₦airaland Forum

Firstly, I will ensure our FG stops funding the
States

Your academic qualification does not necessarily determine your career altitude.
Go firgue !!!!

No wonder Nigerians are classified as professional students here in the western world.

At Op, please you will pardon my bluntness.
I will talk sense into your head like a close buddy.

Firstly, you love with your head then your heart.

Secondly,you are stupid, foolish and dumb. You are not smart at all. You should have a taken a step back and really ask yourself what is this relationship after the second abortion. You were living in fantasy world and did not take time to see through your man.

Thirdly, you get exactly what you deserve. Immediately, the dude said his father will think he is very unserious and withdraw sponsorship for his masters in UK,
You should have insisted on condoms for any intimate act.

I hope you realise that you are so Lucky to be
alive to share your story.

Ok, now to Guys out there, Law of Karma is very strong and wicked. Mark my words, the guy will so pay for his actions dearly with or without you doing nothing.

Cheers

Seeing my son just like that when my wife
did CS changed my entire life for good.

I was motionless for 1min, one of the nurses in the theatre actually tapped me to revive me from my Sojourn.

Dr. Kathy,

Please is there any clinical solution for a woman who is very frigid, was a tomboy growing up.

I mean a woman who does not have any sexual feeling of any kind.

thanks

In my opinion, I think black African women
are retarding instead of progressing when
it comes to marital issues.

They learn the wrong things, I have observed
that educated Caucasians are very respectful
of their husbands. It blows me away to his
Successful Doctors,Engineers,dentist just
mention a few build a lovely home with their
husbands.

I think most Nigerian lady after watching
the so called real house of wives of this and that, pick all the bad stuffs.

My 2 cents,

The success of the children lies solely
with the mothers. Success is not just attending D'ivy colleges around the world , real success begins at home
with the right moulding/foundation.

Where has moral value gone to?
I guess to the dogs!!!

Do people realise there are fundamental
Nature law regarding role play in family.

To lady out there talking trash about feminism, one word research about the
Life of Michelle Obama or May be Queen Elizabeth. Both are very successful strong
Women but still listen to the views of their
Husbands. They were successful completely
Independent of their husband wealth.

I hope that will help straighten up your heads. Babe with little coins saying
a man can't control me. Then by law of nature, your children and grandchildren will
be unsuccessful in life, they shall labour
in vain. This is the law of nature.

Please, to young family out there with daughters, teach them to strong and seek
Financial independence while ensuring they
are properly groomed to understand while
God created eve after Adam and not the other way round. research about the meaning of missing rib.

My people suffer because of lack of knowledge. Not everybody is destined to succeed abroad.

Most ladies of nowadays don't know how to keep the home front, so look closley before you leap. Otherwise, you will hate going back to your house after COB daily.

for the unmarried single dude out there, my 2 cent below:

1. Ensure your wife to be(not fling girlfriends) does some home made cooking in your house. You don't end up married to a woman who cooks rubbish or go and buy soup at shoprite;
2. Look closely at hygenie, don't mind all these marykay rubbish or the expensive JLO/Beyonce perfume they wear. You don't want to end up with a woman who dispose her sanitary pad in the bathroom bin and leave it in there for days or unwashed panties in the bathroom;
3. Let her spend the weekend with you and watch closley how she keep the bathroom/toilet clean and the bedroom;
4. Watch closely how she arrange your fridge, when she comes visiting;
5. You should on-purpose during one of visit to your house, suggest washing the dishes after you guys have had a meal and watch her reaction to this;
6. A man need to be neat but you should on purpose scatter your house when you know she is coming over and see what effort she makes to arrange things. Mind you your kids will scatter your house once you are married.

Destiny is like a programming language
Prepared for all human beings.

Destiny is used by angels but not God. Destiny can be altered and is some cases delayed to manifest!!!!!

Ayanmo Amu torun wa, in the olden days
Mostly Yoruba do what they call Ikose jaiye
Omo within seven days on the baby's birth.

This is not specific to any religion, it is a Yoruba belief system.

I have researched heavily into this subject
In the past. Your destiny lies on your palm and the centre of your head.

I will leave it at that for now !!!!

Hmmm. The curriculum abroad for kids between 1-4 is to learn through playing
Social interaction to develop mental alertness. They place kids in class based age group and month of birth. Let say a kid was born after July, he will be
At a lower class than is age mate born between Jan-July of same year.

If they have been doing this for ages and have produced great scientist , engineers and all . I bet no worries with the curriculum.

2-4 years is formative age for kids,emphasis should be on moulding personal
Development and personality. My opinion oooo.

As for me I went through all this fast paced learning in Nigeria, graduated from Uni 21 years studying Engineering. 10 years work experience now, however oyinbos consider age to make you a manager or team leader. So there are pros and cons of the fast paced learning.

My 2 cents

Your wife does not love you 100pct

@ Jenny, you are so full of yourself.

Learn to be respectful and don't do as if you know
It all.

My 2 Cent.

P.s

Are you are an Australian born or a migrant
who became an Australian?

Don't get carried away your birth place of Ibadan
is written boldly in your Australian Passport.

Relax Babe.

Here in Australia, we started Ramadan today.

My world.

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Nigerian Youth should sharpen their future.

Fashola became chief of staff in his mid 30's and he
is a sitting govern at 50 today.

Ask yourself, where do I see myself in 10 years.

Look into the future, things don't happen by chance.

Preparedness that meets opportunity with God uncommon grace is the Key.

Think ahead.

Happy birthday BRF.

Firstly I feel for you and understand your situation. Perfectly. I am a married man with a boy who is 5 years old, I was once like your husband.

Please I will beg you do everything to win back your man. Firstly please just forget the thought about your husband is cheating on you, see as if you have lost something so precious and you should do all to recover it.

From personal predicament, I was in love with another woman in a foregin land, where I can lose all I have worked for if my wife decide to fight dirty.

I knew I was heading for destruction by having an affair but I did not care anymore because what mattered was my happiness and peace of mind. I will not say you
are solely responsible for your husband actions. However, you had definitely trigger is desire to seek for happiness elsewhere subconsciously through your behaviours/actions.

Always remember you are the neck of the family, the neck controls the head. Once the neck becomes stiff, the head is useless. Realise, your husband is your first son, most women don't know men are grown up babies. I am man and I am telling you the truth, forget how intelligent and strong he is and other stuffs.

You need to be extra patient, tolerant, and extra mature as a woman if you want a happy home. We men want respect, attention, being looked after. We are very selfish, we believe our wife's should forget their life's once they get married.

I tell you what, my wife woke me up in middle of the night with tears in her eyes and told me please find it in your heart to forgive me if I have done or still doing something that made you mortgage your love for me. She had a choice of telling me look guy, if you don't leave that lady, I will destroy you and make you pay dearly.

I came back to my sense and I realised I had just been given a second chance and if I screw up, I may regret it.

So in the nut shell, try and unravel why someone you exchanged marital vows with decided to love someone else after 5 years. Do a root cause analysis and pray for God to give you patience and uncommon preserverance.

Do this and your children will surely receive God blessings and uncommon grace. That's the way God pay back pious women.

My 2 cents
Yemi (Perth WA)

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Hmmm. @OP Omo odo Agba.

The first law of human existence is searching
of knowledge.

@OP don't go too deep.

Kk

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I think the life and time of latunde Odeku should be taught between JSS1-3 through out the federation.

This will go along away to re- orientate Nigerian kids that success is not all about billions of Naira. Prof Latunde was far more successful than Dangote and Adenuga together.

She used to be married though . Just passing by.

So

Folks because such law exist in the states or any other western country does not make it a good law.

A lot of people come on nld and talk poo about Christianity but don't understand the fundamental of their so called religion. The worst thing God dislike is divorce between husband and wife, go ask your MOG.

Most marriage did not really start with God so they can not stand the times of turbulence and upheavals.

Read bible very well, you realise God said you will be made to go through trials to strengthen
your faith. I am so sorry for children of nowadays.

Tunjee may Allah continue to bestow upon you his Rahama.

As an add on to the Jihad issue, the best Jihad in the sight of Allah is Jihad anafsu- the Jihad you do against your own mind to retaliate when someone offends you and you have the might to crush the offender. The Jihad you do against your mind when you have the power to embezzle public funds and you know nothing will happen, the jihad you do against your own mind when the belongings of an orphan is left in your care, the jihad you do against your mind to say the truth even at gun point. This is the best for form of Jihad for the mumin and the miminat.