even open the thread, I don know say the person go be Igbo.

AsampeteNwaanyi:
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Shut up
herdsmen are killing your people
speak for them
leave igbos alone
Dem pass you

Agbebakun22:
nobody dey force u to fornicate abeg free us weh dey fornicate .we no kill person, last time i check hellfaya wasnt created 4 devil alone

Yadid:
Am I the only one that detests people supplying information not demanded from them?

Olayinka Adebayo, sells hard drugs.

Ọlálékan, internet fraudster.

Who asked her Whole story is messed up.

Agbebakun22:
lol really all these wan una dey yarn dust, i'm nt longer blinded with such teachings. Most our unmarried celebrities and footballers dey fornicate and blessings no run frm dem

Lazenby007:
Your opinion and well said. Pertaining the hustle,surely it will pay one day as long as he remained focused.

You said if she loves him too,she would definitely wait for him. But did you read what the young man said the girlfriend's mum said. She said, ' time waits for no one and that other suitors are coming'.

I am not against building marriages together in difficult times. But even the mother-in-law to be is ruining faster than the bride to be.

You have spoken well.

Lazenby007:
Bro,deep down in you,if you know you aren't financially stable; I don't mean having millions but atleast to provide her daily and basic needs,pls let her go. Her mother only wants to put pressure on you so as to hurrily arrange a wedding. Bro,you can hurrily raise money and do a wedding but you can never hurrily raise money to keep a marriage.

Don't be deceived,love Is not all and will never be all to keep a marriage. MONEY makes love beautiful in a marriage. Where there is no money ,love becomes so ugly.

I know there are people who are poor and are keeping their marriages. You go find out very well. The women are enduring and paying huge sacrifices.

Bro,no woman wan suffer again this present days.

Use your head.

Agbebakun22:
Nonsense advice, make e no bleep the girl and still make e no Bleep another girl, 4 wat exactly

NwaAmaikpe:





I think you should marry her.

Why would you let her being a cheat get in the way of what you share?

I can not pay 20k monthly subscription on kpekus since March 2021 till date and let it go down the drain just because I know the woman is no good to my future.

It doesn't matter if she cheats on you, talks back at you, demands equality or isn't homely, what matters is love.
As long as you love her, the least you can do for a lady who stood by you when you had nothing is to stand by her and be supportive of all her dreams.

As she's gone to church, surprise her.
Watch some YouTube videos on how to cook the perfect Sunday stew or read up some of Pocohantas 's cooking topics so you can serve her the best possible meal with an apology letter for being irresponsible enough not to warm the chicken this morning.

That's how to pamper a woman.

If she wants to go hang out with other men, just beg her not to sleep over with them. If she insists she wants to sleep over with them, beg her not to have sex with them. If she insists she wants to have sex with them, then beg her to tell them not to cum inside her.

But if they do and she brings back a bastard baby home, allow the Christian in you love her and the baby just like Christ has loved the church.

If you really love a woman, you shouldn't be scared of anything. Just be reassured that no matter how many preeks she fvcks outside, she'd be back to you.
All you need is love.

My Bible tells me in 1st John 4:18 that "There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear,"

Work on yourself, throw away your insecurities, spend more time in the kitchen, learn to treat that woman like a queen and don't stop loving her for the peril she is.

You have 5months to prepare a mind-blowing public proposal and 8months to happily walk into your unhappy future, now is the time to hire the best event planners so you create a lasting impression.

The good part is that if you marry her, you won't need to be paying that 20k monthly subscription. You can then channel it to buying Valium 5 for the sleepless nights she's going to torment you with.

Over to Lalasticl.ala and the other elders.

Kingsnairaland:


Forget that... You really don't know how powerful Russia is just try to Google it then you will calm down...

chatinent:
99.9% of so-called men of God are using the name of God as camouflage to commit all atrocities. It's either they are abusing teenage girls, using magic, or doing all sorts of things...all for the grams!

Religion is the only legal yahoo yahoo nobody checks its excesses.

Quote me anywhere.

Teuh!


Show me one righteous man make I bend.

Totilopussylick:
Pastor Ekwem Ugochukwu e is it not one of the descendants people of south east


Osinbanjo here is one of the models .

AbdulHakeem44:


No one is defending a terrorism act, only terrorist defends terrorist like boko haram, isis, al Qaeda. Taliban's are not terrorists. US labelled them because they see them as having ideologies and acts that contradicts what they want to push forward. It is always so for every government to label someone or group of people terrorist when they see them as antagonizing or challenge to their obvious or hidden agenda. The same way Nelson Mandela was labeled terrorist, same way Nnamdi Kanu was labeled terrorist by Nigerian government because they see him as an obstacle to one Nigeria they (government) are trying to preserve at all cost.

So if you justify Taliban act as an act of terrorism simply because they don't want western values in their country, would you also say defending their country against Russian invasion in the 1970s also terrorism? The is why I said dont rush to accept labelling of a group, hear them out and their agenda before u accept, the same way many Nigerians do not accept ipob or Nnamdi Kanu as terrorist.

So what acts of terrorism did we defend that made you ask the question?

BluntTheApostle:


What is an all-out war

And what do you call the war going on Ukraine?

Oddfinder:

God bless America for nuking Japan. But thesame God should punish Putin for using same on his enemies abi?
You guys are lost mehn! The hypocrisy is too much..

BluntTheApostle:


You praise the United States for bombing civilians?

Hope you know that till this day, the ethical implications of that bombing is still being discussed?

Hiroshima and Nagasaki were civilian places, yet your America dropped bombs there.

Your hypocrisy is stinking if you are one of those who condemn Putin for bombing residential areas.

MadamVanessa:



So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


The few ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice even if it means for them to lay down their lives for their wife/husband are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to. So sad, sad indeed.