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Expected all the comments flying in ! just wanna spice up da house.
abeg no hard feelings now.
If girl is evil , why are men (myself inclusive still chasing all da damsels).

mm

yes ke! would marry her if I found her in here.

Honeys , I was not online my yahoo messenger! saw da offlines.

it seems you wanna link me up with a lady right!
I switched off my phone coz i needed to rest , u can give me a shout later in the day!

Re: Would You Date An Older Girl?
« #90 on: May 11, 2007, 11:26 AM »

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Whats wrong with dating or getting married to an older woman? Absolutely nothing. They have got the same fire in their blood like the younger ones. Most guys that come my way a ususally younger or much much older than i am. I Cannot date the older ones because they are mostly married. That leaves me with the BOYZ. At first i used to feel insulted, but later i changed. Some of them are very mature you know you would not know the difference. MUTUAL RESPECT THATS THE KEY TO SUCH RELATIONSHIPS. The guy has to be a very CONFIDENT PERSON to start with. I do have a friend like that till date. I met him in school while i was doing my masters and him, his first degree. He is about 2yrs younger. That did not put him off. Though we never went out but we are best of pals till date. The others that came around were intimidated.

As for society, Who cares?? Nobody will be in the house with you and your wife, it would be the two of you. If you are happy, good for you if not its nobody's problem you know. So do not listen to them but rather follow your HEART. I know at least 7 married couples today and they are happy. the truth is you would not know who is older. REMEMBER OLDER WINE TASTE BETTER

Bebe 2007 read ur post above!

Nigerian men romantically challenged!
Hey poster , I would say u are not a tight breed( Permit me) , u deserve those unromantic 9ja guys gba!
Romance comes with creativity because one 9ja brother walked up to you n misfired dats wat bring this bullist of urs humm!
Romance comes with level of exposure dats da truth , I bet u as a person no nadda about romance as 9ja ladies are very unromantic as they donot understand what love is allbout neither do dey know what love making is.
ever heard of act of seduction or ever read the book seducing the heart!
When romance or love is mentioned 9ja ladies should stay clear.
A typical 9ja lady would settle for benjis, mr charming,yahoo boys, drug barons,armed robbers,money doublers e.t.c
she cares less about love and here comes a lady saying 9ja guys are romantically challenged .
try me and I would proof you wrong n dat if you can catch me with my pace sha, as i donot know ur background.
feel free to call me on 08023563331.

Quote from: oko-omoge on Yesterday at 12:46:56 PM
bebe 2007,
I like classy babes like u, but are u homely, beautiful at heart, intelligent and gat a job!
let hook up baby.


Hey! thanks for your compliment. To answer your question, I think am homely whatever that means. I live in a home, i can clean very well !!!!!! (best cleaner you can ever have) , am an ok cook i guess (my mum will not agree to this anyway), am generally an organised person. I love tidy surroundings. So i guess that makes me homely. i love to hang out O!!!!it doesnt mean one is not homely. Am beautiful at heart definately, i get a lot of compliment on that, am intelligent ( most lawyers are anyway). Then speaking of job, i have got one. It doesn't pay so well though but it covers my bills at least for now. Hope to get the best pretty soon. Guess i have answered your questions.

You referred to me as classy!!! thats a big one o!! am i? i got to know these joints from hanging out with family,friends, toasters etc so i guess they are the classy ones.

As per hooking up!!! don't know about that. I have a man mate!!! that would not be necessary. Would be good to know more about you though.

Bebe2007!

Man mate or no mate mate holla me on 08023563331 or better still mail me on yemi.lawal@oceon-group.com.
I really wanna roll with you, who knows you might that wonderful woman I have been on the look out for!

lolp

Bebe 2007, try and view my profile again , I did not wanna upload my picture before but because of you I have check it out and have a rethink. age is just numbers mind you , as I dine and wine with men in their fourties and in late 30's.
be careful about how u talk !

mine is 14th dec

Dream woman!!! they always remain a dream!!! checked out your profile!!! omo d age difference na die! am too old for you. You definately need a younger woman. Abi na sugar mummy you dey find? too bad mate.

Bebe 2007, Nawa ooo, any how we gat still go hook up sha. so you dat old! Too bad .

@oko-omoge

You guys would love to date moi!!!!!!!!!!!!! am flattered. But guys o! i have my many flaws o!!! can you cope [/color][color=#990000]


Bebe 2007, nobody is perfect , as we are all created to have flaws so far we learn from our mistakes no shakings!
for real i wanna roll with you, you strike me like my dream woman.
holla me 08023563331 , I am dead serious about it.

i would like to date the bebe 2007, for real!

bebe 2007,
I like classy babes like u, but are u homely, beautiful at heart, intelligent and gat a job!
let hook up baby.

Re: What's Your Marital Status ?
« #164 on: October 26, 2007, 03:54 PM » 

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Quote from: oko-omoge on October 26, 2007, 02:19 PM
single and searching!


man this your status is not clear enough.is it     DOUBLY SINGLE OR SINGLY SINGLY  and SERIUOUSLY SEARCHING OR CASUALLY SEARCHING?clarifying your self would go a long way to help   

Bblack whats gwan girl?enjoy the weekend .lol

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I am sadly searching, as it seems good ladies are really difficult to find this day!if you really know u have got a wonderful heart holla me 0802356631

I can go on and on all this topic but i would be precise and straight to the point with a pratical reason.

Most people donot realise that you have to be the right people for marriage before you can find the right person.

People go into marriages because of gains and not because of love, I bet you no 9ja lady would marry you if you are not loaded and fashionable,handsome, plays with money ,sleek and the typical 9ja guy wants a beautiful lady that would make head turn , a girl from a wealthy family, a lady who is connected and other stuffs!

9JA Sense on both ladies and Guys side, until people know that u marry someone that make your skips whenever they arte around them, until people donot place emphasy on material things, until people look out for the hidden characters, until people learn to appreciate people 4 who they are and not what they are, until we put the fear of God first.

I have always dated classy babes, beautiful things spent my last kobo to impress them, lived my life to impress and not because of who I am but I thank God that I realized that I was heading 4 destruction. men thats da koko, until we retrace our steps couples will continue to loose interest in one another after marriage!
Remember MKO was from a very humble background but got married to Simbiat who was from a wealthy background, their marriage worked! Aisha Babangida got married to Abacha cousin but the marriage crumble liked a packed of card after six months.

9jas would always be 9jas, Me would never say girl at 29 been a virgin is cool.
My dear the in thing is have u got the right qualities, have u got brain, are u beautiful at heart, are u loveable?
The problem with Nigeria relationship is that we are not always been real,the honeys form as if they are something else while most Nigeria guys go extra miles to live on false image.
let change our ways and be real.
Virginity is not the topmost thing to look out for in a woman, as i have met ladies who are not virgins but they so cool,brilliant,upright and lovable.
I would be proud of a woman who is not virgin but has a wonderful heart,intelligent, romantic,humble,beautiful than a woman who is a vrigin but sucks.

I am still single coz I 've not found the lady that shares the same vision,passion and feeling towards life and relationships.
Men it really hurts badly but I would never settle for the available when the desirable seems to be missing.
Any lady that matches this profile :
1, Beautiful at heart
2, Awesome romantic
3, Religious( Muslim)
4, Gainfully employed.
5, Respects people
6, Understands that my family and friends are important to her
7, Matured,articulate and compassionate
8, Age 26-29yrs old
9, gat listening ears,forgiving heart.

Should pls holla me 08023563331 or better still mail me yemi.lawal@oceon-group.com

single and searching!

I would have gone for guy who is real, blunt ,down to earth, who loves with his head, does not allow emotion overtake him, lively guy, humble,street wise, career oriented, a guy of many shades( Gentle at time, a bit of a thug,),romantic ,respect for woman.
A guy that would tell me am wrong, a guy that would help me to develop as a girl.

what da fuss about virgin! the main thing is ur qualities. if u are virgin at 29 and lack good qualities then sorry case.
I place more important on inward being, the u behind ur skin. being a virgin at 29 is good but the main issue is have u got a beautiful heart!

The end product of asking out is dating, nobody is mr nice.
The end product of toasting is dating, donot fool around.
Toasting is for starters and asking out is 4 matured minds.
That da koko.

Guy, u missed the description for a man with many qualities.
I know Guys who are Playas, MR right.
They are lovin and street smart, have good jobs, treat a lady like a queen ,have a career ,hangs with da boys, respect their mother and woman.

Kudos to nigerian guys, to me it seems nigerian guys are more exposed than their counterparts! Nigeria ladies sucks imagine all the lady saying they cannot date a younger guy.
Most of them are after money so they have this stupid idea that with age comes money, they believe older guys would have money to cater for them. they are all sluts and full shits.
As for I am 25yrs old, left school (Uni) Age 21 and started working 1/2 Nysc within the oil and Gas Industry, I have freinds of my Age who works within oil and gas, banks, consulting firms and make bigtime dough by all standards 9 Internationally or locally). Men Nigeria ladies sucks and dats why you see young guys with kudi, Good jobs and no wiffy because all the ladies we have around are full of bullist both young and Old. Guys we need ti import western Girls into 9ja to really have a taste of sincere love.

From exp oooo, Age in marriage no be the real issue. The vision of both parties is the most important thing.
if a lady is say 3yrs max older than I am and she is got a beautiful heart and knows that by Gods order I am the head of the relationship, man I would marry her for real.
The main thing is mutual understanding,similar vision of what a marriage should look like, common goals about life(career,religion,finance, human relationship) and the spirit of forgiveness,passion for success and other important stuffs.
it could be a younger lady or a older lady that would have the right quality your chemistry needs to have a blissful marriage.
Age is a detour from the real pointers for happy marriage. if a lady is well brought up she knows she must give you your due respect as her man. this goes to say a younger lady might even disrespect u despite the age difference and your mate might even say rubbish to your face and a older lady can even play a big sister role of wanting to dominate.

The banned man is not man enough! my wife ban me from her room.
No woman would ever do dat oooo, enough chiktos dy outside!
we are just trying to be faithful, so if any woman does that to her husband den it her funeral ooooooo.
The woman must be of stone age , b'coa any happening lady knows that other ladies needs the attention of her husband.

Toasting comes with strong PR, if you are the type that knows are to really make someone respect your sense of humour then you would have ladies so easily.

So my Guy, next time you see a chikito you like just do sometime wierd to steer up conversation e.g you see putting a good denim which is so lovely on her.
you give her a nasty compliment like saying the denim looks really nice but would would lovely on you than her,this steers up a kind of who da hell is this guy.
So the talk starts.
Donot ask for phone number but give her ur phone, conceal that u dey gel for the Girl.
ur sense of humour would steer up attraction needed.