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xana101:
50k driving only weekepnd. Happy driving bro

Does it make you happy when you talk like this?

ihimiray:
both

Thanks for your advise. I understand that the risk is in not handling the driving myself. There is also the risk that i buy a bad vehicle.

Thanks for your advise once again.

ashiwajew:
There is no biggie in taking a loan to purchase a car for Uber, it all depends on the rate, repayment plan like amount per month and the number of years to pay back. Business is all about taking risks. Buy a fuel efficient car and drive yourself. Please don't take any loan more than 1.5m

Thanks for your response. I am thinking on taking less than 1.5, repayment is 3-4 years with monthly deduction of 40-50k. Looking to buy a used Honda Accord. Unfortunately, it is not possible i drive it myself except maybe only weekends. What do you think? Do you think i can make 50k net of expenses driving just weekends as a newbie?

ihimiray:
don't try it oooooooooo

Are you an uber driver or an uber partner?

Hello guys, I have a question.

Do you think it is a wise idea to take a bank loan to buy a car for Uber business, if i won't be driving the car myself.

I just want to learn from your experiences before i take such a big step.

Thanks.

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Thanks.

www.gainprogress.com for $150. Quote me if you think you can do it.

I have listed it here

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classicfrank4u:
unfortunately olosho's no Dy open in the morning

Eeya, maybe you should show your customer this article

sunkieisland:
you wont think early morning s*x in Lagos when

you have to be awake and on the road by 4.30 am looking for means of getting to your office on the island from Ikorodu or Agbado and

you get home as late as 11.30 pm all used up from traffic fatigue and stress and you're thinking of doing the same thing tomorrow.




If your wife/husband ....... tap you......



then you hear comments like.......

dear you know the situation of things now...... I'm really tired and I don't want to be late for work....

#YouFeel

Please pardon the good professor, he lives in Ilorin not Lagos

Prof! Prof!! Thank you jare. God bless you

My wife must hear this

Folake!! Folake!!!

kaka22:
... I don't know when training school (Academy) will start... Hoping for year round training? Why?

Because then there will be batches and you may be able to chose to go for the second or third batch so can give adequate notice to your current employer. This is just consideration for people already employed.

kaka22:
Oga, once you reach documentation stage, e don set be that unless village people dey follow person...

Hahaha. And thunder must fire those village people.

Please when is the academy? I hope it runs all year round.

I need to give 3 months notice at work.

kaka22:
I just got the documentation mail... Though I won't be taking their offer...

They never give us the offer na! Lol. But why you no wan accept, you don dey chop money somewhere?

KillerBeauty:
Is cross river state ph.
Op said cross rivers not rivers state

I was just drawing someone's attention to the wisdom of their comment.

tellwisdom:
Poor man...so all the oil workers in PH can't get him a canoe?? Port harcourt people are foolish.

Yes naw. I also don't know why the people of PH cant be searching the streets for all the poor men that want a canoe. Something so important!!! Canoe that has been saving lives since 1960.

In fact all the PH rich men that has not bought canoe for anyone this year should be jailed for 14 years. How can they be distracted by the struggle to make their daily bread in an environment with little to no help from the government.

How terrible of PH people. In fact, maybe we should call the firing squard to kill all PH people because they did not buy canoe for your brother

Mumuni

Daeylar:

Continue to ignore, I hope you've learnt something sha

Oooooooo ....yes ma. I have learnt something.

You are very correct, husbands should live in their wives apartment and you are qualified to call anyone who says otherwise a misogynist especially me, this is especially so because no one usually points out how accurate you are and you can't fathom any reason why anyone would want to disagree with a humble young woman who has not been spoilt by weak men who capitulate to her will like its a sport.

Daeylar:
Just because I have shown you that the people you tried to defend were truly being misogynistic, and there is no avenue for you to try and twist my statements again, you now know that you can ignore.
Now learn from this and try not to support such posts next time

Ignored again

Daeylar:
Don't try to be cunning, don't try and twist my answers
Don't take a part of my answer and try and twist into what you want

This was you statement, where you tried to act like your one captain rule was the ultimate in running relationships


This was my response where I told you that a couple will do what's best for them




Once again This was your statement


This was my question

So where was the question answered, it's ridiculous to ask someone if they can read when you seem incapable of doing the same yourself. I hope you won't try to say that your answer is because men are men


1) How did I act like a know it all? Your statement should be directed to the people you are trying to defend who insulted all women just because of the few experiences they had with a situation like the op's
2)if you express a misogynistic opinion. You will be called a misogynist
3) How many marriages have they had to try and demean all women the way they did? Once again, redirect your anger to them
4)You call statements such as
"(A woman will forever be a woman. I'm not trying to demonise them, no no, far from it, but you don't leave a yam in care of a goat! Sooner or later, your ego will question all her actions and she will react with her "wonderfully" made mouth.)
( a woman she is and a woman she will always remain)
valid opinions? No wonder you seem annoyed, it seems you think like them


I'm female, therefore I can never be a husband, what's your point, I didn't get it.


I really don't understand how this statement is related to this thread and what I posted?

Seen and ignored. No matter what I say, you will not change.

Venica:
I believe you. my sister passed through this same route. until the idiot lost his job before he came to release the value of what he has at home. don't give up dear. God will fight for you. may peace return to your home. in Jesus name Amen

Why you kon dey call your inlaw idiot na? Not good

Even though some disciples were not married, i agree that it is a big crime for a Nigerian not to get married just because of unemployment or financial hardship.

Even if you have not found the "right" person, sha marry somebody, anybody.

If you don't know who to choose amongst two ladies, just flip a coin and marry the lucky one. After all lots were cast in the bible multiple times.

If you don't have money for ceremony, do it on Sunday with free congregation and send them pictures of the jolof rice on whatsapp.

The senate should immediately enact a law to prescribe 14 years in prison for any able bodied young man who is found to be unmarried. Yes.

The president should also declare a state of emergency on marriage affairs once the rats have left his office. Issues like unemployment, security, power and infrastructure can wait abeg while we all get married.

Thank you.

This is my humble submission.

Daeylar:
Go and look for the meaning of the word I used and understand its use. A man is only called those words if he acts like it. A man acts like that and is referred to accordingly and you dismiss such bad behaviour as men being men? Do you even understand what you typed?

Why can't men move into their wife's apartment? That is the issue we are dealing with here, so what's your answer??

And what are you trying to imply?

Are you saying we can't be equal?
We can be single, equal and happy, whether you like it or not, with or without you

A relationship or marriage, is run how the couple want to run it in the way that's best for them. learn to mind your business and not try to give people rules and regulations on how to run their relationships.

1. If we were minding our business, there would be no need for a public forum

2. What's my answer, madam can you read?

3. Disagreeing with you does not mean i don't understand the words you've used. I just don't understand what you think name calling would achieve. People expressed their opinion and you are calling them misogynists, who are you madam new-scholl-know-it-all.
How many marriages have you had to make you classify people with valid opinions as misogynist?

4. If you want to be the "husband", its fine but there can be only one.

5. If you want to be another single feminist, eeya what a loss! Rubbish

;DInter tribal marriage should be euncouraged.


In fact, all IPOB members should marry bokoharam daughters and we can live peacefully ever after.

Or if we really want to retain our identities, every body should marry from their tribe state of origin Local government area families, yes families. That way, our identities will be permanent.

Yes please marry her.

thorpido:
Life sometimes throw curved balls and the unexpected may happen.A man loses his job when he's about to marry and can't pay rent when it expires.What should he do?Decide not to marry again or move into an apartment of his wife?
It doesn't take away a man's self-respect(except for perception) as long as the man does not sit waiting for the woman to feed him.

I understand you bro. It is easy to just give advise when am not the one facing the kind of challenge you just described.

However, almost evert man that moved into his wife's house and regretted it did so because of challenges not because they always wanted to.

But there are some very special women.....

Daeylar:
Misogynistic men doing what they do best





I guess this also means that it's wrong for a woman to move into a man's house because if the woman messes up the man can also chase her out.





depends on the man, depends on the woman


op i do not think there is anything wrong with It. If they are OK with it then there is nothing to worry about.

But why do some people think calling men misogynistic, chauvinistic, sexist, weak, or any other big word would stop men from being men?

We are who we are. Men don't move into their wives apartment. Its been like that for thousands of years. You can just as easily convince a monkey not to eat banana.

And about your gender equality thing. Feminists are just too good to be married. The Americans you're learning it from have a divorce rate of 50percent. Go figure.

Don't get me wrong, I also don't know why we cant all be single, equal and happy.

Every ship must have a captain, 1 captain.

thorpido:
If the man is not insecured,then there's no big deal about it as long as he is not jobless and a leech.
You're married and have become one except the love that brought you together dies.

There is nothing wrong with it.

There is also nothing wrong with gambling with your self-respect, especially when a marriage is this young.

It is ofcourse impossible that your wife or any other third party would mention while angry that you cannot even afford your own apartment. Maybe they'll show you where and when you can sit. And even if they do, you can easily ignore such comments and behaviour, cant you?

After all, you are more matured and self assured that all our forefathers that have observes the tradition of a man providing shelter for his family. Those things are old school

You will be alright

This man just wasted a chance to become a legend.

The greatest musicians are not only great at music, they are also somewhat of a rebel, an activist speaking for the masses against corrupt leadership who pretend to care about the gentle smoker while they loot funds for healthcare and other basic amenities.

Young people like sex too much.

I can stay in the same apartment with a girl for 9 months.

I wont touch me if you don't touch me.

The only problem is that i wont be able to do my wield little habits. Which is why i protect my privacy like a nun protects her somethingsomething.

Dear Brokenangel2

I once discussed with an old "couple" where the husband has refused to be intimate with the wife for many years. You won't believe how a man could do that but this man did. It should surprise you because it is a man who usually cannot do without intimacy.

The result is that after a few years he started having children from women outside and their relationship never recovered till this day. That is a gloomy picture and might be a bit scary. I do not mean there is the possibility of such happening to you because the chain effect of such is crazy. And that is not what i want to talk about.

The only right question to ask is WHY? why is this happening in your marriage? Do you think your husband grew up dreaming of doing this to his wife? Do you think this is his ideal relationship? Do you not think it is possible that there is an issue and he is reacting in a way he thinks is best. If that is not the case, then you married a crazy man. But i think we both know he is not crazy, he knows what he is doing and that you don't like it.

Still on the reason why...

My old friend told me he neglected his wife for over a decade because he grew tired of having to beg her for sex, apparently this was the case when they just got married. So he stepped out and found willing women outside and he never went back because his wife was also very "disobedient" and short tempered.

Another husband neglected the wife because he found out the wife was not fateful during courtship. It broke something inside him to realise he was the second choice when her then bf refused to marry her.

Sometimes it is the guy's ex who will not let him be coupled with a judgmental wife who talks too much or seems "uncontrollable" or uncaring.

My dear, the reason for your neglect may not be anything listed above but there is certainly a reason. You may not be the only victim and you may not be blameless. What do you do?

Be respectful and caring but ask everyday until he blurts out the truth and be ready to either make effort at reconciliation or to walk away.

By the way, i believe you should always reserve the right to walk away.

Do you have Honda accord 2007 or Corolla 07. What are the prices and minimum equity contribution

Please
1. What is the mileage ?
2. Is this price negotiable ?

What is the millage ?