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Thanksful:
You lack sense. Who doesn't belong to a part? So because you belong to a part the country should collapse?

That was the most stupid post ever. The guy lacks content.

Aufbauh:
The SE is a free for all for different terror groups masquerading as freedom fighters.

The truth is that the Ipob central command if there was any has lost control of it own activities so it's difficult for them to halt the trend.
However they should bear the responsibility for all the shenanigans going on in the SE cus they started it.

In Palestine the PLO was led by Yasser Arafat but later groups like HAMAS and ISLAMIC JIHAD evolved because they believed the state of Palestine could only be a achieved through war; and not the constructive engagement style been deployed by the PLO, so nothing different from the scenario we are witnessing in the east. So you believe that Mahmoud Abbas and not Meshal Khaled should be held responsible for the atrocities going on in the west bank being perpetrated by Hamas? It's always good to look around before making conclusions.

hisexcellency34:
Temidayo Akinsuyi, Lagos



https://independent.ng/comrade-joe-late-afenifere-spokesmans-wife-yinka-odumakin-gives-birth-to-twins-in-us/

Congratulations to you madam!
Your husband was my hero, so diplomatic, apt and deft on national issues. Never seen anyone like him whenever he champions the Yoruba cause, his death was so painful to me.
May his soul continue to rest in peace.

aBrownBird:
i've been dating this man since July. we met on a dating site. everything was fine at first. he treated me well, opened doors, always calling me beautiful, lots of pet names. thought i found the man for me. on the downside, he's in some debt, is often broke. bc of this lack of money at times, he would ask me to spend time at his house to avoid going out to spend. i didn't mind. i've gone to his house to cook for him, bought foodstuffs for him, given him money several times, taken him out some weeks ago and footed the $150 we spent on eating ( he didn't contribute a dime ). i've helped him in other ways: if not for me his landlord would've increased his rent, advised him on some issues, given him things here and there, when he needed money for gas three weeks ago i sent him an etransfer right away, taught him how to cook. before he met me he always ate out, hadn't cooked in 8 yrs. i spent hours on the phone with him one afternoon teaching him how to make stews and other stuff. other times i cooked for him, he always complimented my cooking. how much nicer could i have been to this man? is this what i get for being good to a man?

last week i told him i don't want to get intimate (sex) before marriage, that to avoid further temptation we could go out more, go on dates, rather than always going to his place. anytime i'm at his house he wants to makeout heavily and do other stuff. i lost my virginity at almost 30 due to no fault of my own. my plan was always to keep myself for marriage. he knows my story and i've told him i still want to wait for marriage, that has always been my plan for myself. i know he's not too buoyant financially but he knows i'm understand, not picky either- i've told him we can go to the movies only ( really costs no more than $30 for two people ), i will assist with pay. we've gone to the park before to spend time, gone on walks. at my age i deserve better treatment but I've been accommodating to him, never complained. i told him last week to avoid temptation i would rather us go out more than go to his house. he got angry, said to give him back the chain he gave me the first time we met (he was wearing a cross chain, i told him i liked it, he gave it to me) after chatting on the dating site, suddenly said maybe we should only be friends. mind you, 30mins earlier he was telling me he loved me so much, pet names galore. he didn't talk to me for two days. i texted him after the two days, we got talking again like nothing happened, him telling me he loves me as usual, never apologized for asking me to return the chain he gave me. anytime we have misunderstandings he refuses to see my perspective, very stubborn, never hears me, won't contact me unless i contact him.

yesterday he said he wanted to see this weekend, i reminded him we should go out to do something as i don't want to visit his house, he got angry again, has not talked to me since yesterday. i tried to text him this morning, he never replied. do i deserve this treatment? like he's doing me a favor when it's not so. he's a refugee. divorced from Nigeria. if i marry him, he becomes a citizen. he told me he applied for pr since two yrs ago, he hasn't gotten it, said they're telling him they will send it since he applied. idk how long it takes to get pr but i never looked down on his status. he's 44, more than 10 yrs older than me. actually told me he was 42 on the website but later said he's 44. really, i thought older men are more mature and nicer, i was mistaken. i miss him already. but i won't contact him again. really sad and depressed it had to end this way.

Sorry about the stress he made you go through. But first always know that the first impression, is always the correct one. He lied about his age, you found out he lied, he told you he is divorced; I guess you also believed him. How sure are you that he is truly divorced? Finding out the truth about his real marital status is important in unraveling this puzzle. What was/where the reason(s) for the break up. At your age, I understand how difficult it is for you to build up expectations; having defined your position (no sex for now) in this affair, only for him to dash your hope. He is not patient enough or less concerned to appreciate the psycho trauma you underwent, or rather still undergoing since you lost your virginity. At this point, it would be difficult to dissect this guy's emotional connection to you. For a divorcee, the fear or the consequences of what happened in his last marriage may be the recurring decimal here. You should also understand that this man is emotionally "baked" hence his behavioral swings. He may or maybe be pretending to love you,(don't know) but one thing is sure in all this drama, it is targeted at breaking down the barrier of chastity you have built around yourself. The choice is yours to either stand firm, or give up your long standing principle of NO to premarital sex. Whichever way, always have in mind that love is a dangerous game and so, be careful.

SirBunky85:
gbam.you discernment acumen is very active. For a friend to have hooked her up means that, the op lives a flirting lifestyle

Thank you.

MISTAICEY02288:
Damn! This is an absolute K.O... Reeks of sọ much intelligence too.. Bro you badt

And by the way, I also love your command of English language. It's very nice. Kudos!

G-thang brother

Nwachi22:
Look at this one. The kind of things we see on Nairaland.
You see what happened to that lady, will befall your sisters and daughters.

I rest my finger.

Nothing will befall anybody. You are so pained that you are not married yet, and someone else acted irresponsibly faster than yourself. Look if anyone has a share in your wish/curse, it's you and your evil friend who connected you to a "married" man to hook you up. It shows the low regards and the actual worth as a person she has for you because she alone knows you and your kind of lifestyle. "Birds of the same feathers flock together" so stop bleating like a goat in a pen! Your true self is not hidden to those who have discernment even if this forum is faceless. When you said a "friend" linked you up to this man, I hope you know the true def of the above quoted word when next you make an expose of yourself in a public forum.

advanceDNA:
Nigga u cruel


Lol

I am being objective and not cruel, brother.

I see a lot of her type in my circuit and I know who she is, that all.
Have a blissful day.

Nwachi22:
Biko, who is this one? Lol.

You need not ask who is "This" because you already know before slashing the message, and accepting my goodluck wishes. I followed this thread from the beginning and realised that this was the only post you couldn't swallow. They say that "truth is bitter, but the bitter truth; sets you free"

KimberlyWest:
The one born out of wedlock is the first son.

How can that be?

1Sharon:
And he may be the cause ya know?

When the op has already said he impregnated another lady. Sometimes I wonder how people reason.

Nwachi22:
As in eh! Lol

You didn't dodge any bullet. Forget that rap that made you feel okay as if you are smart. I understand you very well, and the reason why you had to resort to this forum to pour out your heart. The issue here is are you a virgin? Of course not. Have you slept with him? Of course yes. Have you taken in before? Sure yes. Have you done an abortion before? Yes. Age is not on your side that was why he demanded that you get pregnant first. you know you are in your 30s which means it may not be easy for you take in immediately hence your decision to keep him in suspense. Whatever the case you are pained because you feel used and still lost him and not that he has a wife in Dubai which you claimed was your after- discovery. My advice to you is to trust in God so that He will give you a husband, who may not fit into your choice, but would give you a peaceful married life.
Goodluck

Eriokanmi:
Lazy girls on social media. Vultures!

WesternOligarch:
Cripple the Lagos and Nigerian economy by obeying the sit at home order, the Niger deltans have oil to threaten the govt by blowing up pipelines, igbos have the economy of Lagos and own 90% of shops in Nigeria and am pretty sure that them boycotting the economy by sitting at home would also help, also boycotting businesses of those that fail to obey the boycott would also help and IPOB can also create a crypto currency as an alternative to the naira for igbos to spend and transact business with amongst themselves....am telling you that the naira would crash and become worthless in days. Obviously it's not going to be easy, but in war there would be casualties.

It's my honest opinion and few may scorn me as some think am against biafra but actually am a big supporter of the biafran state and wish to see it actualizated. God bless biafla.

PS: am not calling for violence, the mods/janitors should quit deleting my threads.

Hmmn!

SmellySperm:
You're intelligent

Thanks you brother.

Longsleeve:
You made a mistake of swearing with the Bible..

Una wan turn una house to law court??

A very big one. There was absolutely no need for that. And most times, those who prompt you to do the unthinkable; are always the guilty ones.

It's quite unbelievable that a Nigerian and possibly a graduate of statistics made this statement.

helinues:
Why taking pictures from the event in Burundi and claim is Nigeria?

Imagine a genocide in Peaceful SE and you think America would not know about it.

Stop spreading fake news

Stupidity has categories, I think yours is ***** on the scale.

WesternOligarch:
Simple...they fight and kill themselves over it like niggers.

Someone once said that your comments in this forum reeks of stupidity in a thread I was going through the other day, I didn't believe him till I saw this. We are here to learn this is not politics. If you have nothing to contribute, please stay off.

Broveens42:
You can't even make a correct sentence...

loveth360:
[s][/s]Trash

Real foolish write up.

Man102:
JUST IN!!! Joe Igbokwe Calls For State Of Emergency In South East Over Killing Of Dora Akunyili’s Husband


The Special Assistant on Gutter and Drainage to the Lagos State Governor, Joe Igbokwe has called for State of emergency in the South East following the killing of Dr. Chike Akunyili, Dora's Husband on Tuesday.


IGBERE TV had reported that he was killed at Umuoji in Idemili North LGA of Anambra State on Tuesday evening.


Reacting over the ugly incident, Igbokwe said since South East Governors are now deaf and dumb, the Federal government should declare State of emergency.




According to him, "SINCE GOVERNORS AND OUR LEADERS IN THE SOUTH EAST ARE NOW DEAF AND DUMB LET ME SAY IT WITH ALL THE EMPHASIS IN MY COMMAND THAT FG SHOULD DECLARE STATE OF EMERGENCY IN THE SE."


Dr. Chike Akunyili was husband to late former Information Minister, Prof. Dora Akunyili.

STAY WITH IGBERE TV. AFRICA'S NO1 COMMUNITY TV.


Source : https://igberetvnews.com/1401541/just-joe-igbokwe-calls-state-emergency-south-east-killing-dora-akunyilis-husband/

Educated illiterate. Have they declared stare of emergency in kaduna with all the killings?

NGpatriot:
lol @ BiafraNISTAN Jihadi people celebrating another Jihadi terrorist
with Jihadi flag...


Sad.........

I thought jihad is a forceful conversion to Islam by war Can a non Muslim be a jihadist? Please kindly let us know because his name is nothing close to being Islamic.

Digmygold:
How much did he miss Queen when she left? He is a pretender. See through the mask.

Relationships are based on pretense my friend. Even you are you real? It's only in marriage that you don't pretend. Well I only said my observations- even you. So don't assume you are the right one here.
Good day.

Digmygold:
Is White Money being true to.the viewers?

He would have been happy if queen was among. Don't make a mountain out of a mole hill.

One Nigeria!

Elostar:
Mail me for ur gift, if u think u are correct

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